Thank God Cancer Saved our Divorce
By Jamie, Denny, and Amanda
Thank God Cancer Saved our DivorceJan 13, 2020
What Age is it OK to Leave Your Children Home Alone? WRONG! (19 more questions inside)
#LIVECASTING!
Denny, Amanda, and Jamie show their faces on this weeks edition! They have the cameras lined up and were able to give Facebook Live viewers a "peek behind the curtain" as they discuss "goodhouskeeping.com" "Where Do You Stand on the Toughest Parenting Questions?"
Questions like:
When is it ok to leave kids alone?
Co-Sleeping? Yay or Nah?
Cry it out?
You gonna bust that ass or no?
There's a bunch of them! Listen in as we discuss this and more.....oh, and Denny's answers are the RIGHT answers!
Wanna take the survey yourself? Click the link below!
https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/parenting/a22339601/parenting-habits-poll/
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Did you know there are 4 "Parenting Styles"? Also, they're wrong :)
This week Denny, Amanda, and Jamie discuss the "Four Parenting Styles"
There are "Authoritarian" (Jamie and Amanda)
There are "Authoritative"
There are "Permissive"
and there are "Uninvolved".
Then there is the most widely kept secret......"The Awesome". That's where Denny resides.
We get a "run in" from one of the kids this week.....then Jamie decides she needs a very specific Sweet tart. Yeah, listen in.
FYI, there's a quiz in this one so be prepared to follow along! (It's also wrong). Link below:
https://www.proprofs.com/quiz-school/story.php?title=what-kind-parent-are-you_5
Also, here is the link to your "Parenting Styles"
http://theattachedfamily.com/membersonly/?p=2151
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Resolutions of Yesteryear!
On this edition of TGCSOD, Jamie, Amanda, and Denny discuss New Year Resolutions. Looking to lose some weight? Exercise more? Be a better wife or husband?
Yeah, we've got it all this week!
We talk about the coronation of the Family Fantasy Football League champions the "Broens Babies"!
Listen closely to the Twitter request of the week (we have a statue of a totem from Hawaii and Jamie discovered it's nose looks like, well, a male member. Wow. Speaking of male member, we also talk about the LOL dolls and a news story out about them being anatomically correct!
Seriously tho, thank you for spending some time with us on this journey we've created. It's been a pleasure opening our stories to you. We hope for many more in 2020!
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Let's Introduce You to Someone New! Oh, and MERRY Christmas!
This week we introduce you to a podcast from California! "A Kiss Like Yours", by Art and Lila, is a podcast about loving your partner and navigating through everything life throws at you. Kids, money, stress, jobs.....all of it. Listening to their message was inspiring in that they teach you to go in "eyes wide open" and understand curves are coming.....tally them up and TALK ABOUT THEM! We all have our ways.....this one was cool to learn!
Lila and Art have season passes to the "OG" Disney in Cali.......boom! :) Art also likes things to go AS PLANNED! If they don't, then watch out! Oh, and if you're looking for the BEST story about trying to hide and prepare asking your girlfriend to marry you, it's here. It involves a credit report. CLASSIC!!!
As for our group....we're 3 weeks away from baby Izzy Lou. It's almost done now that the Broens Babies are the TGCSOD Fantasy Football Champions! They're so excited. Braxton's with his grandparents, Audrey is with her mother. The champagne and beer fountains will probably have to wait.
Keep your fingers crossed that Jamie gets better....she's struggling with the Flu! Keep Amanda in your thoughts too as we draw closer to baby time!
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Single Parents Dealing with "The Other Side"
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This week we drag Ronni Heake to her phone clear from Florida! We learn a few things:
1. She used to be a single mom. 2. She is VERY happily married. 3. She has a great story about being a single mom and learning to cope with divorce and bringing new people into the lives of her daughter. and 4. Denny is NOT on the docket for a future marriage. There, we said it :)
This is a great journey from when Jamie and Ronni first met in Korea (ask about womens under garments in Korea, it's pretty funny!) and how they became lifelong friends! It also tells a tale of a different route than where we are in regards to co-parenting and gives you a glimpse in a real life, current situation. Ronni should be an inspiration for all single parents, but even now there is a struggle with both sides trying to communicate...it's a great story to hear!
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YOU had Questions WE had Answers HOLIDAY EDITION!
This week Denny, Amanda, and Jamie go back to the email grab bag to answer YOUR questions! We discuss everything from who spends time where to how much is spent! Did you know Amanda ruined Christmas? No one else knew either......but she ALMOST created a pretty big light show here in our town!
We also talk about a few news stories that caught our attention this week.....did you know Casey Kasem had a total meltdown a few years before he died? He did.
