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Behind The Bum

Behind The Bum

By Jeff Perla
@TheTravelinBum was created 5 years ago as an outlet for members of the LGBT community to share their stories (and show their bum). Behind The Bum is a podcast to get to know the people behind the popular Instagram. Hosted by the bum himself Jeff Perla, he explores deep into the bottoms of gay culture with the help of influencers, reality tv stars, trail blazers, and iconic members of the gay community.
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What I'd Tell My Younger Self with Josh Van Sant
Jeff Perla is joined by Josh Van Sant (@JoshVanSant) "an older gay" who is notorious for offering advice to younger gays. Most famously for his videos on TikTok, the 2 get personal on what they think they need to work on about themselves and what they think they've got all figured out. What are your top 3 attributes you're seeking in a partner? If any of those are physical, you'll be in an unhappy relationship. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You can follow Josh on Instagram Here Josh's TikTok
44:44
April 25, 2022
Sex Drive & Testosterone
Jeff Perla is joined by Vlad Radoi (@RadoiVlad) a Biochemist with a PHD in Medical Science. The boys discuss how your sex drive works and the difference between your libido and hormones. Just because your testosterone levels decrease does that mean your sex drive should decrease? Well guess again. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
38:39
April 18, 2022
Short King Spring with Elliott & Alex
Jeff Perla is joined by Elliott Norris (@Elliottnorris) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp), sharing their heights and experiences with taller or shorter men. Does height matter? The boys have been in Curacao for one week. Hear about the trip, our peak and pits, and all the drama in between! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
41:39
March 28, 2022
Checking Boxes with Rob & David
Jeff Perla is joined by Rob Pugliese (@SouthTampaBob) & David Rumsey (@MusgraveMTNMan),2 men over the age of 60 sharing their life experiences in the gay community! What was it like coming out in the 80's? What does "Side mean"? Want to gain some great life advice as to why you shouldn't spend your time "checking a box"? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
52:49
March 14, 2022
Toxic Men with Tiger Redz
Jeff Perla is joined by Tiger Redz (@Tiger.Redz), a femme creator sharing their opinions on toxic masculinity! Is there a difference between internalized homophobia and toxic masculinity? What are the traits of a toxic male? How many of them do these 2 have? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
49:24
March 07, 2022
The Future Urologist
Jeff Perla is joined by Pedro (@_________pedro________) to play a game sharing their wild stories abroad! Pedro is studying to be a urologist so the conversations naturally revolved around... well ya know, dicks. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! 
42:20
February 28, 2022
Twitter Kings and Daddies with Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry)
Jeff Perla is joined by Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry) to reminisce on their sugar daddies! What is the worst situation they've put themselves in with a daddy? How did Christian start on Twitter? What is the most awkward sex video to film of yourself? We talked about a lot more than we cared to share on this but hope you enjoy! If you want to follow Christian @ChristianTBerry on Instagram or @Seateabe 
01:14:34
February 14, 2022
What Would You Do For $1?
Jeff Perla is joined by Daniel (@NKD_Dan) to laugh about the odd requests they've been receiving? What would you send out for money? What is something that just no amount of money can get? Who sent out their c*m rag for $200? Oh god... Enjoy If you want to follow Dan @NKD_Dan
40:05
February 07, 2022
So What Happened This Past Month?!
Jeff's back with his good friend Josh Oram (@ooshj) to catch you up on everything you missed? Why was the account disabled? What is The Travelin Bum allowed to post? Do you think "meta" is homophobic? There's a lot to unbox here so we hope this insight into Jeff's life the past month helps answer any of your pondering questions.  If you want to follow Josh @ooshj
38:53
January 31, 2022
On The Run with Bash
Sebastian (@BashDeltas) joins Jeff Perla (@JeffPerlaa) to talk about what it's like going back to the place you grew up for the holidays. What do you do when you see a family member you don't get along with? Is it normal to get anxious going back home. Why is it so common to leave home and move to a big city? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow Bash here
40:19
November 15, 2021
What's An Influencer Trip Like?
I'm sure you're all sick of our Puerto Rico content by now, yet here is our recap. Come join Elliot (@ElliottNorris), Spencer (@HoddSuspenders), Barry (@BarryBartlett_) and I (@JeffPerlaa) as we share our peak and pit, first impressions of one another, and all the inappropriate juicy questions you guys asked. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! If you're planning a trip to Puerto Rico in the near future. I suggest Coqui Del Mar in San Juan as well as Casa de Amistad in Vieques. Salty Spirit was our tour guide for the duration of the trip who took us to incredible places from the black sand beach to snorkeling. Last but not least, a car is a necessity in Puerto Rico and we went Lesbian owned at Maritza's Car Rental. 
