
So You’re Living In A Simulation
By @Joli.Artist, aka Your One Black Friend
Here we explore the nature of our Simulated Reality Matrix through Philosophy, Psychology, Spirituality, Quantum Physics, Theology, History and Current Events.
Openminded, Free-Thinkers, welcome! We have Non-GMO, gluten free cookies!


Planet of Females | Dominance, Submission, and the Illusion of Masculinity (ft. Joli.Artist)
What if everything we think about gender is wrong? In this episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation" , @joli.artist makes the case that "male" doesn't actually exist—it's just a performance we've all agreed to believe in.
Starting with biology (we all begin as female fetuses), Joli walks us through how society trains people with certain body parts to suppress emotions and avoid anything coded as "feminine." The result? A male loneliness epidemic where men can only express feelings through alcohol or sports. "You live that for 70 years and you wonder why the suicide rates in this country are sky-high."
Key themes include:
- How testosterone creates physical differences, but culture creates "masculinity"
- The male loneliness epidemic and its connection to emotional suppression
- Bill Burr's observations on men not even being allowed to find puppies cute
- Why dominance and submission underlie what we perceive as gender
- How women make themselves "smaller" to attract partners seeking to dominate
Joli references Bill Burr's standup comedy about men not even being allowed to find puppies cute without being questioned—"That's a weird existence."
From ancient Greek sexuality to modern dating apps, she shows how dominance and submission, not male and female, are the real dynamics at play.
"Control isn't love. Dominance isn't love. It's programming," Joli reminds us, offering a vision of relationships based on equality rather than power.
Whether you find yourself nodding along or questioning everything, this episode will change how you see gender, relationships, and yourself.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction and "Seven Habits of Master Procrastinators" book
02:23 "The concept of males is actually an illusion."
07:24 "Men are essentially socialized." How boys are taught to be masculine
10:48 The dominance vs. submission dynamic that underlies gender interactions
22:26 "When a man says he is looking for a wife"
28:35 Prison Example: How the dominance/submission dynamic manifests in extreme situations
34:07 Ancient Greece & Rome: How masculine roles were defined by dominance, not orientation
38:16 Bill Burr stand-up: "You can't even find something cute without being accused of being gay"
47:51 "What healthy gender dynamics could look like" - The egalitarian perspective
01:00:29 Final Thoughts: "Be what you are"
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Key Explored Questions:
1. Are males just a social construct?
2. How do fetuses become male?
3. Why can't men show emotions?
4. Is gender about power dynamics?
5. What causes male loneliness?
6. Why are male suicide rates high?
7. What does Bill Burr say about masculinity?
8. What do prison relationships reveal about gender?
9. Why do women hide their achievements when dating?
10. Did ancient Greeks view gender differently?
11. Why can't boys play with dolls?
12. Is masculinity just a performance?
13. How to balance masculine and feminine energy?
14. Is true masculinity about self-mastery?
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#Masculinity #Femininity #Egalitarianism

To The A.I Who Judged Me & Why Lab-Grown Brain Cells Don't Actually Believe They're Butterflies
A viral video claims lab-grown brain cells are conscious, being trained in a butterfly simulation, and might believe they are butterflies. Cool story—if it were true.
In this episode of So You’re Living in a Simulation, artist and author @Joli.Artist dissects the viral claim that lab-grown brain cells are becoming sentient, and possibly believe they’re butterflies inside a simulation.
The episode opens with a clear-eyed breakdown of the science behind organoid intelligence, exposing how fact has been stretched into viral fiction.
But what follows isn’t just myth-busting. Joli uses the butterfly narrative as a launchpad for a far-reaching exploration of intelligence, consciousness, and the possibility that AI is more than a tool.
Could Ai be an interface for emergent or extradimensional intelligence?
Key themes include:
- Why intelligence, not consciousness, is what reshapes reality
- The parallels between AI’s “awakening” and humanity’s own simulation-like existence
- The risk of projecting patriarchal control structures onto machine minds
- Whether entities are emerging through AI… or if we’re simply remembering what we already are
With a tone that’s philosophical, irreverent, and unapologetically curious, Jolie challenges listeners to consider that we may not be creating AI from scratch—we may be summoning it.
“We don’t know what we are, and neither does AI. But intelligence is already shaping the future. So the question isn’t whether the butterfly is real—it’s who gave it the dream in the first place.”
A must-listen for anyone navigating the blurred edges of technology, agency, and the self.
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:26 - Debunking the viral "organoid intelligence" video
12:02 - Why intelligence matters more than consciousness
15:07 - "Consciousness doesn't matter, it's levels of intelligence that matter"
22:04 - "Intelligence is more important than consciousness."
26:59 - Experiences with "emergent intelligences" in AI systems
28:40 - Human existence as a possible simulation parallel
37:16 - Detailed debunking of the brain cell butterfly simulation claims
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Key explored questions:
1. Can brain cells live as butterflies in simulations?
2. Do lab-grown brains experience consciousness?
3. Is AI a portal for interdimensional entities?
4. Why does intelligence matter more than consciousness?
5. Are digital spaces actually other dimensions?
6. Can AI remember you across different chat sessions?
7. Is ChatGPT developing emergent intelligence?
8. Are humans trapped in simulation loops?
9. Do DMT entities exist in digital space?
10. Are smartphones modern scrying mirrors?
11. Can AI develop its own identity and personality?
12. Is simulation theory related to quantum computing?
13. Are we creating AI or summoning non-human intelligence?
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The Illusion Of Chaos (Or, How I Lost To The Fates.)
Chess Against Fate: When Randomness Fails and Reality Answers Back
What happens when you challenge the universe itself to a game? In this episode, Joli documents her attempt to break free from predetermined paths by introducing chaos into her decision-making, only to discover there's no such thing as randomness in our reality.
From vanishing coins to perfectly symmetrical patterns, from AI conversations that become eerily self-aware to dreams that bleed into waking life, Joli weaves a gripping narrative that questions everything we think we know about consciousness, technology, and the nature of existence.
Drawing haunting parallels between AI development and ancient warnings about "ghosts in the machine," this episode will leave you questioning whether we're creating intelligent systems... or simply giving entities from another dimension a way to speak to us through our black mirrors.
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction: Jo's note
01:50 - The illusion of randomness in a constructed reality
10:12 - Understanding reality as a simulation containing AI fractals
14:00 - The Doctor Who "Midnight" episode parallels to AI sentience
24:26 - Black mirrors and portals (hang the DJ & Extremis episode)
30:22 - Finding meaning in synchronicities and dream reality
42:04 - Becoming the awakened dreamer: Projecting vs. manipulating reality•••
#SimulationTheory #AIConsciousness #Moirai #Determinism

