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AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

By Danny Vega & Sara Levine

Danny Vega, TikTok cringelord, and Sara Levine, meme queen master's student, read listener submissions & pilfer from the similarly-named subreddit. They discuss modern questions of morality, relationships, and juice (gossip). Why? To answer one simple question: am I the a**hole? Submit at https://aitapod.com
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356 AITA For having high expectations for my bachelorette party?

AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)Aug 01, 2022

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356 AITA For having high expectations for my bachelorette party?

356 AITA For having high expectations for my bachelorette party?

(2:25) - Where the Crawdad Sings SPOILERS

(6:51) - End of spoilers

(15:33) - Guess The Verdict

(23:21) - AITA For not letting daughter go to music festival after I accidentally saw her text?

(33:24) - AITA For having high expectations for my bachelorette party?

(44:04) - AITA For making our guests participate in our puppet-themed wedding?

have a great week

Aug 01, 202256:09
354 AITA for telling my BF I won't go for meals with him bc of how he eats?

354 AITA for telling my BF I won't go for meals with him bc of how he eats?

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(24:27) - Guess The Verdict

(38:41) - AITA for telling my BF I won't go for meals with him bc of how he eats?

(48:21) - AITA for seating all the vegans at one table at my wedding reception?

(1:01:03) - AITA for moving my neighbor's clothes?

Hope you enjoy it!

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Jul 25, 202201:07:53
352 xt: AITA for not allowing alcohol? (ft. Drew Freed)

352 xt: AITA for not allowing alcohol? (ft. Drew Freed)

(11:21) - AITA for not ducking down on a roller coaster so a family could get a family pic of just them?

(23:35) - AITA for not allowing alcohol?

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Jul 20, 202236:11
351 AITA for expecting wife to have dinner ready when I return from work?
Jul 18, 202201:09:28
349 xt: AITA for getting my mom kicked out of yoga class? (feat. Kat Heagberg)
Jul 15, 202201:03:10
348 xt: AITA for leaving my boyfriend after he pretended to push me over the Grand Canyon? (ft. Paulina Pinsky)
Jul 13, 202201:11:39
347 AITA for calling my stepson a loser?
Jul 11, 202255:56
345xt AITA for complaining about a Catholic school professor's homophobic comments? (ft. Justine)
Jul 07, 202238:59
344 AITA for circulating a petition to have a child removed from my kid's class? (ft. Dr. JPB Gerald)
Jul 04, 202238:57
342 AITA for telling my wife to sleep on the couch?
Jun 27, 202253:51
340 xt: AITA for being annoyed with my lizards old owner? (ft. Courtney)
Jun 22, 202245:34
339 AITA for wanting to go to a music festival even though my grandmother is dying?
Jun 20, 202201:09:24
337 xt: AITA for throwing out my mom after she threw out my weed? (ft. Nicci)
Jun 17, 202233:46
336 WIBTA if I told my white friend I don’t appreciate her weird obsession with black guys? (ft. Lauren)
Jun 15, 202244:03
335 AITA expecting my wife to pay back my student loans from her inheritance?
Jun 13, 202201:04:52
333 AITA for telling my sister off for saying she dodged a bullet with her ex?
Jun 06, 202239:47
331 xt: AITA for telling my friend that she is an asshole? (call-in show)
Jun 01, 202201:06:50
330 AITA for following someone home after road raging?
May 30, 202248:01
328 AITA for having my uncle arrested? (AITApod Live in Queens)
May 27, 202234:30
327 xt: Call-In Show: WIBTA telling my little sister she's not 'special-needs', just a spoiled brat?

327 xt: Call-In Show: WIBTA telling my little sister she's not 'special-needs', just a spoiled brat?

