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Writing GuysFeb 22, 2024
Psychology: Why Do Men Go To War?
Why do men feel drawn to the military, and war? We dive deep into the psychology of men in this one. Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Comfort Level: Peeing In Front Of Each Other
How do men feel when you get comfortable enough to use the bathroom in front of each other? Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Opinion: What Do Men Think About Weddings?
What do men think about weddings? (Not Marriage, the wedding itself!) Our answers might surprise you! Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Updates: Where We Are With Our Work?
Join us as we give an update on where we are with our various writing projects! Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Porn: How Does Pornography Lie and Create Unrealistic Expectations?
Today we talk about how a man who watches pornagraphy can get some pretty unrealistic ideas about sex.
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Attraction: What Attracts You To Someone?
We talk about what traits we look for in our significant others. Spoiler, it's not all physical appearance!
Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have!
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Stereotypes: A Personal Space Twofer
First up, do men notice women's personal spaces?
Second, does a man's personal space differ from a woman's?
Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have!
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Friendship: How Do Men Recognize Good Men?
A redditer wanted to know how her male friends can discern that other men are "good guys". How do men know he's a good man? Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Relationships: Why Don't Men Go Into Women's Purses?
Why don't men ever look through a woman's purse? There's a lot of reasons, but you'll have to watch to lean what they are! Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Nonverbal Communication: What Signals Do You Give When You're Not Interested?
How do men let other's know when they're not interested in someone? Well, click on this video to find out! Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Sex: Does Size Really Matter To Men?
Does the size of a man's, ahem, appendage really matter to other guys? Like does penis envy really exist? Watch and find out! Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Mental Health: What's Your Take?
Today Michael Aspen shares some anxiety issues he's only started having in his life. We discuss how men view mental illness and even discuss a few coping mechanisms. Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Emotions: Do Men Compartmentalize Their Emotions?
It's often been said by people trying to be clever that men are like waffles and women are like spaghetti. The joke makes it sound like men compartmentalize their thoughts and emotions, but women don't. Well, today we answer that question from a guy's perspective. The answers might surprise you.
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Love: What Are Our Love Languages?
Today we delve into our own personalities a bit and talk about what our love languages are. Join us as we welcome special guest Matt Cassem from the Write Out Loud podcast to give us some of his unique insights!
Learn more about the Write Out Loud Podcast here: https://www.writeoutloudpod.com/
Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have!
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Sexuality: Is Gaydar Real?
This week we dive into the subtle art of divining someones sexuality without actually asking them. Not as easy as it sounds!
Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.netand click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have!
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Masculinity: What Is Good Masculinity?
We're joined again by Matt Cassem from the Write Out Loud podcast! Welcome back Matt!
This week we talk about what good masculinity looks like. It's not what you might think!
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Sex: Do Guys Always Carry A Condom?
This one was a lot of fun as we poke fun at those who do, in fact, carry a condom with them. Learn more and enjoy the fun as we discuss in this week's episode. Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Stereotypes: Are Dogs Masculine And Cats Feminine?
We delve into a nuanced answer to this question as we determine if dogs are a more masculine pet. And cats, are they more feminine? Join us as we talk about how they're viewed in the male community. Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Dating: How To Get To Know A Guy?
We discuss what kinds of questions men like to get on first dates. And it's deeper than you might think! Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have! Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Sex: Dirty Talk, Do Men Like It?
Today we talk about dirty talk, both giving and receiving. You might be surprised to know how much your man is limiting his dirty talk, and why.
Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have!
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Multitasking: Can Men Only Do One Thing At A Time?
"Oh, he's a man, he can only do one thing at a time." Have you heard that before? Well today C.T. and Michael discuss this phenomenon and why we think it's false.
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
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Nonverbal Communication: What Is Up With "The Nod"?
Today we talk about how men communicate, which is often more subtle and more complex than you might imagine.
Did you know you can ask us a question and we’ll answer it? It’s true! Just visit writingguys.net and click the ‘ask us a question’ button. We’d love to answer whatever questions you might have!
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Deep Thoughts: What Misconceptions Have You Experienced Based On Your Appearance?
Today we talk about how other's view us based on how we look. The misjudgments made by other's might surprise you!
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Attraction: Do Men Find Looks As Important As Women Think They Do?
There's more to it than you think! In this week's episode we discuss what all men take into consideration when determining what makes women attractive.
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Attraction: Do Men Look At A Woman's Ass The Moment She Turns Around?
Do men look at women when they aren't looking? Well, yes, we do. But there's so much more to it! Listen in to learn the many ways men covertly look at women when they're not looking in this week's Writing Guys!
Something on your mind? Want to know how men think about something? Well, here's your chance to get an answer. Just visit writingguys.net and click the button to ask us a question and we'll answer it on our show!
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Sex: Do Guys Like Partners Who Are Loud In Bed?
Do guys like it when their partner is loud in bed? Or do they prefer a quiet partner? Join us this week where we find out!
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Writing Craft: What Makes You Stop Reading A Book?
Today we answer why we stop reading books mid way through. Join us for a writing craft discussion this week on Writing Guys?
You're probably wondering what goes on in a guys head. Well, look no further than writingguys.net for your answers. Every week we publish episodes where we answer the questions that women want to know about men. Just visit writingguys.net and click the button to ask us a question and we'll answer it on the show!
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C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Attractiveness: Does The Size or Color of a Woman's Private Parts Matter?
There is so much misinformation out there about what men think about women's private parts. Are they too dark? Too big? Too small? We tackle this one too on this week's episode of Writing Guys.