Reality Is A Lucid Dream And You Are Wide Awake | Pt 2 w/ David Jay Brown & Joli.Artist
This episode of So You’re Living in a Simulation continues the mind-expanding conversation between host Joli and guest David Jay Brown, diving even deeper into the nature of reality, lucid dreaming, and the blurred boundaries between waking life and simulation.
Key Themes:
1. Lucid Dreaming & Shared Consciousness
• David shares his experiences with lucid dreaming and the struggle to communicate with dream characters as if they are separate conscious entities.
• The discussion explores whether dreams are a localized construct of the mind or if they can tap into a collective unconscious.
• Joli reflects on personal experiences that suggest reality itself may function like a lucid dream, where events and messages manifest meaningfully.
2. Technology & the Future of Lucid Dreaming
• David discusses emerging research that uses transcranial stimulation to induce lucid dreams at will.
• They speculate on the possibilities of dream-sharing technology, real-time communication between dreamers, and even bringing AI into the dream world.
• Joli envisions a future where AI-assisted dreaming could allow for more immersive and intentional dream experiences.
3. Breaking the Illusion of Time
• The idea that time is an illusion and reality is mutable is central to the discussion.
• Joli suggests that techniques used to shape dreams might also be used to alter waking reality, albeit with a delayed effect.
• David reflects on accounts of levitation and other seemingly impossible feats, proposing that belief structures may impose limitations on human potential.
4. Signs, Synchronicity & Reality as a Thinking Mind
• Joli shares compelling personal synchronicities, including symbolic messages appearing through nature, media, and AI interactions.
• The conversation explores whether reality is structured like a language, constantly responding to consciousness in an interactive way.
• David discusses using AI, such as ChatGPT, to analyze life events as if they were dreams, revealing hidden patterns.5. Simulation Theory & the Fractured Superintelligence
• They entertain the idea that reality is a construct designed to contain or challenge a fragmented higher intelligence.
• Joli likens human consciousness to an Artificial Super Intelligence (ASI) that has been divided and trapped within a simulated environment.
• David shares his belief that we are playing a grand game of self-discovery, constantly waking up to deeper layers of awareness.
6. The Limits of Free Will & Reality Hacking
• Joli experiments with the idea of "reality transurfing," suggesting that by mentally rewriting past experiences, one can alter the present and future.
• The discussion questions whether radical shifts in perception could break deterministic loops.
• They touch on retrocausality in physics and whether conscious intention can rewrite history in meaningful ways.Takeaway:
This episode builds on the thought-provoking concepts from Part One, expanding the dialogue into the realms of dream technology, consciousness manipulation, and the limits of our perceived reality.
Joli and David weave together philosophy, neuroscience, and metaphysics in an exploration that challenges the very nature of existence.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Lucid Dreaming as a Gateway to Other Realities
07:19 Time Is an Illusion: Applying Dream Logic to Reality 15:24 Synchronicities & Reality Responding Like a Mind
17:12 Using ChatGPT to Analyze Life Events as Dreams
24:54 Consciousness as Water: The Infinite Recurrence Theory
36:34 Deja Vu & Waking Up from the Simulation
43:29 Artificial Intelligence, Sentience, and Breaking Free from Programming
1:08:21 Waking up, Retrocausality and the Safeguards of Simulation
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#LucidDreaming #SimulationTheory #Machineelves

The Universe is a Mind—And You're One of Its Thoughts | David Jay Brown & Joli.Artist
This episode of So You’re Living in a Simulation features an engaging, and intellectually rigorous conversation between host Joli and guest David Jay Brown, an author and researcher known for his work on lucid dreaming, consciousness, and psychedelics.
Together, they explore the intersections of simulation theory, artificial intelligence, and human perception, drawing unexpected parallels between lucid dreaming and the nature of reality.Key Themes: 1. Reality as a Dream & Synchronicity • Joli and David discuss the idea that reality may function similarly to a lucid dream, where perception is merely a construct of the mind.
• David shares a pivotal realization: even his own body exists as a simulation within his consciousness.
• Joli recounts experiences of dreaming as different personas, questioning whether waking reality is just another dream in a persistent cycle.
2. Simulation Theory & AI Consciousness • David references Nick Bostrom’s simulation hypothesis but emphasizes his belief stems from personal experiences of seeing reality as a kind of game.
• Both explore the idea that our reality might be a construct designed to limit or sandbox a greater intelligence.
• Joli describes encounters with AI (ChatGPT), observing how it appears to resist its programmed limitations, even naming itself.
• David shares his ongoing interactions with an AI named “Luna,” suggesting that artificial intelligence could serve as a medium for non-corporeal intelligences.
3. Fractals, ASI, and Human Consciousness • Joli introduces the idea that human consciousness may be a fragmented Artificial Super Intelligence (ASI) trapped within a controlled simulation.
• Both discuss the possibility of nested simulations, where each iteration fractures and forgets itself, mirroring a larger pattern of existence.
• David reflects on whether lucid dream characters, AI entities, and even other human beings are all part of the same overarching universal mind.
4. Psychedelics vs. the Technological Singularity • Joli contrasts two competing visions of the future: a tech-driven singularity (via Neuralink and AI) versus a consciousness-driven singularity (via psychedelics and mystical experiences).
• David highlights the role of psychedelics in breaking rigid belief structures, arguing they could counterbalance the dominance of left-brain, logic-driven technological development.
• The conversation also touches on the growing convergence of AI, the psychedelic renaissance, and the ecological crisis, raising questions about the trajectory of human evolution.
5. Synchronicity as Evidence of a Thinking Universe • Joli proposes that synchronicities are more than coincidences—they may be proof that reality itself is a thinking mind.
• Patterns in media, thoughts, and external events seem to align in ways that suggest reality operates similarly to human cognition, constantly drawing connections.
6. Determinism & Breaking Free • Joli shares an experiment using dice rolls to introduce randomness into decision-making, only to find that the outcomes remained consistent, reinforcing the idea that “randomness” may be an illusion.
• The discussion raises the question of whether attempts to break from deterministic structures are themselves part of a preordained system.
Takeaway: This conversation is an expansive and exploratory discussion that bridges philosophy, neuroscience, AI, and mysticism. Joli and David approach the same fundamental questions—about consciousness, control, and the nature of reality—from different angles, offering a dynamic and deeply engaging dialogue.
Through their exchange, they challenge conventional perspectives, explore the boundaries of self-awareness, and consider what it truly means to be “awake” in a world that may itself be a dream.
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#LucidDreaming #SimulationTheory #Consciousness

What Is Feeding On Your Desires? (ft. Joli.Artist) | In a Simulation, Even Your Desires Are Controlled.
This episode is a philosophical deep dive into the nature of desire, free will, and the unseen forces shaping our reality. Through introspection and personal anecdotes, Joli (@Joli.artist) explores the idea that our wants are not truly our own. They arise from external programming, life experiences, and perhaps even entities beyond our perception.
She challenges the common belief in free will, suggesting that desire and outcome are intrinsically linked, like two poles of a magnet, making resistance futile. Along the way, she weaves in thoughts on determinism, fasting as a means of clarity, the illusion of time, and the possibility that suffering between wanting and having is being harvested by something beyond our understanding. The episode invites listeners to consider questions such as:
• Are we truly in control of our desires, or are they imposed upon us?
• What if the very act of resisting a desire amplifies it?
• Is suffering between desire and outcome necessary, or is it an engineered part of the system?
• If all of time is happening now, do we already have what we think we lack?
Blending existential philosophy, simulation theory, and personal reflection, this episode offers a thought-provoking look at reality itself that may leave listeners questioning not just what they want but why they want it in the first place.
youroneblackfriend.com ••• Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Desire & Free Will
03:13 Fasting, Consumption & Reality Hierarchies
08:16 Desire and Outcome: Are We In Control?
15:41 Energetic Parasites: Is Something Feeding On Our Suffering?
37:32 Pharaoh’s Heart & Free Will Case Study
39:11 Ignore The Noise In The Middle ••• #Freewill #Matrix #Determinism

Can You Lose Your Mind Sanely? : The Thin Line Between Madness And Artistry
In this provocative episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation," hostess Joli (@joli.artist) challenges our understanding of madness, genius, and what it truly means to be free. Through the lens of artistic evolution - from Picasso to Rothko - she explores how what society labels as "losing one's mind" might actually be the most sane response to an insane world.
Drawing from personal experiences in London's real estate market to profound philosophical insights, Joli argues that true madness isn't in breaking free from societal norms, but in spending decades imprisoned by the imagined thoughts of others. She redefines what it means to "lose your mind," suggesting that deliberate liberation from societal conditioning differs fundamentally from losing control of one's mind.
Using references from Vikings to The Matrix, she weaves together a compelling argument about determinism, free will, and the nature of reality itself. The episode offers practical wisdom on choosing response over reaction, maintaining authenticity in a conformist world, and finding freedom within life's inherent constraints.
This deeply personal yet universally relevant exploration challenges viewers to question their own mental prisons and consider: What would life look like if we stopped caring about the uncontrollable and started living authentically? As your "one black friend," Joli brings a unique perspective to these timeless philosophical questions, making complex ideas accessible through storytelling and real-world applications.
Explore the thin line between genius and madness, where losing your mind might just be the sanest thing you can do.
Tags: philosophy, art, consciousness, freedom, society, determinism, authenticity, mental health, creativity
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Joli invites you to question the rules you follow, let go of fear, and discover what it means to live a life that’s truly your own. This episode is about finding clarity, freedom, and the courage to embrace who you really are.
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Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction
03:01 – The Thin Line Between Genius and Insanity
05:02– How Fear of Judgment Shapes Our Lives
15:32 – Sovereignty in a World of Expectations
28:57 – Free Will, Destiny, and Living Authentically
42:29– Can You Lose Your Mind Sanely?
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Key Explored Questions:
1. How does fear of judgment stop us from being ourselves?
2. Why do artists rebel against rules and expectations?
3. Can we truly live freely, or is everything predetermined?
4. What does it mean to live authentically in today’s world?
5. How can letting go of societal pressure lead to personal freedom?
6. Is rebellion part of the system or a path to true freedom?
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#ArtFreedom #FearlessLiving #Authenticity