We have a jam-packed call-in show for you with some of our amazing patrons Keron, Krissa, and Nicky!
(3:30) - AITA my mom took my son to multiple doctor's visits and I didn’t know until today when I got a call saying I owe $1000 in medical bills?
(36:11) - WIBTA if I told my mom that my little sister isn't 'just special-needs' and that she is just a spoiled brat?
(43:21) - AITA for watching and doing nothing to help my husband when he was extremely ill?
Thanks for listening, gang
May 25, 202256:40
326 AITA for not telling my boyfriend that my dad is dating his ex?

326 AITA for not telling my boyfriend that my dad is dating his ex?

(3:35) - Guess The Verdict

(17:38) - AITA for asking my roomie for a 20 minutes heads up for when her boyfriend comes over? 

(26:37) - AITA for not telling my boyfriend that my dad is dating his ex?

(39:22) - AITA for telling my girlfriend she needed professional help and making her uncomfortable? 

Thanks for listening, gang

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May 23, 202247:56
324 AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to make an OnlyFans (ft. Keith and the Girl)?

324 AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to make an OnlyFans (ft. Keith and the Girl)?

(21:55) - AITA for going off on my wife after she made a sex sign to keep my mom from knocking on our bedroom door?

(35:41) - AITA for accidentally making my wife's coffee with her own breast milk?

(47:13) - AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to make an OnlyFans? 

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May 16, 202259:21
322 AITA for having gay sex? (ft. We're Having Gay Sex)

322 AITA for having gay sex? (ft. We're Having Gay Sex)

I'm joined by the hilarious and wonderful hosts, Ashley Gavin and Kate Sisk of We're Having Gay Sex to discuss just that. It's a very fun ep., and I'm just happy they put up with me. 

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(30:49) WIBTA if i call vaginas gross in front of someone who calls gay sex gross?

(39:20) AITA for asking about my sister's pronouns after she came out to me?

(56:49) AITA for how I respond to strangers' questions about gay sex?

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May 11, 202201:04:18
321 AITA telling my sister to apologize to my GF, Karen, for calling her "KC"?

321 AITA telling my sister to apologize to my GF, Karen, for calling her "KC"?

(10:39) - Guess The Verdict

(29:11) - AITA for not wanting to invite my husband's family to our gender reveal because of their sexism?

(41:26) - AITA for telling my sister she needs to apologize to my girlfriend because she purposely calls my girlfriend by the wrong name? (namesake, Karen and KC)

(49:07) - AITA for not empathizing for a vegan? (listener submish)

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May 09, 202201:00:50
319 AITA for telling my pregnant wife to drink more quietly?

319 AITA for telling my pregnant wife to drink more quietly?

(13:47) Guess The Verdict

(26:32) Update to AITA for flirting with my coworker?

(32:01) AITA for telling my pregnant wife to drink more quietly?

(46:45) AITA for not putting up with my girlfriend's stupid drug joke?

(01:00:00) AITA for not wanting to call my parents because my dad won't call me by the name I use?

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May 02, 202201:11:28
317 AITA for ordering pizza at a vegetarian wedding?

317 AITA for ordering pizza at a vegetarian wedding?

(20:48) Guess The Verdict

(37:33) AITA for ordering pizza at a vegetarian wedding?

(49:10) AITA for deleting my younger brother's secret "stash" of intimate photos?

(01:10:03) AITA for being mad at a bridesmaid?

Heyyy. Hope everyone is doing great. Thanks for listening to the pod :) - Danny 

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Apr 25, 202201:18:57
315 xt: AITA for saying she lied about being a lesbian tattoo artist? ft. Freydis

315 xt: AITA for saying she lied about being a lesbian tattoo artist? ft. Freydis

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I'm joined by our wonderful patron, Freydis to discuss some juice pertaining to tatts, piercings, being working class and more. Don't miss it, folks!

(9:11) AITA for not being supportive of my wife’s giant tattoo? 

(20:38) AITA for calling her a liar because she lied about being a lesbian?

(38:48) AITA for having a trashy piercing while pregnant?

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Apr 22, 202240:27
314 AITA for photoshopping my Maid of Honor's tattoos in my wedding pics?