46:20
November 01, 2021
Wouldn't You Like To Know
You guys ask a lot of questions and I can't send lengthy responses so I let Alex VanGurp (@AlexVanGurp) pick out 15 of your questions that I was forced to answer. Not going to give any hints to what these were but I think you'll like it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
36:55
October 25, 2021
Stretch Marks, Loose Skin, & Self Love with Kendrick Leon Val
Kendrick (@KendrickLeonVal) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his weight loss journey and self love. Have you noticed a difference in attention from gay men post weight loss journey? Has your "type" changed at all? What aspects of your mental health have grown throughout the process. This episode takes a lot of twist and turns. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow Kendrick: https://www.instagram.com/kendrickleonval/?hl=en https://www.tiktok.com/@kendrickleonval?lang=en
53:50
October 18, 2021
Du Du with Jimmy & Jessa
Jimmy (@JimmyPezzino) & Jessa (@TheeJessa) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their new douche @discover_DU. How often do you douche? Is it just me or do you view douching as like arghhh I'm a hungry bottom lets fuck...  Here's the Du's and Dunt's on douching. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! If you'd like to try or purchase your own Du - https://www.discoverdu.com/
33:02
October 04, 2021
Circle Message ... with Daniel Cusimano
Daniel Cusimano (@Daniel_Cusimano) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his Virginity, Gay Culture, and his time on The Circle. Has Daniel had his first kiss now? Why is he holding on to his virginity for so long? Who was his best friend and not so favorite person from the show?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
36:53
September 29, 2021
Mental Health, Suicide, & Prevention
With September right around the corner, Tony Santilli (@TonyJoeSantilli) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss National Suicide Awareness Month. The Boys dive in on their own mental health journeys. Have they ever contemplated suicide? Men who post shirtless selfies non-stop, are they more narcissistic than others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! For more information you can visit https://tonyssuperherostory.com/ https://www.instagram.com/tonyjoesantilli/?hl=en
39:13
August 30, 2021
Truvada, Descovy, Pep What's The Difference?
Joey Gentile (@Joey.Gentile) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about Truvada, Descovy, & Pep. What's the difference between Truvada and Descovy? How many people actually take Prep? Do you need insurance to get Prep? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! I think my most asked question is "How can I get Prep with or without insurance"? You can checkout Mistr here. 
31:15
August 23, 2021
Jeff & Corey Unhinged & Unedited
Corey Rae (@ImCoreyRae) and host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) share their experiences dating around. Are you a serial killer if you go on a weekend date? Do you know what you want in a relationship? Is it ok to compare new and old relationships? This conversation is a great representation of what it's like to be in my head. Aka unedited and all over the place. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow Corey Here
40:00
August 16, 2021
The Gay Virgin
Kevin (@Hoosagoodboy) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share his thoughts on sex before marriage. What is it like to be 53 and never have had penetrative sex yet? Would you be scared to take a guys virginity?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
33:06
July 05, 2021
My Wife Found Out I Was Gay
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests, David, Josh, & Britt who are all men who were once married to women. At what point did they know they were gay? Why go through with a marriage if you knew you were gay? How one wife went through his phone and discovered ... well grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the guys below: https://www.instagram.com/davidstory16/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/evans.britt/?hl=en
37:43
June 21, 2021
Should I Become A Dad?
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 2 guests, Casey & James who are fathers VIA adoption & surrogacy. What's easier adoption or surrogacy? Is it possible to jerk off into a cup and get a female pregnant turkey baster style? Listen as we hear how these men did it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the guys below: https://www.instagram.com/caseyjackson8312/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/jaxleejamesly/?hl=en
34:29
June 14, 2021
Can You Sit On A Pierced D*ck?
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests who have unique piercings and tattoos in their genital areas. Would you bottom for a guy who had a pierced dick? Listen as we break down what is safe or not safe. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
18:41
June 08, 2021
No D*ck Is That Good!
Zak (@TallZT) & Brian (@yeatheycallmeb) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share their experiences with straight men. Should you hook up with your straight friends? At what point should you start saying no to them?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the boys below: https://www.instagram.com/thetravelinbum/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/yeatheycallmeb/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/tallzt/?hl=en
41:07
May 24, 2021
Would You Be In An Age Gapped Relationship?
Couple Marco (@Msivio516) & Arial (@Arialw_) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share if a 27 year age gap is a factor in their relationship. Later in the episode Jeff is joined by Andre, 21 (@_who_is_Andre) who shares his experience in an age gap relationship, and why it didn't work. Do you think you could be in an age gapped relationship? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
43:35
May 17, 2021
Do you have a "Micro Penis"?