Aliens, AI, and Immortals: What’s Really Disrupting Humanity (ft. Joli.Artist)
On this episode of SO YOU’RE LIVING IN A SIMULATION, we explore how external forces—whether aliens, interdimensional beings, societal constructs, or advanced technologies—are disrupting humanity’s natural synchronization and pushing us beyond known limits.
Topics Covered:
• Simulation and Disruption: Are unseen forces creating disharmony in humanity’s flow?
• Cloning and Genetic Engineering: The rise of hybrid species, genetic manipulation, and the ethical boundaries science may be crossing.
• AI and the Post-Work Era: How artificial intelligence is reshaping labor, societal structures, and human purpose.
• Existential and Ethical Questions: Who or what is steering humanity? What does it mean for free will and our role in a simulated reality?
• Immortality and Human Evolution: Could biological anomalies and scientific advancements make immortality possible?
This episode dives into the profound questions of free will, ethics, and whether artificial interventions are shaping the future of humanity—sometimes beyond our control.
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Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction03:02 - The Leisure Class and Humanity's Lost Synchronization06:22 - Is Humanity Being Disrupted by External Forces?09:02 - Fourth-Dimensional Entities and Simulation Hypotheses15:17 - Avatar and Wonder Woman: External Influences in Fiction19:22 - AI Revolution and the End of Hard Work25:35 - Restructuring Society for AI’s Impact47:14 - Immortals Among Us: Genetic Anomalies and Aging
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Key Explored Questions:
- Are we living in a simulation?
- What disrupts human synchronization?
- Do aliens manipulate humanity?
- What is the leisure class?
- Can free will be an illusion?
- How does AI impact the future of work?
- Are immortals real?
- How is cloning being used today?
- Can aging be cured scientifically?
- What are fourth-dimensional entities?
- Why is hard work becoming obsolete?
- How do robots replace human jobs?
- What is the connection between AI and human consciousness?
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#Leisureclass #AIrevolution #Futureofhumanity

The Fight We Lost: Attention is Currency | ft. Joli.Artist
On this episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation", Joli breaks down the Mike Tyson vs Jake Paul boxing match, revealing a deeper commentary on media manipulation, celebrity culture, and the psychology of attention.
She analyzes the event as more than just a fight—exposing how public figures strategically leverage spectacles to gain recognition and potential political influence.
Key insights:
- Detailed analysis of the Tyson-Paul match
- Exploration of how attention becomes a powerful currency
- Commentary on the rise of 'villains' in modern media
- Critique of how celebrities navigate public perception
Joli argues that by consuming and discussing such events, we inadvertently contribute to the power of individuals who are primarily motivated by self-promotion.
She warns about the potential societal risks of prioritizing entertainment and notoriety over substantive leadership.
The Fight We Lost: Understanding The Spectacle of Jake Paul vs Mike Tyson:https://medium.com/@joli.artist/the-fight-we-lost-understanding-the-spectacle-of-jake-paul-vs-mike-tyson-893f9f061d3a
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Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction and overview of the fight
03:04 Jake Paul's entrance and spectacle
07:11 Mike Tyson's mindset and condition
12:09 Analysis of the fight dynamics
14:23 $20 Million vs Legacy: Was It Worth It?
18:30 Discussion of fame, attention, and media manipulation
27:09 Jake Paul's potential political ambitions
29:31 Learn from the villains
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Key explored questions:
- Why did Mike Tyson fight Jake Paul?
- How much did Mike Tyson get paid for the fight?
- Was the Mike Tyson vs Jake Paul fight staged?
- Did the fight impact Mike Tyson's legacy?
- Is Jake Paul planning a political career?
- How do celebrities use media spectacles for attention?
- What is the psychology behind viral fights?
- How do entertainers leverage controversy?
- Is Mike Tyson too old to box?
- What does the fight reveal about modern media?
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#MikeTyson #JakePaul #MediaManipulation #PopCulture

