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Office Hours by XXXchurch.com

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A new podcast brought to you by XXXchurch.com where we will be answering any question you have submitted to us regarding sex, sexuality, porn, and masturbation. No question is off limits and everything is on the table. Get ready!
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Office Hours - Episode 36 | Can I Speak to a Live Person About My Issues?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ Can I speak to a live person about my issues? Resources mentioned in this podcast: Live Free Community Live Free Wives Small Groups Online X3pure.com Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
07:11
July 01, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 35 | I Struggle With Porn Use So Does God Love Me and Am I Still Saved?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ I struggle with porn use so does God love me and am I still saved? Resources mentioned in this podcast: Live Free Community Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
04:25
June 24, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 34 | What Do You Do When You Aren’t Sexually Attracted to Your Wife?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ What do you do when you aren’t sexually attracted to your wife? Resources mentioned in this podcast: Andrew Bauman's books Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
10:03
June 17, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 33 | How Can I Talk to People About the Dangers of Porn So They’ll Listen?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question:    ➡️ How can I talk to people about the dangers of porn, so they’ll listen?    Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
07:25
June 10, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 32 | What Can I Do When Marriage Counseling Is Not Improving My/Our Sex Life?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ What can I do when marriage counseling is not improving my/our sex life? Resources mentioned in this podcast: Live Free Community The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
06:28
June 03, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 31 | Will the Temptation to Masturbate Ever Go Away?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question:    ➡️ Will the temptation to lust ever go away?   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
08:13
May 27, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 30 | Can You Help Me Quit My Masturbation Habit?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ Can you help me quit my masturbation habit? Resources mentioned in this podcast: Live Free Community  Small Groups Online  X3pure Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
06:57
May 13, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 29 | Are You Still Connected to Craig Gross?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ Are you still connected to Craig Gross? Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
06:36
May 06, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 28 | Do You Offer Accountability & Blocking Software?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ Do you offer accountability & blocking software? Resources mentioned in this podcast: Live Free Community Small Groups Online X3pure Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
04:57
April 22, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 27 | Can I Do Sex Industry Outreach If I'm a Former Addict?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ Can I do sex industry outreach if I'm a former addict? Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
07:53
April 15, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 26 | What Can I Do If I Get Triggered When Watching TV and Movies?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ What can I do if I get triggered when watching TV and movies? Resources mentioned in this podcast: Live Free Community Small Groups Online X3pure Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
06:58
April 08, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 25 | Can You Help My Porn Addiction If I'm Gay?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question:  ➡️ Can you help my porn addiction if I'm gay? Resources mentioned in this podcast: + Live Free Community Have questions of your own? Submit yours at https://www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
06:36
April 01, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 24 | Where Can I Find Help for My Son's Porn Addiction?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ Where can I find help for my son's porn addiction? Resources mentioned in this podcast: + The Live Free Community + When Shame Gets Real  + Unwanted by Jay Stringer Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
07:41
March 25, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 23 | Where Can I Find Free Accountability Groups?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ Where can I find some free accountability groups to join? Resources mentioned in this podcast: + The Live Free Community + Small Groups Online Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
08:35
March 18, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 22 | How Can I Steward My Natural Sex Drive?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ How can I steward my natural sex drive as a single man who wants to remain abstinent? Links mentioned in this podcast: + When Shame Gets Real (book) + Christian Sexuality (course) + 5 Reasons to Keep It Buttoned Up (blog post) Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
08:38
March 11, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 21 | How Can I Stop Masturbating when I was Sexually Abused?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question:   ➡️ How can I stop masturbating and looking at porn when I was sexually abused as a child? Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
06:52
March 04, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 20 | How Do Women Struggle with Porn as Compared to Men?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: ➡️ How do women struggle with porn as compared to men? Also, pick up your copy of When Shame Gets Real where Carl explores this topic and more in greater detail. Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
08:31
February 18, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 19 | Is Masturbation Always a Sin?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question:    ➡️ Is masturbation always a sin, even when porn is not involved?   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
10:24
February 11, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 18 | How Can I Get a Sponsor?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question:    ➡️ How can I get a sponsor?   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
08:10
February 04, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 17 | How Can I Help My Son Return to Purity?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question:  ➡️ My son was exposed to porn at a young age; how do I help him return to purity? Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
10:54
January 28, 2022
Office Hours - Episode 16 | Should I Worry About Sobriety?
