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Make the Space with Ashley

Make the Space with Ashley

By Ashley Effrece

Welcome to Make the Space with Ashley. I'm a Puerto Rican from the Bronx trying to make a safe space to talk about everything mental health in a world and culture where mental health is taboo. This is a space where I will get real; share my experiences and on going journey with my mental health and my guests can do the same. We will cry, we will laugh, but most importantly, we will get through this together! Why? ¡Porque podemos! Hosted by Ashley Effrece
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Oh We Talking Teams!?: All about Support Systems

Make the Space with Ashley Mar 27, 2021

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Championing for Change in Perú

Championing for Change in Perú

Join me as I talk with special guest Steven Rivera Camacho about the mental health conference he’s putting together in a small community in Perú and more!
Feb 07, 202448:48
Seasonal Depression, KISS MY ASS!

Seasonal Depression, KISS MY ASS!

I’m back and talking about seasonal depression or SAD (seasonal affective disorder) I’m letting you all know the facts of seasonal depression and how I’m making it out the trenches!
Jan 17, 202432:16
Creatives Unite! with Special Guest Shaq

Creatives Unite! with Special Guest Shaq

Check out our new episode with returning special guest and executive producer Shaq. We are talking about what it means to be a creative, why it is important for our mental health journey, and more!
Jul 28, 202301:05:38
The Body Episode

The Body Episode

On this episode, I share my journey with my body image issues starting as young as 13, working through them, coming to love and acceptance and where I'm at now being 30 years old.
Jun 30, 202339:26
Death to my 20s, More Life in my 30s

Death to my 20s, More Life in my 30s

My 30th birthday was March 30th. In this episode I talk about the significance of my 30th birthday, how I celebrated, and what does my 30s mean to me. This episode is dedicated to little Ashley which is why I chose this picture as the cover for this episode💜
May 10, 202334:43
Weathering the Storm: Our Shared Experiences with Depressive Episodes

Weathering the Storm: Our Shared Experiences with Depressive Episodes

We're back with another episode and we got returning special guest, Shaq! This episode we talk about what it's like to experience a depressive episode and how we make it through one. Enjoy!
Sep 26, 202201:07:45
How a Man Benefited from My Abortion

How a Man Benefited from My Abortion

My abortion story is one of sexual assault, trauma, manipulation, coercion, and entrapment. Listen to learn how my ex benefited from my abortion rights.
Jun 29, 202253:07
Living Life with (some) Regrets

Living Life with (some) Regrets

On this episode of Make the Space with Ashley, I have special guest Kasey Rodriguez talking openly with me about regrets. We get into what regrets we have, the pain they've brought us, what we've learned and how we're moving forward. Enjoy!
Jan 14, 202201:14:44
Protecting your Energy with Shaq: Thoughts, Advice and Insight

Protecting your Energy with Shaq: Thoughts, Advice and Insight

Join me while I chop it up with my bestie Shaq on protecting our energy. I hope you all learn from this as much as I did💜 Forgive me for the technical difficulties towards the end. I tried my best to fix this but I simply couldn't. For this episode, I didn't add any music so that way you can hear the audio as best you can due to the bad connection towards the end of our recording.
Nov 28, 202101:25:43
Todo Tiene Su Final: Grieving the Loss of Friendships

Todo Tiene Su Final: Grieving the Loss of Friendships

On this week's episode of Make the Space with Ashley I will be talking about something very emotionally difficult for me; grieving the loss of a friendship. I will be talking about what the grieving process has been for me, why I find it difficult to make friends now, and how I'm doing in my current friendships. I hope you appreciate it.
Oct 29, 202146:42
Let's Talk about It: My Most Recent Depressive Episode

Let's Talk about It: My Most Recent Depressive Episode

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Just an update on how I've been doing. Coming out of a recent depressive episode, I've done a lot of self reflection and healing. The journey doesn't stop here.
Sep 11, 202129:37
My Blackout Episode: August 29th 2020

My Blackout Episode: August 29th 2020

Last summer I was navigating motherhood, post patrum depression and anxiety, a pandemic and working from home. It was a difficult time in my life. One night, I snapped, disassociated and injured myself. Tune in to hear all about it.
Aug 20, 202140:13
Be A Vessel: Mimi Gonzalez talks business, motherhood, faith and more!

Be A Vessel: Mimi Gonzalez talks business, motherhood, faith and more!

On this episode we have special guest Mimi Gonzalez talking about her business @bavessel , motherhood, and how faith along with a support system is incorporated into her mental well being. Be on the lookout for the drop mañana!