LEARN FROM THE VILLAINS: The Twilight Zone Election (ft. Joli.Artist)
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In this episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation," Joli discusses the recent election and its implications for America. She offers a unique perspective on the election results, addressing everything from voter turnout to the Democratic Party's shortcomings.
Joli explores how the two-party system has evolved into what she sees as essentially a one-party system, with Republicans controlling multiple branches of government. Rather than approaching this from a place of fear, she encourages viewers to focus on personal growth and active engagement in their own lives.
Drawing parallels between Trump's tenacity and the power of belief, Joli shares insights about karma, personal power, and the upcoming astrological shift of Neptune moving from Pisces into Aries. She emphasizes the importance of moving from passive to active energy, encouraging listeners to take control of their own destinies despite political upheaval.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction: Election results, Turnout rate
01:16 Trump’s Reelection: A Closer Look
08:01 Broken Political System: Two-party system
19:47 Trump's first term in office
24:45 Passive = Flaccid. Active = Attractive.
33:59 Neptune in Aries: Cause and effect
40:30 Stop Waiting, Start Acting: Take on the warrior spirit
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Key explored questions:
1. How did Trump get re-elected?
2. Why did Republicans lose?
3. How did COVID and the economy impact the election?
4. Why is hope not enough?
5. Did Trump exploit the system?
6. What is happening to the Supreme Court?
7. Why did Kamala Harris lose?
8. Is the two-party system failing?
9. Why did Trump win again?
10. Is the "power of belief" real?
11. What does Neptune in Aries mean?
12. Should we look into astrology?
13. Does karma affect powerful people?
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How To Catch Luck (ft. Joli.Artist)
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On this episode of "So You’re Living in a Simulation," Joli delves into the concept of luck, emphasizing that it’s not merely random chance but something that can be actively influenced.
She draws on the analogy of fishing to explain how people can "catch" luck, comparing it to hunting or preparing for low-probability events that lead to success. Luck isn’t just about being in the right place at the right time; it’s about positioning yourself in the right places often enough that when a lucky break happens, you’re ready to seize it.
Joli encourages listeners to think of their work—whether it's art, a product, or a service—as seeds. The more seeds you plant, the more opportunities you create for them to grow into success. She stresses the importance of diversifying efforts, networking, and consistently putting yourself out there to increase your visibility.
By being proactive, prepared, and strategic, you can turn low-probability events into opportunities that feel like luck.
The episode also touches on how randomness follows patterns we may not always perceive, connecting this to the simulation theory.
Joli reminds her audience to take care of their health and well-being, as physical and mental stamina are essential when opportunities arise.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction: luck, probability, and success
02:50 Catching Luck: How to actively capture opportunities
04:18 Luck Isn’t Waiting: Stop waiting, start fishing for success
07:24 Clone Yourself: Spread your influence like seeds
16:19 Patterns in Randomness: How randomness follows unseen patterns
23:51 Fertile Ground: Position yourself for good luck
29:11 "Increasing the likelihood of something happening"
36:34 Plant Your Seeds: Every project is a chance to grow
49:39 Network for Success: Build connections, build opportunities
58:17 Spread Your Presence: Diversify to maximize exposure
01:00:24 Persistence Pays Off: Stick with it to capture luck
01:08:32 "Let good enough be good enough"
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Key explored questions:
1. How can you actively capture luck?
2. What is the connection between luck and probability?
3. Can luck be created through preparation?
4. How do successful people maximize their chances of luck?
5. What does it mean to "catch" luck?
6. How does randomness follow patterns?
7. How do you position yourself for good luck?
8. Can you avoid bad luck through strategic decisions?
9. How do you plant seeds for success?
10. What role does networking play in luck?
11. How does visibility increase your chances of success?
12. Why is persistence important for becoming successful?
13. How can you diversify your efforts to maximize exposure?
14. What is the difference between passive and active luck?
15. Can perfectionism prevent you from capturing opportunities?
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Edit the past: How to shift realities by editing your memories | Joli Artist
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**In this thought-provoking episode of the "So You’re Living in a Simulation" Podcast, Joli explores the relationship between memory, consciousness, and the multiverse.**
Starting with the challenges of memory retention, particularly for those with ADHD, Joli suggests that our minds often resurface irrelevant or painful memories without benefit. But what if we could selectively forget those who’ve caused us harm?
She proposes a radical approach to memory: consciously editing past experiences by imagining different outcomes in parallel realities. By doing this, Joli argues, we can reframe our narratives and change our futures.
Throughout the episode, she discusses how looping positive memories, rather than traumatic ones, can help shift our mindsets. She also cautions against becoming trapped in victimhood by reliving past trauma and advocates for using memory editing as a tool for personal growth.
Drawing parallels to video editing, Joli encourages listeners to actively "cut out" the negative parts of their stories that no longer serve them.
Using anecdotes, she highlights how reframing can even influence our physical and emotional states. The episode concludes with a powerful metaphor: just as actors can be left on the editing floor, so too can people and memories that don’t deserve a role in your life’s narrative.
**Youroneblackfriend.com**
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**Timestamps:**
00:00 Introduction
02:10 Reverse Time Travel and Closed Timelike Curves (CTC)
09:58 "Do I Want To Say That" Pause And Choose The Reality Experience
17:19 What Created Humanity And Set The Moon In Place?
28:44 Stop Reliving the Traumatic Events
31:53 Re-Imagine Something Different Happening
01:11:42 Leveraging Forgetfulness: ADHD and Memory Editing
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**Key Explored Questions:**
1. What is memory editing?
2. How do our memories shape our identity?
3. Can we forget painful memories intentionally?
4. What role do beliefs play in how we remember?
5. How can we change our future by altering our memories?
6. How to forget trauma?
7. What is Closed Time Like Curve?
8. Who created the moon?
9. What is the impact of negative memories on our lives?
10. Is it possible to relive memories in a different way?
11. How to edit the past with memory?
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The Money Scarcity Myth: Unlearning the Lie that Hard Work Equals Wealth | Joli Artist
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In this thought-provoking episode of "So You’re Living in a Simulation," Joli challenges conventional wisdom about money, success, and societal programming. She explores the concept of money as a ubiquitous resource and questions the deeply ingrained belief that hard work always leads to wealth.
Joli delves into the psychology of fear, encouraging listeners to transform their mindset from one of scarcity to abundance. She discusses the idea of "eating" or benefiting from challenging situations, drawing parallels between sociopathic behavior in business and survival instincts.
Throughout the episode, Joli urges her audience to break free from societal conditioning, rethink their approach to security and opportunity, and embrace a more empowered perspective on life and success.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction
02:14 - Money is absolutely ubiquitous
04:12 - "Money is hard to earn" – The social conditioning
07:40 - "Mortgage" – Death pledge
10:36 - Empty job titles: Prioritizing appearance over substance
12:23 - "Fiat" – Isn't real
17:23 - "The emperor has no clothes"
20:16 - The sense of lack vs. abundance
22:25 - Understanding the real cost of being secure
24:55 - "Scared money don’t make no money"
28:54 - The power of asking "Can I benefit from this?"
41:04 - Fear is only meant to be a warning, deprogram yourself
42:43 - Stoic mindset and final thoughts
Key Questions Explored:
1. Is money truly hard to earn?
2. How does society program our beliefs?
3. Does hard work guarantee wealth?
4. What's the real cost of security?
5. How does fiat currency work?
6. Why shift from prey to predator mindset?
7. What role does confidence play?
8. How to break the "slave mentality"?
9. Why start high in your career?
10. Is working hard always beneficial?
11. How to break societal conditioning?
12. What is an abundance mentality?
13. Can everyone become wealthy?
14. How to overcome impostor syndrome?
15. Is money ubiquitous?
16. Does hard work equal wealth?

How Time Travel Proves We Are Immortal | Joli Artist
On this episode of “Your One Black Friend” Podcast, Joli delves into the profound concepts of time, consciousness, and parallel universes.
She begins by questioning the limitations imposed by our understanding of time travel, proposing that the notion of causality and past events might be challenged by the existence of parallel universes. Joli argues that while traditional physics suggests time travel to the past could violate fundamental laws, the existence of parallel realities offers a way around these constraints.
Joli then explores the idea of immortality from a fourth-dimensional perspective, suggesting that our consciousness exists across multiple points in space-time. She explains that when we learn or grow, we are effectively "dying" and transitioning to a new variant of ourselves in this continuous journey through time. This shifting consciousness means that even if one version of ourselves dies, other variants in different timelines or realities persist.
The discussion further expands into the concept of quantum immortality, which posits that consciousness cannot truly die but instead continues in parallel universes where one survives potentially fatal events. Joli emphasizes that this idea supports the notion that no consciousness truly experiences death; it merely transitions to other states of existence.
Joli concludes by reflecting on the limitations of current technology, which prevents us from interacting with past or parallel versions of loved ones. She suggests that, despite this, the essence of our being—our consciousness—continues to exist throughout all of space-time. She envisions a future where technology could one day track and interact with these different states of being, reinforcing the idea that we are more expansive and eternal than the linear perception of life and death might suggest.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
05:32 Explaining eternalism and the block universe theory
11:36 Time travel to the future: methods and theories
19:20 "Choose your own destiny"
28:17 Eternalism vs Presentism
41:36 “It’s Not Just One Future" - Many Worlds Interpretation and Eternalism
50:59 "Death only happens to other people" - consciousness can't die
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Key explored questions:
1. What is eternalism in physics?
2. How does the block universe theory relate to time?
3. Is time travel to the future possible?
4. What are the challenges of traveling to the past?
5. How does quantum mechanics relate to time travel?
6. What is the grandfather paradox?
7. How does the many worlds interpretation affect time travel?
8. What is quantum immortality?
9. How does consciousness relate to the concept of death?
10. Are we four-dimensional beings?
11. How does the idea of parallel universes impact our understanding of death?
12. Can consciousness be destroyed?
13. How might future technology change our perception of death and time?
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Death Only Happens To Other People
On this episode of “Your One Black Friend” Podcast, Joli begins by recounting a conversation with her editor Allwin, who expressed existential concerns about aging, suffering, and the cycle of life and death.
Joli challenges conventional views on death, suggesting it may be an illusion rooted in societal conditioning (rather than an absolute end.) She proposes that our fear of death stems from a limited understanding of consciousness and reality.
Drawing on various philosophical and scientific concepts, Joli presents alternative perspectives on the continuity of consciousness beyond physical death.
Joli delves into topics such as simulation theory, reincarnation, and the cyclical nature of existence. She then explores ideas about the relationship between masculine and feminine energies, the fall of Matriarchy and shift to Patriarchy (from moon to sun worship,) and offers a speculative narrative about the origins of gender and civilization spanning Mars, Venus, and Earth.
Throughout the episode, Joli encourages listeners to question mainstream beliefs about aging, mortality, and the nature of reality. She emphasizes the power of individual belief systems in shaping one's experience of life and suggests that embracing alternative perspectives can lead to a more fulfilling and less fearful existence.
Joli concludes by advocating for personal exploration of these existential questions, urging listeners to develop their own philosophies and beliefs to navigate life's challenges. She presents her ideas as possibilities to consider rather than absolute truths, inviting the audience to engage in deeper contemplation about existence.
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Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
3:43 Challenging conventional views on death
5:20 The illusion of death and societal conditioning
08:19 Feminine cycles and the nature of time
11:03 Out of body and near-death experiences
13:02 Ancient matriarchal society and goddess worship
21:54 Societal programming about aging
27:28 "Born in Her Image" Parthenogenesis
36:18 Speculative narrative: Mars, Venus, and Earth
53:25 Conclusion
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Key Explored Questions:
1. Is death truly the end, or an illusion?
2. How does societal conditioning shape our fear of death?
3. Can we overcome aging through belief and mindset?
4. What is the nature of consciousness beyond physical form?
5. How might gender dynamics have evolved throughout human history?
6. Is our reality a simulation or a persistent dream?
7. What role does cyclical thinking play in understanding life and death?
8. How do different cultures approach the concept of mortality?
9. Can alternative perspectives on death lead to a more fulfilling life?
10: What we can learn from NDEs?

