Wes and Shelly Share

Wes and Shelly Share

By Wes and Shelly Share

Wes and Shelly Fryer share about outdoor adventures, healthy life habits, parenting and marriage, navigating the opportunities and challenges of the empty nest.
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Ep 33: Sources of Joy and Summer Goals

Wes and Shelly ShareApr 13, 2025
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Ep 33: Sources of Joy and Summer Goals

Ep 33: Sources of Joy and Summer Goals

Join Wes and Shelly for Episode 33 of 'Wes and Shelly Share' as they reflect on sources of joy and discuss their exciting summer goals. From reminiscing about Easter memories to camping adventures, cooking over wood fires, and bird watching, this episode is filled with heartwarming stories and plans for outdoor activities. Listen in as they talk about their love for teaching, their furry family members, and the joy that simple pleasures like reading and designing lessons bring. Plus, get a sneak peek into their upcoming trips to the mountains of North Carolina and Wyoming's Grand Tetons. Don't miss this episode full of joy, gratitude, and future adventures!

Apr 13, 202540:25
Ep 32: Alcohol and Adventures

Ep 32: Alcohol and Adventures

In this episode, join Wes and Shelly for an 'Alcohol and Adventures' themed discussion from a cozy cabin near Linville Falls on January 19, 2025. They reflect on their experiences and memories with alcohol, diving into their family histories and personal stories. Moving to lighter topics, they talk about their love for adventures and traveling, sharing dreams of an ideal mountain cabin retreat. The episode wraps up with ambitions for future adventures and the importance of staying curious.


00:00 Welcome to the Alcohol and Adventures Episode

00:11 Our Cozy Cabin Getaway

01:56 Reflecting on Alcohol and Family Memories

03:19 Childhood and Alcohol

05:01 Teenage and College Years

05:21 Military Influence and Alcohol

11:16 High School Experiences with Alcohol

15:26 College Memories and Alcohol

18:14 Philmont Scout Ranch and Alcohol Stories

20:16 The Importance of Health Education

20:50 The Dangers of Date Rape Drugs

22:00 Adventures and Aspirational Cabins

22:18 Friar's Funnel Cakes Commercial

24:00 Weekend Adventures in North Carolina

25:07 Reflecting on Past Adventures

28:32 Dreaming of the Perfect Cabin

42:17 Concluding Thoughts and Podcast Details

Jan 20, 202544:37
Ep 31 : 2024 Highlights #wsshare
Jan 05, 202549:48
Ep 30 Pre-Election Time Capsule and Bedtime Book Memories
Oct 27, 202450:42
Ep 29: Fall Traditions and Memories
Sep 16, 202442:57
Ep 28 Summer Book Reads and Podcast Listens

Ep 28 Summer Book Reads and Podcast Listens

In Episode 28 of 'Wes and Shelly Share,' dated August 3rd, 2024, Wes and Shelly dive into their favorite summer reads, recount an adventurous day at Stevens Creek and the Waxhaw Farmer's Market, and share updates on their publishing journey on Spotify. They discuss their differing book tastes, with Wes leaning towards nonfiction like 'Invisible Rulers' by Renee DiResta and 'The New Superpower for Women' by Steve Cardian, while Shelly highlights her love for science fiction and fantasy with books by Sarah J. Maas and Michael J. Sullivan. The episode also covers their enriching experience at the Kennedy Space Center and features a segment on their favorite podcasts, including 'Hard Fork,' 'Oprah's SuperSoul,' and 'Are We There Yet?'. Join them for an insightful discussion on books, safety, space education, and more. (Links to all referenced books / podcasts / websites are available!)


00:00 Introduction and Today's Agenda

00:22 Morning Adventures and Farmer's Market Visit

01:03 Podcasting Challenges and Summer Book Reads

02:23 Wes's Non-Fiction Book: Invisible Rulers

07:08 Shelly's Fiction Book: Throne of Glass Series

14:04 Wes's Non-Fiction Book: The New Superpower for Women

22:34 Shelly's Historical Fiction: A Gentleman in Moscow

32:41 Blue Collar Workers and Fine Dining

33:30 Communism and Equality

34:02 Appreciation for Fine Literature

34:42 Top Superpowers for Women

38:46 Book Recommendations

48:11 Kennedy Space Center Experience

54:18 Favorite Podcasts

01:05:18 Conclusion and Outro

Aug 04, 202401:07:05
Ep 27: Caldwell Dreams and The Chosen Season 4

Ep 27: Caldwell Dreams and The Chosen Season 4

In our 27th episode, Shelly responds to several questions posed by her new church committee at Caldwell Presbyterian Church, “Discovery and Engagement.” She discusses her dreams for Caldwell Church, our wider church community, and the church universal. We also discuss the wonderful TV series, “The Chosen,” and specifically reflect on highlights that stood out for us in season 4, which we just finished last night.
Jul 04, 202442:50
Ep 26 Yellowstone and Teton Memories
May 28, 202434:55
Ep 25 Winter 2024 Updates and Black History

