Pretty Thoughts
By Yasmine Adams
Pretty Thoughts Dec 14, 2023
Anthropology's Racist! What's New?
It's that time of year again when I upload and act like I have been here the entire time! In today's episode, I am joined by my classmate, Bella, to discuss the development of race and culture throughout anthropology's history. Not only do we discuss the key contributors to the development of the anthropology we know today, but we also discuss the voices on the margins and question why they were put there in the first place. Today's episode ends with us asking, "How do we decolonize anthropology?"
*I promise this is more entertaining than it sounds*
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Digital Blackface: The White Person's Black Person
Hi, everyone! Welcome to the last episode of 2022. In this episode, I continue the conversation about cultural appropriation, except this time, I discuss digital blackface. I won't lie, this is probably my favorite episode of this year, and I'm thinking about doing more just like it! Anyway, Happy Holidays and Happy New Year. See you all in 2023!
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You Talk Like a Teenager. No Baby, It's Black!
Hey, y'all! In this episode, I talk about cultural appropriation and the Little Mermaid controversy. This episode is part one of an overall conversation about Digital Blackface that I am excited to share. I'm in my element right now, so I hope you enjoy it!
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The Promise of Something Big
I won't lie; lately, I haven't been feeling my best. In this episode, I briefly discuss what I've been thinking about and what I've been doing during the two weeks I've been gone.
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NOPE
Jordan Peele's long-awaited third film, NOPE, was released in theaters with mixed reviews. In this 4 am conversation, my brother and I share our thoughts on the film and some of its key themes.
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Why Can't My Hair Just Be...Hair?!
In this episode, I decided to rant about natural hair. I talk about how I have been feeling about my hair lately and comment on a "scandal" that recently plagued the Black community online and some of the conversations surrounding it.
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Graduation, Gap Years, & Grief
Well, this is awkward...it has been almost a year and a half since my last episode (which you all seemed to have enjoyed!), but I'm back! And hopefully better. In this episode, I catch you all up on what has been going on in my life since I've been away! I'm happy to be back. I've missed this, and you! Welcome to the first episode of Season 2!
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We Learned Violence From You
Welcome to 2021! On Wednesday, we watched as Trump supporters stormed the Capitol, an act of domestic terrorism. We watched as the rhetoric changed to make their actions more palatable, a privilege not given to the many BLM protests that happened over the summer. So, consider this an open letter to everyone who has finally grasped the meaning of empathy! In this episode, I talk about violent resistance and America's favorite teacher, white people!
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This is What Performative Activism Gets Us
I think the title of this episode speaks for itself. Rest in peace Breonna; you deserved more, and we failed you. Breonna, you were worth more, you deserved more, you needed more, and we failed you. This is what performative activism gets us, nothing. Breonna never had a chance, but that doesn’t make it hurt less. I am not safe here, Breonna was not safe here, black women are not safe here. My heart aches; I’m so sorry we failed you.
#BlackLivesMatter #SayHerName
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#SayHerName Part 2: Strong Isn’t A Compliment
I had a hard time trying to decide if I wanted to upload this or not because it felt out of place with everything going on. However, I still felt some of the things said needed to be heard. With Toyin's birthday recently passing, Jacob Blake being shot in the back 7 times, and now Chadwick Boseman's passing, so many of us are drained even more than before. Displaying strength is probably the last thing on our minds at this point. regardless here is the second and final part to the #SayHerName mini-series. Before I officially get into the episode I talk about some of the recent events and their effect on me. Spoiler alert! I'm hurting, badly.
This Week’s Question: How are you caring for yourself?
This Week’s Quote: “Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and this is an act of political warfare.”
- Audre Lorde
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#SayHerName Part 1: Black Women Aren't Protected
In this week's episode, I bring you Part 1 on the #SayHerName "series" it's a two-parter. In Part 1 I speak about how unprotected black women feel and how intersectionality plays into it. This episode is mostly directed at black men because we want them to speak up for us more. In most cases, they have dropped the ball, and it's time to start holding them accountable for their actions, or their inability to act. There isn't a question or a quote this week, just names of some of the black women who haven't gotten their justice.