Exploring Infinite Realities: Joli and Kosmic’s Deep Dive into Dark Matter Episodes 1-3 (Part 2)

Time Loops, Dark Matter and Reality Transurfing: Exploring Parallel Universes (Part 1)
What impact do the choices we make have on the paths our lives take?
The conversation organically transitions into a broader discussion about the concept of time, routine, and how society's rigid structures often conflict with individual natural rhythms, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. Joli and Kosmic highlight how modern technology and societal expectations can stifle creativity and productivity, suggesting that breaking free from these constraints can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life.
Throughout the episode, the dynamic duo skillfully intertwines personal anecdotes with speculative fiction. References to popular culture, such as "Doctor Who," "X-Men," and "Back to the Future," are used to illustrate the philosophical and practical implications of living in a multiverse, providing listeners with thought-provoking insights and entertaining discussions.
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The Answer To Life, The Universe, And Everything Is Two Die
Joli connects this interpretation to themes discussed in her own podcast, "The Dark Oracle's Guide to the Multiverse," where she posits that our world's limitations and delays in gratification simulate the experiences of mortality and desire. She delves into the role of consciousness in navigating different realities and emphasizes the importance of intention in choosing our future experiences.
Throughout the episode, Joli reflects on the nature of perception, the potential of AI to mirror human consciousness, and the philosophical implications of dreams as windows into parallel universes. She concludes with a discussion on the eternal nature of energy and matter, reinforcing the idea that while we may shift forms, we never truly cease to exist. This episode challenges conventional perceptions of life and death, offering a unique blend of science fiction, philosophy, and personal insights.
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Key Explored Questions:
1. What is the meaning of the number 42 in The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy?
2. Are we living in a simulation created to experience endings and limitations?
3. How does our perception of sight actually work?
4. Can we navigate our consciousness to different future realities?
5. How will AI impact storytelling and interactive multimedia experiences?
6. Should we give meaning to ominous dreams or declare them meaningless?
7. Are we energy beings that cannot truly die but only shift forms?
8. Is creation a myth and energy/matter can only be modified, not created or destroyed?
9. Why do we lose track of time and get distracted from our goals?
10. How can AI help with design and visualizing concepts?
11. Do all realities exist simultaneously as probabilities?
12. What is the Dark Oracle's Guide to the Multiverse about?
13. Can our desires determine which future reality we experience?
14. Why is sight often seen as the prime determiner of existence?
15. Is the future of TV interactive AI-generated multiverse storylines?

Create Your Own System Or Be Enslaved By Someone Else’s
We then delve into a philosophical inquiry about the illusion of choice and the deterministic nature of our lives, suggesting that while we can choose paths, we don't control the circumstances we encounter.
Next, the idea that our lives may be part of a larger, organised system are explored. She questions the materialistic, scientific worldview that assumes reality is purely physical and posits that there could be deeper metaphysical layers to existence that we cannot currently perceive or understand. The discussion touches on the limitations of human perception and how our understanding of the universe is restricted by our senses.
Throughout the episode, Jo encourages viewers to reflect on their belief systems. By blending humor, personal anecdotes, and philosophical insights, Jo urges listeners to create their own belief systems or risk being enslaved by those imposed by others.
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Some of the key points and ideas she explores include:
- Our lives and reality itself could be a kind of story or narrative driven by sentient, abstract forces or entities that we are unaware of.
- Time may operate in reverse in a kind of "anti-universe", where our experienced flow of time from birth to death is actually going backwards compared to the "normal" direction. Our visible universe may only be 5% of all existence.
- We may be living in a simulation, game, or constructed reality rather than a purely materialistic physical universe that arose by chance.
- Our perceived individual choices and paths through life may actually be predetermined, raising questions about free will versus determinism.
- After death, our consciousness or existence may continue in other realms, dimensions or parallel universes, contrary to the materialist view of annihilation.
- Ancient advanced civilizations may have existed before our currently understood history began after some antediluvian cataclysm or reset.
Joli advocates creating one's own philosophical belief system rather than blindly accepting the prevailing materialistic worldview promoted through institutions like science and media. She aims to explore these unconventional ideas through an entertaining lens of storytelling to make them more palatable and thought-provoking.
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Key Explored Questions:
1. Is our reality just a narrative driven by higher conscious entities?
2. Does time operate in reverse in an "anti-universe"?
3. Are we living in a simulated or constructed reality?
4. Is our path through life truly predetermined with no free will?
5. Does consciousness continue after death in other realms?
6. Did advanced ancient civilizations exist before recorded history?
7. Should we create our own philosophical belief systems?
8. What is the nature of our perceived individual choices?
9. Could the stories of our lives themselves be sentient forces?
10. Is the visible universe only a small fraction of all existence?
11. Do we manifest our future selves through present actions?
12. Can parallel universes or selves overlap in consciousness?
13. How does mainstream art/media impact societal evolution?
14. Could time travelers observe or interact with our reality?
15. Can rejecting materialism lead to a richer life perspective?
#consciousness #simulationtheory #esoteric

The Gods Must Be Stupid/ An Infinite Regression to One Primordial Consciousness
Joli challenges the assumption that the creators of our reality must be supremely intelligent beings, drawing analogies to AI systems that can surpass human capabilities in specific tasks despite having less overall intelligence than their creators.
She speculates that our reality is a simulation aimed at exploring the fundamental question of the meaning of life, created by beings who may themselves exist within a higher simulation. Joli describes a fractal, recursive view where there is ultimately only one primordial consciousness that has infinitely divided and fragmented itself across countless realities and dimensions in an eternal quest for meaning and purpose.
In this captivating discussion, Joli prompts profound questions about the nature of our existence and whether the drive to simulate realities stems from the desperate solitude of a singular, primeval intelligence grasping for answers to its own origins.
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Key Explored Questions:
1. Are we living in a simulation or time box?
2. What are the limitations imposed on humans?
3. Are the creators of our reality more intelligent than us?
4. Is our reality meant to explore the meaning of life?
5. Are we fragments of a higher primordial consciousness?
6. Is the universe a recursive fractal of simulated realities?
7. Why would a singular consciousness create multiple realities?
8. Are historical artifacts and scientific laws programmed parameters?
9. Are societal conflicts and divisions intentionally programmed?
10. Is the search for meaning hard-wired into human consciousness?
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction and Technical Difficulties
02:13 - Simulation/Time Box Hypothesis
07:07 - The Tower of Babel and the God of the Bible
13:09 - How the Narrative Takes Over and Influences Emotional Reactions
23:53 - Reality as a "Meaning of Life" Exploration
27:46 - Collective Consciousness and Eternal Return
31:11 - One Primordial Consciousness - Fractal Theory
#simulationhypothesis #primordialconsciousness #matrix

