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Thank God Cancer Saved our Divorce

Thank God Cancer Saved our Divorce

By Jamie, Denny, and Amanda

Sadly, people get divorced. Even worse, people get cancer! Add a divorce, two not totally adopted parents, a fiance for Dad, ohhhh and cancer for the daughter. What do you think you're going to get? Well I'll tell ya....an amazing journey of digging for what's best for the kids AND you. You see, there IS life after divorce. Sometimes a tough situation has to pull you together and the closest people are the ones you wanted away from. Life is funny this way.
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What Age is it OK to Leave Your Children Home Alone? WRONG! (19 more questions inside)

Thank God Cancer Saved our DivorceJan 13, 2020

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What Age is it OK to Leave Your Children Home Alone? WRONG! (19 more questions inside)
Jan 13, 202001:29:29
Did you know there are 4 "Parenting Styles"? Also, they're wrong :)
Jan 06, 202001:11:48
Resolutions of Yesteryear!
Dec 30, 201901:39:46
Let's Introduce You to Someone New! Oh, and MERRY Christmas!

Let's Introduce You to Someone New! Oh, and MERRY Christmas!

Dec 23, 201901:35:40
Single Parents Dealing with "The Other Side"

Single Parents Dealing with "The Other Side"

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This week we drag Ronni Heake to her phone clear from Florida! We learn a few things: 

1. She used to be a single mom. 2. She is VERY happily married. 3. She has a great story about being a single mom and learning to cope with divorce and bringing new people into the lives of her daughter. and 4. Denny is NOT on the docket for a future marriage. There, we said it :) 

This is a great journey from when Jamie and Ronni first met in Korea (ask about womens under garments in Korea, it's pretty funny!) and how they became lifelong friends! It also tells a tale of a different route than where we are in regards to co-parenting and gives you a glimpse in a real life, current situation. Ronni should be an inspiration for all single parents, but even now there is a struggle with both sides trying to communicate...it's a great story to hear! 


Visit our website at https://thankgodcancersavedourdivorce.com

Look us up on Facebook : Search Thank God Cancer Saved our Divorce (AND #teamEmmforthewin to follow our journey with our daughter)

Twitter and Instagram: @TGCSOD

Email us @ TGCSOD@gmail.com

Dec 16, 201901:28:58
YOU had Questions WE had Answers HOLIDAY EDITION!
Dec 09, 201901:26:38
Let's do a podcast that everyone does........Conspiracy Theories!

Let's do a podcast that everyone does........Conspiracy Theories!

Michael Jackson hits this podcast TWICE! Is he dead or alive? Well....evidence supports both

Denny, Amanda, and Jamie deviate from our normal topics and discuss conspiracy theories and how silly those can be! 


Take a break and listen as we go down some lesser traveled roads.

We also make an appearance on the Juice in the Morning podcast released 12/1 so take a minute and listen over there too!

Dec 02, 201901:26:51
No Words.....Please Send Help! ~Denny

No Words.....Please Send Help! ~Denny

OK. We have no choice but to tell you......this one goes OFF THE RAILS. Denny TRIES with everything he has to keep some semblance of order buuuuuuuttttttt, Amanda and Jamie win. 

This week we discuss...."Why Kids Won't Listen".....for like 13 seconds we dive head first into this topic.

The remaining time? ALL NONSENSE! 

Thank you for sending this one in (this was a listener suggestion) we promise next time we'll be ALL IN! 

Come have a good time with us, won't you?

 

Nov 25, 201901:33:06
The Three C's of Divorce. NOT Cash, Child Support, and Cha-Ching!

The Three C's of Divorce. NOT Cash, Child Support, and Cha-Ching!

This week we have a doozy! Jamie, Amanda, and Denny jump headfirst into the "Three C's of Divorce". If you're keeping score the answer is "Cooperation, Communication, and Consistency". 

We discuss the baby shower, man sized turds, and Disneyland Dad. 

By the way, we got this weeks episode from "Ulmerlaw.com"....never better co-parenting advice than from an attorney :)

Sit back, relax, and be sure to "get some Huggies from the Sto" (You'll get it when you listen)

Nov 18, 201901:16:07
Is It Best to Stay Married for the Kids? **HINT** Our answer was unanimous :)

Is It Best to Stay Married for the Kids? **HINT** Our answer was unanimous :)

This week Amanda, Jamie, and Denny dive head first into "staying together for the kids".  Is is right? Is it wrong? Only YOU can decide! But, as always, you'll get plenty of insight on what we think!

This week is a BIG topic for Amanda as she goes all in and gives us her thoughts...and she has no shortage!

Keep in mind...we cited 10 reasons that you SHOULD stay together and just FIVE that you shouldn't :) For the record...the studio was unanimous...DON'T!

