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Young, Black & Figuring It Out

Young, Black & Figuring It Out

By LegaSee Ventures

The Young, Black & Figuring it Out Podcast provides refuge, assistance and direction to those lost, struggling or ready to give up. By sharing our journey and experiences we hope to breathe new life into the mundane and ordinary. The YBF Podcast is not only an outlet, but a safe haven for anyone who identifies as Young, Black or Figuring It Out.
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Child free & Me: The Steady Rise of Choosing to be Child Free.

Young, Black & Figuring It OutMar 22, 2024

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Child free & Me: The Steady Rise of Choosing to be Child Free.

Child free & Me: The Steady Rise of Choosing to be Child Free.

Join Herb and Moe as they talk about choosing to be childfree in today's society. In this episode, they explore the reasons behind the steady rise of the childfree movement, and the personal and societal factors that influence this decision. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of what it means to embrace a childfree lifestyle, challenge societal norms, and navigate the unique experiences that come with it.
Mar 22, 202442:30
Leaving the Relationship: When is it Time to Go?

Leaving the Relationship: When is it Time to Go?

Join this conversation with Herb & Moe as they explore when and how to exit a relationship. Whether it's family, romantic, or a longstanding friendship, recognizing the right time to part ways can be a liberating decision for everyone involved. Tune in to gain insights and join the discussion by sharing your perspectives below.
Mar 08, 202428:48
Code Switching: Survival Tool or Inauthentic?

Code Switching: Survival Tool or Inauthentic?

Join Herb & Moe as they discuss 'Code Switching.' They'll explore how people adapt how they act, speak and think in different situations. Is it a useful survival tool or does it sometimes make us feel fake? Tune in for a conversation about truth and authenticity.
Feb 23, 202436:54
Being Black in White Spaces Part 4: Insights from Black Therapists

Being Black in White Spaces Part 4: Insights from Black Therapists

Join Herb, Moe and special guest Kenya Malcolm, PhD as they dive into the experiences of black psychologists/therapists. Explore the challenges and triumphs they face in addressing race and racism in the space of mental health. Enjoy listening as they share candid stories, navigate cultural complexities, break stigmas, and champion inclusivity. Gain insight into their journey and share your thoughts below.
Feb 09, 202456:26
Reflecting on 2023: Moments & Milestones

Reflecting on 2023: Moments & Milestones

Join Herb and Moe as they delve into the highs, lows, and pivotal moments of 2023, offering insightful reflections that shape our perspective on the year that was. Share your moments and milestones below.
Dec 08, 202337:11
Speaking of Family: Surviving the Holidays

Speaking of Family: Surviving the Holidays

Join Herb and Moe as they discuss how to navigate holidays with your loved ones. Tune in as they swap stories, discuss challenges and reminisce on good times. If you are looking to laugh, cry, or maybe a blend of both - you will not want to miss this episode.
Nov 24, 202332:44
The Evolution of Hip Hop from Turntables to TikTok

The Evolution of Hip Hop from Turntables to TikTok

Come join Moe, Herb and special guest Ben Ortiz as they journey through the beats, rhymes, and soul of a genre that has shaped a generation. Celebrating 50 years of hip-hop, they delve into its rich history—from its birth in the streets of the Bronx, NY to its global cultural takeover. Tune in for authentic conversations, thought-provoking questions, and a look at the pioneers who laid the foundation. Whether you're a hip-hop fundamentalist or a new-age fan, this podcast will have something for you. Don't miss out on this auditory exploration of hip-hop's past, present, and future.
Nov 10, 202301:12:47
Behind the Headlines: Perspectives from the Israel-Palestine Conflict

Behind the Headlines: Perspectives from the Israel-Palestine Conflict

Join Herb and Moe as they explore the complexities, challenges and resilience of people caught in the midst of one of the world's most enduring conflicts. Listen, learn, and empathize with the individuals whose lives are shaped by this ongoing geopolitical challenge.
Oct 27, 202339:18
Surviving Student Loans

Surviving Student Loans

Join Herb and Moe as they discuss how student loan debt has impacted millions of Americans. Listen as they share their tips and tricks to best navigate repayments. What are your surviving student loan stories? Share below
Oct 13, 202335:21
Fear Does Not Prevent Death, It Only Prevents Life: Embracing Egypt