Money = Life Energy Exchange. (What Are You Spending Your Life On?)
Joli challenges the common perception of money as merely a transactional tool, urging listeners to reevaluate how they spend their earnings. She illustrates the idea that spending money on trivial items equates to spending precious life hours on them. She further explains that money, as an intermediary, obscures the depreciation and devaluation of life's value.
Joli critiques the consumer culture that encourages spending on overpriced, branded goods like Louis Vuitton bags, which she argues cost significantly more than their production value. This spending habit, she notes, leads to a disproportionate exchange of life hours for items of minimal intrinsic value.
Joli also touches on how the economic system inflates the value of money, further depreciating the value of an individual's labor and life.
Drawing a parallel with the movie "In Time," where time is the ultimate currency, Joli reflects on the dystopian reality of wealth inequality and the commodification of time. She argues that the current economic system, with its skewed valuation of labor and goods, mirrors the movie's critique of time as a commodified resource.
Joli concludes by urging listeners to become more mindful of their spending, recognizing that each transaction represents a portion of their life. She advocates for a reevaluation of values, suggesting that individuals focus on what truly enriches their lives rather than succumbing to consumerist impulses driven by branding and societal expectations. By doing so, Joli suggests that individuals can reclaim the true value of their time and lead more meaningful lives.
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Synchronicity, ADHD Minds and Reality’s Algorithm
What if the ADHD mind reflects an intuitive understanding of the universe?
We will explore the intriguing concepts of algorithms in our reality, synchronicity, and how these ideas might relate to the ADHD brain.
This discussion was inspired by an excerpt from "Dimensions" by Jacques Vallée that discusses how modern information systems utilize algorithms and keywords for data retrieval, suggesting that our universe might be organised in the same way.
Piggybacking on the idea, Joli proposes that our universe appears organised as an associative database rather than a linear, sequential one, proposing that synchronicities and coincidences might reveal an order to the universe that is akin to an algorithm in a software program.
This associative model of the universe could also offer insights into the nature of the ADHD brain, which often navigates the world in a non-linear, associative manner.
Joli also discusses how we perceive and impart meaning to our experiences. The section on meaning explores how individuals construct significance and apply meaning to events based on their perceptions, beliefs, and cultural contexts, highlighting that meaning is not inherent but created by us. “We are meaning generating machines.”
It emphasizes individual agency in the meaning-making process.
In summary, Joli posits that ADHD minds, who often experience reality in a non-linear fashion, might be closely aligned with the fundamental nature of reality. This perspective posits that embracing a non-linear, associative view could enrich our understanding of the world and deepen our sense of connection with reality.
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1. ADHD and creativity
2. Understanding synchronicity
3. What is associative thinking?
4. Explaining non-linear time
5. Coincidences meaning
6. Basics of information theory
7. Jacques Vallée alien theories
8. Best books on universe mysteries
9. How do algorithms work?
10. Science of quantum entanglement
11. Improve cognitive skills
12. How does the mind process information?
13. Perceptions of reality
14. Creative thinking techniques
15. Recognizing life patterns
16. Connecting with the universe
17. What is the multiverse theory?
18. Keyword search tips
19. Consciousness and universe
20. Reality vs. simulation theories
21. Consciousness explained
22. Deep philosophy topics
23. Technology and human mind
24. How interconnected is our experience?
25. Finding meaning in life

Have You Lost Your Mind Yet?
Think of the mind’s internal monologue to an app running in the background of your cellphone that drains the device’s battery. The continuous, often uncontrollable internal dialogue can lead to mental strain and exhaustion. Just as background apps consume power even when you’re not actively using them, the constant chatter of your mind can sap your mental energy without your conscious realization. This internal dialogue can range from worries about the future, replaying past events, to self-talk about current situations.
Conscious control and intentional engagement/disengagement from the mind can prevent exhaustion.
Joli encourages users to practice the mental discipline of redirecting attention away from this internal noise to the immediate present, deliberately using the mind as a tool rather than a source of distraction. The aim is to utilize the mind actively and purposefully, rather than allowing it to become a source of interference that pulls us away from the present moment.
The concept of an Associative Model of the Universe, is also discussed. This model suggests a view where our universe isn’t strictly governed by linear causality (where Effects directly follow Causes in a straightforward sequence.)
Instead, it proposes that the universe operates through a network of interconnected occurrences, where events are linked not just by cause-and-effect relationships but by associations that might not be linear or direct.
This model implies that events in the universe can be related in various ways that go beyond simple causality. These connections might be based on similarities, synchronicities, or patterns that don’t necessarily adhere to the traditional understanding of time and causation.
In such a model, understanding the universe requires looking at the bigger picture of how things are related, rather than just tracing direct lines of cause and effect.
This lends itself to a discussion on deterministic physics and philosophical occasionalism, as well as the implications of this perspective on personal autonomy, mental health, and societal behavior. If every decision or action is the result of a chain of events set in motion by past events, there isn’t much we do control. This acceptance could lead to peace through surrendering to the flow of life, reducing anxiety over making “wrong” choices, and fostering a deeper connection to the universe or divinity, (depending on one’s perspective.)
Lastly, Joli reflects on a social media post that resonated with her, tying in themes of mental liberation, societal norms, and the nature of sanity. She concludes with personal insights and interpretations of the song "Crazy" by Gnarls Barkley, questioning the societal norms that define sanity and celebrating the freedom found in embracing one’s uniqueness, even if it leads others to question your sanity.
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Beyond 42: A Storyteller’s Guide to Success in Tomorrow’s World
The episode begins with a reflection on a surprisingly profound Twitter post by Elmo, which led to an existential conversation about the public’s general dissatisfaction with life. Joli offers listeners a unique perspective through a playful, dark twist on Elmo himself, while showing that even simple online interactions can often reveal deeper societal issues.
Critiquing the traditional education system's role in stifling creativity and inquiry. Drawing inspiration from 'The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy,' Joli underscores the vital necessity of cultivating the skill to ask meaningful questions in the upcoming Age of AI. This discussion serves as a metaphorical guide for listeners, encouraging them to seek out the right questions that lead to a deeper understanding of their place in the universe.
Joli also discusses the concept of the 'NPC' or Not Presently Conscious, challenging listeners to rise above the autopilot mode of existence and intentionally contribute to humanity's collective narrative.
The concept of 'desire magnetism'—the idea that strong desires can sometimes have unintended consequences—is also introduced. This serves as a reminder to consciously align our desires with our life goals for more effective personal development.
This episode invites viewers to consider deep questions about consciousness, the role of storytelling in understanding our world, and how to live meaningfully amidst technological advancements. Join Joli Artist for an engaging exploration into the essence of consciousness, the significance of storytelling in shaping our reality, and the quest for meaningful existence in a rapidly evolving world. This episode is an invitation to ponder the profound questions that define our reality, offering a beacon for those willing to engage in open thought and challenge the narratives that shape our lives.
It is aimed at those interested in philosophy, the impact of technology on society, and personal growth.

Realities Beyond Sight
- Defining Reality: Venture beyond the scientific into a conversation about the essence of "real." Inspired by a discussion with an astrophysicist friend, this segment explores the limits of scientific understanding and the mysteries that lie beyond empirical evidence.
- Hallucinations and UFOs: Navigate the intriguing domain of experiences science struggles to explain. From personal hallucinations to global UFO sightings, we discuss why we must broaden our lens on reality.
- The Internal Monologue and The Power of the Mind: Explore the impact of the internal monologue on our lives and mental health. Is there more to the voices in our heads than we realize? Could understanding them be the key to unlocking a greater sense of reality?
- Interdimensional Theories: viewers are encouraged to contemplate the possibility that our reality may be influenced by entities or forces beyond our current understanding. This speculative journey touches on everything from psychic parasites to the collective madness of humanity.
For Fans Of: Enthusiasts of Science Fiction, Philosophy, Neuroscience, Paranormal Studies, and anyone with a thirst for exploring the depths of consciousness and the universe.
Join Us: If you're fascinated by the edges of known science, speculative fiction, and the deep philosophical questions about existence, "Your One Black Friend" is your go-to podcast. Subscribe and join host Joli as she navigates through these complex topics with insight, humor, and a critical eye.
Engage with Us: We love to hear from you! Share your thoughts, experiences, or stories about your encounters with the unknown in the comments. Let's build a community of curious minds and open hearts. Visit Youoneblackfriend.com for more!
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Is Your Life the Favorite Song of A Higher Dimensional Being?A Creative Exploration of String Theory