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question:    ➡️ Should I worry about sobriety?   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
09:41
December 10, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 15 | Help... My Kid is Sexting?!
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following question: I just caught my son sexting; what should I do? Have questions of your own? Submit yours at xxxchurch.com/office-hours
12:33
December 03, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 14
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following questions: 1) Is it ok to have fantasies about my wife with another man? 2) Is it OK if a married (or any) couple mutually agrees that it is okay to participate in kinky stuff? Get your free chapter of the new book When Shame Gets Real: A new way to talk about sex, porn, and masturbation at whenshamegetsreal.com Have questions of your own? Submit yours at xxxchurch.com/office-hours
12:23
November 19, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 13
In this Office Hours episode, we answer the following questions: 1) What should I do when I have a porn scene that keeps coming into my mind after being sober a few days? 2) What advice do you have to prevent being bored and living on purpose since boredom is a major trigger for me? 3) Do you think vibrators for women can serve the same purpose as porn does for men? Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
12:04
November 05, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 12
In this Office Hours episode, we answer the following questions: 1) How as a grandparent can I help my grandkids who are 8 and 9 stop touching each other inappropriately? 2) Will my past porn addiction impact me and my wife once we are married? 3) What is healthy to do after a relapse? Whether 100 days or 10 days? Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
14:34
October 29, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 11
In this Office Hours episode, we answer the following questions:   1) What do I do if I am afraid that my future wife will reject me because I have a small penis?   2) Is oral sex and anal sex sinful between husband and wife in marriage if there is mutual consent?   3) How can I help my son get past the porn he was shown by a friend at school?   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
15:11
October 22, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 10
In this Office Hours episode, we answer the following questions: 1) Can someone help my husband and convince him to abandon his lustful life and preserve our marriage? 2) How does someone confess a struggle with porn fueled violence against women if it’s illegal and could end them up in jail? 3) Will God eventually walk away from me since I’ve blown up my life? 4) Should married couples talk about what they want to do with each other in regard to sex and foreplay? Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
21:38
October 08, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 9
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following questions:   1) What are your recommendations for porn blocking apps?  2) Where can I find data on the Adult Industry's annual spending on marketing?  3) I am addicted to porn, and I need to be held accountable. Help?  4) What do you do if you suffer a relapse after a long period of time?   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
27:11
October 01, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 8
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following questions:   1) I am 17 years old, and I want to be set free from porn. Help?  2) What is the process of rewiring our minds, so we can stop lusting?  3) How do you escape the temptation to masturbate?   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
23:41
September 24, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 7
In this Office Hours episode, we answer the following questions:   1) What resources are available for teens?  2) Why do I look at porn when I'm married to a beautiful woman?   3) How can I make sure my blocker works 100% of the time?   4) My wife has no sex drive...Help?  5) Why are animated and hentai porn so damaging?   6) I don't enjoy sex because of medication I take that numbs me.    Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
39:41
September 17, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 6
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following questions:   1) How do I get rid of my addiction?  2) If I struggle with porn, should I pursue a relationship?  3) My mom is letting my live-in cousin watch porn in the house.  4) I struggle with same-sex attraction & shame & don’t know what to do.  5) I struggle with lust and am alone due to my learning disability.  6) My wife can’t have sex due to health issues and I still have urges.   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
38:27
September 10, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 5
