Lost Nuggs
By Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris
Lost NuggsJan 31, 2022
Who is the bigger h0e Jeff or Elliott?
Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris launch their new venture "Lost Nuggs" sharing their ins and outs navigating life behind the scenes. Catch up on their dating life. Is Elliott on Ozempic? Who has the higher body count between Jeff & Elliott? Well lets find out...
Casting All Homos with Mike Rose
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by casting agent Mike Rose (@MikeRoseLA) giving you the tips and tricks to make it on TV. How do you audition? What are casting directors looking for? If someone in a position of power makes a move on you for a gig what do you do?!
Why Ban Drag Shows? with Britney Banks & Justine Van De Blair
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by drag artists Britney Banks (@thebritneybanks) & Justine Van De Blair (@justinequeenqueen) to share everything that is going on with the new legislation that just passed in Tennessee. Jeff explains what you can expect in this new "Gays in the Wild" journey!
The End with Nancy Rodriguez
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Netflix's Love Is Blind star Nancy Rodriguez (@thenancyrodriguez) to share their most recent relationship highs, lows, and what ultimately led to their breakups. Nancy shares why her and Bartise were never meant to be (5:02) Jeff asks Nancy the most inappropriate question (22:20) Jeff dives in the why him and Alex ended (25:30)! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
Is 30 Really The Gay Death?
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by life coach Alex Alberti (@albertidevelopment) to talk about the joys and sorrows of turning 30? Why is turning 30 known as gay death? Learn how to age like a bad b*tch! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
You can follow Alex Here
Forcing Relationships with Connor Shennan
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined his streaming bestie Connor Shennan (@ShennanConnor) to laugh about their experiences on a dating show. Do you think you can force a relationship? Have you ever felt fucked up that you knew someone liked you and they were a good fit for you but you just couldn't get there? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
You can follow Connor Here
Nascar, Homos & Fissures with Devon Rouse
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Devon Rouse (@Devon__Rouse) to share what it's like being the first Nascar driver to come out in 20 years!. Devon opens up about what his coming out journey has been like & how the Nascar community has responded. Did coming out effect his career? How many closet cases are in the Nascar community? Who just got an anal fissure?... Oh just kidding... Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
You can follow Devon Here
Astrology Gays with the Astro Twins
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp) are joined by Ophira Edut (@Astrotwins) to discuss their birth charts. Ophi is an Astrologer for Elle Magazine as well as one of the masterminds behind Amazon Prime Video's latest show Cosmic Love. Are the stars aligned for Jeff & Alex? What zodiac signs make the best matches? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow the Astro Twins Here & be sure to stream Cosmic Love on Prime Video now!
Checkout the Astro Twins daily horoscopes here!
Stream Cosmic Love on Prime Video here!
'Uncoupled' & Immigration with Gonzalo Aburto de la Fuente
Anthony Spills The Tea with Anthony Wright
Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Anthony Wright (@Antsinyapantzz) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys dive deep into each cast member, their relationships, and what really went down at the pool party. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
You guys can follow Anthony Here
& be sure to stream The One That Got Away now on Prime Video!
Relationship Status, Monkey Pox, & More
Jeff Perla is joined by Alex Van Gurp (@AlexVanGurp) to discuss their relationship pending the show. You all submitted questions you wanted to know. What was it like transitioning back into the real world? When did we tell our friends? What was it like filming the bedroom scene on camera?
The second half of this podcast Jeff is joined by Gabe, (@GabrielBoyers) to share his experience battling Monkey Pox. What does Gabe wish he knew prior to getting it? What's it feel like? The boys discuss everything from where he got it to treatment. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
For more information on Monkey Pox or to book your vaccine in NYC click here
Nomads, Bums, & Joe
Jeff Perla is joined by Joe Santini (@SavageSantini) travel host for nomads. Joe explains how so many gays have found time to travel and yet make a living. Is there a difference between your relationship standards and your hookup standards? Is it weird to use Grindr to network? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
You can follow Joe Here
Does Dylan In Fact Have BDE? The One That Got Away
Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Dylan Palladino (@DylanJpalladino) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys reminisce on their experience filming the show and answer on going questions. Does Dylan's BDE match the reality? Who stirred the pot the most in the house? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
You guys can follow Dylan Here
& be sure to stream The One That Got Away now on Prime Video!
