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Alpha Parent

Alpha Parent

By Yulia Rafailova, Executive Function Coach
Alpha parents are confident and outcome independent. They focus on creating a safe, secure, and non-judgmental space for their child to explore, learn, and grow. Alpha's know that in order to teach their child how to navigate the world, they must model the behavior, habits, and skills they want their child to learn.
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Executive Power and Parenting in the Modern Culture

Alpha Parent

QuaranTEEN Ep2 | Transformation, with Jude
I talk to my 16 year old coaching client, Jude, about navigating relationships, academics, ADHD, and the quarantine. 
July 3, 2020
QuaranTEEN Ep1 | Playing the Game, with Nathan
I talk to my 17 year old coaching client, Nathan, about navigating school, ADHD, and the quarantine.
June 1, 2020
Mother's Day, Inner Child Meditation
To all the moms who sacrifice so much for your families, I see you. I hear you. I acknowledge you. I wish you more joy, more peace, more play, and more self-compassion on this Mother's Day and beyond. Here's a gift for you - a meditation to connect you with your inner-child. Written by the brilliant, Katie Krimitsos, of the Women's Mediation network, and recorded by me.
May 10, 2020
The Failure of Modern Schooling | A Conversation with Creativity Guru, Jon Pearson
Jon Pearson has been called an “imagination guru” and a “maestro of creativity.” He combines his skills as artist, writer and speaker to awaken, entertain and inform his audiences whether he’s speaking about humor techniques, visual thinking or storytelling. Jon’s core message is “Imagination will set you free.” He believes that along with courage and caring, creativity is what will save the world. And he believes that creativity starts with imagination and goes way beyond “the arts.” Jon has worked with artists, writers, educators, businesspeople and life coaches—over one million people around the world. He is a Distinguished Leader of the Creative Education Foundation and has been a featured speaker for many state and national conferences. He received from the U.S. Patent Model Foundation’s national “Creativity Conference for Educators” the highest workshop ratings in its history.  Jon has a lot to say about the system of modern schooling and how we can reimagine it to better serve the needs of students, teachers, and society.
May 3, 2020
Executive Power and Parenting in the Modern Culture
I talk to Political Philosophy Professor, Dr. Nicholas Dungey, about the role of executive function and executive power in the modern Western Culture. Parents will learn how to trade power for influence and how to guide their kids to develop self-awareness and self-governance in the age of impulsivity and endless acquisition.  (Warning: This is a Deep Dive! Find more awesome podcasts by Professor Nicholas Dungey at
March 17, 2020
When Autism Grows Up - Interview with Coach Lynn C. Davison
Parents, If the thought of your child becoming an independent adult seems like an impossibility right now, please know that that's OK. Raising a differently-wired child means letting go of the traditional roadmap to adulthood and helping your young adult design their unique path toward a fulfilling life that they can manage.  In this interview, life coach, Lynn C Davison and I boil down the process of parenting into a concrete system that helps you shift from the impossible to the possible, and into the inevitable. P.S., You can find Lynn on her website at; on Facebook at; or email her at
December 2, 2019
A new perspective on parenting with Conscious Parent Coach, Naomi Rodriguez
If you could boil down parenting into one concrete action, what would it be? Join me and Conscious Parent Coach, Naomi Rodriguez, in this conversation about finding your parenting groove. 
November 11, 2019
Calm your nervous system & heal trauma through breathwork [Interview]
I'm thrilled to bring you this interview with my personal meditation and breathwork coach, Jeannie Kulwin. I can say without hesitation that this is one of the most important conversations I've shared on this podcast.    Here's why...   Many of us (myself included) go OUT OF OUR WAY not to feel our feelings.    We would rather...  Binge watch TV shows  Binge eat carbs and sugars  Drink excessively  Smoke Cigarettes  Work ourselves ragged  Run up credit card debt on "retail therapy"  Spend countless hours on social media and gaming While this stuff provides us with some momentary relief, we know it's really a way for us to avoid dealing with uncomfortable thoughts and feelings. So, on top of the built-up stress, we pile on the self-criticism and shame...and so the cycle continues. How do we break this vicious cycle? How do we recharge our batteries and have enough energy to power through the day? How do we actually reduce our stress and heal our trauma? How can we teach kids do the same? There is no cookie-cutter answer here... Each of us need to embark on our own self-care journey and find what works for us. I hope that sharing my personal journey helps to illuminate the path forward for you. In service, Yulia 
October 8, 2019
An Open Letter to Parents
In this episode, I read my Open Letter to Parents about 1) the five symptoms of micromanaging your kid, 2) the negative effects that it causes, 3) the common excuses that keep you stuck, and 4)how you can turn it all around. Read this letter and check out my weekly vlog on
September 10, 2019
Emotionally Unsafe Classroom
In this series, teacher and mom, LaTanya Carter, speaks to me about navigating her kindergartener, 3rd grader, and 8th grader through LAUSD. In this episode we talk about what happens in your child's brain and body in an emotionally unsafe classroom as well as how to reframe your child's negative experience if they don't like their teacher.
October 3, 2018
Summer to Fall Transitions
In this series, teacher and mom, LaTanya Carter, speaks to me about navigating her kindergartener, 3rd grader, and 8th grader through LAUSD. In this episode we discuss the transition from summer to the fall school semester and expecting the unexpected.
September 14, 2018
NO SHAME Parenting
In this podcast my friend, math professor, and mother of seven, LaTanya Carter, shares her insights about parenting seven completely different individuals, and the importance of freedom in her home. Quotes from our conversation: "I became combative, because I didn't want the opposition, so I was fearful that she [my daughter] was taking over. So I would react in ways, that I think now, were ridiculous."
August 16, 2018
Does your Child have GRIT?
In today's podcast: I speak to math professor and mom of seven kids, LaTanya Carter, about identity, grit, and navigating the dysfunctional public school system. P.S. Like this podcast? Thank you! Please share it to help me reach more parents. Quotes from our conversation: "It never shows up on her report card, though, because this is not what we're testing in school. And for her, the grit is lost in the system, and she loses a part of herself." "At some point, I had to realize the things I'm being asked to take from her, are later going to be asked from me to give back to her, to empower her."
August 16, 2018