Anonymous Guests join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their "Micro Penis". A Micro Penis has a stretched penile length of a maximum of 3.67 IN (9.32 cm). Should a guy with a micro penis disclose his size prior to meeting up for sex? What is penile humiliation? Sean (Seanlshow) shares his experience hooking up with someone who has one. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
38:51
May 10, 2021
How Has My Race Impacted Me with Bernard Green
Bernard Green M.Ed, Doctoral Candidate (@johnnybgood09) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to challenge him to have a conversation about race. Can white people be victims of racism? Is it ok to use the "N" word in songs? Is racism a power dynamic that is pushed upon others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
53:24
April 26, 2021
Elliott Norris Is My Gay Guide
Elliott Norris (@elliottnorris) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss everything from Colton Underwood to shirtless selfies. The boys share how they learned to appreciate their bodies and avoid the Instagram explore page expectations. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/elliottnorris/?hl=en
44:19
April 19, 2021
Twink Therapy with Andres, Steven, and Javier
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Andres (@andrespalenciao), Steven (@smccutie) & Javier (@jv.rv) to share their experience as a Twink. At what age are you no longer considered a Twink? Do Twink's have a daddy fetish? Has anyone ever used the term Twink to negatively described someone? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the boys from this episode; https://www.instagram.com/smccutie/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/jv.rv/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/andrespalenciao/?hl=en
42:50
April 12, 2021
Bathroom Do's and Don'ts with Frank (@Franekskywalker)
Frank (@Franekskywalker) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what they think is the right or wrong way to use the bathroom. From toilet paper to bidets to going in a hole in the ground. These boys leave nothing to the imagination and share way more than they should have. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/franekskywalker/?hl=en
43:51
March 29, 2021
Hole Etiquette with Dr. Evan Goldstein
Dr. Evan Goldstein(@DrEvanGoldstein) owner of @BespokeSurgical & @TheFutureMethod joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk all things related to your behind. What is the best products and ways to wipe for men? Is douching with water harming your insides? Is there really such thing as the second wall? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow Him Below: https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/bespokesurgical/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/thefuturemethod/?hl=en
51:33
March 23, 2021
Everything You Wanted To Know with Niko
Niko Wirachman (@Nikowirachman) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to answer all your personal questions and advise you needed. Have you ever hit your g-spot? What to do if your mans cheats on you? At what age did eating an ass go from being super gross to super hot? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/nikowirachman/?hl=en
42:06
March 15, 2021
Is Sex Addiction A Thing?
Harris Stevens (@Heresystevens) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about his experience being "diagnosed" a sex addict. Is being a sex addict a real thing? Does religion play a role in the diagnosis? If you masturbate "too much" are you considered a sex addict? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/heresystevens/?hl=en
46:29
February 15, 2021
Do I Have An Eating Disorder?
Traci Carson (@Traci_Carson) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to analyze Jeff's picky eating habits. How restrictive is Jeff's palate? What percentage of gay men actually have an eating disorder? Have you ever skipped a meal because you wanted to look skinnier? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
50:37
February 08, 2021
Navigating Curious Straight Men with Anthony Guerrieri
Anthony Guerrieri (@badboyantg) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their experience hooking up with straight men. What't the appeal? How did it work out for Jeff & Anthony? The boys talk with 3 other anonymous guests who share how some have and some haven't gotten over their first love to a straight man. Jeff & Anthony try to leave the boys with some advice on how to navigate a curious straight male. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/badboyantg/
54:54
February 01, 2021
Power Bottoming with James & Nico
James (@jj1993c) & Nico (@musically_nico) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what exactly a Power Bottom is. Is there one sole definition of a power bottom? Does a power bottom mean you can take any dick size? Is a power bottom a sexual position or a personality trait? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the boys here: James: https://www.instagram.com/jj1993c/?hl=en Nico: https://www.instagram.com/musically_nico/?hl=en
37:06
January 25, 2021
Are You My Fetish?
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 4 guests; Mike, Derek, Ryan, & Theo who have all been fetishized for their outter appearance. How does it feel when someone treats you like a fetish? Is there a difference between having a type and being a fetish? Is it wrong to be curious about how big a guy's dick is because of his race or what color his pubes are because of his hair color? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! Follow the Boys from this Episode! Derek: https://www.instagram.com/d.nuded/?hl=en Mike: https://www.instagram.com/mikemontiel/?hl=en Ryan: https://www.instagram.com/ryan_sutton87/?hl=en Theo: https://www.instagram.com/the_red_wizard.gr/?hl=en
40:03
January 18, 2021
Why I Made An Only Fans with (@Jimmypezzino)
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by his good friend Jimmy Pezzino (@JimmyPezzino) to share why they motivated one another to make an Only Fans.  What's the craziest request they've received so far? What made Jeff finally pull the trigger? How pissed did Jeff get when he saw his pictures leaked? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you would like to follow the boys, you can support them below :) https://onlyfans.com/jeffreyjohn https://onlyfans.com/jimmypezzino?rec=98741474
43:59
January 11, 2021
Are You Mentally ill If You Traveled For New Years Eve with (@DontAskGreg)
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Dr. Greg Cason (@DontAskGreg) a psychologist for over 20 years with an expertise in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.  The boys go through behavioral patterns of gays traveling to Mexico for New Years Eve. Why did men travel for New Years? If they think people know it is wrong why are they still posting about it? Do people partying during a pandemic have a mental illness? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you would like to see more of Dr. Greg Cason you can follow him below! Website: www.drgreg.com Youtube: youtube.com/drgreg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontaskgreg/  Facebook: www.facebook.com/askdrgreg