Fear Does Not Prevent Death, It Only Prevents Life: Embracing Egypt

Join Herb and Moe on an unforgettable Egyptian adventure! From the Great Pyramid of Giza to the bustling streets of Cairo, the duo dives deep into Egypt's rich history and culture. Along the way, they laugh, learn, and reflect on how this eye-opening journey shapes their perspectives as young, Black individuals. Tune in for an episode filled with personal growth, candid conversations, and a lot of hilarity, you won't want to miss!
Sep 29, 202345:02
Season 3 Finale: It’s All Love

Season 3 Finale: It’s All Love

Join Herb and Moe as wrap up Season 3 with a Live Q&A. Hear what they have in store for the next season. Share what you look forward to hearing from them below.
Jun 09, 202348:48
The Tale of Two Histories: What’s up with the Queen Cleopatra Controversy?

The Tale of Two Histories: What’s up with the Queen Cleopatra Controversy?

This week Herb & Moe are joined by special guest and YBF manager, Saso Nady. Tune in as they discuss the history, portrayal and controversy of Cleopatra and the most recent Netflix documentary produced by Jada Pinkett-Smith. Does Hollywood’s depiction of historical figures offend or inspire? Can both be true? Listen and leave your comments below.
May 12, 202301:02:14
Money Mindset: How to move from scarcity to abundance.

Money Mindset: How to move from scarcity to abundance.

Tune in as Herb and Moe discuss financial wellness and the steps to reach financial independence. Joined by guest speaker Kevin Beckford, this episode focuses on improving your financial understanding and building generational wealth for your family. Listen and add your feedback below.
Apr 28, 202301:10:14
Health is Wealth

Health is Wealth

Health and fitness is an important part to living a long and vibrant life. But we all know, it is not easy. Join Herb and Moe as they discuss what they have learned and unlearned during their own personal health journeys
Apr 14, 202338:33
B.E.T Part II: The Top Black & Brown Movies

B.E.T Part II: The Top Black & Brown Movies

Black & Brown movies have continuously supplied us with legendary artistic contributions. From action to comedy, the genius of these movies have always captivated us. But which are the best? Join Herb, Moe and special guest Joaquin Figueroa as they debate and discuss this topic.
Mar 31, 202301:11:37
B.E.T: Who are the Top Black & Brown Actors

B.E.T: Who are the Top Black & Brown Actors

Black & Brown actors have continuously supplied us with legendary artistic contributions. From action to comedy, the genius of these artists always shine through. But who are the best? Join Herb, Moe and special guest Joaquin Figueroa as they debate and discuss this topic.
Mar 17, 202301:00:16
Dealing with Church Trauma Part II

Dealing with Church Trauma Part II

Tune in as Herb and Moe have an important discussion about dealing with church trauma. Joined by guest speaker Pastor Gerald Coleman, this episode unpacks the difficulties that can stem from long standing church traditions and customs. Listen and add your feedback below.
Mar 03, 202301:02:43
Is Wakanda Really Forever?

Is Wakanda Really Forever?

Did Wakanda Forever live up to the hype? How was the Black Panther movie without the original Black Panther? Join Herb and Moe as they discuss with two guest stars Joaquin Figueroa and Shawnalle Guzman. What did you like and what would you like to see in the next installment? Leave a comment below.
Feb 17, 202301:06:30
Being Black in White Spaces Part III: Education Edition

Being Black in White Spaces Part III: Education Edition

Tune into this important discussion as Herb and Moe celebrate Black History Month with guest star Dr. Shaun Nelms. Listen as they discuss their unique and ‘all too common’ experiences of being black in majority white spaces. Share your thoughts and experiences below.
Feb 03, 202301:02:29
How to Harness the Power of Purpose

How to Harness the Power of Purpose

Join Herb and Moe this week as they discuss the power of purpose. How has purpose manifested in your life? What does following your purpose look like? Share your thoughts below
Dec 02, 202236:02
No Thanks for Giving

No Thanks for Giving

Is it Thanksgiving or Misgiving? How did Thanksgiving become a national holiday? Is the truth shared about what really happened when the pilgrims met the natives? Join Herb and Moe as they discuss the truth behind Thanksgiving.
Nov 18, 202239:11
Are There Any Good Ones Left?