Got a question you wish your husband would answer? Maybe your boyfriend is being evasive about a relationship topic? Well, look no further. Writing Guys will answer any and all questions about how men think. Just visit writingguys.net and click the button to ask us a question
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Pain: Why Do Men Act Proud Of Their Physical Pain?
Even notice how men will often shrug off pain like it's no big deal? Sometimes they even act proud of the pain they're enduring! What's up with that? Well, C.T. and Michael attempt to answer that in this week's Writing Guys. You wanna ask us a question? It's easy to do, just visit writingguys.net and click the Ask Us A Question Button. Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Cheating: Emotional vs Physical Cheating, which one is worse?
In this week's episode we discuss how we view cheating. Specifically, do we consider an emotional betrayal more or less damaging than a physical betrayal? Deep answers in this one!
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
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Physiology: Why Do Guys Miss The Toilet Bowl When Peeing?
Look, it's harder than it looks. Wanna know why? Well, click the play button and find out! It's completely free to listen!
I'll bet you wanna know more, but you don't know how to ask us a question. Well, you're in luck. Just visit writingguys.net and click the Ask Us A Question button and we'll get your question answered on our podcast!
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Fetishes: Are All Men Interested In Sexual Fetishes?
I think this episode will show that men are more like women than you think. Just listen in and learn how we view fetishes.
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C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Women: What Is Something Women Do That Baffles Men?
Yes, we know everything women do baffles us. But we actually dive deeper into it in this episode. There's lots of things women do that men just shake their head at because we just don't get it. You wanna know more? Give this week's episode a listen!
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C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
What Makes Men Curious?
What makes men curious? The answers might surprise you. Different things seem to interest men than do women. Join us to learn more about the curiosities of men.
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C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Writing Craft: Where are We In Our Author Journeys?
In this episode C.T., Michael, and Lancy discuss where we are with our writing journey, what our next steps are, and what obstacles are are overcoming to make our dreams come true. Enjoy!
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Premarital Sex: Will Guys Wait If A Girl Told Them They're Not Having Sex Before Marriage?
This week's episode deals with pre-marital sex and how men view it. Specifically, would a guy wait if a girl asked him?
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
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Writing Craft: Developing Character Relationships
This week we talk about the actual craft of writing characters a bit. Specifically we talk about how to write relationships from a male character's perspective. It's a long un but a good un!
Writing a male character and are stuck on a character trait? Why no ask us about it? We'd be happy to answer any questions you might have. Just visit writingguys.net and ask away!
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Cat Calling: Why Do Men Cat Call And Whistle At Women?
What do men who cat call and whistle at women think when they're doing it? Join us this week for some answers!
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
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Masculinity: Why Do Men Insult Each Other?
Today we dive into the secret language of men, insults. How come we call each other seemingly inflammatory things as a compliment? Well join is you you've got the balls, you pussy, and find out for yourself.
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Sudden Break Ups: Was There A Moment You Just Knew It Was Over?
Have you ever experienced a moment when you just knew it was over? We have, and we talk about them in this episode of Writing Guys!
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Masculinity: What Makes Men Manly?
What makes men manly? Why, we'd love to discuss that with you on this week's episode of Writing Guys!
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C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Sexism: Have You Witnessed Sexism In The Workplace?
On this week's episode Michael, C.T. and Lancy discuss sexism in the workplace and what examples we've seen in real life.
Did you know you can ask us a question directly? Just visit writingguys.net and click the "Ask Us A Question" button to submit any question you want. It will be answered on a future episode!
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Self Pleasure: How Do Men Clean Up After...You Know!?
We head back below the belt this week as we discuss how men clean up after spending some special alone time. It's a process we all go through, and it's something you could easily use to bring some humor, and relatability, to your male characters.
No, seriously? I Didn't know that! Did you know you can ask us a question? Literally a question on any topic? I know! Awesome, eh? Just visit writingguys.net and click the button and you too can have a question answered on the next episode of Writing Guys!
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Crying: What Happens When Men Cry?
This week we flip the tables and talk about what happens when men cry? Who do they feel safe crying in front of? Why don't they do it more often? These answers and more inside this week's episode!
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C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Crying: How Do Men Respond To A Woman Crying? And Why?
Why do men react the way they do when they see a woman cry? Why do they sometimes act disinterested, even harsh? While other times they'll act consoling and helpful? Tune in to learn more!
You should try asking us a question. We love to answer questions from our audience. You can submit a short form on writingguys.net, and we'll get your question on a future episode!
C.T.’s Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6F7JW2Y
Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
Genre Talk: Do Men Prefer SciFi or Fantasy Stories?
We dive into some fiction preferences here. Your mileage may vary!
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Heroes and Love Interests: Do Men prefer having a female ingenue in stories they read?
In this week's episode The Writing Guys discuss what they think of female love interests in stories. Are they necessary for a guy to like the story? Play the video and find out!
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
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Stalking? Why DO Men Follow Women Around A Store?
Why do men find themselves following women around a store? Is it always stalking? Or is it something else? The nuanced answer awaits you in this week's episode of Writing Guys!
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Lancy’s Books: https://books2read.com/leftturn
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Her Body Count: Does A Woman's Body Count Matter To Men?
...And should it matter?
The answer is nuanced and complicated. You should listen to the entire episode to learn more.
You want to help Writing Guys? Then ask us a question on our website, writingguys.net. The submissions can be completely anonymous, and we'll answer the question on a future episode.
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Getting Older: Do Guys Worry About Aging Like Women Do?
In Today's episode we discuss how men react to getting older. It's insightful how men and women differ in what they worry about.
We'd love for you to ask us a question. Just visit writingguys.net and click the "ask us a question" button. Submissions can be totally anonymous, and we'll answer the question on a future episode!
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