The Dialogue Sessions
By A Living Letter Ministries
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The Dialogue SessionsMar 04, 2019
Can we have the humility and mercy to live in the tension? A continued conversation on Alister Begg and Drew's response in the Christian Post.
We process Drew's recent articles in Christian Post and seek to understand how to live in the nuances of life and theology around people who struggle LGBTQ identities and the struggle of how to be a christian witness.
Does Alistair Begg have a point about gay weddings? Let's discuss.
In an episode of the dialogue session, Executive Director of A Living Letter, Drew Berryessa and podcast co-host Mark Kroeker, discuss Drews op-ed with the Christian Post. We talk through the pushback that Drew has received and do our best to relate to the various perspectives that are being shared. Take a listen and check out the ministry at alivingletter.org where our mission our mission is to build up the Church to understand and respond to the issues of sexual brokenness from a fully biblical foundation, equally rooted in truth and love.
Singleness & Sexuality
In this episode, seasoned Christian and pastor Kim Butcher joins us to dialogue about the impact of singleness in her life. Often in Church, marriage is made to be the end goal, leading many to feel incomplete and lonely. Singleness can amplify self-pity and victimhood, but Kim reminds us that our worth and fulfillment is not determined by our relationship status but by the depth of our intimacy with Christ and through vibrant Christian fellowship. Through her rich experience and deep biblical understanding, Kim guides us to a refreshing perspective on singleness, illuminating how it can be a time of incredible growth, purpose, satisfaction in our sexuality, and closeness to God.
Whether you are married, single, struggling with your sexuality/identity, or a layperson/leader within the Church, this episode will absolutely resonate with every Believer. You will gain practical insights on how to best create a culture within the Church where every individual experiences authentic community and love in which to flourish in their walk with the Lord.
So You Want To Go Back To Egypt?
In this enlightening episode, we address the complex reality for those individuals that go back on their commitment to Jesus to embrace a gay/transgender identity. We unpack the factors contributing to this decision and how the Church should respond. Many themes play out in a lot of these stories. Let's explore these themes and address people's skepticism toward our ministry and message.
Not only do we discuss the obstacles within the Church that may promote relapse, but we learn about anxious attachment styles and how it relates to our identity and intimacy with Christ.
Throughout the episode, Drew emphasizes the ongoing role of transformation in the lives of believers. He acknowledges that the process of following Jesus is not always linear, and individuals may experience setbacks or periods of wavering commitment. However, he reminds listeners that transformation is a lifelong journey, and the Church should strive to provide a nurturing environment that encourages growth, grace, and forgiveness. You really don't want to miss this one!
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Can Boycotts Be Biblical?
We are in a cultural moment. This Pride month is full of boycotts, and the cancel culture is in full force. How should we engage in this as Believers? Should we be involved in boycotts, and if so, how do we do it without tarnishing our witness?
Drew shares his pastoral and practical perspective on what happens when we prioritize our own sense of righteousness over the well-being and dignity of others.
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The Healing Process
Is healing for our gender confusion or same-sex attractions available? If so, what steps should we take in pursuing this? In this episode, Drew gives insight into the discipleship journey toward sexual and relational wholeness. We discuss the holistic approach we must take as we surrender our sexuality and identity under the Lordship of Christ.
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Hatred vs. Disagreement: Navigating the Tension
Disagreement in our culture has become misconstrued as being hateful. In this dialogue, Drew shares how we can lovingly disagree with gay ideology. We also address the dangers of claiming a Gay & Christian identity. You won't believe how it harms our walk with God. Join us for this conversation. We value you!
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The Theology of Gender
You were made on purpose for a purpose. Do you know what that is?
In this video, Drew presents clearly and compassionately God's intention for gender and how we can live fully alive in Him as we embrace what it truly means to be men and women.
Let's dismantle stereotypes and bad theology to live in God's profound and beautiful purpose for gender and sexuality.
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Funerals For All: A Pastor's Dilemna
In this episode, we dive into the controversial topic of a pastor's decision to refuse to conduct a funeral for an LGBTQ person. We explore the implications of denying a family comfort and care and what prejudices and perspectives may have led to his decision. Drew shares his pastoral heart on conviction vs. comfort, forgiveness vs. reconciliation, and how to move forward with boundaries in a new, safe, thriving community.
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How Social Media Impacts Sexuality
And we are back for another episode!
In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we dive deep into the impact of social media on sexuality and the need for the Church to have deeper conversations about gender and sex. We also explore the latest statistics and facts surrounding transgender identity and de-transitioning, as well as tackle the idea of asexuality and how, if so, it is a legitimate expression of sexuality. We leave no stone unturned in this thought-provoking and informative episode! Whether you seek a richer understanding of these complex issues or a fresh and godly perspective, we ask you to join us for an enlightening conversation that will challenge you and leave you incredibly encouraged.
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A Dialogue about Transgenderism Part Two w/ KathyGrace Duncan
This week we finish her testimony and tackle some practical questions like: pronouns and name changes, how levels of relationship impact how you minister, and how we can just fun to disarm those who are struggle to build trust and grow in deeper relationship.