33:51
January 04, 2021
How To Move Past The Hookup Phase On Dating Apps
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 3 different couples, who met on various dating apps; Tinder, Scruff, & Grindr. First we have Steven and Connor or married couple VIA Tinder. How did Steven handle being Super-liked by Connor? How far into dating someone do you delete dating apps? Should you talk to a few guys at once to keep your options open? My next couple is Tony & Alejandro from Scruff. After a 15 year marriage Tony dove into scruff. How long did it take to find Alejandro? Last but not least our Grindr couple that has been together for 7 years, Samuel & Euan. Is it safe to lead with naked photos when looking for a boyfriend? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! Tinder Couple Steven & Connor https://www.instagram.com/stevenjaws/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/connorbsenning/?hl=en Scruff Couple Tony & Alejandro https://www.instagram.com/tonyjanczak/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/alealejandro23/?hl=en Grindr Couple Samuel & Euan https://www.instagram.com/mrsamuelshearer/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/euandme_/?hl=en
52:55
December 21, 2020
Mens Health - How To Check For Testicular Cancer with Charlie
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 2019 Mr Gay World South Africa, Charl-jaquairdo van Helsdingen (@charlieboy23) to share his experience with testicular cancer. How did he first find out? What are some ways you can check your testicles from home? Does testicular cancer lead to the removal of your testicles and reproductive organs? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the Charlie from this episode; https://www.instagram.com/charlieboy23/?hl=en For more information on Testicular Cancer; https://www.loveyournuts.org/
36:30
December 14, 2020
What It Means To Be HIV + with Shane, Chris, and Christopher
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Shane (@theshaneh), Chris (@itsgalby) & Christopher (@cjrfitnessforward) to share their experience being HIV+. When did they first find out? What does it mean to be Undetectable = Untransmittable? How has being HIV+ affected their relationships? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the boys from this episode; Shane: https://www.instagram.com/theshaneh/?hl=en Chris: https://www.instagram.com/itsgalby/ Christopher: https://www.instagram.com/cjrfitnessforward/ If you or anyone is in need of additional resources: https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/default.html If you have had a possible exposure to someone who is HIV+, look into PEP: https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics/hiv-prevention/using-hiv-medication-to-reduce-risk/post-exposure-prophylaxis If you are someone looking to lower your chances of contracting HIV: https://www.descovy.com/prep
44:28
December 07, 2020
What's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money?
What's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money? Alex Vangurp (@Alexvangurp) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss "What's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money?" The boys are joined by 4 guests throughout the episode; Hayden, Matt, Anonymous Chad, and Rhys to share the craziest things they've done for money.  From farts to blow jobs, you'll need a glass of wine for this one. Keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Give the boys a follow: https://www.instagram.com/mattdmcknight/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/rhys_ridge_evans_93/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/h4yd3nn/?hl=en
39:05
November 30, 2020
Instagram Booties with Ties, Daniel, & Jeremy
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by other Instagram Booty boys; Ties (@Strip.Ties), Daniel (@NKD.Dan) & Jeremy (@Grmhenry). Does posting photos of your butt make you a bottom? How have your friends and family reacted to your social media accounts? When people see you in public do you get nervous? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the boys from this episode; Ties: https://www.instagram.com/strip.ties/?hl=en https://onlyfans.com/strip.ties Daniel: https://www.instagram.com/nkd.dan/?hl=en Jeremy: https://www.instagram.com/grmhenry/
41:25
November 16, 2020
Escaping Home-aphobia In America
Ty Talley (@TyTalleyOfficial) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to  discuss what life was like growing up in what they felt was homophobic towns. Does it feel like you need to leave your home town to be accepted for your sexuality? What have you gained from leaving where you grew up? What advice would you give to anyone who is feeling uncomfortable or stuck in a small town? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/tytalleyofficial/?hl=en
44:28
November 04, 2020
Gay Sex with Brent Everett (@BrentEverett_com)
Brent Everett (@BrentEverett_com) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his career in the adult entertainment industry. What was his favorite scene? Has doing porn ever affected his relationships?  Do you think gay porn is a good way to educated gay men on sex? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Website: www.brenteverett.com  Just For Fans: https://www.justfor.fans/brenteverett Instagrams: https://www.instagram.com/brenteverett_com/?hl=en  https://www.instagram.com/caribbeandreamfestival/?hl=en   https://www.instagram.com/be.clothing.apparel/?hl=en Twitter:  https://twitter.com/brenteverett
37:01
October 26, 2020
Sober Gay's
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) invites on Eddie (@eddiebeiler), Fernando (@fernandodc), & Jon (@jonjondotcom) to discuss life as a sober gay male. At what age did you guys first start experiencing drugs and alcohol? Have you ever had a problem with drugs or alcohol? Do you find it difficult to build friendships and find a safe gay space without the use of drugs or alcohol? Keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow the boys; https://www.instagram.com/eddiebeiler/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/jonjondotcom/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/fernandodc/?hl=en For anyone looking to explore resources, some recommendations are; https://www.amazon.com/Leaving-Rest-Leslie-L-Smith-ebook/dp/B00ED7LHYY https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0738215678/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_SSlIFb96NSJ34
39:56
October 19, 2020
Election Day