Confessions Of A Call Boy with Kyle
Jeff Perla is joined by Kyle Langan (@kylejlangan) author & social media consultant. The boys share their own experiences through the narrative of Kyle's new book "Confessions Of A Call Boy". This fictional novel explores the life of a call boy and his journey with self acceptance, self identity, suicide, sex work all wrapped into a murder plot. Hear the boys answers as they share some personal information and insight into their lives. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
What I'd Tell My Younger Self with Josh Van Sant
Jeff Perla is joined by Josh Van Sant (@JoshVanSant) "an older gay" who is notorious for offering advice to younger gays. Most famously for his videos on TikTok, the 2 get personal on what they think they need to work on about themselves and what they think they've got all figured out. What are your top 3 attributes you're seeking in a partner? If any of those are physical, you'll be in an unhappy relationship. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
You can follow Josh on Instagram Here
Sex Drive & Testosterone
Jeff Perla is joined by Vlad Radoi (@RadoiVlad) a Biochemist with a PHD in Medical Science. The boys discuss how your sex drive works and the difference between your libido and hormones. Just because your testosterone levels decrease does that mean your sex drive should decrease? Well guess again. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
Short King Spring with Elliott & Alex
Jeff Perla is joined by Elliott Norris (@Elliottnorris) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp), sharing their heights and experiences with taller or shorter men. Does height matter? The boys have been in Curacao for one week. Hear about the trip, our peak and pits, and all the drama in between! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
Checking Boxes with Rob & David
Jeff Perla is joined by Rob Pugliese (@SouthTampaBob) & David Rumsey (@MusgraveMTNMan),2 men over the age of 60 sharing their life experiences in the gay community! What was it like coming out in the 80's? What does "Side mean"? Want to gain some great life advice as to why you shouldn't spend your time "checking a box"? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
Toxic Men with Tiger Redz
Jeff Perla is joined by Tiger Redz (@Tiger.Redz), a femme creator sharing their opinions on toxic masculinity! Is there a difference between internalized homophobia and toxic masculinity? What are the traits of a toxic male? How many of them do these 2 have? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
The Future Urologist
Jeff Perla is joined by Pedro (@_________pedro________) to play a game sharing their wild stories abroad! Pedro is studying to be a urologist so the conversations naturally revolved around... well ya know, dicks. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
Twitter Kings and Daddies with Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry)
If you want to follow Christian @ChristianTBerry on Instagram or @Seateabe
What Would You Do For $1?
So What Happened This Past Month?!
Jeff's back with his good friend Josh Oram (@ooshj) to catch you up on everything you missed? Why was the account disabled? What is The Travelin Bum allowed to post? Do you think "meta" is homophobic? There's a lot to unbox here so we hope this insight into Jeff's life the past month helps answer any of your pondering questions.
If you want to follow Josh @ooshj
On The Run with Bash
Sebastian (@BashDeltas) joins Jeff Perla (@JeffPerlaa) to talk about what it's like going back to the place you grew up for the holidays. What do you do when you see a family member you don't get along with? Is it normal to get anxious going back home. Why is it so common to leave home and move to a big city? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
You can follow Bash here
What's An Influencer Trip Like?
I'm sure you're all sick of our Puerto Rico content by now, yet here is our recap. Come join Elliot (@ElliottNorris), Spencer (@HoddSuspenders), Barry (@BarryBartlett_) and I (@JeffPerlaa) as we share our peak and pit, first impressions of one another, and all the inappropriate juicy questions you guys asked. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
If you're planning a trip to Puerto Rico in the near future. I suggest Coqui Del Mar in San Juan as well as Casa de Amistad in Vieques. Salty Spirit was our tour guide for the duration of the trip who took us to incredible places from the black sand beach to snorkeling. Last but not least, a car is a necessity in Puerto Rico and we went Lesbian owned at Maritza's Car Rental.
Wouldn't You Like To Know
You guys ask a lot of questions and I can't send lengthy responses so I let Alex VanGurp (@AlexVanGurp) pick out 15 of your questions that I was forced to answer. Not going to give any hints to what these were but I think you'll like it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Stretch Marks, Loose Skin, & Self Love with Kendrick Leon Val
Kendrick (@KendrickLeonVal) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his weight loss journey and self love. Have you noticed a difference in attention from gay men post weight loss journey? Has your "type" changed at all? What aspects of your mental health have grown throughout the process. This episode takes a lot of twist and turns. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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Du Du with Jimmy & Jessa
Jimmy (@JimmyPezzino) & Jessa (@TheeJessa) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their new douche @discover_DU. How often do you douche? Is it just me or do you view douching as like arghhh I'm a hungry bottom lets fuck... Here's the Du's and Dunt's on douching. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
If you'd like to try or purchase your own Du - https://www.discoverdu.com/
Circle Message ... with Daniel Cusimano
Daniel Cusimano (@Daniel_Cusimano) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his Virginity, Gay Culture, and his time on The Circle. Has Daniel had his first kiss now? Why is he holding on to his virginity for so long? Who was his best friend and not so favorite person from the show? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Mental Health, Suicide, & Prevention
With September right around the corner, Tony Santilli (@TonyJoeSantilli) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss National Suicide Awareness Month. The Boys dive in on their own mental health journeys. Have they ever contemplated suicide? Men who post shirtless selfies non-stop, are they more narcissistic than others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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Truvada, Descovy, Pep What's The Difference?