We also recap a visit to "The BJ Robbins Project" and discuss infiltrating another podcast! Go listen to it dropping Mondays wherever you get your pods!

Nov 11, 201901:15:45
9 Rules....Not like...ya know....JAMIE's rules. But rules.

9 Rules....Not like...ya know....JAMIE's rules. But rules.

This week Denny, Amanda, and Jamie discuss divorced parents through a child's eye. While we don't agree with 100% of the writers thoughts, we can agree that being open and honest can impact a child of divorce.


Jamie is under the weather so you'll hear some sniffles.....and far away sheep!


Let's give this week a run!

Nov 04, 201901:00:09
Let's Meet the Little Kids. Say Hello to Braxton and Audrey!

Let's Meet the Little Kids. Say Hello to Braxton and Audrey!

In this weeks episode Denny, Amanda, and Jamie introduce you to Braxton and Audrey. You've met Brayden and Garet and our group finally felt mature enough to introduce the little members of our family!

We'll warn you.....this is a MOSTLY kid friendly show....but you gotta hear from our inspirations, right? 

Sit back and listen to Audrey work through being nervous and Braxton...well he isn't really all that nervous at all. It COULD be the best version of "Simple Man" you've ever heard, but we're biased. You'll see what I mean.

Of course you'll hear the usual Family Fantasy Football update and some banter. 

Ship us a LIKE or SUBSCRIBE won't you?

Oct 28, 201901:23:17
Yep....7 Inescapable Post-Divorce Truths. Not 6. Not 8. Seven. Oh, and, it's a GIRL!

Yep....7 Inescapable Post-Divorce Truths. Not 6. Not 8. Seven. Oh, and, it's a GIRL!

This week Jamie, Amanda, and Denny discuss #truths following a divorce. How does your child see things "post divorce"? As you listen, try to think how you handle situations......are you thinking about YOU or YOUR CHILD

Not everyone is going to be able to sing Kumbaya...we get it. But just listen......maybe you can gain SOMETHING.

Also, #dickdance is in full review! Hear all about the night that had Jamie's mother driving to the venue giving her money at the door!  Prego Amanda was ON STAGE.......all while Good Dad Denny sat home with kids keeping the family together :)

Speaking of keeping the family together.....Oct 19th was the "Almost Wedding Day"....until Denny knocked Amanda up. The dress was already paid for...time to move the wedding! 

Speaking of knocked up....IT'S A GIRL! Amanda learned all about the sex of the baby! January 2020 will bring Isabelle Louise into the world! Obviously there's more to come on that! Stay tuned

Oct 21, 201901:20:06
Really It's Just a Dance.....Right?

Really It's Just a Dance.....Right?

This is our first "Take 2" episode.....we recorded earlier this week and it was just bad. We sort of piggy back off of our number 1 listened to episode "Rules, There's Always Rules". We talk about different scenarios that we may have been involved in throughout our time "co-parenting". 

Jamie gets real talking about the beginning and Amanda is right with her.....you'll hear both sides. It's really interesting to hear both perspectives.

Denny TRIED giving the "noise machine" to Jamie....that didn't work out too well.....I guess we will just leave it with Denny for now :) BTW....he produces the show.

Be sure and listen next week as we chronicle the girls night out at a Male Dancing show.....yeah, it's one of those. Denny had some rules of his own!

Oct 14, 201901:19:05
How Judgmental are You?

How Judgmental are You?

This week Denny, Jamie, and Amanda talk about being judged....both good and bad! Did you know there is "good judgment"?  


Sit back and listen to what we think of pajama pants, messy buns, and just not giving a shit. We are ok with some of that :)


PLEASE.....we know there are ALL different circumstances in life.......live yours! We will live ours too! This world takes all kinds!

Oct 07, 201901:08:53
This, my friends, is TGCSOD without Adderall

This, my friends, is TGCSOD without Adderall

What a cornucopia of an episode! Let's just call a spade a spade......Jamie was off her game. Amanda was chattier than normal, and Denny struggled controlling it all! 

We spend a lot of time discussing "Judgmental Parenting" and cover an incident at a local Fazoli's. (Note, maybe it's best to speak your mind when you feel it). Denny TRIES to do the usual "webpage tie-in" to our topic....but it sort of misses the mark :) 

There's a couple of funny moments in this one, so just sit back and try to keep up! At the very least you'll laugh when Amanda tries describing the areas on your body that  you can breathe through! 


#family #stepmom #cancer #adoption #kids #co-parents 

Sep 30, 201901:13:07
Conclusion of the 17 Most Controversial Parenting Topics

Conclusion of the 17 Most Controversial Parenting Topics

In this weeks edition, Jamie, Denny, and Amanda get together to finish what we started last week. We tackle spoiled kids, spanking, breast feeding, and religion just to name a few! 