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following questions:   1) What can I do if I enjoy the thrill of forbidden sex?   2) How do I handle my husband checking out other women?   3) Is sexy lingerie and striptease OK in the marriage bedroom?   4) Is “spicy” talk OK between a husband and wife during sex?   5) Can a “real” Christian struggle with porn and masturbation?   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
28:29
September 03, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 4
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following questions:   1) I need the DESIRE to quit porn, but it holds a real powerful place in my life. What can I do?   2) Can I as a mom talk to my teenage son about sex and porn if his dad won't?   3) How can I protect myself from non-pornographic but sexually arousing images such as yoga pants, tight jeans, etc?   4) My wife doesn't have the same sex drive as me. What can I do? Any advice?   5) Is it a sin for a woman to masturbate without porn or visually picturing someone?   Here is the link to the book I mentioned:  The Great Sex Rescue - https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=great+sex+rescue&qid=1629735282&sr=8-1   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
18:19
August 27, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 3
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following questions: 1) What does lust look like in practice? 2) I need to stop looking at porn and don’t know of anything here where I live that can help me. Help? 3) What do I do about sporadic urges? 4) My pastor suggested accountability software. I need help. Any suggestions? 5) How do I bring up my struggles with my wife? 6) What do I do with my sexual energy when it strikes at the office? Here are links to the two books mentioned in this episode: Unwanted by Jay Stringer Pure Eyes by Steve Luff Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
29:55
August 20, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 2
In this Office Hours episode we answer the following questions:   1) My wife is not having sex with me... is it ok to masturbate & scratch that itch?     2) How do I talk to my kids about masturbation?    3) How do I talk to my dad about his porn addiction?    4) What contributes to homosexuality?    5) How do I deal with cultural sexualization when my sex life is minimal?    Here is the link to the video we mentioned about the origins of SSA: https://www.watermark.org/message/1897-same-sex-bonding   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
33:48
August 13, 2021
Office Hours - Episode 1
In this first ever Office Hours episode we answer the following questions:   1) Is it OK to get sexual satisfaction from listening to audio if I am not picturing (in my mind) or watching a real person?    2) What do I do when my accountability partners are not helping me get what I want from a porn free life and even make me feel bad about what I want?  3) What do I do if I don’t want to cheat but my wife has not had sex with me for 8 months and has no interest in changing that fact?    4) I was sexually abused as a child. Is masturbation and pornography wrong in my case since I was sexually activated by that event and am not married currently?    5) Is porn and masturbation wrong since my wife is not having sex with me? Isn’t that better than cheating?    6) Is masturbation wrong in general?   Have questions of your own? Submit yours at www.xxxchurch.com/office-hours
39:52
August 06, 2021
eXXXamine Ep. 9 | Ex-Porn Star Interviews Woman Who's Ex-Husband Was Addicted to Porn
eXXXamine Ep. 9 | Ex-Porn Star Interviews Woman Who's Ex-Husband Was Addicted to Porn 56% of divorce cases involved one party having “an obsessive interest in pornographic websites.”  Pornography is an epidemic that is destroying marriages. We are grateful that Michelle has been transparent enough to share her story with us today on eXXXamine! Michelle went through a divorce because of her husband's porn addiction.  Please share this episode with a friend in need!  Comment below! We love hearing from you. And if you or a loved one is battling with an addiction to pornography, head on over to XXXchurch.com We are here for you! Stay Connected: https://www.instagram.com/x3church https://www.facebook.com/x3church https://twitter.com/x3church Support XXXchurch! Your donation is tax-deductible and will help us to create ongoing resources and life-tools to help people. Visit XXXchurch.com/2020 to give today.
13:54
January 30, 2020
eXXXamine Ep. 8 | Ex-Porn Star Interviews After Porn Ends Producer
eXXXamine Ep. 8 | Ex-Porn Star Interviews After Porn Ends Producer Brittni De La Mora is an ex-porn star and Billy interviews ex-porn stars. Today, we decided to flip the script and interview him!  Let's have a real & raw conversation about porn & purity! Comment below! We love hearing from you.  If you or a loved one is battling with an addiction to pornography, head on over to XXXchurch.com We are here for you! Stay Connected: https://www.instagram.com/x3church https://www.facebook.com/x3church https://twitter.com/x3church Support XXXchurch! Your donation is tax-deductible and will help us to create ongoing resources and life-tools to help people. Visit XXXchurch.com/donate to give today.