314 AITA for photoshopping my Maid of Honor's tattoos in my wedding pics?

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(6:36) Guess The Verdict

(19:13) AITA for removing my Maid of Honor's tattoos via photoshop in my wedding pictures?

(34:52) AITA for telling my husband his name suggestion for our unborn baby is idiotic AT BEST?

(48:00) AITA for not wanting to go to my husband's family's place for Easter? 

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Apr 18, 202257:14
313 xt: Ask a Therapist with Lindsey (no AITA sitches, unusual but lovely ep)

313 xt: Ask a Therapist with Lindsey (no AITA sitches, unusual but lovely ep)

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Hello wonderful listeners. This is an unusual ep as there are no AITA sitches. It's basically an hour of "get therapy." There's lot of juicy and interesting questions and you can find an elaborate table of contents below: 

(00:00): Intro AITA w/ Lindsey  

(00:40): Lindsey’s roommate needed therapy after learning how bad Danny's therapists were  

(03:25): Do patients ever insult their therapists?  

(04:28): What’s Lindsey's experience with couples in open or poly relationships? 

(06:52):  Do you think the impulse to open up your relationship is rooted in avoiding current issues?  

(09:35) Generalizing about the sexes - is it really rooted in our relationships with our parents?  

(12:03) What are some red flags as to whether a therapist is a bad fit?  

(14:05) Danny details his nightmare therapists: the Freudian, tree drawer.   

(16:29): Therapist Green Flags and experiences  

(19:14): When you tell your therapist something about your ex and they say "I do that!" + Finding a therapist that fits your identity   

(22:19): The importance of trusting your instincts in relationships   

(24:23): Do you believe in anti-depressant medicine? Have you ever told a patient they need medicine as a replacement for therapy?  

(27:32) What are signs a person isn’t going to do well in therapy? Linds says what does “do well” mean?   

(29:55): How to approach your first time in therapy?   

(32:32) Writing every single thing down can be therapeutic.  

(34:30): Do couples therapy/ go the extra mile to work on things before you truly end it.  

(34:48): Do you ever look back on your relationship and think what if?   

(35:31)Do you think people should come to therapy w/ a plan?   

(36:44) On the importance of taking therapy seriously.   

(39:53) Linds has dealt w/ peoples tempers. Making a bigger deal about something than it needs to be.  

(40:49): How to deal with relationship anxiety?   

(43:17): How to handle a horrible roommate situation including late rent,  odors, bad dog owner, bipolar and depressive

Apr 14, 202201:11:57
311 TW: AITA for telling my girlfriend to shave her arms?

311 TW: AITA for telling my girlfriend to shave her arms?

TRIGGER WARNING: This is a topic area that is usually pretty upsetting for listeners. I think I did an OK job, but just want to warn you. As always, feel free to submit to aitapod.com if you have any issues. Always here to learn from y'all!

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Table of contents: 

(14:39) - Guess The Verdict: AITA for not being as busy as my wife?

(25:27) - AITA for telling my girlfriend to shave her arms?

(49:38) - AITA for walking out of a restaurant bc my girlfriend ordered spaghetti?

(01:07:22) AITA for flirting with my coworker?

Much love thanks for listening. 

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Apr 11, 202201:19:06
309 AITA for tipping a waitress $0.59?

309 AITA for tipping a waitress $0.59?

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Hey guys, thanks for listening. I'm sorry some of you didn't enjoy the Jordan Peterson prank, but there were an equal number of folks who thought it was among the best eps ever. We will always give you the tried-and-true style many of you are here for, (and you can get it twice a week with the bonus eps on patreon). Some of y'all want only eps with Sara, no worries! Almost all non-Sara eps start with "xt:".

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Thanks all and have a wonderful week.

TABLE OF CONTENTS: 

(12:08) AITA for eating at the same restaurant as my husband's family? (mini-coverage, which was stupid of me, my bad) 

(16:08) A--holes At: The Awards Show 

(22:11) Guess The Verdict: AITA for asking my dad and stepmom what kind of sick joke they're trying to play?

