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Behind The Backstop

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Topics for everyone involved in youth baseball and softball. The hosts are parents who have also coached youth sports. Let's keep sports fun for everyone, even when craziness tries to creep in.
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Episode 39 - On The Level

Behind The BackstopApr 28, 2024

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Episode 39 - On The Level
Apr 28, 202401:07:11
Episode 38: Next Level Parenting

Episode 38: Next Level Parenting

Matt and Joyce use their years of baseball parenting and survival skills from living in the rugged north to share scathingly brilliant ideas.

Apr 01, 202220:43
Episode 37: Baseball is a Numbers Game
Nov 26, 202140:19
Episode 36: Baseball Boos

Episode 36: Baseball Boos

Matt and Joyce emerge from the dark, misty shadows just in time to share their frightful stories from the ballfields. Scary boys and girls, very scary indeed! 

Oct 29, 202122:03
Episode 35: Fair or Foul?

Episode 35: Fair or Foul?

Matt and Joyce are joined by a special guest, their son John. There're talking about the Baseball Hall of Fame and why no player was selected to join it this year. Also, should Pete Rose be in the Hall?

Jan 30, 202128:36
Episode 34: Our Christmas Wishes

Episode 34: Our Christmas Wishes

Matt and Joyce fill out a list of things they would like to have as baseball parents. There is a short shopping guide, but most of these things are not material objects.  Also,  find out if you can recognize the classic TV theme song Matt attempts to hum. 

Dec 13, 202014:19
Episode 33: The Third Thanksgiving Special

Episode 33: The Third Thanksgiving Special

Some traditions just are meant to be -  so Matt and Joyce are doing another Thanksgiving Special. 2020 has been different enough that we have new things to be thankful for, so let's give thanks!

Nov 25, 202014:59
Episode 32 : You Know The Score?
Oct 09, 202023:50
Episode 31 : The Perfect Ballpark

Episode 31 : The Perfect Ballpark

Matt and Joyce are joined by special guests John, James, Patrick, and Tommy to discuss the things we would like to see in our perfect ballpark.

Aug 02, 202024:26
Episode 30 : What's In A Name?

Episode 30 : What's In A Name?

Matt ponders the importance of team names. The Cleveland Indians are almost certainly changing their name and Matt has suggestions.  Also, do you think the name of the team your kid plays on is important? Would you not join a team if the name was one you didn't like?

Jul 22, 202017:12
Episode 29: On Our Soapbox!

Episode 29: On Our Soapbox!

Maybe it is the heat. Maybe it is the lingering pandemic. Matt & Joyce have some youth baseball peeves that are just ready to explode.

Jul 18, 202016:29
Episode 28: This Field Is Open
Jun 07, 202017:07
Episode 27: WAY Behind The Backstop

Episode 27: WAY Behind The Backstop

It has been a heck of a year so far, right? Pandemics will do that. But baseball is about to start in Ohio and we are here to talk about it. What will it be like? Matt and Joyce talk about the mandatory requirements as well as the recommendations. Will this all work? Can Matt have his seeds?

May 24, 202026:05
Episode 26: Off Seasons Greetings

Episode 26: Off Seasons Greetings

It's the most wonderful time of the non-baseball season year! We share ideas for great gifts for baseball players, parents, grandparents. Most importantly, Matt drops major hints to Joyce about his Christmas wish list.

Dec 15, 201913:19
Episode 25 : The Second Annual Thanksgiving Special

Episode 25 : The Second Annual Thanksgiving Special

Matt and Joyce reflect upon the things about youth baseball for which they are thankful.  Some things might surprise you! Are you mentioned?

Nov 24, 201915:35
Episode 24: There's an app for that!

Episode 24: There's an app for that!

The days of phone trees and Xeroxed schedules are in the past. Matt and Joyce review some of the apps we have used as part of our baseball parent lifestyle.

Sep 15, 201928:46
Episode 23: Behind the Backstop...or Not?

Episode 23: Behind the Backstop...or Not?

There is an art and a science to selecting your location and posture while attending your kid's baseball game.  Matt and Joyce have ideas for those who want to be social, or anti-social, and the pros and cons of various seating options.

Sep 07, 201917:59
Episode 22: It's Only Fall Ball

Episode 22: It's Only Fall Ball

Here in Ohio there is a season after the regular season that isn't exactly post season and we aren't ready for winter. We call this "Fall Ball". Some people say "It's ONLY fall ball." and we explore what this means. Get your pumpkin spice and join us Behind The Backstop.

Aug 31, 201914:51
Episode 21 : Be A Good Sport!

Episode 21 : Be A Good Sport!

We've all heard that athletes are supposed to be "good sports." What does that mean? Matt and Joyce look at recent actions in the Little League World Series, MLB, and youth baseball and discuss how they reflect good sportsmanship...or don't.

Spoiler alert: we mention the New York Yankees. 

Aug 19, 201919:51
Episode 20: For the Love of the Game

Episode 20: For the Love of the Game

Being a baseball parent can mean a lot of time and money invested in keeping your child involved in the sport. So why do we do it? Because baseball is the best sport ever invented. There are lessons that can be drawn from the game that extend beyond the ball field. Matt and Joyce share some reasons they love the game.

