You are cordially invited to Your I Do Crew: a wedding planning podcast. Wedding officiant Atonn Smeltzer and wedding photographer Lindsay Rozelle share their best wedding tips, craziest wedding horror stories, and interview local and national experts on trends, traditions, and more! So here's to love, laughter and happily ever after. Cheers!🥂
080: Wow! We got the amazing opportunity to interview Amy Shey Jacobs. Amy is the founder and creative director of Chandelier Events, a NYC-based boutique planning and production design firm for weddings, mitzvahs, milestone events, and corporate events. Amy has an INCREDIBLE wealth of knowledge to share - not only from her capacity at Chandelier Events, but as wellf from her former position as the Director of PR for a little company called... The Knot! In that capacity, she contributed to the planning of hundreds of live televised wedding events on OPRAH, ABC's "The View", "Live! With Kelly", "NBCs TODAY," E!, MTV, VH1, CBS and more. Chandelier Events is rated an editors' pick in The Knot's Best of Weddings and is listed in Style Me Pretty's prestigious Little Black Book, CeciStyle Magazine's A-List, and has received press coverage in PEOPLE, Martha Stewart Weddings, Us Weekly, Weddingchannel.com, and more. Amy is an amazing resource, and you can find more of her great information here:
079: This episode is for anyone who has ever been confused about what to wear to a wedding! Lindsay and Atonn break down the different levels of wedding attire, and straighten it all out! We also talk about the results from our recent poll, and share what YOU, our listeners, think about wearing white to a wedding!
078: Today we are excited to visit with our friend Taylor Sickler, Event Coordinator at Nazarath Hall! We're so busy during weddings that we never get to chat, so it's great to to catch up with wedding friends on the podcast. And since Nazareth is one of our favorite wedding venues, we had a BLAST talking about the amazing experiences we've had there! "Naz" Hall is one of the most unique wedding venues you'll ever see - it's literally a castle on a hill, overlooking a river - something you don't see everyday in NW Ohio! It has more than 10 unique spots to hold a ceremony on the grounds, including a stunning gothic chapel, a gorgeous multi-level ballroom that could be right out of Hogwarts, an intimate library overlooking a river, a magical open-air stone chapel in the forest straight from a fairy-tale, and so many more! While you're listening to this episode, make sure to check out their Instagram and Facebook photos to see what we're taking about!
A CORRECTION: Taylor accidentally said that the hall was founded in 1972, but it was actually founded in 1927! She called us later to clarify - thanks Taylor!
077: Lindsay tells us a story about a wedding she was shooting, and everything was going great until the venue coordinator decided to dramatically rearrange the wedding timeline, on the fly! Listen in to hear what happens when Lindsay butts heads with a salty wedding coordinator, who apparently had better things to do!
076: Wedding venue expert Nicole D'Onofrio returns! She was our guest on episode 47, and she brought the 🔥 with a ton of tips for finding and booking a wedding venue - and now she's back with even more info! Today she's giving us the rundown on wedding day timeline planning, with some hacks to make everything run smoothly, as well as a few hidden speedbumps to watch out for!
075: Way too many of our horror stories revolve around a couple forgetting to bring something to the ceremony on their wedding day, whether that thing is their vows, their socks, or even themselves! We give you the lowdown on the do-or-die checklist for your wedding day MUST-HAVE items:
- marriage license,
- wedding attire,
- unity supplies,
- spouse's gift.
#weddingchecklist #weddingmusthaves #weddingdayblues
074: What do you get when you interview a wedding DJ with over 25 years of experience? Some of the BEST wedding planning advice we've ever heard! Michael Baginski is the owner and head DJ at Decorative Sound, and he is this month's local vendor spotlight! He started his wedding business in the mid-90's, and he's been so successful that he hasn't looked back! Michael tells us about how being a wedding DJ has evolved over the past 25 years, and some of the amazing technological advancements that he has seen. He also offers up some of the MOST COMPREHENSIVE advice for hiring a DJ, or any wedding vendor that we've ever heard! It's easy to see why he has been so successful for all these years, and how he can bill his company as "Toledo's Favorite Disc Jockey Service"
073: What happens when a couple shows up HOURS late to their own wedding reception? What happens to the guests if there is an open bar, but no food? What would make a room full of wedding guests BOO the couple getting married? Find out in this week's horror story!