25:16
January 20, 2020
eXXXamine Ep. 7 | Ex-Porn Star Interview an Ex-Porn Star
eXXXamine Ep. 7 | Ex-Porn Star Interview an Ex-Porn Star   Brittni De La Mora met Sayeh on Instagram. Sayeh shared her story with Brittni. Her story touched Brittni so much that she wanted to share her story with YOU!    Comment below! We love hearing from you.   If you or a loved one is battling with an addiction to pornography, head on over to XXXchurch.com We are here for you!     Stay Connected:   https://www.instagram.com/x3church https://www.facebook.com/x3church  https://twitter.com/x3church   Support XXXchurch! Your donation is tax-deductible and will help us to create ongoing resources and life-tools to help people. Visit https://XXXchurch.com/donate to give today.
20:23
January 03, 2020
eXXXamine Ep. 6 Ex-Porn Star Interview Ex-Porn Addict, Conroy
eXXXamine Ep. 6 Ex-Porn Star Interview Ex-Porn Addict, Conroy In episode 6 of eXXXamine, ex-porn star Brittni De La Mora has a real and raw conversation with former porn addict, Conroy Smith. Conroy has an incredible story that will inspire you to seek God, walk-in purity, and leave porn in the past - once and for all. If you or a loved one is battling with an addiction to pornography, head on over to XXXchurch.com We are here for you! Stay Connected: https://www.instagram.com/x3church https://www.facebook.com/x3church https://twitter.com/x3church Support XXXchurch! Your donation is tax-deductible and will help us to create ongoing resources and life-tools to help people. Visit XXXchurch.com/2020 to give today.
10:37
December 16, 2019
eXXXamine Ep 5. | Ex-Adult Star Interviews Nargis Fakhri International Supermodel
eXXXamine Ep 5. | Ex-Porn Star Interviews International Supermodel Nargis Fakhri. Brought to you by XXXchurch.com  In episode 5 of eXXXamine, BrittniDe La Mora has a real & raw conversation about porn & purity with International Supermodel Nargis Fakhri. Nargis has a unique perspective on the role social media plays on a persons insecurities, which causes them to behave in impure ways.  If you or a loved one is battling with an addiction to pornography, head on over to XXXchurch.com We are here for you!  Stay Connected:  https://www.instagram.com/x3church  https://www.facebook.com/x3church  https://twitter.com/x3church Support XXXchurch! Your donation is tax-deductible and will help us to create ongoing resources and life-tools to help people. Visit https://XXXchurch.com/2020 to give today.
26:42
December 02, 2019
eXXXamine - Ex-Porn Star Interviews Virgin Till Marriage | Ep. 4
In episode 4 of eXXXamine - Real & Raw Conversations About Porn & Purity, I had a conversation with Cynthia Maselli. Cynthia lived a much different life than I did. I lived with two of my exes before marriage and performed in porn for seven years. I chose a lot of wrongs before I finally got it right.  Cynthia, on the other hand, was a virgin until marriage. During our conversation, she said something I will never forget. She said, "When we talk about virginity, we often talk about losing it. But God isn't in the business of losing; He's in the business of giving." I am sure most of us do not have a story like Cynthia, and that's okay. Because like she said, God is in the business of giving. He gives second chances, He gives redemption, He gives grace, and He gives restoration. God is a giver. If your story is anything like mine, then I am sure you can find comfort in that statement. It was vital for me to have this conversation with Cynthia because she is a wealth of information. When I quit the porn industry, she mentored me and taught me how to walk in purity. If you're struggling to stay pure and want to remain pure, if you're struggling with an addiction to pornography, or struggling with waiting for that special someone to come along, then you'll be encouraged by this conversation. We believe that through this series and our resources, you will find the answers to questions you've been afraid to ask. You'll find tools that bring healing, and you'll receive encouragement in your journey, wherever you may be. Be sure to share this series with a friend! Stay Connected: https://www.instagram.com/x3church https://www.facebook.com/x3church https://twitter.com/x3church Support XXXchurch! Your donation is tax-deductible and will help us to create ongoing resources and life-tools to help people. Visit XXXchurch.com/2020 to give today.