(29:00) AITA for telling my friend that her dog is overweight?

(39:22) AITA for tipping a waitress $0.59?

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Apr 04, 202249:23
308 xt: AITA for asking my roommate to stop eating so much meat? (ft. Dr. Jordan B. Peterson)

308 xt: AITA for asking my roommate to stop eating so much meat? (ft. Dr. Jordan B. Peterson)

I'm joined by esteemed intellectual and Canadian Psychologist, Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, to discuss several AITA situations. We start with (22:23) AITA for refusing to give my cousin a pep talk and saying he's acting like an incel? After (32:27) it's AITA for not wanting to pay for my son's worthless degree? Finally, we wrap up on (39:09) the namesake, which Dr. Peterson particularly enjoyed, AITA for asking my roommate to stop eating so much meat?

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Disclaimer:  Some see morality as subjective. Ethics at their best are intellectualized empathy and the pinnacle behavior of human kind, but sanctimony can also be a weapon of oppression. Sara and Danny are human beings with limited experience, knowledge, and understanding of others. Danny has been soft-cancelled thrice times by his own listeners for saying ignorant things, but he does apologize when called out. Horses are majestic and enchiladas are delicious. Listening to over 50 eps and not joining the patreon is a crime. Just kiddddding. Love ya. 

Apr 01, 202248:07
306 AITA for making my daughter move her pet rabbit outside due to my stepson's allergies?

306 AITA for making my daughter move her pet rabbit outside due to my stepson's allergies?

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SKIP to Guess The Verdict: (8:35). First sitch (19:20) AITA for making my daughter move her pet rabbit outside due to my stepson's allergies? Second sitch (37:33) AITA for having kids at my wedding? Finally we wrap up (48:29) on AITA IF I DONT GO ON A VACATION WITH MY BOYFRIEND AND HIS WHOLE FAMILY?

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Disclaimer:  Morality is considered by some to be inherently subjective. Ethics at their best are intellectualized empathy and the pinnacle behavior of human kind, but sanctimony can also be a weapon of oppression. Sara and Danny are human beings with limited experience, knowledge, and understanding of others'. Danny has been soft-cancelled thrice times by his own listeners for saying ignorant things, but he does apologize when called out. Horses are majestic and enchiladas are delicious. Listening to over 50 eps and not joining the patreon is a crime. No animals were harmed during the filming of this episode.

Mar 28, 202256:36
304 xt: AITA setting a boundary with my wife and bro to not watch anime together? (ft. James)

304 xt: AITA setting a boundary with my wife and bro to not watch anime together? (ft. James)

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(21:59) - skip to first sitch. I'm joined by our awesome patron, James to discuss some situations and even, dare I say, spend some time LOOKING INWARD. Wild stuff. First up it's (21:59) AITA for recommending a TV show based on there being a gay character? Next up, at (27:30) it's AITA for not wanting a handmade blanket in the bedroom? We wrap up on (37:37) AITA for setting a boundary with my wife and my brother that they stop watching anime together?


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Mar 23, 202255:20
303 AITA wife keeps opening my window when I've told her I want it dark?

303 AITA wife keeps opening my window when I've told her I want it dark?

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Skip to guess the verdict: (5:16). At (16:38) find the first sitch, AITA for telling my mom to get over herself or don't come to my wedding? After, it's the namesake, (31:26) "AITA - wife keeps opening my window when i've told her I want it dark"? We wrap on a listener submish (43:24) AITA for wearing white to a wedding?


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Mar 21, 202249:03
302 xt: AITA for not looking after a horse (ft. Kiera)?

302 xt: AITA for not looking after a horse (ft. Kiera)?

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(10:51) - Skip to the first sitch: AITA for canceling dinner when my boyfriend brought a bell to the diner to grab the staffs attention? Followed by (16:16) WIBTA for asking a former hookup to pay for my STD screening? Then we wrap up on ((22:27) AITA for not looking after a horse?