Rest In Power:
Breonna Taylor, Sandra Bland, Aiyanna Jones, Natasha Mckenna, Michelle Cusseaux, Dominque “Rem’mie” Fells, Riah Milton, and Atatiana Jefferson.
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Black Lives Matter
Hey everyone, this week's episode was coming sooner or later, but I talk about everything going on right now regarding black lives. Between police brutality, systemic racism, and COVID-19, black people are being attacked from all sides, and have been for a long time. Hug a black person, check up on your black friends, sign a petition, go to a protest, donate. Do something, help the movement. We need it, change is happening, don't let the momentum die. BLACK LIVES MATTER!
Today’s Question: What are you fighting for?
Today’s Quote: “You must never be fearful about what you are doing when it is right.” – Rosa Parks
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Accountability is(n't) Hard
In this week's episode, I talk about accountability and what that looks like. Using the Doja Cat situation as an example, I talk about how I feel people don't take time to analyze and look at a situation before jumping to conclusions. By no means am I making excuses for her, but it's somewhat of a different take. We are all accountable for our actions, but that doesn't mean we can't hold each other accountable too. That also doesn't mean we can't make mistakes and learn from them.
Today’s Question: Does cancel culture actually hold people accountable?
Today’s Quote: “We are all responsible and accountable for what we do or say even if those behaviors occur in stressful times.” - Byron Pulsifer
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I'm Tired
I recorded this episode right around the time I found out about Ahmaud Arbery. This was only going to be a draft, and I had intended on re-recording it so that my thoughts were clearer, and nothing could be taken the wrong way. However, after having a few conversations with people close to me, I realized that it's important for you all to see this side of me as well. The side that is defeated, the tired side, the side that has no idea what to do. This episode is me saying everything I felt at that moment. This is how I feel about being black in America.
P.S. I apologize for the change in sound quality after the disclaimer, I did the best I could.
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He Unfollowed Me?!
Hi everyone, I know that it has been a while since my last upload, and I would like to apologize for that. However, 2020 has been something. As I stated in my Instagram post, this week's episode isn't a true representation of everything on my mind at this point. I've had this episode for a while and am uploading it to get things going. Anyway, in this week's episode, I recount an experience I had a little over a month ago after someone unfollowed me, as the title suggests. I think we all have been in this predicament before when we think we're over someone and realize we aren't after they do something unexpected. So this one is for all of you who are tempted to text that ex, or are conflicted about a situation right now. Enjoy!
Today's Quote: “Bro or sis, it’s time to move on, they don’t care about you anymore, they aren’t checking on you anymore. They haven’t read your post, you haven’t crossed their mind, and as harsh as this may sound, they don’t want you in the way that you might still want them. It’s time to move on officially. It’s time to take care of you.” – Me
Today's Question: “Is there someone in your life that you’re claiming to be over, but aren’t? In what ways are you still allowing this person to have control over you? How are you taking the necessary steps towards forgetting them completely?”
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What We Hope to Bring into 2020
In this week's episode, I have a special guest, my sister Monica! We talk about what we want to bring into 2020. We discuss relationships, our faith, fears, and share some of our experiences. This weeks episode is very long, so it's an earful! Listen in increments, take breaks, and enjoy!
Today’s Quote: “The beginning is always today.” - Mary Shelley
Today’s Question: What do you hope to bring into 2020?
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What I've Learned in My 20 Years of Life
In this week's episode, I talk about the significance that turning 20 has to me. I speak on my biggest life lesson thus far and I send a special birthday shoutout to my sister, Nikki!
Today's Question: What are some things that you’ve learned in the time you’ve been alive?
Today's Quote: "How could it be? 20 something, all alone still, not a thing in my name. Ain't got nothin', runnin' from love, only know fear
That's me, Ms. 20 Something. Ain't got nothin', runnin' from love wish you were here. Stuck in them 20 somethings, stuck in them 20 somethings,
good luck on them 20 somethings, good luck on them 20 somethings. God bless these 20 somethings. Hopin' my 20 somethings won't end, hopin' to keep the rest of my friends. Prayin' the 20 somethings don't kill me, don't kill me.” – 20 Something, SZA
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Vulnerability is Terrifying! Part 2
In this episode, I discuss vulnerability and how difficult it is to open up to certain people, while I open up lol. This episode is split into two parts so you can keep your sanity. This is part two, I speak about romantic relationships and why I have a hard time opening up to a lot of my potential love interests.