Aug 03, 201915:46
Episode 19: Tryout Time Again?

Episode 19: Tryout Time Again?

Matt and Joyce return after an summer long hiatus to once again talk baseball parenting.  This time we have tryouts on our mind.  What to look for in a team? How to handle rejection?  Where should we sit? And on what?

Aug 02, 201915:28
Episode 18 : Interview with Coach Justin Dehmer

Episode 18 : Interview with Coach Justin Dehmer

We are joined by Coach Justin Dehmer, who coached his high school baseball team to back-to-back-to-back state championships. He's a nationally-known motivational speaker and the author of the book "1 Pitch Warrior"

We discuss how baseball and softball parents can support their kid's coaches as well as their athletes. He shares a GREAT tip any coach can use to help everyone involved in youth sports have the best experience throughout the season.

Mar 09, 201916:40
Episode 17: Trying Times - Surviving Tryouts

Episode 17: Trying Times - Surviving Tryouts

Kids can get stressed at tryout time. So can their parents! Matt and Joyce are here to help you.

Mar 03, 201913:47
Episode 16 : The Off Season

Episode 16 : The Off Season

Hi there! It's been some time since we talked. What have you been up to? Let's catch up.

Feb 02, 201913:16
Episode 15 : The 2018 Thanksgiving Special

Episode 15 : The 2018 Thanksgiving Special

Matt and Joyce reflect upon the things for which they are thankful related to youth baseball. We also have very special guests take a break from their holiday to join us.
Nov 23, 201813:36
Episode 14 : A Coach's Perspective (Part 2)

Episode 14 : A Coach's Perspective (Part 2)

We pick up our conversation with Zak Blair from B2 Baseball we started in Episode 13. We discuss the mental and physical game, a very simple but important thing parents can do to help their young players, and preparing for school and work through playing sports the right way.
Nov 11, 201836:46
Episode 13: A Coach's Perspective

Episode 13: A Coach's Perspective

Zak Blair from B2 Baseball gives us the inside scoop on what coaches look for when evaluating players - and their parents! A wide-ranging discussion about how we can make the most of our youth sports experience.
Nov 05, 201824:34
Episode 12: Who's cheating who?

Episode 12: Who's cheating who?

Cheating and dirty play are in the headlines. How should parents react or help their kids learn the right lessons? Bonus: a couple of musical interludes.
Oct 17, 201815:42
Episode 11: The right things to do when things go wrong

Episode 11: The right things to do when things go wrong

Baseball has been called a game of failure. Our kids will have batting slumps, commit errors, have mental lapses, and experience losing streaks. Parents can help them get through it or make things worse. The choice is ours.
Oct 11, 201812:18
Episode 10: The State of Youth Baseball in 2018
Oct 03, 201816:14
Episode 9: Cleats of Clay

Episode 9: Cleats of Clay

What can parents do when the athletes our kids admire let them down? Bad behavior isn't hard to find. Are there lessons to be learned? How do we put things in perspective?
Sep 21, 201814:56
Episode 8: Every Mom's Crazy About A Sharp Dressed Team

Episode 8: Every Mom's Crazy About A Sharp Dressed Team

This episode is all about the uniforms, what we like and dislike. What is cool "old school" to one might be an abomination to another.

Also, Joyce share her secrets to getting those uniforms nice and clean after our little dirt bags play hard.
Sep 06, 201818:40
Episode 7: The Little League World Series

Episode 7: The Little League World Series

Matt and Joyce look at the the LLWS (and the TV coverage) to find the good and not-so-great parts of this annual event.
Aug 19, 201814:30
Episode 6: The Coach's Kid

Episode 6: The Coach's Kid

We explore the ups and downs of being the coach's kid. Matt tries to get Joyce to say mean things about his in-laws. Let's show the coach's kid some love.
Aug 09, 201810:50
Episode 5: Hey Now, You're An All-Star!

Episode 5: Hey Now, You're An All-Star!

Matt and Joyce hash out how All-Star players are selected in youth baseball. They also sing.
Aug 03, 201811:39
Episode 4: The Good In The Game

Episode 4: The Good In The Game

We cleanse our palates from the pet peeve podcast and promote what is positive! :-)
Jul 26, 201813:29
Episode 3: Pet Peeves At The Ballpark

Episode 3: Pet Peeves At The Ballpark

This is the episode where we get real. We are not calling anybody out - but if it hits close to home just remember we still love you but we would like you more if you would stop it!
Jul 16, 201821:12
Episode 2 - "Hey Blue!" -or- Umpires are people, too.

Episode 2 - "Hey Blue!" -or- Umpires are people, too.

We've seen some crazy things at the ballpark involving umpires. We can forget that there is a human behind the mask and chest protector. Hear our tips for keeping cool and respecting the game when you are disappointed with umpires.
Jul 03, 201814:32
Episode 1: 5 Ballpark Essentials

Episode 1: 5 Ballpark Essentials

Opening Day for the podcast. The topic is 5 Ballpark Essentials.
Jun 28, 201814:09