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Mar 18, 202232:05
300 xt: AITA for not telling family friends that my daughter is trans? (ft. Sky)

300 xt: AITA for not telling family friends that my daughter is trans? (ft. Sky)

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I'm joined by our wonderful trans patron, Sky to discuss some trans issues and hopefully not saying anything too stupid... maybe though. Please don't cancel me, I'm trying my best, folks! Skip to first stich (3:03), AITA for not giving my poor trans friend my binder when I'm just a crossdresser. Followed by (14:00) AITA for not telling family friends that my daughter is trans? We wrap it up on a fun one at (25:27) AITA for turning my yard into a native micro prairie.

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Mar 16, 202236:07
299 AITA for not splurging on a staycation for my wife's birthday?

299 AITA for not splurging on a staycation for my wife's birthday?

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Skip to Guess the Verdict: (13:24). First sitch is the namesake at (24:39), AITA for not splurging on a staycation for my wife's birthday? After, at 37:08, it's AITA for threatening to call the police on my dad?  We wrap up (45:40) on a listener submish for the ages, WIBTA if I gave the man at the gym deodorant?

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Mar 14, 202252:27
297 AITA for kicking my mom out of my house bc her partner didn't like my wife’s chili?

297 AITA for kicking my mom out of my house bc her partner didn't like my wife’s chili?

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(9:53) - skip the banter to a little game of GTV. Next up, at (22:15)AITA for going to my friends Unwedding reception (THE UPDATE)?  Followed by (29:14) AITA for turning down a family vacation because I would have to pay and my sister wouldn’t? Then we have a couple listener submishes at (26:17) AITA for archiving a chat on my phone because the profile picture was so bad? Then, (27:53) AITA for having a crush on Danny? We wrap up on the namesake at (38:56).'

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Mar 07, 202254:05
296 xt: AITA for saying asexual people don't have to "come out?" (ft. Nicci)

296 xt: AITA for saying asexual people don't have to "come out?" (ft. Nicci)

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Skip to guess the verdict: (10:17). Today it's the return of our amazing EP patron, Nicci! Our first sitch is would I be the asshole if I asked a girl if she was trans (18:44)? Then it's the namesake, (35:57). Finally, we have AITA for telling my overweight coworker if she ate like me she'd look like me (49:47)?

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Mar 04, 202201:11:56
294 AITA for refusing to share rent proportionately?

294 AITA for refusing to share rent proportionately?

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Skip banter, straight to Guess the Verdict: (15:40). First up (24:42), it's a very juice-tacular, WIBTA if I go to my younger daughter's wedding? Then it's the namesake (38:19), AITA for refusing to share rent proportionately? We wrap up on a listener submish for the ages, (47:20), AITA for Taking the Nice Bed in the Camper and "Forcing" My Religious BIL to Sleep with His fiancée?

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Feb 28, 202254:35
293 xt: AITA for being from Casa Grande, Arizona? (Ft. Troy Row)

293 xt: AITA for being from Casa Grande, Arizona? (Ft. Troy Row)

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Skip to first sitch (17:52), it's AITA for warning people that a cactus is prickly? Next up, (25:40) it's AITA for refusing to pay my mom a tenth of what I make? Don't miss our mandatory reporting on CG Chat, Casa Grande's #1 facebook group, where we discuss "Did anyone else’s gas bill go crazy this month?" (42:00). Then, It’s (49:40) AITA for refusing to shoot a pet killing coyote? We wrap up on (1:04:48) AITA because I think Walmart is the coolest place ever?

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Feb 25, 202201:24:13
291 WIBTA for going to my friend's un-wedding reception?

291 WIBTA for going to my friend's un-wedding reception?

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Skip to Guess The Verdict: (11:47). First up at (23:48) it's AITA for telling my daughter to butt out of my personal life and asking her to stay with her mom? Then it's the namesake at (38:53). We wrap up on a listener submish (49:11), AITA for flying back to my college apartment for a job interview during the height of the COVID pandemic?