Are There Any Good Ones Left?

Are there any good ones left? Join Herb and Moe as they discuss what defines a “good” partner, if those “good” partners still exist and how to know if you’ve met one. Listen and share your comments below.

Nov 04, 202243:23
A Love Language: African American Vernacular English

A Love Language: African American Vernacular English

Join Herb & Moe as they discuss the meaning of African American Vernacular English (AAVE), how it has evolved and how a lack of understanding can produce harmful outcomes.
Oct 21, 202242:21
Canceling Columbus: The Only Christopher We Acknowledge is Wallace

Canceling Columbus: The Only Christopher We Acknowledge is Wallace

Why the in the world do we celebrate columbus? Where did this originate and is it time to cancel columbus and his day? Join in as Herb & Moe share some facts and speak their truth on this important topic.
Oct 07, 202239:12
Does the Sin Cancel the Sinner?

Does the Sin Cancel the Sinner?

Can we still dance to R. Kelly at the cookout? Should The Cosby Show still be held as the standard for Black family excellence? Join Herb and Moe as they tackle these questions and more on their welcome back episode “Does the Sin Cancel the Sinner?”.
Sep 23, 202233:02
Season 2 Finale: Still Love it Here

Season 2 Finale: Still Love it Here

Join Herb & Moe as they finish their second season with a live episode featuring audience Q & A. Leave your comments on what were your favorite moments from season two
May 27, 202201:02:52
Dealing with Church Trauma

Dealing with Church Trauma

Tune in as Herb and Moe have an important discussion about dealing with church trauma. Joined by guest speaker Ms. Harmony, this episode unpacks the difficulties that can stem from long standing church traditions and customs. Listen and add your feedback below.
May 13, 202201:07:49
Dealing with Transitions Gracefully

Dealing with Transitions Gracefully

Join Herb and Moe as they discuss the subtleties of transition. Whether in school, work, relationships or our personal lives, change is bound to happen to all of us. This week, guest speakers Joanna Shamenda and Orlando Boxx joined the conversation. Listen and add your feedback below.
Apr 29, 202255:60
Part II: Are Highly Successful Women Less Attractive to Men

Part II: Are Highly Successful Women Less Attractive to Men

After a strong response to the first episode on this topic, the host felt there was no other option but to bring a part two. Join Herb, Moe and a few special guest as they dive deeper into the the claim that highly successful women are viewed as less attractive in society. Share your comments below.
Apr 15, 202258:55
Are Highly Successful Women Less Attractive?

Are Highly Successful Women Less Attractive?

This week Herb and Moe discuss the claim that highly successful women are viewed as less attractive in society. Do you think this is true? Share your comments below.

Apr 01, 202234:49
The Lack, The Want, The Need for Black Trailblazers

The Lack, The Want, The Need for Black Trailblazers

Tune in this week as Herb and Moe discuss the need for generational guidance in the Black community. Did you have a great mentor that aided in your success? Is this truly a need? Share your thoughts below.
Mar 18, 202232:42
“Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby”

“Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby”

Tune in this week as Herb, Moe and special guest Shayla Chandler, dissect the complexities of sex education. Is there enough education? Has the lack of education or miseducation led to trauma in the community? Share your thoughts below.
Mar 04, 202244:34
Woke Culture, White Awareness

Woke Culture, White Awareness

Join Herb and Moe as they unpack the impact of “woke” culture in our current society. How do you feel this new era of racial awareness will change history? Share your thoughts below

Feb 18, 202234:41
Being Black in White Spaces Part II: Healthcare Edition

Being Black in White Spaces Part II: Healthcare Edition

Tune into this important discussion as Herb and Moe celebrate Black History Month with guest stars: Dr. Yvette Conyers and Dr. Jada Hamilton. Listen as they discuss and explain the experiences of being black in white spaces… healthcare edition
Feb 04, 202201:09:02
Real or Reckless: How Much is Too Much in a Relationship

Real or Reckless: How Much is Too Much in a Relationship

Join Herb and Moe as they discuss the impact of oversharing while in a relationship. Does fame or notoriety play a part? Can there be damage to the relationship if family and/or friends learn too many intimate details? Listen and form your own thoughts.
Nov 19, 202134:33
Is My Man Toxic?