Also, go to the "Married with Children" podcast and have a listen. We dropped by their studio and spoke with Dustin and Kallie about our podcast and our motivation for this love project here!
As always, we appreciate all of your support!
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Let's do a podcast that everyone does........Conspiracy Theories!
Michael Jackson hits this podcast TWICE! Is he dead or alive? Well....evidence supports both.
Denny, Amanda, and Jamie deviate from our normal topics and discuss conspiracy theories and how silly those can be!
Take a break and listen as we go down some lesser traveled roads.
We also make an appearance on the Juice in the Morning podcast released 12/1 so take a minute and listen over there too!
No Words.....Please Send Help! ~Denny
OK. We have no choice but to tell you......this one goes OFF THE RAILS. Denny TRIES with everything he has to keep some semblance of order buuuuuuuttttttt, Amanda and Jamie win.
This week we discuss...."Why Kids Won't Listen".....for like 13 seconds we dive head first into this topic.
The remaining time? ALL NONSENSE!
Thank you for sending this one in (this was a listener suggestion) we promise next time we'll be ALL IN!
Come have a good time with us, won't you?
The Three C's of Divorce. NOT Cash, Child Support, and Cha-Ching!
This week we have a doozy! Jamie, Amanda, and Denny jump headfirst into the "Three C's of Divorce". If you're keeping score the answer is "Cooperation, Communication, and Consistency".
We discuss the baby shower, man sized turds, and Disneyland Dad.
By the way, we got this weeks episode from "Ulmerlaw.com"....never better co-parenting advice than from an attorney :)
Sit back, relax, and be sure to "get some Huggies from the Sto" (You'll get it when you listen)
Is It Best to Stay Married for the Kids? **HINT** Our answer was unanimous :)
This week Amanda, Jamie, and Denny dive head first into "staying together for the kids". Is is right? Is it wrong? Only YOU can decide! But, as always, you'll get plenty of insight on what we think!
This week is a BIG topic for Amanda as she goes all in and gives us her thoughts...and she has no shortage!
Keep in mind...we cited 10 reasons that you SHOULD stay together and just FIVE that you shouldn't :) For the record...the studio was unanimous...DON'T!
We also recap a visit to "The BJ Robbins Project" and discuss infiltrating another podcast! Go listen to it dropping Mondays wherever you get your pods!
9 Rules....Not like...ya know....JAMIE's rules. But rules.
This week Denny, Amanda, and Jamie discuss divorced parents through a child's eye. While we don't agree with 100% of the writers thoughts, we can agree that being open and honest can impact a child of divorce.
Jamie is under the weather so you'll hear some sniffles.....and far away sheep!
Let's give this week a run!
Let's Meet the Little Kids. Say Hello to Braxton and Audrey!
In this weeks episode Denny, Amanda, and Jamie introduce you to Braxton and Audrey. You've met Brayden and Garet and our group finally felt mature enough to introduce the little members of our family!
We'll warn you.....this is a MOSTLY kid friendly show....but you gotta hear from our inspirations, right?
Sit back and listen to Audrey work through being nervous and Braxton...well he isn't really all that nervous at all. It COULD be the best version of "Simple Man" you've ever heard, but we're biased. You'll see what I mean.
Of course you'll hear the usual Family Fantasy Football update and some banter.
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Yep....7 Inescapable Post-Divorce Truths. Not 6. Not 8. Seven. Oh, and, it's a GIRL!
This week Jamie, Amanda, and Denny discuss #truths following a divorce. How does your child see things "post divorce"? As you listen, try to think how you handle situations......are you thinking about YOU or YOUR CHILD?
Not everyone is going to be able to sing Kumbaya...we get it. But just listen......maybe you can gain SOMETHING.
Also, #dickdance is in full review! Hear all about the night that had Jamie's mother driving to the venue giving her money at the door! Prego Amanda was ON STAGE.......all while Good Dad Denny sat home with kids keeping the family together :)
Speaking of keeping the family together.....Oct 19th was the "Almost Wedding Day"....until Denny knocked Amanda up. The dress was already paid for...time to move the wedding!
Speaking of knocked up....IT'S A GIRL! Amanda learned all about the sex of the baby! January 2020 will bring Isabelle Louise into the world! Obviously there's more to come on that! Stay tuned!
Really It's Just a Dance.....Right?
This is our first "Take 2" episode.....we recorded earlier this week and it was just bad. We sort of piggy back off of our number 1 listened to episode "Rules, There's Always Rules". We talk about different scenarios that we may have been involved in throughout our time "co-parenting".
Jamie gets real talking about the beginning and Amanda is right with her.....you'll hear both sides. It's really interesting to hear both perspectives.