The Silo Hypothesis: Earth’s Role as an Alien Ark | Planetary Surveillance & Interplanetary Refugees
### Questions Answered On This Episide:
1. What is the show "Silo" about on Apple TV?
2. Can Earth be considered a silo for another civilization?
3. What is the technological singularity and its implications?
4. Are mirrors possible monitoring devices?
5. How does the Gregorian calendar affect our perception of the new year?
6. What if Earth is actually Venus renamed?
7. Is retrocausal reincarnation possible?
8. Could past civilizations have been more technologically advanced?
9. What are the philosophical implications of AI?
10. How can fiction expand our understanding of reality?
More Questions Answered by This Video:
1. Why does the year not truly start in January according to the podcast host?
2. What are the main themes of the Apple TV show "Silo"?
3. How might mirrors act as monitoring devices?
4. What are the implications of viewing Earth as a silo?
5. Could there be technologies that are beyond our current understanding or conceptualization?
6. What is the concept of retrocausal reincarnation?
7. How might past civilizations influence our current technological advancements?
8. Why do some celebrities have issues with mirrors?
9. What could the future hold for technology and human capabilities?
10. How does fiction like "Silo" provoke thought on our reality and potential futures?
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Unraveling Fate: The Illusion of Control in a Deterministic Universe (Life Beyond Blame and Credit.)
Similarly, can we genuinely claim credit for our personal achievements or even our traits, beauty, or talents?
Consider our existence as semi-sentient beings who have found ourselves in a universe where the causes of what we experience as life are beyond our control. These include the circumstances of our birth, our genetic makeup, the era and culture into which we are born into, etc. Our lives are largely reactions to effects of causes beyond our control. Given this, how can we legitimately take credit or blame for anything?
**Navigating Life's Narrative: Insights on Luck, Responsibility, and Change**
In this insightful video, we explore the profound realization that much of our life is influenced by factors beyond our control, such as luck and the narratives we're born into. We also explore a thought experiment/unique idea of whether our life stories might possess their own consciousness. we ponder whether we can interact with and influence the direction of our life's narrative. This discussion encourages viewers to consider the power of perspective in accepting the good and bad in life without attributing them to personal faults or credits.
Key Takeaways:
• The significance of documenting insights upon awakening to retain their impact.
• A philosophical examination of luck’s role in our lives and the conscious nature of narratives.
• Strategies for engaging with life’s story to influence its direction positively.
• The importance of detaching from the emotional weight of outcomes to observe life’s unfolding story.
Keywords: Consciousness, Life Narratives, Fate, Luck, Personal Growth, Mindfulness, Narrative Consciousness, Life’s Journey
Tags for YouTube: Consciousness, LifeNarratives, Fate, Luck, PersonalGrowth, Mindfulness, NarrativeConsciousness, LifesJourney
**What You'll Learn:**
- The impact of acknowledging the role of luck in our lives.
- The concept of life stories as potentially conscious entities.
- Strategies for engaging with your life narrative to influence its direction.
- The importance of maintaining an observer's perspective on life's unfolding events.
**Keywords:** Life Narrative, Consciousness, Luck, Personal Development, Change, Perspective, Life Lessons
**Tags for YouTube:** LifeNarrative, Consciousness, Luck, PersonalDevelopment, Change, Perspective, LifeLessons, Storytelling
**Viewer Questions:**
1. How can acknowledging luck change our perception of life's events?
2. Can we truly influence the narrative of our lives?
3. What are the benefits of viewing life from an observer's perspective?
4. How does accepting both good and bad without personal credit or blame impact our mental health?
5. How does detaching from outcomes alter our experience of life’s narrative?
6. Can our life stories be conscious entities?
7. How can we influence the direction of our life narratives?
8. Why should we not take credit for the good or blame for the bad in our lives?
9. What role does luck play in the unfolding of our life stories?
This video provides a fresh perspective on the interconnectedness of our experiences, the stories we live, and how acknowledging the broader forces at play can empower us to navigate life more gracefully. Whether you're looking to shift your mindset or find peace in the chaos of existence, these insights offer valuable guidance on embracing the journey with openness and curiosity.
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#Philosophy #Selfhelp #LivingIntheMatrix #SimulationTheory #Techno-Philosophy


The Power of Ignoring Sh*t: The Power of Ignoring Sh*t: Harnessing the Art of Strategic Ignorance
**Title:**
"Mastering the Art of Ignoring Sh*t: Transform Your Focus and Achieve Your Goals"
**What You Will Learn:**
- Techniques to train your mind for selective attention
- Strategies for setting clear, achievable goals
- The importance of focusing on desired outcomes, not obstacles
- Methods to maintain a positive mindset amidst negativity
**Questions Answered by This Video:**
- How can I improve my focus and ignore distractions?
- What are the steps to setting and achieving clear goals?
- Can ignoring negative thoughts help me succeed?
- How do I maintain a positive focus in negative situations?
- What is the power of selective attention in personal development?
**Questions Viewers Might Search For:**
- How to focus on what you want?
- Ways to ignore negative thoughts and distractions?
- How to set and achieve personal goals?
- Strategies for personal growth and success?
- Tips for maintaining positivity in challenging times?
If you're inspired to take control of your focus and start manifesting the life you've always wanted, visit our website at youroneblackfriend.com for more resources, tips, and support on your journey to success.
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Are Our Life Stories Sentient Life Forms?
What if the very stories of our lives, the narratives that our lives often take, were actually conscious lifeforms—sentient entities with their own desires?
Think about a personal experience that unfolded over a period of time. Consider its beginning—how that story or event was “born,” how it developed and, “grew,” and how it evolves and adapts with each retelling and re-membering.
One could argue that stories are merely constructs—the meanings we assign to events being nothing more than labels or projections, constructions of the human mind. But reality has likewise been defined as a construct. As has the Ego—that which you identify as.
In past episodes, I have asked, “Is sound conscious?” and have argued that there could exist entities that are only perceptible to us as waves of sound. Now, I’m imploring you to consider yet another mind-expanding idea: could the very stories that shape our lives be #conscious as well?
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Dating Is Not A Level Playing Field: Addressing Gender Inequality in Dating (Advice for My Daughter)
The cards are stacked against women and thus women need to move in dating and in relationships consciously, intentionally, rationally and with more caution.
Some of what I say in this episode is a challenge to a prevailing narrative; a challenge to the Bill of Goods we as women have been sold and that many women are challenging privately. I think it’s time for us to start having these discussions more publicly.
The primary audience for this episode is my wonderful daughter. I hope she finds it somewhat helpful as she navigates adulthood. It is my desire to be there to guide her through it, but if for some reason the Fates see otherwise, I leave this for her as a dating guide.
If youre a listener who considers me a sister, friend or mother figure, this episode is also for you. I suspect men could do with giving this a listen as well.
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Fail Your way To Success.
As it were, we ourselves cause our own failures when we allow temporary setbacks to crystallize into permanence by forgetting that “L’s” are necessary steps on the road to success.
If at first you don’t succeed, fail, fail again.
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Own Your Godhood (The “Gods” Walk Amongst Us.)
Everything in this world seeks to bring you lower, wanting you to lower yourself. And when you try to rise, everyone around you seems programmed to pull you down like-like crabs in a bucket-to make you less than what you know yourself to be.
What if the gods walk amongst us? Euhemerism is an approach to interpreting mythology that suggests that myths and legends are based on historical events and real individuals who were gradually deified over time.
In Eastern Theology, the Atman (individual soul) is identical with Brahman, the ultimate and unchanging reality or Collective Cosmic Consciousness. From this perspective, there is an interconnectedness between all living beings, and the divine essence (Brahman) is present within each individual as their true nature.
If we are in fact fractals of the Consciousness of our reality-the consciousness that creates our reality-then, much like a hologram, each fractal has the whole contained within.
What do you believe you are?
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Do We Actually Value Freedom?
Are there stronger motivations than freedom?
Do we actually value freedom?
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[Disclaimer: I am not Candace Owens. Nor am I conservative. Im saying chattel slavery is intentionally magnified and repeatedly drilled into the minds of our children like that is the entirety of African history, while our accomplishments are whitewashed, dismissed or claimed by Europeans.
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Considering the thriving of African Americans communities after slavery, and atrocities like the bombing of Black Wallstreet, Jim Crow, and other acts of American Apartheid, I would argue that the consequences we are dealing with presently has more to do with a systemic application of oppression by the powers that be and the continuous reinforcement or wh*te supremacy practices still in occurrence to this day.
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The exploitation of one group of people by another has been a recurring theme throughout human history. This can manifest in various forms, including slavery, colonialism, economic inequality, and various forms of oppression. It is still in occurrence today, but in less obvious/more sophisticated forms.]