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) invites Arielle Scarcella (@arielle_scarcella) & JC Dombrowki (@jc.dombrowski) to discuss their final thoughts before Election Day. Who is voting for Trump and who is voting for Biden? Is it possible for someone to vote for Trump if they are in the LGBTQ community? Can you be friends with someone who has opposing political views than you?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow! https://www.instagram.com/jc.dombrowski/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/arielle_scarcella/?hl=en
49:15
October 12, 2020
Sex Work Is Work
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) invites on 3 guests to discuss sex work. Guests include Peter Pagen (OheyPete), Jimmy Pezzino (@JimmyPezzino), & Kevin Mimms(@TheBlackWidowNYC).  Do you ever feel it is wrong to show off your body to make money? Has a relationship ever failed because of it? Do you think sex work has a negative stigma? How do you change the narrative to make it more socially acceptable?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow! https://www.instagram.com/oheypete/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/jimmypezzino/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/theblackwidownyc/?hl=en
59:34
September 14, 2020
Karens Gone Wild with (@Pavelpaulinich)
Pavel Paulinich (@PavelPaulinich) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss cancel culture and the creation of his latest Instagram (@KarensGoingWilds). What do you do when you are approached by a Karen? Do you think these people are past the point of educating? How do you step in if you see someone being harassed by a Karen or Kevin? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/thetravelinbum/ https://www.instagram.com/karensgoingwilds/ https://www.instagram.com/PavelPaulinich/
52:17
September 08, 2020
The Breakup
Host Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) invites 3 guests (@TheJulesCastro, @JMusiel09, & @KevinllWriter) on who have recently gone through navigating a breakup. Did Covid have anything to do with why they broke up? How do you manage a breakup when you can't really see anyone new right now? Is it possible to live with your ex boyfriend during this time? Should you settle to be in a relationship right now just because you're horny?  Listen as Jeff helps these men navigate their breakups. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Special thanks to; Julian, Joe, & Kevin for coming on. Give them a follow! https://instagram.com/thejulescastro?igshid=shmgkuxh1rfn https://instagram.com/kevinllwriter?igshid=t0h1dzkvy2i0 https://instagram.com/jmusiel09?igshid=n7gzfrcfe4ue
33:36
August 31, 2020
Gay Fat Friend with Todd Masterson
Todd Masterson (@GayFatFriend) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what it's like being the Gay Fat Friend. Have you ever felt fetishized for being chubby? Do you think gay men notoriously hangout with people who look like themselves? If you could give advice to anyone insecure in their own body, what would you say?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow Todd at https://www.instagram.com/gayfatfriend/?hl=en
48:12
August 17, 2020
Generations Of Gay
Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) organizes a group of men 50+ to share their journeys of coming out. Who was married with children? What was it like trying to explore your sexual identity in the midst of the AIDS epidemic in the 80's? Can you find true love after 50?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! I want to give a shoutout to Liam, Edwin, & Michael for sharing their personal journeys with me, it means a lot. Give them a follow. Liam: https://www.instagram.com/liamboston/ Edwin: https://www.instagram.com/edwindouglass/?hl=en Michael: https://www.instagram.com/gagnonmt/?hl=en
01:03:50
August 10, 2020
Sexual Fantasies with Niko (@NikoWirachman)
Niko Wirachman (@nikowirachman) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss sexual fantasies.  Do you think as gay men, we are forced to be more sexually exploratory in order to keep a man interested? Do you like when people call you names or use derogatory words? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
41:01
August 03, 2020
Exploring the B's of the LGBTQ
Andres Simon (@andressimon_) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the struggles of coming out as Bisexual. Jeff and Andres chemistry sparks as sexual tension builds. Later on Jeff is joined by Ellie Shiovitz (@ellieshiovitz) & Wesley Boyett (@Wesleyboyett) as they discuss what life is like for them fitting into the LGBTQ community. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
53:07
July 28, 2020
Understanding Gen Z with (@JC.Dombrowski)
JC Dombrowski (@JC.Dombrowski) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the annoying habits of being a Gen Z'er. JC and Jeff share their thoughts on Tik Tok vs Instagram, LPSG.com, & trying to make gay friends. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
42:20
July 20, 2020
Embarrassing Sexual Experiences
Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) sought out the help of fans to hear about their most embarrassing sexual experiences. Magnus (@potgietermagnus) shares his not so hot experience in Qatar. Anthony (Anonymous) shares what it's like to be walked in on & Christopher (@chrisnemetz) shares what happens once you get catfished. Let's see how many of these stories you boys relate too. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
37:27
July 13, 2020
West Coast Gays VS East Coast Gays with (@Koludro)
Daniel Koludrovich (@Koludro) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to debate gay stereotypes between the West coast vs East coast. The boys share their perceptions on what the differences are like from the dating scene to going out. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
48:11
July 06, 2020
Covid & Chill with Dr.Leo (@DrLeoNissola)
Dr. Leo Nissola (@DrLeoNissola) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss Covid-19 in the United States. We have all been forced to listen to mainstream media and follow the CDC guidelines for the past 4 months, but what really should we be doing? Is a mask essential? When is it appropriate to start hooking up with someone again? If the government says you are allowed to do something now, should you go? How do we feel about the bashing and shaming that is being shown on social media today? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! About Dr. Leo Dr. Leo Nissola is a Brazilian born Medical Doctor, Scientist, and a book author based in San Francisco, CA. Since the beginning of the COVID outbreak in the United States, he has provided advice to multiple efforts to contain the health crisis, such as COVIDActNow.org and National COVID-19 Convalescence Plasma Project. He is a cancer immunotherapy drug developer and an immunology researcher. He is very active on social media -  His Instagram profile is @drleonissola, Twitter handle is @LeoNissolaMD, and you can visit his website drleonissola.com.