Denny TRIED giving the "noise machine" to Jamie....that didn't work out too well.....I guess we will just leave it with Denny for now :) BTW....he produces the show.
Be sure and listen next week as we chronicle the girls night out at a Male Dancing show.....yeah, it's one of those. Denny had some rules of his own!
How Judgmental are You?
This week Denny, Jamie, and Amanda talk about being judged....both good and bad! Did you know there is "good judgment"?
Sit back and listen to what we think of pajama pants, messy buns, and just not giving a shit. We are ok with some of that :)
PLEASE.....we know there are ALL different circumstances in life.......live yours! We will live ours too! This world takes all kinds!
This, my friends, is TGCSOD without Adderall
What a cornucopia of an episode! Let's just call a spade a spade......Jamie was off her game. Amanda was chattier than normal, and Denny struggled controlling it all!
We spend a lot of time discussing "Judgmental Parenting" and cover an incident at a local Fazoli's. (Note, maybe it's best to speak your mind when you feel it). Denny TRIES to do the usual "webpage tie-in" to our topic....but it sort of misses the mark :)
There's a couple of funny moments in this one, so just sit back and try to keep up! At the very least you'll laugh when Amanda tries describing the areas on your body that you can breathe through!
#family #stepmom #cancer #adoption #kids #co-parents
Conclusion of the 17 Most Controversial Parenting Topics
In this weeks edition, Jamie, Denny, and Amanda get together to finish what we started last week. We tackle spoiled kids, spanking, breast feeding, and religion just to name a few!
We also get a chance to fill you in on how the TGCSOD Family Fantasy Football League is shaping up. This one has a lot of sass behind it....if you're going to miss one you'd be doing yourself a favor to hear this one out.
Please note: whatever YOU do to parent your kids is up to you. We hope it comes from a place of love and not control.......a way to "teach" our kids, I suppose. Parenting is hard enough that raising your kids shouldn't be under constant scrutiny. Scrutiny won't come from us....we've got your back. (Even if we disagree with your tactics....but please remember to respect ours too!)
We're glad you continue to listen....tell your friends! We're gaining some steam!
17 of the most controversial parenting issues EVER!
This turned into a TWO-PARTER!
We located https://www.babygaga.com/17-of-the-most-controversial-parenting-topics-ever/ and decided we had some good material! What we didn't know is how much we could talk! So this week we venture off into the TOP 8.....We discuss natural births VS medicated, open breast feeding, co-sleeping, leashes (yes, for kids ;) !), and medicating your children.
This leaves 8 more topics for next Mondays episode. Listen in as we discuss our differing viewpoints on all of these, and other, parenting topics.
We also catch you up on a very busy weekend...and the Family Fantasy Football week 2 is in full swing!
Make sure to contact us with questions or comments...we'd love to hear from you! (Even if you don't agree with us!)
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So I mean really....what are family problems?
In this weeks podcast we start off by learning that, in fact, Amanda is the most inappropriate person you'll hear today! We learn about how our Fantasy teams are playing so far, and really, will the Babies get the best of Amanda on Opening Sunday? Will Jamie beat Gibb? (Hint, he has a LOT of faith in Baker Mayfield).
Sit back and listen as three people chat about life, death, feelings, and just problems. If you'd like a visual aid here is the link....
https://www.lifeline.org.au/static/uploads/files/what-are-family-and-relationship-problems-wfgoecozoncq.pdf We used this as our "one sheeter" for today's topic.
This last week we went INTERNATIONAL! "Hello Australia! Hit us up @TGCSOD@gmail.com"
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YOU had questions and WE had ANSWERS!
As a Podcast we are all still getting comfortable with our listeners. We know you had questions about our relationships, kids, cancer, divorce.....on and on! SOME thought it was a "Dear Abby" type (those turned out kind of fun!) while most others were just...well.....questions.
How WAS the Birthday Party?
Should I or shouldn't I?
When did you....?
Have you ever?
There's lots of good ones in here this week! Remember: Like and SUBSCRIBE to our Podcast! Also, leave a REVIEW! We LOVE the feedback!
The unofficial summer shutdown is here. Enjoy the long weekend with us! We appreciate your ears!
Happy Labor Day!
It's a BIRTHDAY BASH!
Join the group this week as Jamie, Amanda, and Denny explore Co-Parenting a BIRTHDAY BASH for the "Littles" of the group! This one gets out there a little bit as we discuss the "ins and outs" of planning....or not. There may or may not be multiple shots fired at Denny in this one. Sit back and listen and he defends himself.....and some skittles.