Ep 25 Winter 2024 Updates and Black History

This 25th podcast episode includes updates for winter 2024 about our recent trip to our friends’ farm in Virginia, a trip to Durham, North Carolina, and Duke University to hear the dean of the Air Force Academy talk with our parent group. In part two, we share reflections on our learning about black history and racial healing this past year and specifically this past month. Visit shellyfryer.com/podcast for subscription links to our show. Visit the resources page of HealOurCulture.org for links to many of the books and organizations referenced in part two of our show this week. Please let us know if you are listening and if you have feedback! The best way to do that is to follow us on Facebook and comment there. Go outside, keep exploring, and stay curious!
Feb 26, 202449:49
Ep 24: Holiday Recap and 2024 Priorities
Jan 15, 202452:38
Ep 23: From IAD to DEN, OKC to CLT
Nov 27, 202337:02
Ep 22: Grandparent Memories
Oct 21, 202338:57
Ep 21: Outdoor Education & Funnel Cakes

Ep 21: Outdoor Education & Funnel Cakes

#wsshare Ep 21 Outdoor Education and Funnel Cakes

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In this episode, Shelly shares about her fifth grade field trip last week to Seabrook Island, in South Carolina. Shelly and Wes have both loved outdoor education and the opportunity to learn about science outside, and this was an extremely fun and motivational experience for Shelly, even though it was taxing with over 100 5th graders and rainy weather the entire time! In this episode we also share about our new sideline funnel cake business we are starting! We give some background about things that we have learned and how this business opportunity has become a reality for us to start soon.

Our Wonder Link is this recent episode of 60 minutes, about 3-D printing houses in Texas:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXUX6dv2_Yo

www.iconbuild.com

Our Wander Link this week is Seabrook Island, South Carolina:
www.seabrookisland.com

St. Christopher Camp and Conference Center
stchristopher.org
Oct 16, 202342:05
Ep 20: Wedding Bells Ring!
Oct 02, 202341:13
Ep 19: Return to Narnia
Sep 15, 202340:34
Ep 18: Putting the Pieces Back Together (Part 1)
Aug 06, 202339:02
Ep 17: View of Heaven Farm

Ep 17: View of Heaven Farm

In this episode, we reflect upon our wonderful experiences this week volunteering at “View of Heaven Farm,” a unique farm and nonprofit organization in the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia empowering neuro-diverse adults to find community and meaningful work for a sustainable wage in a loving environment.
www.viewofheavenfarm.org

We also reflect upon our experiences attending Catholic Mass at Holy Cross Abbey and with Catholicism, both this week and in the past.
www.virginiatrappists.org/

Our Wonder link is Dirt Farm Brewing, which is a beautiful brewery just 15 minutes from the View of Heaven farm at the top of a mountain, overlooking the Shenandoah Valley.
dirtfarmbrewing.com

Our Wonder Link is from Reuters, about the recent lunar mission sent by India scheduled to land at the south pole of the moon on August 23.
www.reuters.com/technology/space/india-readies-rocket-aimed-landing-moons-south-pole-2023-07-14/

Remember to check out our website shellyfryer.com/podcast for links to our other episodes, to listen to us on different podcast platforms, and to connect with both Wes and Shelly Fryer on social media.

We encourage you to support your local farmers, local farmers market, go outside, stay, curious, and keep exploring!
Jul 16, 202343:17
Ep 16: Camping Without Kids

Ep 16: Camping Without Kids

Wes and Shelly share reflections about what it is like to go camping without kids in the empty nest! We share about our adventures this week in Linville Falls, North Carolina, as well as Grandfather Mountain, Banner Elk, and Beech Mountain. We also share about books we are reading now, and reflect on how life is different this summer, with our changing professional roles as educators. We also share our episode wonder and wander links!
Jul 07, 202337:03
Ep 15 Beach Memories

Ep 15 Beach Memories

Sharing our experiences from the South Carolina seacoast this week, as well as reflecting on past trips and memories of the beach with our family.
Jun 21, 202341:44
Ep 14: O is for Orca
May 20, 202334:29
Ep 13: Where the WILD Things Are
May 15, 202335:12
Ep 12: Bears in the Night

Ep 12: Bears in the Night

In this episode, recorded at Rocky River Vineyards outside Locust, North Carolina, we share our exciting adventure to Reed’s Mine today. In 1799, a young 12-year-old made the first discovery of gold in the United States recorded by European immigrants. We also talk about our aspirational identities in the “empty nest,” who we wanted to be when we were little, and who we want to be now. Wes also shared a “wonder link” related to artificial intelligence. Remember to stay curious, go outside, go have adventures, and keep exploring!
May 06, 202331:42
Ep 11: Are You My Mother?

Ep 11: Are You My Mother?

