Oya's Love Light Ase

These are tips for relationships that are still salvageable not for relationships that were violent or hurt you mentally in ways that you can't just get over. this is for healing and renewal.

Your trauma is not your shame and it is not your scarlet letter for you to wear across your chest. Your trauma is your stepping stone to finding your true strength. It is your testimony and it is work to fix but it is totally doable. The first step in taking control away from your trauma is acknowledging it and then doing the footwork to achieve the best life you are meant to live and not just exist in.

Faith without works is dead not only in religion but in spirituality as well. you have to put in the footwork for yourself or nobody else will.

Turning your Poison into Purpose and Using it to become Better and not Bitter

Take the stones thrown at you and build your foundation and with the remainder turn them into your Pillows. Find rest and clarity during your storms.

“The Principle of Priority states (a) you must know the difference between what is urgent and what is important, and (b) you must do what’s important first.”. Your Priorities must always Out Weigh your Desires.

If the only vision we have of ourselves comes from the social mirror or from the current social paradigm and from the opinions perceptions and paradigms of the people around us then our view of ourselves is like the reflection and the crazy mirror room at the carnival. These visions are disjointed and out of proportion they are often more projections than reflections projecting the concerns and character weaknesses of people giving the input rather than accurately reflecting what and who we are.

Dealing with Paternal and Maternal Scars.

Kiss Good-bye those people, places, things, past, hurt and shame. You are wonderfully and beautifully made.

The Path of Self Discovery is a process that helps create a balanced life and Harmony with self which leads to a deeper understanding when you are on a spiritual journey

When enough b is enough.

Ground with Water. Water is the carrier of your emotions and allows your subconscious thoughts to flow into your awareness. Working with it will help you tap into the healing properties of water. The element of water also carries a message of how beautiful and powerful a life lived in the energy of flow can be. What it reminds us of what is possible when we completely surrender to the energy of allowance and trust that all unfolds exactly as it's meant to be. Water is cleansing. Water is grounding. Water is life flow.

Drawing from the source when all you have left is self. Is your foundation strong enough to sustain yourself when others and things fall away

Suspend judgement on yourself : Shadow work is a practice of healing and self-growth, which means that it requires surrender and acceptance. Instead of attacking everything that you don't want to think, feel, or address, go into this process with an attitude of compassion for yourself and your experiences.

Each of us has a center though we usually don't recognize it as such neither do we recognize the all-encompassing effects of the center on every aspect of our lives.
There is little security, guidance, wisdom or power in The limited center of self like the Dead Sea in Palestine it accepts but never gives it becomes stagnant.
On the other hand paying attention to the development of Self in the greater perspective of improving one's ability to serve, to produce, and to contribute meaningful ways give context for dramatic increase in our life support factors.
There are some common centers from which people approach life it is often much easier to recognize the center in someone else's life and see it in your own. You probably know someone who puts making money ahead of everything else. You probably know someone who's energy is devoted to justifying his or her position and ongoing negative relationship.
If you look you can sometimes see beyond behavior into the center that creates it but where do you stand? What is the center of your own life? Sometimes that isn't easy to see perhaps the best way to identify your own center is to look closely at your life support factors .
More often than not a person's center is some combination of these and or other centers. Most people are very much a function of a variety of influences that play upon their lives depending on the external or internal conditions one particular center may be activated into the underlying needs are satisfied then another center becomes a compelling Force as a person fluctuates from one center to another. The resulting relativism is like roller coasting through life one moment you're high the next moment you're low. Making efforts to compensate for one weakness by borrowing strengths from another weakness. There is no consistent sense of direction, no persistent wisdom, no steady power supply or sense of personal intrinsic Worth or identity.
The idea of course is to create one clear center from what you constantly derive a high degree of security, guidance, wisdom and power empowering your productivity and giving congruity and Harmony to every part of your life.

During air week assess and evaluate your life. Clear out your clutter if you do not love or use it get rid of it. Make commitments that empower you, do things you've been putting off or make a plan for doing them, get organized, make a space for meditation to relax relate release, examine your core beliefs, breathe become aware of the quality of the air you breathe, notice the sounds and the feelings in your environment, listen to inspirational music, breathe in positivity exhale negativity, sing shout use your throat chakra it breaks up stagnation and negative energy and communicate your truth to self

Albert Einstein observed, "The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them As we look at us and within us and recognize the problems created as we live and interact within the personality ethic. We begin to realize that these are deep fundamental problems that cannot be solved in The superficial level on which they were created we need a new level a deeper level of thinking a paradigm based on the principles that accurately describe the territory of effective human being and interacting to solve the deep rooted issues. Shadow Working

The personality ethic is illusionary and deceptive and trying to get high quality results with its techniques and quick fixes is just about as effective as trying to get to some place in Chicago using a map of Detroit. And all of life there are sequential stages of growth and development a child must learn to turn over to sit up to crawl and then to walk and run each step is important and each one takes time no step can be skipped this is true and All phases of life in all areas of development whether it be learning to play the piano or communicate effectively.