072: Whatever you're doing right now, STOP, and check out instagram.com/sweetheatheranne - seriously! We'll wait.... Our guest today is THE Heather, from Sweet Heather Anne bakery in Ann Arbor, Michigan! Heather is an art-student-turned-baker, who is turning both the art world and baking world upside down with her incredibly gorgeous cakes! She brings an unparalleled passion and aesthetic to the table (pun intended) when she creates these one-of-a-kind works of art. Whether she's reminiscing about her time in Italy, or talking about locally sourcing all her ingredients, we've got a sweet tooth for Sweet Heather Anne!
071: Lindsay and Atonn review even more projected wedding trends for 2019, from lists published by wedding industry thought-leaders like TheKnot, WeddingWire, Brides.com, Harper's Bazaar, and more! We give our hot takes on what the biggest wedding trends will be this season. #SmellYourWedding! Lists used in this episode:
070: What's the best part about interviewing experts in the wedding industry? First off, they know their business like nobody else, and second, they are almost always AMAZING people! Michelle McCaulla is no exception - she is the owner of Belle Amour Bridal, specializing in Bridal Gowns, Bridesmaid Dresses, Mothers' Dresses, and accessories. Michelle has an incredible soul, and believes that every bride deserves to feel beautiful on her wedding day! In this interview, she talks to us about:
when to begin looking for your wedding dress,
how to work with a professional bridal shop,
how to get the best dress for your body type AND budget,
how to get the proper size you need,
how NOT to get sick from toxic chemicals in cheap knockoff dresses!
And SO MUCH MORE!
*** If you're in the Ohio area, make sure to check out her "Every Body Every Bride" showcase on February 15 & 16 (2019), and her Bridesmaid Bash on February 17, 2019 ***
068: Engagement season is in full swing, and Valentine's Day is quickly approaching, so we wanted to talk to an expert in the field of romance, relationships, marriage, and sex! Thankfully, we found Erika Miley! She is a licensed mental health counselor, specializing in sex therapy, sexuality therapy, and relationship therapy. She is also the host of Sex Talk with Erika Miley, a fantastic podcast that you SHOULD DEFINITELY SUBSCRIBE TO! We talked with Erika about everything from Premarital counseling, to Couples' therapy (and when to seek it out), Polyamory, Developing Communication, How fighting (the right way) can help you stay married, relationship pitfalls to avoid, and even how to approach trying new things with your partner! This is an episode that you won't want to miss!
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067: Happy Engagement Season! Did you know that almost HALF of all proposals happen between Christmas and Valentine's Day? And then in the spring, all of those newly engaged couples start going to WEDDING SHOWS (or Bridal Shows, depending on what they are called where you live)! But the shows can often be overwhelming, exhausting, and hard to navigate, so Atonn and Lindsay put together their best tips and tricks for finding the best info and having the best time while you find the perfect vendors!
066: The Crew sits down with Chelsea Miller, owner and founder of the Nanny Miller agency! Chelsea just opened up a whole new side to her business, that is directly tied to weddings! Are you curious how a Nanny agency fits into a wedding plan? Then look no further than this episode!
Guest: Chelsea Miller, Owner of Nanny Miller Agency
065: Happy New Year! We decided to take a look at some of the projected wedding trends for 2019 from wedding industry thought-leaders like TheKnot, WeddingWire, Brides.com, Harper's Bazaar, and more... and then we tore them apart! We give you our hot takes on what the biggest wedding influencers are predicting for this wedding season. NOTE: because we found so many lists, we broke this into 2 episodes! Stay tuned next week for part 2 to drop as a bonus episode!
Lists used in this episode:
064: Atonn and Lindsay met an amazing wedding planner named Jove Meyer at The Knot Workshop in Detroit, and we were lucky to make a connection with him, right before he started BLOWING UP! Since then, he has been interviewed by the New York Times, and featured as a guest on the Rachel Ray Show! Jove was an incredible guest, and is an amazing soul. We get some of his best wedding tips, as well as finding out how he found the wedding industry, and how he came to become a nationally recognized speaker about LGBT experiences.
063: Atonn's MOST STRESSFUL horror story yet! Have you ever seen a wedding in a movie, where the officiant says "if anyone objects to this wedding, speak now or forever hold your peace"? And if someone says anything in the movie, it's usually funny... but what if someone actually did that at a wedding you attended? What would you do? Atonn tells us what happened when a bride's father showed up, to object and try and stop the wedding!
062: This week we chat with one of our favorite local wedding vendors! Kendra Bills is the owner of In Bloom Flowers & Gifts, in the beautiful historic downtown district of Maumee, Ohio. She has been working with couples for more than a decade, creating beautiful and unique wedding floral arrangements. We pick her brain, to find out what couples should be thinking about when they are planning flowers for their wedding, and she tells us the one CRITICAL piece of information that couples need to have, before they begin looking for a wedding florist!