Joey Gentile (@Joey.Gentile) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about Truvada, Descovy, & Pep. What's the difference between Truvada and Descovy? How many people actually take Prep? Do you need insurance to get Prep? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
I think my most asked question is "How can I get Prep with or without insurance"? You can checkout Mistr here.
Jeff & Corey Unhinged & Unedited
Corey Rae (@ImCoreyRae) and host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) share their experiences dating around. Are you a serial killer if you go on a weekend date? Do you know what you want in a relationship? Is it ok to compare new and old relationships? This conversation is a great representation of what it's like to be in my head. Aka unedited and all over the place. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
You can follow Corey Here
The Gay Virgin
Kevin (@Hoosagoodboy) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share his thoughts on sex before marriage. What is it like to be 53 and never have had penetrative sex yet? Would you be scared to take a guys virginity? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
My Wife Found Out I Was Gay
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests, David, Josh, & Britt who are all men who were once married to women. At what point did they know they were gay? Why go through with a marriage if you knew you were gay? How one wife went through his phone and discovered ... well grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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Should I Become A Dad?
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 2 guests, Casey & James who are fathers VIA adoption & surrogacy. What's easier adoption or surrogacy? Is it possible to jerk off into a cup and get a female pregnant turkey baster style? Listen as we hear how these men did it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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Can You Sit On A Pierced D*ck?
No D*ck Is That Good!
Zak (@TallZT) & Brian (@yeatheycallmeb) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share their experiences with straight men. Should you hook up with your straight friends? At what point should you start saying no to them? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
You can follow the boys below:
https://www.instagram.com/thetravelinbum/?hl=en
https://www.instagram.com/yeatheycallmeb/?hl=en
https://www.instagram.com/tallzt/?hl=en
Would You Be In An Age Gapped Relationship?
Do you have a "Micro Penis"?
How Has My Race Impacted Me with Bernard Green
Elliott Norris Is My Gay Guide
www.instagram.com/elliottnorris/?hl=en
Twink Therapy with Andres, Steven, and Javier
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Andres (@andrespalenciao), Steven (@smccutie) & Javier (@jv.rv) to share their experience as a Twink. At what age are you no longer considered a Twink? Do Twink's have a daddy fetish? Has anyone ever used the term Twink to negatively described someone? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
If you want to follow the boys from this episode;
https://www.instagram.com/smccutie/?hl=en
Bathroom Do's and Don'ts with Frank (@Franekskywalker)
Frank (@Franekskywalker) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what they think is the right or wrong way to use the bathroom. From toilet paper to bidets to going in a hole in the ground. These boys leave nothing to the imagination and share way more than they should have. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Hole Etiquette with Dr. Evan Goldstein
Dr. Evan Goldstein(@DrEvanGoldstein) owner of @BespokeSurgical & @TheFutureMethod joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk all things related to your behind. What is the best products and ways to wipe for men? Is douching with water harming your insides? Is there really such thing as the second wall? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein/?hl=en
Everything You Wanted To Know with Niko
Niko Wirachman (@Nikowirachman) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to answer all your personal questions and advise you needed. Have you ever hit your g-spot? What to do if your mans cheats on you? At what age did eating an ass go from being super gross to super hot? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Is Sex Addiction A Thing?
Harris Stevens (@Heresystevens) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about his experience being "diagnosed" a sex addict. Is being a sex addict a real thing? Does religion play a role in the diagnosis? If you masturbate "too much" are you considered a sex addict? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Do I Have An Eating Disorder?
Traci Carson (@Traci_Carson) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to analyze Jeff's picky eating habits. How restrictive is Jeff's palate? What percentage of gay men actually have an eating disorder? Have you ever skipped a meal because you wanted to look skinnier? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Navigating Curious Straight Men with Anthony Guerrieri
Power Bottoming with James & Nico
Are You My Fetish?
Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 4 guests; Mike, Derek, Ryan, & Theo who have all been fetishized for their outter appearance. How does it feel when someone treats you like a fetish? Is there a difference between having a type and being a fetish? Is it wrong to be curious about how big a guy's dick is because of his race or what color his pubes are because of his hair color? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
Follow the Boys from this Episode!
Derek: https://www.instagram.com/d.nuded/?hl=en
Mike: https://www.instagram.com/mikemontiel/?hl=en
Ryan: https://www.instagram.com/ryan_sutton87/?hl=en
Theo: https://www.instagram.com/the_red_wizard.gr/?hl=en