43:36
June 22, 2020
Liberals, Conservatives, What Am I?
Anthony Velez (@Antnyvlz) & David Leatherwood (@Realbrokebackpatriot) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the current political climate in the United States. These boys dive into 3 issues in particular; LGBTQ rights, the Black Lives Matter (BLM) Movement alongside police brutality, and also the system and voting in general. Is it a moral obligation for gay men to vote democrat? Is it wrong to be republican and be gay? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
01:15:09
June 15, 2020
Revisiting My Past
Jeff explores his past with 4 different guys who entered his life at various stages. Some of the men left on good terms, others did not. This was extremely eye opening for Jeff and lessons were learned. Special thanks to Mike Hasenaur, Kyle Macchi, Eduardo Figuero, and Chase for joining. Would you ask Jeff out on a date after listening to this? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
47:04
June 08, 2020
Coming Out @TheTravelinBum
As we enter Pride Month, Jeff will be releasing 2 episodes per week. One with a fellow influencer in the gay community and another weekly episode featuring those closest to him. This special episode features 2 of Jeff's closest friends from 7th grade, Shanae Drew & Maria Murray. They discuss what life was like growing up in a private school, when they first learned about the word gay, and when they tried to get Jeff to come out in high school. The second half of this episode takes a weird turn when they share stories of Jeff & Maria's attempt of trying to make him hard & the girls offer advice to any straight ally. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
47:16
June 01, 2020
Effects Of Social Media On Your Relationship with Rick & Griff (@rick_and_the_griffopotamus)
Rick & Griff (@rick_and_the_griffopotamus) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss how social media can effect a relationship. How did Rick & Griff get into the production of their own line of dildos? What were the beginning struggles of being an Instagram couple? Listen as we break down couple questions and get an inside scoop into this couples relationship. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
55:06
May 18, 2020
Is There Such Thing As Too Big? (@TomDeanErnsting)
Tom Ernsting (@TomDeanErnsting) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to see if there is such thing as too big. You can hear all about what they classify as too big. How they feel about the penis pump& enhancement pills. Tom shares advice on how a parent should approach coming out to their child. And most importantly a genuine conversation between 2 men from different generations sharing stories about gay culture. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with them on this episode of Behind the Bum!
49:34
May 11, 2020
Photography In The World Of Social Media with Felipe (@FollowFelipe)
Felipe Borras (@FollowFelipe) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss how photography grew in a world driven by social media. You can hear all about how Felipe got started in Photography, Instagram, and made a professional career out of it. Felipe dives into who if favorite influencers to work with are and who he hopes to never see again. What's the weirdest thing these 2 have done for money? Is a threesome in the future for these Jeff, Felipe, & Felipe's Boyfriend Andrew (@followandriy)? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
44:51
May 05, 2020
Quarantined & Sexually Deprived with John Duff (@IAmJohnDuff)
John Duff (@IAmJohnDuff) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss similar feelings that we all must be feeling during this time. You can hear how Jeff & John are both dealing with sexual deprivation and this quarantine lifestyle. The boys go in depth in what they are doing to occupy their time, things they miss, and a majority of off topic inappropriate questions along the way. Grab your glass of wine and tune into this episode of Behind The Bum!. 
51:02
April 28, 2020
Cosmetics with Dr. Jen (@dolceaestheticsny)
Dr. Jennifer DiLandro (@dolceaestheticsny) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss common aging signs among men. She offers advice  on how to combat the aging process for guys. She is also the Doctor behind Jeff's laser hair removal on his butt. Find out if getting Botox in your hole is a good idea! What typeof cosmetic surgery is considered the gateway drug? If you have ever been interested in learning about potential treatment options based on your age give this a listen. Grab your glass of wine and tune into this episode of Behind The Bum!.
