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The (Complex) PTSD Guy

The (Complex) PTSD Guy

By Benjamin Allen

Sharing challenges and solutions for growing up with Complex PTSD.
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Grieving vs Sadness

The (Complex) PTSD GuyMay 12, 2024

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When things are intentionally hidden from you.

When things are intentionally hidden from you.

Having a trigger related to when information is intentionally being hidden from you.
Jun 07, 202420:17
Abuse, spoiling in youth and relationships

Abuse, spoiling in youth and relationships

How being abused and spoiled in your youth can impact your view of being in a relationship.
Jun 06, 202416:55
Find a Fan Club and have fun.

Find a Fan Club and have fun.

Find a Fan Club and enjoy the hell out of it.
Jun 06, 202416:02
Complex PTSD, abuse and being spoiled, and finding your Fan Club.

Complex PTSD, abuse and being spoiled, and finding your Fan Club.

Complex abuse is just that, it's Complex. Were you abused while simultaneously being spoiled, like I was? Also, find your Fan Club, it's liberating!
Jun 06, 202413:23
Being spoiled and going through trauma.

Being spoiled and going through trauma.

Are you spoiled too?
Jun 05, 202414:01
Take a vacation, do something fun for yourself.

Take a vacation, do something fun for yourself.

Importance of taking a vacation, or simply doing something fun for yourself.
Jun 05, 202411:20
Hopeless outlook, and what to do for it.

Hopeless outlook, and what to do for it.

A book I recommend for when you feel hopeless. The Novel Cure, by Ella Berthoud and Susan Elderkin.
Jun 04, 202408:43
When you finally figure out something you've always wondered about.

When you finally figure out something you've always wondered about.

I finally figured something out that I had wondered about for years. It is somewhat off topic.
Jun 04, 202424:17
Keeping tabs on a crazymaker

Keeping tabs on a crazymaker

How keeping a journal on the crazymaker in your life might help with stress.
Jun 03, 202408:41
Depersonalization remedy

Depersonalization remedy

A possible remedy for feelings of depersonalization.
Jun 03, 202415:20
Satire and obliviousness

Satire and obliviousness

The power of satire if you grow up in an ignorant environment.
Jun 03, 202414:32
When worlds collide.

When worlds collide.

The concept of "Worlds colliding" and how to cope with this. Also some tips related to my hobby of coin collecting.
Jun 03, 202424:23
When symptoms blur your ability to get a diagnosis

When symptoms blur your ability to get a diagnosis

When depression sucks up all the attention and blurs what's really going on.
Jun 02, 202414:33
Catching you out

Catching you out

When someone catches you out
Jun 02, 202425:46
How isolating might be perpetuating being single.

How isolating might be perpetuating being single.

How isolating can be the invisible culprit that is keeping you single.
Jun 02, 202414:30
Typical scenarios that lead to feelings of incompetence.

Typical scenarios that lead to feelings of incompetence.

I describe a few typical scenarios that lead to feelings of incompetence, and some possible solutions for them.
Jun 01, 202430:06
Not thinking the worst.

Not thinking the worst.

Do you tend to think the worst and be impulsive?
May 31, 202411:34
Article about why relationships don't last.

Article about why relationships don't last.

An article about why relationships fail and how it might be related to your trauma.
May 29, 202412:33
Attracting overbearing people, and trauma.

Attracting overbearing people, and trauma.

Why people from trauma attract overbearing people.
May 29, 202415:30
Is what you're struggling with most related to what could make you happy?

Is what you're struggling with most related to what could make you happy?

Value, in the form of a hobby, is helping me appreciate money. This might be a telltale sign of what's going on with my overspending.
May 29, 202417:21
When someone's behavior frequently doesn't make sense.

When someone's behavior frequently doesn't make sense.

What I decided to do in response to someone's behavior not making sense.
May 28, 202410:36
A big clue as to why my "Cure for Boredom" is working.

A big clue as to why my "Cure for Boredom" is working.

I just read something that might be a big clue as to why my "Cure for Boredom" is working so well.
May 28, 202410:21
Monotone voice and severe depression.

Monotone voice and severe depression.

Does having a monotone voice relate to severe depression?
May 27, 202425:03
Possible solutions for despair

Possible solutions for despair

A few key points about despair that we might not think about when we are feeling despair.
May 27, 202428:18
Celebrating your accomplishments

Celebrating your accomplishments

Celebrating your accomplishments and how neglect can deprive you of this.
May 27, 202417:03
Stress, and feeling drained of energy.