Here's a little about Mimi

Founder of Be A Vessel
Wife to my high school sweetheart and mom to a three year old mini me! I love all things Marvel and Harry Potter. All though I may fail, I strive to live like Jesus each day 😍🙏🏽
Aug 13, 202155:28
How I Overcame being Fired in a Pandemic

How I Overcame being Fired in a Pandemic

I got fired in the middle of April in a middle of a pandemic. It sucked but here's how it all went down. I'm sure some people will listen to this and think I'm full of excuses and that I deserved to be fired. That's fine. I went through A LOT of changes and struggles to adjust. At the end of the day my daughtber and mental health comes first and for that, my previous job had to suffer.
Jul 06, 202134:28
Oldest Child Syndrome: This is Our Story

Oldest Child Syndrome: This is Our Story

Autumn is back with me to talk about oldest child syndrome. In this episode we bond over our shared experiences and the pros and cons of being the oldest in our household. Enjoy!
May 21, 202101:09:03
The Hood Hippie Love Yourself Interview

The Hood Hippie Love Yourself Interview

Meet Brandon Allen: Founder of The Hood Hippie Love Yourself. Played Division 1 football at Towson University and graduated with a degree in Secondary Education. I am a Social Studies teacher at Towson High School. Brandon talks to us about his mental health journey and the origins of his brand "The Hood Hippie Love Yourself"
May 14, 202157:55
Choppin' it Up with Leo Flowers

Choppin' it Up with Leo Flowers

On this episode, I'm chopping it up with Leo about colonoscopys (lol), community, doing things with intention, gratitude and more! Here's a little about Leo: A Chicago native, former Div-I college athlete, with a Masters in Counseling/Psychology, Leo Flowers moved to LA to also add stand-up comedian, actor and podcaster to his resume. Quickly working his way into major comedy clubs and colleges across the country. His delivery has been described as “smooth and deliberate.” No two shows are ever alike, as he’s always attacking the issues of the day and revealing personal anecdotes. Infusing stand up with storytelling, Flowers captivates audiences of all demographics.
Leo Flowers appeared on Comics Unleashed with Byron Allen, was a runner-up in the San Francisco International Comedy Competition, and was a finalist in the 2011 Stand Up for Diversity competition. He has toured on the Shaved and Depraved Comedy Tour, and hosted both MTV’s “Sports Blender” and Starz “Staan’ ‘Dup," and was featured on "Last Call from Carson Daly," on NBC!! Most recently he’s appeared on Comedy Central’s “This Week At the Cellar.”
Apr 30, 202155:35
A Walking Miracle: Ethan Vaughn

A Walking Miracle: Ethan Vaughn

Ethan’s story is of overcoming a near fatal car accident. Facing 99% of death vs 1% of life. Ethan, with the power of prayers, hard work, determination, and courage to reclaim his life.
Apr 25, 202153:44
A Dynamic Duo: Rooted Lancaster LLC
Apr 09, 202156:26
One Year Later: How are 1st Time Mothers Doing in the Pandemic

One Year Later: How are 1st Time Mothers Doing in the Pandemic

For our final episode highlighting the stories of 1st time mothers in the pandemic, we have Abby sharing her journey with us.


"Hi everyone! I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor, currently working as an Outpatient Therapist with Move Forward Counseling - a boutique private practice specializing in women's issues, though open to all! I love running, spending time outside with my dogs and chickens, and hanging out with my husband. In June, 2020, I gave birth to my daughter. The last year has been a wild ride, and I am hopeful for an eventual sense of normalcy, so that we can introduce her to the world. I'm so thankful for the opportunity to share my story and hear other's stories! I love women supporting each other and hope that my daughter has opportunities to feel the same sense of community and love! Thank you for listening!"


Enjoy!

Apr 05, 202152:58
Oh We Talking Teams!?: All about Support Systems

Oh We Talking Teams!?: All about Support Systems

In this episode I'll talk a little about my support system, what is a support system etc and how and why you should have one too!
Mar 27, 202134:31
One Year Later: How are 1st Time Mothers Doing in The Pandemic

One Year Later: How are 1st Time Mothers Doing in The Pandemic

March marks a year of being in this pandemic. We take a look into Jillian's first year of motherhood in a pandemic. Jillian is a Boston-based mamma, personal trainer, and pizza lover! She spends her days captivated by her baby girl and has found fun and happiness in taking dance lessons to combat her postpartum struggles. Being pregnant and giving birth during a pandemic has showed Jillian the true power of women and our bodies and how love and support can conquer all.
Mar 12, 202153:59
One Year Later: How are 1st Time Mothers Doing in The Pandemic

One Year Later: How are 1st Time Mothers Doing in The Pandemic

March marks a year of being in this pandemic. We take a look into Madison's first year of motherhood in a pandemic. "I'm Madison but I usually go by Maddy! I’m a 22 year old first time mom and my daughter and I live in West Lafayette, Indiana. I love going out in nature with my daughter, reading, yoga, and I’m a bit of a home body."
Mar 08, 202153:55
The Man of The Hour: Jona's Mental Health Journey

The Man of The Hour: Jona's Mental Health Journey

To wrap up season 1 of Make the Space with Ashley, I got my best friend Jona sharing his mental health journey with us. Jona is an Afro Latino from New York raised in Lebanon, PA. He graduated from St. John's University studying Sports Management; where a career in the Major League Baseball Industry has allowed me to work/live in Miami, PA, DR and now back to NY.
Feb 26, 202101:04:23
The Power of The Mind: A Testimony of How your Mind Can Control your Body