061: It's December, and that means that we are dealing with holiday STRESS! That got us thinking about how stressed out couples can get on their wedding day, especially coupes who choose to DIY any parts of their wedding. So we thought a stress-relieving episode would be a great idea! We recorded our 10 best tips for avoiding or relieving frustration on your special day - and many of them are free and simple to do! So get ready to take notes on how to take the "AIEEEEE!" out of saying "I do!"
1. Hire a planner (full service OR day-of)
3. Have a 'First Look'
4. Unplug your whole day
5. Have a Photo Checklist
6. Have a "wedding day checklist"
7. Prepare a "go bag"
8. Plan all transportation!
10. Don't DIY hair or makeup
Bonus tip: (not on the day of, but the day before) get a couples' massage!
060: Do you remember in episode 35, when Lindsay was shooting a destination wedding in Mexico? Well, we thought we'd bring in the expert who planned the whole trip! Lindsay Barrie is a wedding and honeymoon travel agent. She specializes in creating one-of-a-kind destination weddings, for couples who want to tie the knot in a new and exciting place! Lindsay has an incredible resume of travel experience, including Italy, Spain, England, Scotland, Ireland, Poland, Budapest, Prague, Thailand, Hawaii, Riviera Maya, Cancun, Antigua, Turks & Caicos, and more! She holds a Master of Arts in Foreign Language, and she even has a special travel certifications for Jamaica! We'd be hard pressed to find anyone more qualified to talk about romance travel than her! We talked with Lindsay about special planning considerations for destination weddings, price points and budget strategies, where to begin, and how to decide if a destination wedding is right for you.
Check out Lindsay's profile on Bliss Honeymoons' website: https://www.blisshoneymoons.com/lindsay-barrie/
Check out these photos of the wedding that Lindsay coordinated (and OUR Lindsay was the photographer!):
059: Our old friend Sam sent in a Wedding Horror Story that someone shared with her! This couple was getting married in Bowling Green, OH - a town famous for its college, as well as its great bars! (Maybe those two things are connected?) There was an extended break between the ceremony and reception, so the wedding party thought it would be fun to explore some of those bars, but when it was time to head back for the reception, something very important was missing....
What was it? Listen to find out!
Also, remember our recent episode with Wedding Planner Terrica Skaggs? She was just featured at Wedding MBA, in Las Vegas, running sessions that were jam-packed with inspiration and information for wedding pros, and now she's sharing her secrets! She tells EXACTLY how other wedding pros can achieve incredible results with her Engagement Season Masterclass, Sunday, 11/25 at 8:00pm EST.
This Masterclass has something for every wedding vendor - from the eager new pro, to the seasoned vet on the verge of burnout. Terrica will break down exactly how she was able to book more of the clients she loved. And everyone who joins the live Masterclass will receive her #RunEngagementSeason Masterplan as a free gift!
To register, just go to https://itsglamoro.us/youridocrew and fill in your information. If you’re trying to grow a wedding business, you don’t want to miss this. Go there and register now, and share it with your friends who are growing their hustles!
058: Emilee Wilson is a personal trainer and wellness coach who has a unique philosophy on losing weight for your wedding day - DON'T DO IT! Her coaching focuses on teaching couples to get healthy together in a variety of ways, starting well before even setting foot in a gym. We loved talking to Emilee, and we know that you'll love her tips for living "Healthily Ever After"!
Check out her blog post here: https://luckybirdphoto.com/healthily-ever-after-emilee-wilson-fierce-fox-coaching/
Learn more about Emilee on her website: https://fiercefoxcoach.com/
Or on Insta: https://www.instagram.com/emwilsonfood/
Or Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Em-Wilson-Food-2123417451208502/
057: The Crew discusses First Looks - getting pictures of the couple seeing each other on their wedding day, BEFORE the ceremony. Is this trend quickly becoming the new normal? What are the downsides? Who should try this? Who shouldn't? Listen and find out!
056: The Crew interviews Terrica Skaggs, a nationally recognized and award winning Wedding Planner and Designer, Wedding Industry Educator, Speaker, and Author! Terrica has over twelve years in the wedding industry, creating exquisite weddings and events in the Golden Isles region of Georgia. She is the Chief Wedding Planner and Designer of Cocktails & Details, where she leads a team of talented wedding planners and event mangers in creating unforgettable destination Southern weddings. She has been featured as an expert TV, print and digital publications, and is known for keeping her finger on the pulse of all wedding and business trends. #RunTheWorld
055: Atonn was getting ready for a wedding, when he got a text from one of his employees that read, "have you ever had a bride not show up to her own wedding?!?" You won't believe how this wedding horror story ends!