Stress, and feeling drained of energy.

How stress on the brain plays a key role when we're distracted and feel drained of energy.
May 26, 202410:32
How my thoughts on euthanasia have changed since December.

How my thoughts on euthanasia have changed since December.

I came across a story regarding a topic I had researched back in December.
May 25, 202422:60
How self-criticism can be worse than you think.

How self-criticism can be worse than you think.

Self-criticism can be your worst enemy, and even more so than you might realize.
May 25, 202426:10
When we're mad that things aren't making sense, and we act out.

When we're mad that things aren't making sense, and we act out.

Some points about feeling hopelessness and feeling like life is pointless. How this can lead to trouble and what I think a remedy might be.
May 24, 202422:40
Feeling lost vs feeling happy; and Low Self-esteem

Feeling lost vs feeling happy; and Low Self-esteem

The role low Self-esteem can play in regards to feeling lost in life, and how feeling happy can be a remedy.
May 22, 202411:12
Overcompensating when we feel incompetent

Overcompensating when we feel incompetent

Are you trying to prove yourself, or overcompensate, due to feelings of incompetence?
May 22, 202414:45
How to stop blaming and move forward.

How to stop blaming and move forward.

There's a key thing I recommend doing if you find yourself unable to move forward from your abuser and stop blaming them for your problems in life.
May 22, 202409:01
Procrastination creates stress, addressing it isn't as scary as it might seem.

Procrastination creates stress, addressing it isn't as scary as it might seem.

Addressing whatever it is you're procrastinating and how I recently did this and the result.
May 22, 202406:32
Reference for recent episode.

Reference for recent episode.

I provide the dates of the podcast episodes that I referenced recently.
May 21, 202406:40
Interesting thing happened last night.

Interesting thing happened last night.

A very interesting thing happened last night. I wanted to share.
May 21, 202408:20
7 months alcohol-free

7 months alcohol-free

I reflect back on how I approached being alcohol-free and what I'm doing to prevent going back to the companionship of alcohol.
May 21, 202420:57
When people annoy you.

When people annoy you.

Why our response to annoying people might be a trigger for us.
May 20, 202412:06
Self-criticism and Comparing yourself to other people.

Self-criticism and Comparing yourself to other people.

Envy and self-criticism.
May 20, 202415:38
Camping as a stress reliever, specific points.

Camping as a stress reliever, specific points.

I went to a camping store this weekend and noticed something that related to my points about camping as a way to relieve stress.
May 20, 202409:06
Happiness is not just a mindset, you have to GET happy.

Happiness is not just a mindset, you have to GET happy.

I talk about my recent experience with two different motivational people, and why I think they're missing something.
May 19, 202421:32
Symptoms that lead to boredom, and handling distractions.

Symptoms that lead to boredom, and handling distractions.

I mention a few Complex PTSD symptoms that can lead to boredom and my solution for this. I also point out how to handle distractions.
May 17, 202423:06
Being highly impressionable, and Dissociation.

Being highly impressionable, and Dissociation.

If you struggle with dissociation, it makes sense to me if you struggle with being highly impressionable.
May 15, 202409:19
"Self-Help" vs Solutions

"Self-Help" vs Solutions

A little bit of a rant, and a movie recommendation.
May 14, 202412:56
Internalizing other people's behavior.

Internalizing other people's behavior.

Don't internalize other people's behavior.
May 14, 202415:32
Fight or Flight thinking, and what to do about it.

Fight or Flight thinking, and what to do about it.

Why our physical brain can hold us back from handling problems rationally, and what to do about it.
May 12, 202406:23
Grieving vs Sadness

Grieving vs Sadness

Something to grieve about vs when you're sad.
May 12, 202419:25
The benefits of sharing your genuine interests with people.

The benefits of sharing your genuine interests with people.

Some points on why it's nothing to be afraid of to share your genuine interests with people.
May 11, 202408:41
Being neutral and the PTSD brain.

Being neutral and the PTSD brain.

A few more points about how our PTSD brain impacts us.
May 11, 202411:53
Opening up your perspective when you feel stuck.

Opening up your perspective when you feel stuck.

Feeling stuck in your own viewpoints, it's important to open up your perspective.
May 11, 202419:48
Somatization

Somatization

Somatization and stress
May 10, 202411:20