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Feb 21, 202255:08
290 AITA for being upset that my roommate didn't tell us he was bisexual? (feat. Janki)

290 AITA for being upset that my roommate didn't tell us he was bisexual? (feat. Janki)

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Skip to the first sitch: (27:31). Today's episode we are joined by executive producer (by proxy) Janki! We get into bi erasure, being a business major at Berkeley, and my bias against girls with unorthodox names on Hinge.  First up it's the namesake. Then it's AITA for not liking Indian food (39:59)?

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Feb 18, 202252:17
288 TW, xt: AITA not telling the new employee that the others are ex-cons? (Ft. Jimmie Whisman)

288 TW, xt: AITA not telling the new employee that the others are ex-cons? (Ft. Jimmie Whisman)

TRIGGER WARNING: suicide, abuse, sexual abuse. Nightmare fuel. White dudes talking about racism. SERIOUS TRIGGER WARNING.

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I'm joined by Jimmie Whisman, host of Small Town Murder and Crime in Sports. First up it's AITA for not telling the new employee that most of the others have criminal records (29:58)? After it's Assholes At: The Crime Scene (39:19). Then it's a revisiting of a classic: AITA for buying a "murder house" and not having a problem living in it (45:22)? We wrap on AITA for thinking "white trash" is a racist term (01:01:02)?

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Feb 16, 202201:17:10
287 AITA For explaining to my 5-year-old nephew where meat comes from?

287 AITA For explaining to my 5-year-old nephew where meat comes from?

Guess the Verdict: (22:52). Then at (34:01) it's WIBTA if I tell my SIL her Infertility is because of her getting a IUD after having her son 6 years ago? Then, at (41:48) the namesake. After at (49:57) it's the cryptically titled: Not so much an AITA, but WhoIsTA?


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Feb 14, 202259:18
285 ​​AITA for taking away my daughter’s college money?

285 ​​AITA for taking away my daughter’s college money?

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Guess the verdict: (16:23). Our first sitch is the namesake, (33:16). Then it's AITA for calling the parents of the kid I babysit sexist and refusing to work for them anymore (51:45)? We wrap up on a mutation, AITA For Seeking an Annulment Over a Wedding Cake Face Smash (01:08:57)?


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Feb 07, 202259:50
283 AITA for uninviting my GF to a family dinner because she wouldn't dress modestly?

283 AITA for uninviting my GF to a family dinner because she wouldn't dress modestly?

Skip to GTV: (11:43). Skip to first sitch: (25:46); it's AITA for making breakfast way before my kids wake up? Then it's A**holes At: The Hotel (35:07). After it's the namesake at roughly (38:47). Finally we wrap up on (1:04:33) AITA For telling my childhood best friend I don't like her anymore and pulling myself out of her wedding.

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Jan 31, 202201:18:03
281 xt: The return of WIBTA for not going to my lesbians daughter's wedding? (feat. Dan from London)

281 xt: The return of WIBTA for not going to my lesbians daughter's wedding? (feat. Dan from London)

Skip to the first sitch: (15:50). We have a very special return guest today, Dan from London.  We start off with the namesake. Then we've got AITA for coming out as gay at my sister's wedding (33:53)? And finally, a listener's submish -- AITA for evicting my friend for acting like my house is hers? (44:36)

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Jan 27, 202258:58
280 AITA for telling an employee to stop using "weaponized incompetence?"

280 AITA for telling an employee to stop using "weaponized incompetence?"

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GTV: 13:22. We have an update on a listener submish at 26:15: AITA for making a mutual friend pay for her share of a trip she didn't attend. Then at 40:00 it's the heinously annoying, AITA for not eating food I don't like. Finally, it's the namesake at 50:13. Don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe. Much love all y’all.

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Jan 24, 202259:27