054: Atonn and Lindsay chat with Erin Liedigk of 7 LIttle Cupcakes, a gorgeous boutique bakery in Perrysburg, Ohio, "where everything is baked with love, passion, and a whole lot of sprinkles!!" Erin dishes up some delicious tips about finding and booking a baker for your wedding, as well as a scrumptious breakdown of bakery wedding trends! http://www.7littlecupcakes.com/
053: It's our first anniversary! Atonn and Lindsay reflect on the year behind them, and talk about some exciting changes that are coming to the podcast in "Season 2"! Make sure to listen all the way to the end, for the announcement about the big giveaway!
52: Lindsay shares a horror story from her past, in which one of the bridesmaids decided to put the PARTY in 'wedding party!' You'll learn what can happen when you combine a party bus, a white wedding dress, and a bottle of red wine, all on this week's episode!
51: Chelsea Ziss and her husband own and run Ambient Effects, a NW Ohio-based event lighting company. They are pioneers in the use of wireless uplighting, and they can use it to do pretty amazing things! We talk with Chelsea about uplighting, spotlighting, projection mapping, and more in this amazing and fun interview!
50: A local wedding baker (and friend of the podcast) sent in a story - that shows once something goes wrong, things can begin to... snowball... into BIGGER problems! Especially when you reschedule your wedding reception, but don't tell all of your vendors! Thank you to our sweet confectioner for sending in this Wedding Horror Story!
49: Lindsay and Atonn talk about the perfect wedding length! They look at weddings that they've been to, where the ceremony ran too long, or wasn't long enough, and break down what couples can do to avoid the same thing happening to them. Plus, some great tips for making sure that a longer ceremony doesn't put your guests to sleep!
47: Nicole is the Sales Director of Sales at the Roostertail in Detroit. We met her at theKnot's Detroit workshop, and she had so many great tips for venue planning, that we knew we had to have her on as a guest! In this episode, Nicole gives us the inside scoop on how to start a venue selection process, and where to go from there!
46: Lindsay tells us a story about a couple who got a completely different wedding cake than they ordered - and they didn't catch the mistake until the reception was about to begin! You won't believe how a quick-thinking wedding planner saved the day, during this Extreme Home Cake-Over!
45: Lindsay and Atonn talk about some of their least favorite wedding traditions and trends - things that are outdated, awkward or just plain out of place at a wedding. Most of them are starting to die out, but some might still need a little help! We offer our suggestions for things that you can do instead of these wedding trends that are dying out (or that need to!)
43: MOMS! We love our mothers, but sometimes in the wedding planning process, moms decide that they know best and forget that it's not THEIR special day. Atonn and Lindsay break down some of their mom-based experiences and offer advice on when and how to talk to mom to avoid a big conflict late in the process!
41: We talk with Jen VanHoutte, master floral designer at GardenView Weddings, a 60-acre flower farm and design studio in Northwest Ohio! Jen has been creating custom-designed floral creations and living art for more than 7 years, using the freshest blooms that she has grown herself. She gives us her take on 2018 wedding floral trends, and ideas that couples can take and run with, for their special day!
40: In this Wedding Horror Story from Lindsay, we learn what can happen to a beautiful 4-tier wedding cake, if you let it sit in a tent, in 90-plus degree weather! Get ready for a Wedding Cake Meltdown!
39: Atonn and Lindsay talk about the DIY trend in weddings - and get real about what things make sense to try and do yourself, and when you should just call in a professional to handle things. We break down what things we've seen go well, and what things we've seen go NOT so well, and offer our advice.
38: We talk with Mikey & Jarrod, Carlyn & Zann, and Stef & Jaime about their wedding planning experiences as LGBT+ couples in the Midwest. We discuss the ups and downs, and they give their best advice on how to find allied vendors, handle family drama, and avoid a stressful wedding!
37: What happens when you have your wedding in a public park, and forget to reserve the whole area? You can have unexpected guests, and unexpected sounds that might make your special day a bit more... interesting!
35: Lindays's First Destination Wedding! Today marks our first international episode! We recorded over Memorial Day weekend 2018, while our co-host and Photography expert Lindsay Rozelle was on location, at a resort in Mexico, for a destination wedding! She’s going to share her destination wedding experiences, tips, and planning ideas for a perfect wedding away from home!