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KathyGrace Duncan: A Dialogue about Transgenderism
We can't wait for you to hear the testimony of how God moved in the life of a woman suffering from gender dysmorphia/transgender identity. From living falsely as Keith to how God intended, KathyGrace shares authentically and beautifully her life journey with us. Come back for Part Two of her testimony.
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Part 3: Why Should I pursue Christian Values?
I am is much happier now that I have left Christian Fundamentalism and am pursuing the gay lifestyle. When I am living the gay lifestyle I feel fulfilled and at peace. I’ve tried praying away the gay and lived in repression for so long. Why should I pursue a lifestyle with Christian values that doesn’t allow me to be gay?
Drew is tackling this question in three parts. For this final episode, we will address this part of the question: Why should I pursue a lifestyle with Christian values that doesn’t allow me to be gay?
Let's discuss this complex question together.
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PART TWO: Pray Away The Gay
Someone bravely and honestly submitted a question to us:
I am is much happier now that I have left Christian Fundamentalism and am pursuing the gay lifestyle. When I am living the gay lifestyle I feel fulfilled and at peace. I’ve tried praying away the gay and lived in repression for so long. Why should I pursue a lifestyle with Christian values that doesn’t allow me to be gay?
Drew is tackling this question in three parts. For this episode (the SECOND part of this series), we will address this part of the question: I’ve tried praying away the gay and lived in repression for so long.
Let's discuss this complex question together.
If you would like to submit a question or a topic please email cynthia@alivingletter.org
Part One: Why I left Christian Fundamentalism to Pursue the Gay Lifestyle
Someone bravely and honestly submitted a question to us:
I am is much happier now that I have left Christian Fundamentalism and am pursuing the gay lifestyle. When I am living the gay lifestyle I feel fulfilled and at peace. I’ve tried praying away the gay and lived in repression for so long. Why should I pursue a lifestyle with Christian values that doesn’t allow me to be gay?
Drew is tackling this question in three parts. For this episode we will address the first sentence: I am is much happier now that I have left Christian Fundamentalism and am pursuing the gay lifestyle.
Let's discuss this complex question together.
If you would like to submit a question or a topic please email cynthia@alivingletter.org
Radical Hospitality: An Antidote for Sexual Brokenness
What is biblical hospitality?
Does it conflict with 1 Corinthians 5:1?
How can God use hospitality to heal those who are marginalized because of their sexuality and identity?
Hospitality has been a key instrument in bringing healing for Drew & Cynthia in their journey toward relational and sexual wholeness. Join the dialogue to hear the details of what that looked like for them. Together, we can continue to engage hearts by opening our homes and welcoming all into our faith communities.
Identity Crisis and the Cure
We are excited to share Drew's fresh take on walking in our Christian identity. After a long process of allowing Jesus to make 2 Cor 5:17 a reality in his life, Drew imparts biblical wisdom through a pastoral perspective on this topic.
This episode is for you, whether or not you're impacted by LGBTQ concerns. We believe you will be encouraged and gain valuable insight for your soul to be anchored in Christ's identity for your life.
Deconstructing Stereotypes
Winsome & Wisdom
What do you do as a pastoral team when an LGTBQ+ identified person wants to serve in a leadership position?
Whether you are in church leadership, lay counseling, or a loved one, YOU WILL NOT WANT TO MISS THIS EPISODE! IT IS SO GOOD!
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Our Mission & Vision (Uncut Version)
P.S. This such an encouraging episode, you'll want to share with your sphere of influence! Whether that's your Pastor or someone you love who is struggling with broken sexual identity, we believe it will be blessing for anyone who listens.
Name Changes & New Pronouns
Drew & Cynthia answer the submitted question: My transgender daughter requested that we use only masculine pronouns when referring to her in conversation. We want to honor her but we feel this is empowering a false identity. What is the appropriate response?
Grab your coffee and sit with us as we discuss.
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A Tribute to Sy Rogers
Drew Berryessa discusses the life and impact of Sy Rogers, a pioneer in sexual wholeness ministry.
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Pursuing Wholeness during COVID19
Living Letter update for the COVID19 season!
Sexual & relational wholeness doesn't stop because of a pandemic. How can we effectively live out the gospel in our sexuality during this time?
Grab your coffee and come dialogue with us. We pray that you are encouraged.
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Advocacy For The Rights of the Church
In this episode, we DIALOGUE with Drew about two major events that A Living Letter was a part of in protecting the rights of those who struggle with sexual brokenness within the church. Let's discuss what laws that are in motion and how we together can link arms to stand for the Church. Listen to hear the update and happenings of what happened recently in Boston with state legislators and listen to actual footage from the hearing.
We can have hard conversations together as a family. Listen if you would like to join us in the discussion!
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Episode 2- Navigating Relationships with Opponents
Do you have a gay-identified family member? Are you friends with someone who is transgendered? Do you struggle with how to approach the topic of their sexuality and identity?
We often get asked questions that involve how to navigate in a relationship with those who have opposing world-views on sexuality.
In this episode, we DIALOGUE with Drew about the different ways we can be better and love better in these relationships. Listen if you would like to join us in the discussion!
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A Living Letter Resources
In this podcast episode, we officially launch the A Living Letter podcast and introduce our ministry, the heart behind what we do and some of the resources we offer!
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Are We There Yet? The Book
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