34:49
April 20, 2020
Traveling Hookups With Logan (@Brogan_NYC)
Logan (@Brogan_NYC) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what they loved and miss most about their lives traveling. What are the essentials you need to bring to a hookup? Have you ever stolen anything from a hookups apartment? What city has the best gay nightlife? Which city has the friendliest LGBTQ community? Would they hookup with their exes? All that and more on this episode with Brogan. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
40:29
April 14, 2020
Jobs Before Fame with The Zakar Twins (@Zakartwins)
Michael & Zach (@ZakarTwins) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what their aspirations were before they pursued "Instagram Fame". You can hear all about someones sexual experience with a fruit, how did Zach take having his nudes leaked on LPSG.com, and why is Michael's penis curved lol. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
36:59
April 06, 2020
Best Bottoming Practices with Dr. Goldstein (drevangoldstein)
Dr. Evan Goldstein (@drevangoldstein) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the best bottoming practices for first timers or those who may be looking to better their skills. Dr. Goldstein is the founder of Bespoke surgical (@bespokesurgical), an elite surgical and sexual wellness practice for today's male. Jeff & Dr. Goldstein share advice from positions to douching and what you can do from home to heighten your experience. Whether you're a top or bottom, everyone can learn something from this episode. The last 15 minutes this duo sits down and answers some of your bottoming questions so grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
49:47
March 10, 2020
What's The Weirdest Requests You've Ever Received? @Justasoccerboi
Enrico (@justasoccerboi) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what life is like in the gay community here in Sydney. You can hear all about Enrico’s first time bottoming, Only Fans, as well as Jeff and Enrico’s awkward encounters during their time together. At 16:52 you can hear about why Enrico started his Only Fans account and at 26:56 you can hear all about his sexual Bread encounter. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
42:22
March 02, 2020
Stereotyping with 27 Travels(@27travels)
Gabi & Shanna (@27travels) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss Gay & Lesbian stereotypes. Are lesbians truly homebody cat lovers? Are gay men truly obsessed with their physical appearance? Listen as we break down each truth and misconception. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
44:15
February 24, 2020
The Devil Works Hard, But Spencer Olson Works Harder (@Spencer.T.Olson)
Spencer Olson (@Spencer.T.Olson) long lost cousin to the Mary-Kate & Ashley Olsen, joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the Hetrick-Martin Institute (HMI) and the amazing work behind this institute.  HMI is a New York City-based non-profit organization devoted to serving the needs of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning youth between the ages of 13 and 24. Halfway through 18:37 this takes an interesting turn where Jeff and Spencer share some personal stories and techniques that may be NSFW! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
41:60
February 17, 2020
Never Have I Ever with Justin & Shae (@justshaemless)
Boyfriends Justin & Shae (@justshaemless) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay relationships, Fire Island, & play a very intense game of never have I ever. What happened when Shae walked in on Jeff having sex? Wait what?! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
51:51
February 10, 2020
The Time I Was Sent To The Hospital with @Gabrielvalentinclinaz
Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) is greeted by a surprise guest from his past Gabriel Valentin Clinaz (@Gabrielvalentinclinaz). Gabriel had a 5 hour layover in NYC and ran in quick to visit Jeff after not seeing each other in nearly 2 years. They reminisce on what sent Jeff to the hospital on Halloween 2017, what it's like to eat the "shell", and Gabriel tries very hard to get with Jeff. You can listen to all this and more on this episode of Behind The Bum.
30:46
October 07, 2019
What Happens In Mykonos with Reed, Max, and Anthony
Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) went to Mykonos with his best friends Reed Buggie (@Reedbuggie), Max Rutcofsky (@Maxrut), and Anthony Guerrieri (@Asguerrieri). If you watched their Instagram stories you may have noticed they were kicked out of their hotel, never slept and lets be honest we have a lot of questions! On this episode Reed joins Jeff to discuss why they were kicked out of the hotel and who won't be allowed to rent an ATV ever again. On the second half of this episode Max and Anthony join Jeff to discuss the Catamaran day, Max's firsts from this trip, and a lot of things none of us ever needed to know. Check out this episode of Behind The Bum!
28:06
August 30, 2019
You're Tacky & I Hate You with Brian Falduto @BrianFalduto
Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) sits down with School of Rock icon Brian Falduto (@brianfalduto). What was it like filming School of Rock as a closeted kid? How did you grow up to be a fetish queen? Where was the most public place they each have had sex? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
42:12
August 22, 2019
Rosè All Day with Matt Bellassai (@mattbellassai)
Matt Bellassai (@Mattbellassai) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay culture to pop culture. From Queer Eye (sorry Bobby) to Big Little Lies, from vaginas to nugget porn? Wait what?! Nothing is off topic after 2 bottles of rosè. Grab a glass and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
55:33
August 15, 2019
Does Race Play a Roll in Gay Culture with Igee Okafor
Igee Okafor (@Igeeokafor) joins host, Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss what it was like growing up in Nigeria and moving to America? How do you explain to your parents that you are gay? Is it easier to come out once you don't live home anymore? Have you ever experienced racism within the LGBTQ community? Was being shipped off the boarding school like living your best Zoey 101 experience? 
45:37
August 08, 2019
Mermaid Realness with Bradley Miller (@TheArtOfBradley)
Bradley Miller (@TheArtOfBradley) joins host Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) as they discuss gender identity. Throughout the episode and a few bottles of rosè things take a turn to scrotum detailing VIA Instagram. Hear about the first and last time Jeff sent a naked picture, who slid into Bradley's DM's recently *cough cough* TWINS?! Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum.