32: This wedding horror story was sent in by a listener! Question: what would you do if you walked into a wedding reception, and the bride was in a fistfight with one of her bridesmaids? Listen to this episode for the answer!
30: Wedding season is off and running, and the Crew members are BUSY! So Atonn is flying solo this week, and sharing his own special Wedding Horror Story, from one of his very first full weddings! You'll hear how one person forgetting to say one small phrase can make one big difference! Won't you "Stand By Me"? ;)
29: We interview special guest April Gladieux-Campbell, wedding planner and owner of 'Your Perfect Day: wedding planning, decor and floral'. April is an industry veteran, and shares with us how she got started in the industry, what keeps her going, and even some of her biggest frustrations as a planner!
28: A special Wedding Horror Story, sent in by one of our listeners! It comes from one of our local Toledo-area wedding vendor friends, but not from a wedding she was working - it’s from her own experience as a bride! Let’s listen to how she handled her own "Change of A Dress"
27: What do you do when you're engaged to be married, but you find out that your fiance has been unfaithful? You call it off! But what happens then? Our guest, Julia, walks us through her experience of dealing with wedding vendors, family, and friends in the aftermath of canceling her wedding.
26: This one comes from Lindsay’s days of working at the Zoo - and what happens when you combine an outdoor wedding with one of the weather hazards of living in Northwest Ohio. You’ve heard of Sharknado, now get ready for Bearnado!
24: Have you ever heard of Murphy's Law? Simply put, it states that "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong". This horror story still gives Atonn nightmares. You really won't believe everything that went wrong at this wedding.
23: We interview special guest Maya Devassy Tarach, a certified wedding planner and the owner or Preoccupied Bride, a Chicago-based wedding planning service! She’s going to drop some knowledge about some best practices for planning out your reception seating, and as an added bonus, she even brought a horror story to share!
22: Sam shares a Wedding Horror Story with us, in which a wedding that she was coordinating at her hotel had some... unexpected... guests show up, from the Comics Convention that was going on down the street.
14: Our first Wedding Horror Story of 2018! This is from Sam, from her days as a wedding coordinator at a major national hotel chain. She’s going to tell us about a summer wedding where the entire hotel’s air conditioning system died, right in the middle of a heatwave!
20: This week's Wedding Horror Story comes from Atonn - he talks about the VERY FIRST wedding that he officiated, why it wasn’t in the couple’s original plan, and how it all happened. We’re calling it “My Big Fake Indian Wedding”
19: This is a GREAT discussion about gifts FROM the couple, to their wedding party and family members. The Crew talked about who you can and who you SHOULD plan to give gifts to, when you should give them, and some ideas of what those gifts might be. We give our perspective and experiences, and share some of our favorite ideas that we’ve seen!
018: This week’s Wedding Horror Story comes to us from Lindsay; she was photographing the bride and bridesmaids, who were getting ready on the morning of the wedding, when two of the bridesmaids discovered that their dresses would not fit! We’re calling it “Say Yes to HER Dress"!
17: Special guest interview with Jason Kelley, owner, president, CEO, and (of course) lead DJ of Book That DJ, a Toledo-based wedding and event DJ company. We had a blast with him. We got to hear about his company, we learned some of his best advice for couples, and he even threw in a horror story for good measure! We loved talking to Jason, and we’re sure you’ll love listening.
16: Our first guest-submitted Horror Story! This one is about a couple who has punctuality issues, and not in a small way... You won't believe how late they arrived to their own wedding ceremony! #TardyToTheParty
10: This Wedding Horror Story is from Lindsay. Imagine you’re at a wedding at the Zoo and the power goes out! What do you do if you’re the caterer? Or the DJ? You won’t believe what these wedding vendors did, to save the day! We hope you enjoy “Lights Out, Gorilla Radio”!
08: On this week’s mini episode, Sam shares a horror story that we have dubbed “The Boozey Groom”. Listen in to hear more about what happened when a groom disappears just before his own wedding, and is found passed out in a stariwell!
06: On this week’s mini episode, Courtney shares a horror story that we have called “gray train”. Listen in to hear more about what happened when a server spilled a filet and gravy all over a bride’s train of her ball gown!
05: We had the opportunity to interview Nick Borelli, a marketing strategist with over 20 years of experience in the live events industry. Nick travels across the globe speaking to event professionals about how to develop creating marketing initiatives for events and event services alike. Nick presents “Start, Stop, Stay- 3 Things Wedding Pros Need to Consider With Their Marketing”