We also get a chance to fill you in on how the TGCSOD Family Fantasy Football League is shaping up. This one has a lot of sass behind it....if you're going to miss one you'd be doing yourself a favor to hear this one out.


Please note: whatever YOU do to parent your kids is up to you. We hope it comes from a place of love and not control.......a way to "teach" our kids, I suppose. Parenting is hard enough that raising your kids shouldn't be under constant scrutiny. Scrutiny won't come from us....we've got your back. (Even if we disagree with your tactics....but please remember to respect ours too!) 


We're glad you continue to listen....tell your friends! We're gaining some steam! 


Sep 23, 201901:27:04
17 of the most controversial parenting issues EVER!

17 of the most controversial parenting issues EVER!

This turned into a TWO-PARTER

We located https://www.babygaga.com/17-of-the-most-controversial-parenting-topics-ever/ and decided we had some good material! What we didn't know is how much we could talk! So this week we venture off into the TOP 8.....We discuss natural births VS medicated, open breast feeding, co-sleeping, leashes (yes, for kids ;) !), and medicating your children. 

This leaves 8 more topics for next Mondays episode. Listen in as we discuss our differing viewpoints on all of these, and other, parenting topics.

We also catch you up on a very busy weekend...and the Family Fantasy Football week 2 is in full swing!

Make sure to contact us with questions or comments...we'd love to hear from you! (Even if you don't agree with us!) 

TGCSOD@gmail.com or find us on Facebook and Twitter!

Sep 16, 201901:12:55
So I mean really....what are family problems?
Sep 09, 201901:14:40
YOU had questions and WE had ANSWERS!

YOU had questions and WE had ANSWERS!

As a Podcast we are all still getting comfortable with our listeners. We know you had questions about our relationships, kids, cancer, divorce.....on and on! SOME thought it was a "Dear Abby" type (those turned out kind of fun!) while most others were just...well.....questions

How WAS the Birthday Party?

Should I or shouldn't I?

When did you....?

Have you ever?

There's lots of good ones in here this week! Remember: Like and SUBSCRIBE to our Podcast! Also, leave a REVIEW! We LOVE the feedback! 

The unofficial summer shutdown is here. Enjoy the long weekend with us! We appreciate your ears

Happy Labor Day!

Sep 02, 201901:26:44
It's a BIRTHDAY BASH!

It's a BIRTHDAY BASH!

Join the group this week as Jamie, Amanda, and Denny explore Co-Parenting a BIRTHDAY BASH for the "Littles" of the group! This one gets out there a little bit as we discuss the "ins and outs" of planning....or not. There may or may not be multiple shots fired at Denny in this one. Sit back and listen and he defends himself.....and some skittles.


Great guidance from stepmomming.com/joint-birthday-party/ to let you know there ARE resources out there! We hit 6 of the 10 points....maybe! :)


Like, share, and subscribe.....we are GROWING and we need ALL of your ears! And your friends ears.....just all of the ears we can get!

Aug 26, 201901:08:03
It's that time.....Family Fantasy Football Draft!

It's that time.....Family Fantasy Football Draft!

Picture this......An ex wife, two grown kids, the fiance, and Dad (ex-husband/ now fiance) all get together to draft fantasy football teams. Last year Jamie was not involved in the draft.....a league that Amanda WON. (Hear the horrid details of that improbable run on this episode). To top things off, we allowed Audrey and Braxton a team also.....a team that would auto-draft. What Hell awaits if they win? Who drafted the best team? Most importantly, who had the best team name?

This is a break from the heavy stuff. Listen as each person let's you peak behind the curtain on their fantasy football strategy! We'll keep you updated throughout the season....we all already know who will win.

Also, there was a small audio issue that we couldn't correct....yeah sorry about that :)

Aug 19, 201901:16:52
There's only SEVEN issues Co-Parents face.....really just 7!

There's only SEVEN issues Co-Parents face.....really just 7!

That's right....you read it. The only thing standing between you and co-parenting bliss is just SEVEN issues. There aren't hundreds. Each day doesn't present a new challenge or bump....seven little issues that get in the way. OK, OK, OK....maybe we're overreacting! 


On this weeks episode we talk about what a HUGE month August is. Babies, birthdays, and getting ready for school for everyone......most everyone lives it so why not give your ears a chance to let us describe how we do it!? We promise to at least mildly entertain you. We also discuss The 7 issues all co-parents face and how to overcome them....it may make it seem a little too neat at just 7, but it's got some value for sure. We also unveil Audrey's first hit single and discuss next weeks Family Fantasy Football Draft. 


We appreciate the time you give us and hope you'll subscribe and tell your friends. From the bottom of our hearts.......thank you.