In this 11th episode, we discuss lots of things we remember about our mothers and ways our lives have changed as empty-nesters as parents. Referenced articles and links will be added soon! Our wander links are a couple local parks we visited recently, and our wonder links revolve around the Artemis 2 mission of NASA to the moon.
May 01, 202343:54
Ep 10: The Velveteen Rabbit
Apr 09, 202334:17
Ep 9: The Lion, the Witch and The Wardrobe

Ep 9: The Lion, the Witch and The Wardrobe

In this Saturday episode from Squirrel Lake Park in Matthews, North Carolina, we reflect on how we loved reading “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe,” both to our children and to students in school. We also discuss “The School I Love,” ideas for Shelly‘s forthcoming book, and other aspects of teaching we have loved and loved today. Our wonder link is, Wes’ aspirational BBQ catering business, goldentexasbbq.com, and our Wander Link is an excellent website for tracking the ISS as well as all satellites in orbit. We will add the link here soon!
Apr 01, 202337:39
Ep 8: Chrysanthemum Kindness
Mar 26, 202345:34
Ep 7: Margin and The Rock

Ep 7: Margin and The Rock

A podcast from Landsford Canal State Park in South Carolina! Discussing this wonderful book: Book: “Margin: Restoring Emotional, Physical, Financial, and Time Reserves to Overloaded Lives” by Richard A. Swenson https://www.amazon.com/Margin-Richard-A-Swenson-MD-audiobook/dp/B01M70RZN4/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3OM575AHNLN2U&keywords=margin+swenson&qid=1678657949&sprefix=margin+swenson%2Caps%2C136&sr=8-1 We also discuss other wellness insights and healthy life habits, and reflect on Wes’ recent visit to the Dixonville slave cemetery in Salisbury, North Carolina.
Mar 18, 202333:15
Ep 6: Pelé and Poliahu

Ep 6: Pelé and Poliahu

In this episode, we reflect on memories of our honeymoon to Hawaii in 1995, and some other trips we made to Hawaii over the years, including a family reunion in 2009. We also reflect on formative international travel experiences we’ve both had. These include Shelly‘s three years teaching in Germany for DOD, and Wes’ trips to Turkey and New Zealand.
Mar 05, 202339:20
Ep 5: Habits of Health
Mar 01, 202336:36
Ep 4: Summer Dog

Ep 4: Summer Dog

Wes and Shelly reflect on books we remember reading, and others reading to us, when we were growing up. We also discuss books we remember reading to our own children. In part two, we reflect on good memories from trips together to Manhattan, Kansas. This week's "Wander Link" is Liquid Art in Manhattan, Kansas. Our "Wonder Link" is a set of two oral history interviews with Wes' mother, Angie Fryer, shared on our family learning blog. Visit shellyfryer.com/podcast for more links to connect with us and subscribe to our show!
Show Notes:

Book: Summer Dog by Thom Roberts
Book: Little Britches by Ralph Moody
Book: Trumpet of the Swan by E.B. White
Book: Richard Scarry's Cars and Trucks and Things That Go
Book: Dragonsong (Harper Hall Trilogy, Book 1) by Anne McCaffrey
Book: The King, the Mice and the Cheese by Nancy and Eric Gurney
Book: The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis
Wander Link: Liquid Art in Manhattan, Kansas
Wonder Link: Oral history interviews with Angie Fryer on our family learning blog
Wes and Shelly playlist on Spotify
Feb 21, 202337:45
Ep 3: The Wild Robot
Feb 13, 202336:27
Ep 2: Goodnight Moon

Ep 2: Goodnight Moon

In our second episode, Shelly and Wes talk about the family favorite book, “Good Night, Moon,” and its connection to North Carolina astronaut Tom Marshburn. We mention connections to the remixed version, “Good Night, iPad,” discuss why Shelly loves “Space Fridays” with her fifth grade class so much, and our weekend adventure to “Cast-Iron Waffles” and the New York Butcher Shop in Indian land, South Carolina. In the second half of our show, we discuss our WanderLink: Anne Springs Close Greenway, and reflect a little on some outdoor education experiences Shelly had both growing up and as a teacher in Lubbock, Texas. Remember to connect with us by visiting our podcast website, shellyfryer.com/podcast.

Feb 06, 202334:34
Ep 1: The Best Nest

Ep 1: The Best Nest

In our first episode of “Wes and Shelly Share!” we preview the basic format and planned length of our episodes, and what we want to talk about our show. We describe the different elements of our podcast description: “Wes and Shelly Fryer share about outdoor adventures, healthy life habits, parenting and marriage, navigating the opportunities and challenges of the empty nest.” We also tell a little of our podcast origin story, our origin story as a couple, and the significance of "The Best Nest" in our family and current season of life. Check out our shownotes, and visit shellyfryer.com/podcast for more links about us and our show.
Show notes:

"Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder" by Richard Louv
Picture book "The Best Nest" by P.D. Eastman
Wonder Link 1: Goodnight Oppy (Amazon Prime Original)
Wonder Link 2: Built for Mars: The Perseverance Rover (Disney+ National Geographic)
Wander Link: “Grand Old Lady Hotel” in Balsam, NC
Our "Wes and Shelly Share Podcast" homepage: shellyfryer.com/podcast
Connect with Shelly on Facebook
Connect with Wes on Mastodon, Twitter, or on other social channels he periodically updates.
Jan 30, 202335:31