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Stim4Stim

By Zack Budryk

Your hosts Zack, who's married(he/him) and Charlie (they/them/he/him), who's unattached, discuss the highs, lows and creamy middles of relationships on the autism spectrum
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Bullying A Neurotypical feat. Miles Klee

Stim4StimSep 15, 2022

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Bullying A Neurotypical feat. Miles Klee

Bullying A Neurotypical feat. Miles Klee

Miles Klee (MEL Magazine, Rolling Stone) joins us to answer burning questions about neurotypicals and their whole deal. Everything he says about you guys applies universally and is legally binding.

Sep 15, 202201:03:32
The BDSM One feat. Leigh Cowart

The BDSM One feat. Leigh Cowart

We’re back! We’re just very busy. “Hurts So Good” author Leigh Cowart talks to us about kink and its intersection with autism, how COVID forced us to be more comfortable with roommates, and making sure your parakeets are girlbosses. Content warning for loud noises: the birds were especially loud this time and we pared it down as best we could but this one's very chirp-intensive.

May 30, 202201:06:05
I Shouldn't Be Giving Advice

I Shouldn't Be Giving Advice

Charlie and Zack check in from the bleak mid-Omicron with a couple of extra birds to take a couple listener questions and discuss personhood, humanity and grappling with the two (concepts, not birds)

Cover art by @mxinevitable

Feb 08, 202241:42
Chaotic Child Who Does Not Know feat. Jon Rosenberg

Chaotic Child Who Does Not Know feat. Jon Rosenberg

We're BACK! In our season 2 premiere, award-winning cartoonist Jon Rosenberg (Goats, Scenes from a Multiverse) joins us to talk about adult diagnoses, whether masking can backfire on your accommodations and the single bluntest question we've ever received.

Oct 12, 202145:56
Allowing Myself to Feel That Anger feat. Nkozi Cole

Allowing Myself to Feel That Anger feat. Nkozi Cole

Nkozi Cole (@halal_bitch) talks to us about keeping a relationship strong, plus Paris gets mouthier than usual. 

Jun 24, 202101:33:33
Episode 8: Frum Cowboy feat. Kristin Chirico & Brie Hubble

Episode 8: Frum Cowboy feat. Kristin Chirico & Brie Hubble

Kristin Chirico of The Kitchen & Jorn Show and her wife Brie join us to talk about autistic/ADHD marriages, how soon is too soon for a wedding Pinterest board, and the heartbreak of SDS interventions

Apr 23, 202101:17:28
"Does That Help?" "Not Really" feat. A.J. Link

"Does That Help?" "Not Really" feat. A.J. Link

We're still alive! National Disabled Law Students Association co-founder/co-president A.J. Link (@knilirabaj) joins us to talk disclosure that you're autistic to potential romantic partners, resenting your parents and the most autistic thing we're gonna do once we're vaccinated.

Patreon: patreon.com/stim4Stim

National Disabled Law Students Association: https://ndlsa.org/

Apr 02, 202101:13:22
Episode 6: The Grief One feat. Camellia-Berry Grass

Episode 6: The Grief One feat. Camellia-Berry Grass

"Hall of Waters" author Camellia-Berry Grass talks to us about grief on the spectrum, the very issue that brought us together, as well as the grief that comes with the end of relationships. TW for extensive discussion of death in this but we also got to talk about Beanie Babies and collar pins.

Jan 22, 202101:15:49
Episode 5: Big WiFi Energy feat. Haley Moss

Episode 5: Big WiFi Energy feat. Haley Moss

Artist, author and first autistic woman admitted to the Florida bar Haley Moss joins Zack and Charlie for a discussion of our personal communication speed bumps, "seedling friends" and the Saga of Art from Tinder

Dec 30, 202001:14:51
Episode 4: If You Die in the Game feat. Joy/sol1dsnack

Episode 4: If You Die in the Game feat. Joy/sol1dsnack

Twitch streamer Joy @sol1dsnack joins Charlie and Zack to discuss love in the time of COVID, how to build meaningful social relationships when a pandemic flips the board and our least favorite textures of the week

Nov 14, 202041:54
Episode 3: We're Not Trying to Get You Laid feat. Sara Luterman

Episode 3: We're Not Trying to Get You Laid feat. Sara Luterman

Autistic journalist Sara Luterman (Vox, WaPo, Nation, etc.) joins Charlie & Zack to talk about finding love, when you should compromise on your criteria for a partner, and whether Borat is a better Yippie than Aaron Sorkin's version of Abbie Hoffman. (Spooky Paris art by Dess Rivas.)

https://stim4stim.medium.com/stim4stim-ep-541ae12f8faf

Nov 02, 202001:10:60
Episode 2: Sopranos-Flavored Fran Fine

Episode 2: Sopranos-Flavored Fran Fine

Charlie and Zack take their first question and talk about first kisses on the spectrum, how grief makes you a new person, and the plot to hold Abraham Lincoln's corpse for ransom.

Transcript: https://stim4stim.medium.com/transcriepisode-2-sopranos-flavored-fran-fine-b151e10a0c5

Oct 17, 202036:16
Ep. 1: You and Me Could Write a Neuromance
Oct 02, 202024:02
Teaser

Teaser

Zack explains what we hope to do with the show

Oct 02, 202000:44