46:02
August 01, 2019
Nuts to Nuts with Jimmy Pezzino
Jimmy Pezzino (@Jimmypezzino) joins host Jeff Perla (@Thetravelinbum) to discuss life after pride and 4th of July. Jeff and Jimmy share a story about what it was like doing their first photo shoot together which took a turn for the worst. Between Fire Island, Instagram, Modeling, and a little bit about chicken nuggets listen up on this episode of Behind The Bum!
44:25
July 17, 2019
Who's In Control? The Top or James Rogers?
James Rogers(@jamesroghairs) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) post wig brunch to discuss everything from life to bottom shaming. Have you ever had an accident when bottoming? Has someone's "O" face ever been so awful you never hooked up with them again? Who has bigger .... Oh wait, find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
50:04
June 27, 2019
Love at first sight or lack there of with John Halbach and Kit Williamson
John Halbach (@johnhalbach) and Kit Williamson (@kitwilliamson) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss when you know you met the one! From their first impressions to their most memorable sexual encounter Jeff learns what it takes to make and keep a relationship. Will Eastsider's see a season 5? Who is the biggest stoner out of this group of 3? Who should never take an edible again? Find out on this episode f Behind The Bum!
41:51
June 20, 2019
Gender Reveal with Corey Rae
Corey Rae (@imcoreyrae) joins Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss transitioning from male to female. How does someone at the age of 12 find the words transgender? Can you be trans and not have bottom surgery? Should transgender individuals be apart of the LGBTQ+ community? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
42:24
June 13, 2019
Body Issues with Fat Carrie Bradshaw
Fat Carrie Bradshaw (@fatcarriebradshaw) joins Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss body issues in the gay community. What does it mean to be comfortable in your body? What is the worst thing someone has ever said to you because of your weight? Have you ever catfished someone because you felt you weren't "Good Enough". Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
45:48
May 09, 2019
Gay Boy Problems AF with Jeff Perla & Peter Pagan
Gay Boy Problem AF with Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) & Peter Pagan (@GayBoyProblems.AF) discuss the meme era we are living in? Where does Peter project it going? How can hopefully future memer's create their own content? Is there a secret society of memer's who all support each other? What are the struggles of being a late 20 year old approaching their 30's. Find out on Behind The Bum!
54:02
May 02, 2019
Insta-Triplets with Jeff Perla, Michael & Zach Zakar
Insta-Triplets with Jeff Perla from (@thetravelinbum), Michael & Zach Zakar (@zakartwins) talk about how they first met. They give their best attempt at giving you a serious conversation about where they see their lives going. Do Jeff and Michael see themselves being married? Will Michael and Zach move to NYC? Who slashed their ex boyfriends tires? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
44:19
April 25, 2019
Masc 4 Masc with Corey Camperchioli
Jeff Perla and Corey Camperchioli (@coreycamp) discuss gender norms. Jeff shares his view point on the term "masc" and "femme". Corey shares his experiences growing up "femme" and how a word that tormented him his whole life has turned in to a light for his future. How do Jeff & Corey feel about hooking up with someone "femme" or "masc"? What journey are Jeff & Corey going to take on this summer? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
47:16
April 18, 2019
Threesomes with DJ Mikey Pop
Jeff Perla & DJ Mikey Pop (@DJMikeyPop) discuss Threesomes. Jeff shares his view points on threesomes and Mikey discusses how he manages being in a an open relationship. How does Jeff feel about having a threesome? Where is the craziest place Mikey has ever had a threesome? Will Jeff ever have one? Find out on Behind The Bum!
41:12
April 11, 2019
Only Fans with Edgardo Riveros (Gato)
Jeff Perla & Edgardo Riveros (@Gatosheko) discuss Only Fans. From personal experience, Gato shares how his photos and videos were leaked, what his family thinks of his new business, and how he manages to maintain a day job. Will Gato convince Jeff Perla to make an Only Fans account? Find out on Behind The Bum?
40:24
April 04, 2019
Sugar Daddy-ING with Garrett Swann
Jeff Perla & Garrett Swann discuss the Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy life. From personal experiences, Jeff opens up on how he originally found a Sugar Daddy and Garrett shares his feelings on age in the gay community. Is Garrett Swann Jeff Perla's sugar daddy? Find out on Behind The Bum?
39:34
March 28, 2019
Bottoming with Logan Fletcher @Brogan_NYC
Jeff Perla & Logan Fletcher discuss what dating is like in the big city. From bad relationships to horror story bottoming experiences they dish the dirt on everything you wanted to know. Have Jeff and Logan ever been a thing? Find out on Behind the Bum!
50:03
March 21, 2019
Behind The Bum Trailer
Hey guys I'm your host Jeff Perla, founder and creator of The Travelin Bum on Instagram. It's time to take my bum to new tops or new heights and get deep into some of these bottoms. I am here to give you the inside scoop from your favorite influencers, reality tv stars, trailblazers and iconic gays in our community. So what are you waiting for grab a condom and get ready for an episode of behind the bum.  
00:25
March 12, 2019