Flaws of the Personality Ethic.

To try to change outward attitude and behaviors does very little good in the long run if we fail to examine the basic paradigms from which those attitudes and behaviors flow.

Our paradigms, powerfully affect the way we interact with other people. As clearly as we see things we begin to realize that others see them differently from their own equally clear and objective point of view. Where we stand depends on where we Sit.

Each of us tend to think we see things as they are. That we are objective but this is not the case. We see the world not as it is but as we are or as we are conditioned to see it.

When we open our mouths to describe what we see, when in effect describe ourselves, our perceptions and our paradigms.

When other people disagree with us we immediately think something is wrong with them. Sincere clear-headed people see things differently each looking through the unique lens of experience. This doesn't mean there are no facts but each person's interpretation of these facts represents prior experiences and the facts have no meaning whatsoever apart from the interpretation.

The more aware we are of our basic paradigms maps or assumptions and of the extent to which we have been influenced by experience the more we can take responsibility for those paradigms. Examine them, test them against reality, listen to others and be open to their perceptions there by getting a larger picture and far more objective view of life and things around you.

Finding the Clarity in Chaos and Purpose in your Pain. With Special Guest

Signs of Toxic Relationships and ways to leave.

Even if you don't feel particularly powerful, think about how far you've come, how you've survived. You're here, right now, alive and powerful beyond your knowledge. Be patient with yourself. Self love may not happen overnight but with time it was settle itself into your heart. Yes, you may struggle, but you'll look back on these moments and see how they were stepping Stones on your journey to being the best you.

Sex and the Divinity

Better Days are Coming

Stop attaching yourself to the v whipping Post everytime someone does something to you.

Did you ever lie on bed with depression, thinking “i am full of flaws”, “i hate myself”, or even “I am worthless”?

Self-love is never an easy job. When we did something below expectation, we may sometimes fall into the anxiousness of not being good enough, judging ourselves harshly instead of appreciating ourselves for what we did.

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Here are 44 self love quotes that will inspire you to love yourself and be mentally stronger:

Did you ever lie on bed with depression, thinking “i am full of flaws”, “i hate myself”, or even “I am worthless”?

Self-love is never an easy job. When we did something below expectation, we may sometimes fall into the anxiousness of not being good enough, judging ourselves harshly instead of appreciating ourselves for what we did.


Here are 44 self love quotes that will inspire you to love yourself and be mentally stronger:

Powerful Morning Inspirational Quotes, Self Love Mantras and Affirmations with beautiful soul stirring music

The Devine Masculine and The Divine Feminine Dating Relationships and more with Immortal Butterfly 🦋, Jekeyia and Zuma Pride

Conversation with Immortal Butterfly 🦋

Trauma Bonding between Abuser and Victim.

Music and Dance has been a staple in spirituality. So listen and dance with the Ancestors as you Elevate your vibration.

Know the Difference between Setting Healthy Boundaries and Reacting out of (Toxic) Pride.

Facing your emotions in order to release the baggage that comes with living. Getting through so you can heal, prosper and elevate

Quotes, Poems, Music and Affirmations to start your day off with Positivity and Great Vibes

Missing the Message looking for the Mistake. The Art of Deflection.

I Am Morning and Night Soothing Affirmation Meditation and Podcast

Deal with your dissatisfactions, Identity Distractions, Write a vision and Implement Intentional Distractions

Making the conscious choices to surrender to the changes needed in order to evolve and find your Authentic Self and Authentic Purpose. The caterpillar must go through changes to become a butterfly.

Sacrificing well-being and happiness due to pressure from society. Society teaches us to do for others but to much pressure to be perfect causes us to sacrifice our own self love and care without thinking. Love yourself without condition or judgement.

6 ways to train your mind to think positive when starting or during your journey. Laws of the Universe you get back what you give out. Peace and Blessings.

Celebrate in joyful peace. Be contented with what you have. Dance sing, love, and create without anxiety. It is time to rest and to cease driving forward for a time. Be content but don't settle.

Purpose (Pele). Think clearly about your next steps. It is time to uncover your purpose. Create something new. Take action; do not hide or hesitate. Balance your emotional extremes

Uplifting look at the Panic behind the Pandemic....

Dying to fit in and also Living Healthy

Issues of abandonment and steps to take your power back offer your life.

Dealing with issues stemming from childhood father daughter relationships and taking your power back.......