Today’s Question: Who do you find it easier to open up to? Friends, strangers, or potential partners?
Today’s Quote: “vulnerability is terrifying. The courage it takes to reveal your heart is one of the most daunting…and yet rewarding experiences in life. It will set you free.” – The Better Man Project
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Vulnerability is Terrifying! Part 1
In this episode, I discuss vulnerability and how difficult it is to open up to certain people, while I open up lol. This episode is split into two parts so you can keep your sanity. This is part one, I speak about platonic relationships and why I have a hard time opening up to a lot of my close friends.
Today’s Question: Who do you find it easier to open up to? Friends, strangers, or potential partners?
Today’s Quote: “vulnerability is terrifying. The courage it takes to reveal your heart is one of the most daunting…and yet rewarding experiences in life. It will set you free.” – The Better Man Project
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Why I Love December
In this week's episode, I decided to talk about why I love December. I also reflect on this past weekend, and I thank all of my Pretty Thinkers for showing so much love and support. I do ramble a little and take a few long pauses, so I apologize in advance!
Today’s Question: What is your favorite month of the year, and why?
Today’s Quote: “December; a month of lights, snow and feasts; time to make amends and tie loose ends; finish off what you started and hope your wishes come true.” – Unknown
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The Way You Speak to Yourself Matters
In today's episode, I talk about the importance of self-confidence and why the way you speak to yourself matters. I end with a challenge, asking you all to say or write down something positive about yourselves every day for the rest of this month, and I will do the same. If you want to share your positive words with me, you can either tag the page or use #todaysprettythought or #prettythoughtspc!
Today's Question: Do you consider yourself confident? Why or why not?
Today's Quote: “Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.” – Unknown
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Finding Myself: The Things That Keep Me Up at Night
Hi Pretty Thinkers, I know that it's been a while since my last upload but I am hopefully back for good this time. I used these past few months to reflect on my life, and that's what this episode is about. I find that I am constantly in my head and thinking about my future, and that keeps me up at night. I'm sure many of you can relate, I hope you enjoy!
Today's Question: “What keeps you up at night?”
Today's Quote: No quote today, just more reflection! Know that you've got this! Know that you will succeed!
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A Reading
In today's episode, I decide to do things a little differently. Instead of a specific topic, I share a few of my poems and the inspiration behind them. I hope you all enjoy!
Today's Question: “What is your favorite poem? If any.”
Today's Quote: “Poetry is my deepest health.” - Sylvia Plath
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The World is Full of Broken People
In this episode, I discuss how our romanticization of negative traits and behaviors in relationships affect the way we view them and our overall interactions with each other. I also hint to the next set of episodes and a mini-documentary on love.
Today’s question: do you have any toxic traits that have ruined your relationships? How do you feel about some of the things I brought up in today’s episode?
Today’s quote: “You can’t change someone who doesn’t see an issue in their actions.” - Unknown
P.S. I apologize for the audio in this episode, the girls on my floor were really loud during recording, so I got a little closer to the mic. So, headphone users please beware of your volume!
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Holding on When You Need to Let Go
In this episode, I talk about holding onto the toxic people in our lives, and why it is so important for us to leave them be. I even send a message to those who are considered toxic.
Today’s question: What are you still holding onto, that you should have let go of a long time ago?
Today’s quote: “If you want to fly, give up everything that weighs you down”- Unknown
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I Learned How to Fly Against My Will
In this episode I discuss fear and doubt, and how I was able to overcome it. This episode is a mixture of poetry and commentary, I alternate back and forth between the two. I hope you all enjoy!
Today's Question: What have you allowed your fears and your doubts to hold you back from doing?
Today's Quote: "Never trust your fears, they don't know your strength." - Athena Singh
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The Introduction
Consider this your officail introuduction to Pretty Thoughts! I give a quick intro and tell you all what I have instore for the podcast. I can't wait to start this journey with you all, and welcome to Pretty Thoughts!
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Side Note: I know I said, "watching," instead of, "listening," but you get the gist lol. I promise, everything else after this won't be so scripted, but thank you all so much!