Bcomingundone
By bcomingundone
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BcomingundoneMay 07, 2024
Death of The Unicorn? Horny. Lonely and the remaining litany of feelings.
The Updates on the dating
Shadow Starved
Romeo Act II Sc ii
Deep rest = depressed
Day After Meditation Weekend
Magick lies in the silliness
RAW
Silence. I will help my heart.
Open Mike Knight
Get different Do different
Men! Research, help a woman out.
Get Wet- nre pool just the tip
Not really a holiday so breathe
Giving Space For Self
Shadow Work: heal a succubus?
Haaaaaappy Howwwlloooween Sir
Happy Samhain!
Happy New Year!
Light the Fire
To quench the dark
Open the hearth
To heat the heart
Bring the good even love to the bad
May your health, happiness and places you call home this year be the best you've had.
Peace, prosperity and dare I include penis and pussy!
Thanks for being here!
This Mouth Should Not Be Speaking
G'moaning Surrender
Self Exploration 18+
Divine forced timeout, I'm on a journey healing my sexual orgasmic self; my thoughts, feelings and sensations around men. I had a no touch experience with another and an erotic touch class where all my body and I asked for was to have my hair brushed by a man. I listened to my body not wanting sexual touch nor give sexual touch- felt good to listen to my heart when possibly my sexual being desired for more. Perhaps this is a gentle union within me: my firey sexual almost insatiable being meeting my gentle heart. I recommend Dodson book Sex For One.
Beauty In The Breakdown
Awareness Can Not Think
Maybe?
Nre blows with only D on the table
What's your safe place?
Shame Monster...rather nomster
Spiraled into unhealthy activities. Terrible background noise in the neighborhood. So maybe less will listen anyhow.
I fell back into being servant to thoughts. Stuttered a bit.
I would like to have space for us to divulge our shadow monsters and still hold other. I'm hurting from sexual trauma in need of ass'istance healing, maybe my cock worship is projection. I would love and fear for a man to hold space for me to be with my sexual body. I refuse to be jaded. Compassion and sympathy for men having to suppress their feelings.
DBT card reading to help your emotional/mental well being, for me, and for you.
Thanks for being here~
Master and servant.
The song Wrapped Around Your Finger, by The Police played in my mind while waking this morning. At first I thought this was about my current D/s relationship but realize it's deeper...the tables have turned, servant becomes the Master!
Come listen to this and my tics as I become more aware as I anal'ize this song!
Thanks for being here~
Not A Monster, But A Nomster
Anaïs Nin reading
Unrequited Sex- ramble before surgery
Before Surgery Fears.
Meat My Boyfriend...
No More Mr. Fantasy...
just cause of Megadeath's song was in my head.
He once made me a xmas gift for me he said. Play person played a recording of a song he 'made for me'. I think my brain took 'made about me' and turned it into 'for me'. I never heard it again even though my gift and I've asked a couple of times for it. I suspect, with thoughts that it was for his friends about me.
A lump in my throat.
My fantasies are out of control.
I now keep a mental list active with our incompatibilities as a reminder he's not a fit for me. Ok for a play but not the person I see helping me co create a partnership. On that list a reminder his voice telling me, I take the word 'partner' too literally; which is why I refer to him as play person. Hilarious when words are taken too literal. Yet with this list I know too that I could talk myself out of this dynamic, so I end it with, "This journey is about discovering not deciding." He's wants to be a npc. It's about me.
Part of the autism is the ability to lose myself in fantasy. Because of this your words, your profile, your actions I keep so close to my face there is no room to fantasize you being anything other than what you continue to show me. This is how I decide how active or inactive I want you in my life and at what capacity. This will help in any future suffering I may have. This will also help me when dating. I already noticed during a wonderful 2 hour phone call a fantasy about a person rising then I shot down quickly because he is married/enm and I am looking for a partner free person.
Dating- Game Set Match? Date: 0 Self: 0 LOVE That your old.
He ended it before we in person met. No back date even. Great phone connections, chemistry, even good communication. Days later, he messaged me his list of reasons why it wouldn't work.
Not heart broken, scarred a little. I cried. A lot I cried.
Then realized that door closing means there are so many here left unopened! Desensitizing rejection. And finding wholeness in that I will be alone for the rest of my life.
One reason, his last, did he save the best for last? My worst. I'm old. He said he lost interest hearing my age, 51. Still isn't landing well.
I continue.
becoming undone...nah
to be continued...
Until the flip.
Thank you for being here...
I could use a love letter of hope
PO BOX 1407
Lake Stevens WA 98258
Erotic Touch Class Party Experiment Gone A Dry
I took an erotic touch class then stayed for the party after. An experience. Pleasant. Eye opening. And concluded, I if were to be a slut I would need to dissect the heart from the body; orgasms from strangers are not a thing for me. I don't even want to desensitize my heart to keep trying to have heartless orgasms. I think I'm too on the spectrum, a heart to heart connection helps me get out of my space, sharing this beautiful experience of connection deeply with another.
It was a good time. I was the only solo female out of only 3 of us. The two men that gave me the erotic touch were great communicators and took care of me with making sure it stayed just the 3 of us. They asked what they could do for me after my orgasm which reminded me to get back into body, they even held me and rubbed my back when I cried.
My orgasm was a long intense release, primal noises from me I've only heard one other time when play person gave me one. And he certainly was in my head every now and then with more questions about his connection to me and realizing the church no longer affecting me I didn't feel guilt. In fact it felt good to have the space to explore, free from guilt to decide yes I am in fact NOT a swinger.
I am not a solo exhibitionist, I would absolutely love for others to witness the energy play person brings out of me when I worship him. There was no piv and I had no desire to worship another. Erotic touch with strangers without orgasms for me would be ok to do again sometime.
Thanks for being here!
Dating Experiment Apprehension
Drop after parents left, child left and after a play.
Body Count
To add, the term 'body count' is awful to me, I value highly sexual intimacy and sexual acts with another. People to me are not disposable products. Also when I say low value in the audio I want add, doing something so frequently without forethought, mindlessly more out of habit or addiction without conscious awareness is a low value action/activity to me.
I have a new podcast I've been following, it's about men. I want to learn all I can to help me become a better partner. This episode about body counts and why it matters to men really activated me. The gate keeping and self victimizing triggered me into a response. And as usual, when I speak from my heart space I can even give myself a soft space to grow. In a matter of minutes my one way thoughts become inclusive of other perspectives.
I have a past, you do also. We're here in front of each other in relationship, how I see it, is we leveled up for new lessons or new tools to help with older stories.
Thanks for being here~
'cause I don't know what I'm doing
learning about myself and relationships and laughing along the way
are my favorites~