Great guidance from stepmomming.com/joint-birthday-party/ to let you know there ARE resources out there! We hit 6 of the 10 points....maybe! :)
Like, share, and subscribe.....we are GROWING and we need ALL of your ears! And your friends ears.....just all of the ears we can get!
It's that time.....Family Fantasy Football Draft!
Picture this......An ex wife, two grown kids, the fiance, and Dad (ex-husband/ now fiance) all get together to draft fantasy football teams. Last year Jamie was not involved in the draft.....a league that Amanda WON. (Hear the horrid details of that improbable run on this episode). To top things off, we allowed Audrey and Braxton a team also.....a team that would auto-draft. What Hell awaits if they win? Who drafted the best team? Most importantly, who had the best team name?
This is a break from the heavy stuff. Listen as each person let's you peak behind the curtain on their fantasy football strategy! We'll keep you updated throughout the season....we all already know who will win.
Also, there was a small audio issue that we couldn't correct....yeah sorry about that :)
There's only SEVEN issues Co-Parents face.....really just 7!
That's right....you read it. The only thing standing between you and co-parenting bliss is just SEVEN issues. There aren't hundreds. Each day doesn't present a new challenge or bump....seven little issues that get in the way. OK, OK, OK....maybe we're overreacting!
On this weeks episode we talk about what a HUGE month August is. Babies, birthdays, and getting ready for school for everyone......most everyone lives it so why not give your ears a chance to let us describe how we do it!? We promise to at least mildly entertain you. We also discuss The 7 issues all co-parents face and how to overcome them....it may make it seem a little too neat at just 7, but it's got some value for sure. We also unveil Audrey's first hit single and discuss next weeks Family Fantasy Football Draft.
We appreciate the time you give us and hope you'll subscribe and tell your friends. From the bottom of our hearts.......thank you.
Pink Heals are for Everyone
What. An. Episode. On this weeks podcast we get on the phone with none other than Ray Fitzgerald. While you may never have heard of Ray, I personally feel like a better person simply because I was lucky enough to meet Ray. Ray is the local Founder of the Kokomo IN chapter of the Pink Heals. (We will drop a link to their Facebook page near the bottom.) The Pink Heals team have a single mission....to help bring happiness to folks that are struggling to find a reason to be happy. This group is national at http://www.pinkfiretrucks.org/ and they travel everywhere for the same mission. The Pink Heals touched our lives and we wanted to help share their story.
If you see one of these trucks out ask to buy a shirt. Hand them $20. Pay for meals, fuel, oil changes......anything. All contributions STAY IN YOUR COMMUNITY! If you know someone struggling at life right now (not just cancer) please google these guys and girls and get your loved one on a visit list. You won't soon forget the outpouring of love that you'll receive.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/692299621127600/ (local Chapter FB page)
Pinkhealsofhowco@gmail.com
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What She Wishes He Knew
This is an insightful ride from years past. Listen as special guests Brayden and Garet Broens discuss learning a new step mom.....twice! That's not enough...then listen and Jamie and Amanda get their point of view too!
From there the group discusses an article relating to "What I wished my husband knew" . Hear Jamie and Amanda discuss feelings from this and past relationships as well as Denny defend himself as always!
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Welcome to the new Studio!
Hey there! Thank you for listening and we hope you'll hit that "Like" button and "Subscribe" too! For today's episode we should sound better as we're finally in the our new digs at the official "Every Joke has a Little Truth" Studio.
This is a "two-parter" and today introduces you to our boy Brayden, clear from his home in Hawaii. He'll tell the well known story of why his friends started coming around more when the yard was being mowed and Jamie was upstairs. This is just the tip of the iceberg. We also dive headfirst into the harder part of co-parenting "new" 12 year old boys........ you don't want to miss this one!
We're hitting our stride now so look for episodes to continue to release weekly.
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Rules, there's ALWAYS rules
On this very belated episode of Thank God Cancer Saved Our Divorce the group explores the beginning of a "co-parenting". You guessed it......it started with rules......no hair do's, no finger nail painting, no extra brothers or sisters. Could you share your first and possible only child?
They also discuss porn, Fathers and Mothers Day etiquette, school, and relationships.
Society says ex- couples have to hate each other. We say no. Listen now and you'll get an understanding why we say no way!
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Can a Birthday and Diagnosis Day be the same?
Amanda may or may not make up a word or two in this one (montrosity) and Denny makes "The Report" public in that Jamie is not the best at giving medicine properly.
Sit back and enjoy this round of Thank God Cancer Saved our Divorce.
Let's dip our toes in the Divorce and Cancer water.....shall we?
We know this one is BAD but we hope it gets your attention and ultimately gets better. We have a great story to tell and we hope you'll listen.