The Power of The Mind: A Testimony of How your Mind Can Control your Body

Elo is a vivacious Afro-Latina from Dominican Republic who was born and raised in NY. Since the age of 11, she has lived in the Dominican Republic, Pennsylvania, Miami, and now Tampa where she works as a Digital Marketing Specialist. Elo will be sharing with us her testimony on how her mental health has affected her physically. Her story will surprise you and open some people's eyes in seeing that mental illness is REAL and not "all in your head".
Feb 20, 202101:14:05
There's No Time Like the Present: Self love, Self Work & Breaking Generational Curses

There's No Time Like the Present: Self love, Self Work & Breaking Generational Curses

Episode 18 I have special guest, licensed therapist, Johns Hopkins graduate and creater of The Soul Reasons, Autumn Walker. Autumn will be discussing with us what is self work, why we should choose to heal, and lastly breaking generational curses. Be sure to follow Autumn on Facebook and Instagram at The Soul Reasons.
Feb 12, 202101:01:57
Let's Talk About It: An Open Discussion on Breaking Stigma and Reaching the BIPOC Community

Let's Talk About It: An Open Discussion on Breaking Stigma and Reaching the BIPOC Community

On this episode I'm having an open discussion on breaking stigma and reaching the BIPOC community on mental health issues. We have special guests; licensed therapist Taylor Chandler and mental advocate and social media influencer Joyful Black Boy aka Kelvin Clark weighing in. Enjoy!
Feb 05, 202101:02:13
Clean Up Time: The Things We Can do for Our Mental Hygiene

Clean Up Time: The Things We Can do for Our Mental Hygiene

Hey everyone! This episode I talk about what is mental hygiene and what we can do to maintain good, healthy, mental hygiene. Enjoy!
Jan 31, 202155:27
Finding the One: The Search for a Therapist

Finding the One: The Search for a Therapist

On this episode I have my friend Jennie talking to me about the journey of finding a therapist. Jennie shares her experience, insight and advice on today's topic. Enjoy!
Jan 24, 202155:58
Earth's Little Angel: My Reason for Living

Earth's Little Angel: My Reason for Living

I had an epiphany on motherhood during the pandemic! Tuned in to hear what I have to share.
Jan 21, 202130:26
Parentification: Growing up Too Fast

Parentification: Growing up Too Fast

Episode 13 I talk about what is parentification, the signs, how to recover from it and lastly my personal experience with it.
Jan 10, 202157:40
The COVID-19 Vaccine: What this Means for Me

The COVID-19 Vaccine: What this Means for Me

On December 30, 2020 I received my first shot of the Pfizer COVID-19 vaccine. This episode I will touch on my experience, why I'm choosing to get vaccinated and what this vaccine means to me.
Jan 03, 202137:36
Family Estrangement: A Time to Heal

Family Estrangement: A Time to Heal

Tonight I talk about what is family estrangement and what that looks like between my parents and I.
Oct 21, 202043:28
Emotional Support Animals: A True Lifesaver

Emotional Support Animals: A True Lifesaver

This episode I give you guys the info on everything emotional support animals and touch on my experience with mine; my pitbull Athena.
Oct 16, 202032:14
How to Talk to Someone with Depression: The Do's and Don'ts

How to Talk to Someone with Depression: The Do's and Don'ts

In this episode we talk about toxic positivity and how to tackle it as well as how to talk to someone with depression.
Oct 08, 202041:56
After an Attempt: Meli's Healing Journey

After an Attempt: Meli's Healing Journey

Meli is a 27 year old proud Puerto Rican from New York City. As a recent graduate from Queen’s College Urban Affairs Master’s program; Meli found her passion working with children and young adults involved in the foster system. After her older brother’s suicide attempt 2 years ago, Meli was motivated to begin her healing journey which continues today..
Sep 14, 202001:04:47
To Medicate or Not to Medicate: My Experience with Medication and Psychiatrists

To Medicate or Not to Medicate: My Experience with Medication and Psychiatrists

Today I will be talking about the laundry list of meds I’ve tried along with my experience with some psychiatrists.
Sep 06, 202038:33
For the Love of Hip-hop: Music as a Coping Mechanism

For the Love of Hip-hop: Music as a Coping Mechanism

Episode 5 I have Sammy Rivera from Epiphany Sports sharing his mental health journey along with what hip-hop artists, songs, and albums have got us through our dark times. Enjoy!
Aug 30, 202001:04:52
Essential Workers: A Teacher's Experience during COVID-19

Essential Workers: A Teacher's Experience during COVID-19

Angie Hernandez, NYC 9th grade social studies gives us an inside look on how the pandemic has affected her students, colleagues and herself all while staying mentally healthy during this trying time.
Aug 16, 202001:04:25
I am a Suicide Survivor

I am a Suicide Survivor

This is my testimony about surviving my three suicide attempts, where I'm at now and why I choose to keep living.
Aug 09, 202054:49
Emily’s Testimony

Emily’s Testimony

In episode 2 we have a special guest, Emily Leonardo, discussing her experience with domestic violence.
Aug 02, 202052:14
My pregnancy!

My pregnancy!

This episode I'll be talking about my experience with prenatal depression and postpartum depression💜
Jul 26, 202029:41