Aug 12, 201901:20:27
Pink Heals are for Everyone

Pink Heals are for Everyone

What. An. Episode. On this weeks podcast we get on the phone with none other than Ray Fitzgerald. While you may never have heard of Ray, I personally feel like a better person simply because I was lucky enough to meet Ray. Ray is the local Founder of the Kokomo IN chapter of the Pink Heals. (We will drop a link to their Facebook page near the bottom.) The Pink Heals team have a single mission....to help bring happiness to folks that are struggling to find a reason to be happy. This group is national at  http://www.pinkfiretrucks.org/ and they travel everywhere for the same mission. The Pink Heals touched our lives and we wanted to help share their story.

If you see one of these trucks out ask to buy a shirt. Hand them $20. Pay for meals, fuel, oil changes......anything. All contributions STAY IN YOUR COMMUNITY! If you know someone struggling at life right now (not just cancer) please google these guys and girls and get your loved one on a visit list. You won't soon forget the outpouring of love that you'll receive.

 https://www.facebook.com/groups/692299621127600/  (local Chapter FB page)

Pinkhealsofhowco@gmail.com


Don't forget to like and subscribe to us! Tell a friend! As always, drop us a line we'll be happy to chat!

www.thankgodcancersavedourdivorce.com

 https://www.facebook.com/TGCSOD 


Aug 05, 201901:03:37
What She Wishes He Knew

What She Wishes He Knew

This is an insightful ride from years past. Listen as special guests Brayden and Garet Broens discuss learning a new step mom.....twice! That's not enough...then listen and Jamie and Amanda get their point of view too! 

From there the group discusses an article relating to "What I wished my husband knew" . Hear Jamie and Amanda discuss feelings from this and past relationships as well as Denny defend himself as always! 

Don't forget, questions can be emailed to TGCSOD@gmail.com. Follow us at Thank God Cancer Saved our Divorce on Facebook and @TGCSOD on Twitter! Oh yeah....we have a website too....you guessed it thankgodcancersavedourdivorce.com! Like, Share, Subscribe!

Jul 29, 201901:31:39
Welcome to the new Studio!

Welcome to the new Studio!

Hey there! Thank you for listening and we hope you'll hit that "Like" button and "Subscribe" too! For today's episode we should sound better as we're finally in the our new digs at the official "Every Joke has a Little Truth" Studio. 

This is a "two-parter" and today introduces you to our boy Brayden, clear from his home in Hawaii. He'll tell the well known story of why his friends started coming around more when the yard was being mowed and Jamie was upstairs. This is just the tip of the iceberg. We also dive headfirst into the harder part of co-parenting "new" 12 year old boys........ you don't want to miss this one! 

We're hitting our stride now so look for episodes to continue to release weekly. 

Have a question? Shoot us an email at TGCSOD@gmail.com. Not the formal type? Track us down on Twitter @TGCSOD. Like Facebook better? You guessed it.....search Facebook for @TGCSOD and while you're here say hi!!


Jul 27, 201901:02:56
Rules, there's ALWAYS rules

Rules, there's ALWAYS rules

On this very belated episode of Thank God Cancer Saved Our Divorce the group explores the beginning of a "co-parenting". You guessed it......it started with rules......no hair do's, no finger nail painting, no extra brothers or sisters. Could you share your first and possible only child? 

They also discuss porn, Fathers and Mothers Day etiquette, school, and relationships. 

Society says ex- couples have to hate each other. We say no. Listen now and you'll get an understanding why we say no way!

Tell your friends to like and subscribe! Have a question or idea for a future episode email us at TGCSOD@gmail.com! Want to find us on social media? On twitter "Thank God Saved Our Divorce" or "@cancer_our".

Jul 25, 201901:02:23
Can a Birthday and Diagnosis Day be the same?

Can a Birthday and Diagnosis Day be the same?

In this episode Jamie, Denny, and Amanda commemorate the ONE YEAR anniversary of Audrey's diagnosis! Man, that came quick! They also discuss a trip to Hawaii for one of the kids AND it's a SPECIAL BIRTHDAY!

Amanda may or may not make up a word or two in this one (montrosity) and Denny makes "The Report" public in that Jamie is not the best at giving medicine properly.

Sit back and enjoy this round of Thank God Cancer Saved our Divorce.
May 05, 201901:08:42
Let's dip our toes in the Divorce and Cancer water.....shall we?

Let's dip our toes in the Divorce and Cancer water.....shall we?

Join Jamie, Denny, and Amanda as they introduce you to a new kind of family..... divorce, new relationships, and CANCER.

We know this one is BAD but we hope it gets your attention and ultimately gets better. We have a great story to tell and we hope you'll listen.
Apr 29, 201957:05