Is My Man Toxic?

Join Herb & Moe as the discuss toxic masculinity and the role that plays in society and relationships.
Nov 05, 202142:59
From Struggle to Strength

From Struggle to Strength

Check in with Herb and Moe as they open up about some of their personal struggles, noticeable triggers and the ways they have overcome those.
Oct 22, 202141:57
Why Did I Get Married.. So Young?

Why Did I Get Married.. So Young?

Join Herb and Moe as they discuss the good, the bad and the ugly of love and marriage. What makes relationships successful and is age a factor? Let us know what you think and leave a comment below.
Oct 08, 202139:14
The Hate is Real

The Hate is Real

Have you ever received random hate? Listen in with Herb and Moe as they react to their first wave of online shade. Share your thoughts below.
Sep 24, 202137:31
Yea But Are Gender Roles a Bad Thing?

Yea But Are Gender Roles a Bad Thing?

Watch and listen as Herb and Moe share their views on traditional gender roles. How it impacts society and should we actively seek to change it? Share you thoughts below and subscribe to our YouTube channel
Sep 10, 202140:19
Season 1 Finale: Love it here

Season 1 Finale: Love it here

Join Herb & Moe as they finish their first season with a live episode featuring audience Q & A. Leave your comments on what were your favorite moments from season one.
May 28, 202156:31
Breaking the Stigma: The Status of Mental Health in the Black Community

Breaking the Stigma: The Status of Mental Health in the Black Community

Tune in this week as Herb, Moe and special guest Amanda Anderson, dissect the complexities of mental health in the black community. Is there a stigma? How has racial trauma mentally and emotionally impacted the community? Share your thoughts below.
May 14, 202144:53
Relief & Resentment: Grappling with the George Floyd verdict

Relief & Resentment: Grappling with the George Floyd verdict

Tap into this weeks episode as Herb & Moe unpack the emotional, cultural and historical effects of the George Floyd murder case verdict. Share your thoughts and feelings below.
Apr 30, 202159:04
The Weight of Words

The Weight of Words

How much weight do our words hold? Listen in as Herb & Moe discuss the power behind our spoken words and the effect they have on us and the people around us!
Apr 16, 202137:29
History Has Its Eyes On You

History Has Its Eyes On You

“What you leave behind...is woven into the lives of others” -Pericles

Listen in as Herb and Moe discuss how our current choices lead to a lasting impact. Share your thoughts below on how you’d like to be remembered.
Apr 02, 202134:18
Patterns, Trauma & Cycles: What does Generational Trauma look like?

Patterns, Trauma & Cycles: What does Generational Trauma look like?

Do our habits and hang ups stem from unhealed trauma? Are we products of our environment, family secrets or unspoken generational pain. Take a moment to listen in as Herb and Moe try and figure it out. Share your thoughts and experiences below.
Mar 19, 202144:42
Do Most People Get Average People?

Do Most People Get Average People?

Join Herb and Moe as they discuss what skin-deep beauty really means; what constitutes as average and does success outweigh “average” beauty? Take a listen and share your thoughts below
Mar 05, 202136:32
Being Black in White Spaces

Being Black in White Spaces

In this important discussion, Herb and Moe celebrate Black History Month with guest stars: Holly Rushforth… and Darrell Bell. Listen as they discuss their unique and ‘all too common’ experiences of being black in majority white spaces. Share your thoughts and experiences below
Feb 19, 202159:44
Can Men & Women be Strictly Friends?

Can Men & Women be Strictly Friends?

In this episode Herb and Moe answer the age old question, Can Men and Women be Friends? If so, are benefits expected or welcomed? Can friendships survive when attraction is involved? Listen in and share your thoughts below.
Feb 05, 202135:47
Young, Black & Figuring It Out

Young, Black & Figuring It Out

Welcome to the Young, Black and Figuring Out Podcast with Herb and Moe! Take a listen as they break down what it means to be young, black and figuring it out in America through a pandemic, racial unrest and life in general. Share your thoughts below.

Jan 22, 202116:17