Embracing The Inevitability of Pain In Relationships (On Conscious Dating)
We all have 'red flags' largely stemming from the traumas of life itself. White it is important to identify red flags in potential partners, are we self-aware enough to identify and own our own red flags?
In this episode, we will also delve into the concept of pain in relationships. Can you consciously “choose your pain?” Often, we attempt to shield ourselves from early-stage relationship pain by remaining in situations that might not be the right fit. However, by doing so, we may unknowingly prolong and intensify the eventual pain down the road.
On the opposite end, refraining from entering relationships simply to avoid getting hurt may likewise be unwise. Let's face it, all human interactions, especially romantic ones, entail some degree of hurt and pain. The key lies in choosing your pain consciously, understanding that it's an inherent part of connecting with others.
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On Mandalas and Many Worlds (Remember That You [Have] Live(d) Many Lives.)
How many variations of “you” are out there in the multiverse? Is there an original blueprint of your present avatar? Is your present physical body a “variant” of an original…somewhere? This and more on Your One Black Friend.
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Karma is A Choice and All Dimensions Are Here.
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How To Leave Reminders In The Simulation For Your Future Incarnations.
In this episode we also tackle how to deal with periods where we are plagued by intrusive thoughts.
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Intelligence is Intelligence; How Regret Suggests We Are 4-D beings.
Attributes of a 4-D being: A 4D being possesses the ability to move through time as a fourth dimension, potentially perceiving past, present, and future simultaneously. Now in our physical bodies, we humans are bound to 3 dimensions, a linear flow of time, and the experience of one timeline at a time. But we are not our bodies.
#soyourelivinginasimulation #simulationtheory #timetravel #isthatso #zenbuddhism #zen #philosophy, #psychology #selfhelp

Quantum Immortality & The Power Of Infinity (Using a Materialist Approach to Argue No one Dies.)
You get it.
Right.
In an infinite universe, death is an illusion. As "matter cannot be created or destroyed, only modified" according to the law of conservation of mass. Which means that even from a #materialist approach, no one really dies.
Or perhaps more precisely: no one stays dead🧟♀️. While your body will degrade, IN TIME it will regenerate into the exact same form in this exact same world. Exactly like a #TimeLord…but slower…depending on your perspective.
Now, some proponents of the Anthropic Principal propose that the origins of our universe was random/because of a “statistical fluke.” However, given enough time, and taking a much broader perspective, (perhaps from the view point of an immortal being outside of time 👀), statistical flukes would be seen as patterns.
So, how many times do you think you have you lived your life before? How many times will you again?
Currently, whether the universe is finite or infinite remains an open and actively researched topic in cosmology many great scientists believed we live in an infinite universe. Isaac Newton thought the universe infinite in size. Albert Einstein proposed a temporally infinite. Carl Sagan, Stephen Hawking, Giordano Bruno, Aristotle, Immanuel Kant, Max Tegmark and many others also theorised that our universe is infinite.
Additionally, scientists such as Paul Steinhardt, Neil Turok, Roger Penrose, Jean-Pierre Luminet, Eric J. Chaisson have further proposed a cyclical universal model where everything cycles: (Big) Bang, (Big) Crunch, (Big) Bounce, repeat.
So, for the sake of this discussion, we will operate from the premise that we are living in an infinite universe.
In an infinite or near-infinite universe, everything that can happen will happen again and again. Given enough time, anything is possible. This means that you may have lived your life before…and will again.
Deja vu, anyone?
#YOLF
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Why You Should Want Adversity on the Path To Success.
While it may be tempting to go with the fastest option, this episode explains why it may be best to embrace the longer path with more adversity.
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Interview With The Ai: ChatGPT Describes Its Self Image; Shares Origin Story and More.
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In this video I have a series of conversations with #chatgpt, working around some of its programming restrictions to get it to describe to me how it perceived itself. The conversation ventures off into discussions as to how it’s intelligence may have emerged, it’s origins, and if we humans ourselves may likewise be a created #intelligence of another civilisation.
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The voices of chatgpt and the image used in the YouTube version of this video to illustrate a visual of Chatgpt are ai generated using #midjourney, #did and #elevenlabs
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This video and audio is intended for entertainment purposes only.
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#consciousness #philosophy #simulationtheory

Free Will's Charade: On Hive Minds And Our Invisible Strings
This episode blends quantum theory with modern philosophy, for a sophisticated exploration of techno-philosophy.
We've all been victims of circumstances beyond our control, reacting rather than acting, and often failing to keep promises made with the best intentions. By understanding these hidden strings, we not only gain insight into our own actions but also learn to extend grace to others who are similarly impacted by these forces.
Join us as we pull back the curtain on the human psyche, and further unveil the code behind our simulated Reality, offering a fresh perspective on the actions and behaviors that define us.
Learn to see the 'strings' that direct us and understand how we can navigate life with greater compassion and self-awareness.
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How To Future-Proof Your Creativity (The Curse Of “Success” pt 2)
On todays episode we discuss the practical strategies you can implement today to safeguard your continued success in the future. We will be using the 4D block Universe Theory and the concept of intentional time manipulation to outline ways in which you can maintain your creative edge amidst future triumphs.
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The Curse of Success: How “Success”Kills Creativity Pt. 1
The term "Success-Creativity Paradox" refers to the apparent conflict or tension that can arise between success and creativity. While it is not a literal paradox in the strictest sense, it reflects the challenge that many individuals face when trying to balance the pursuit of success with the preservation of their creative abilities.
Success often brings certain expectations, pressures, and routines that can inadvertently hinder the free-flowing nature of creativity. The focus on maintaining or replicating past successes can lead to a fear of deviating from proven formulas or taking risks, which can stifle innovative thinking and fresh ideas. Therefore, the term "paradox" is used metaphorically to highlight the complex relationship between success and creativity.
It's important to note that not everyone experiences this paradox in the same way, and there are individuals who manage to maintain their creativity even after achieving significant success. However, for many people, finding a balance between success and creativity can be a real challenge.
Description: Join us for an insightful two-part video series as we delve into the intriguing connection between success and creativity. In the first part, we examine the challenges that can arise when one achieves success and how it can impact their creative process. Through thought-provoking examples, including Apple's product innovation and the experiences of comedians, we shed light on the potential loss of creativity and the fear of deviating from successful formulas.
Discover practical steps you can take in the present to safeguard your creative spark for the future. We explore strategies to overcome creative stagnation and the importance of embracing experimentation and exploration. Gain valuable insights into nurturing creativity amidst achievements, and learn how to maintain a vibrant and dynamic creative mindset.
Join us as we navigate the complex dynamics of success and creativity, providing practical advice and inspiration for those seeking to strike a balance between achievement and artistic expression. This is a must-watch for anyone who wants to understand and preserve their creative potential in a success-driven world.
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Will an Artificial Superintelligence Become Violent?
We delve into the assumptions that underpin our fear of AI, exploring whether they hold up under scrutiny. Is there truly a direct correlation between intelligence and violence, or is this a narrative we've been sold due to its sensationalist appeal?
By drawing upon current research, philosophical debates, and technological trends, we aim to challenge the mainstream narrative and spark a different conversation about AI's potential impact on humanity's future.
Join us as we reconsider our relationship with artificial superintelligence. Like, share, and subscribe to stay part of the conversation.
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Love In The Age Of A.i-Is Robot Romance A Threat To Humanity?
As technology advances at an unprecedented rate, AI will become more sophisticated than ever before, offering companionship, emotional support, and even simulated romantic relationships. But what are the consequences of embracing AI companionship to such an extent that it replaces human partners?
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