25:30
November 18, 2019
eXXXamine | Meet Porn Star Lisa Ann ** BONUS EPISODE
eXXXamine | Ep. 4 Meet Porn Star Lisa Ann In episode 4 of eXXXamine, ex-porn star, Brittni De La Mora has a real & raw conversation about porn & purity with Porn Star, Lisa Ann. Lisa shares insider information on the adult film industry. She talks about mental health, what's changed in the industry since she started in the '90s, what's in store for her future, and more.  Lisa is still in the adult industry. The nature of this interview may contain explicit material and is not recommended for viewers under the age of 18. Viewer discretion is advised. Stay Connected: https://www.instagram.com/x3church https://www.facebook.com/x3church https://twitter.com/x3church or @brittnidelamora on Instagram, facebook & twitter Support XXXchurch! Your donation is tax-deductible and will help us to create ongoing resources and life-tools to help people. Visit XXXchurch.com/2020 to give today.
30:44
November 12, 2019
eXXXamine Ep. 3 | Ex-Porn Star Interviews An Ex-Porn Star's Husband
eXXXamine Ep 3. | Ex-Porn Star Interviews Ex-Porn Star's Husband. Brought to you by XXXchurch.com Meet Richard De La Mora. He is a Pastor and comes from a family of ministers. He is also the husband of ex-porn star (now pastor), Brittni De La Mora. In episode 3. of eXXXamine, Brittni has a real & raw conversation about porn & purity with her husband, Richard. You'll find out how to look past your partner's past, how to pursue purity, how to abstain from sex & masturbation and so much more. If you or a loved one is battling with an addiction to pornography, head on over to XXXchurch.com We are here for you! Stay Connected: https://www.instagram.com/x3church https://www.facebook.com/x3church https://twitter.com/x3church Support XXXchurch! Your donation is tax-deductible and will help us to create ongoing resources and life-tools to help people. Visit XXXchurch.com/2020 to give today.
26:00
November 04, 2019
eXXXamine Ep. 2 | Ex-Porn Star Interviews A Pastor
eXXXamine - Real & Raw Conversations About Porn & Purity Ep.2 | brought to you by XXXchurch.com In episode 2 of eXXXamine, Former Porn Star and Host, Brittni De La Mora interviews Pastor TJ Anglin. She asked him questions you want answers to. Such as "Are sex toys okay in the marriage bed?" & "What would you do if you caught your son watching porn?" Thank you for tuning into eXXXamine where we have real & raw conversations about porn & purity. Comment below! We love hearing from you. And if you or a loved one is battling with an addiction to pornography, head on over to XXXchurch.com We are here for you! Stay Connected: https://www.instagram.com/x3church https://www.facebook.com/x3church https://twitter.com/x3church & @brittnidelamora on Instagram, facebook & twitter Support XXXchurch! Your donation is tax-deductible and will help us to create ongoing resources and life-tools to help people. Visit XXXchurch.com/2020 to give today.
32:57
October 21, 2019
eXXXamine Ep. 1 | Ex-Porn Star Interviews An Ex-Porn Addict
eXXXamine - Real & Raw Conversations About Porn & Purity Ep. 1| brought to you by XXXchurch.com In episode 1 of eXXXamine, Former Porn Star and Host, Brittni De La Mora interviews Bri Acezuna, a woman who was exposed to porn as a child and developed an addiction to it that lasted through her young adult years. If you need help with a porn addiction, visit XXXchurch.com
16:52
October 07, 2019