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It doesn't make sense, but freedom can become a prison and we can all be willing and aggressively choosing a cell in the attempt to BE FREE. Here's how...

We place too much premium on the worth of Rationality as though we could be truly rational. Stay with me as I attempt to make a case for irrationality, you can't guess where this is going until you get there. Enjoy.

On this episode I decided to share what I consider to be the three pillars of consistency. Enjoy!

Just before you call yourself a failure, listen to this

We make an attempt to solve one of the deepest concerns of our time, being able to maintain a fitness culture.

It took me twice the time to get one degree, guess what? I wouldn’t change it for anything and here’s exactly why.

I finally recorded the episode I had been craving for months. Listen and enjoy.

Demystifying the concept of vulnerability as well sharing effective ways to be vulnerable, especially at the most crucial moments

Listen and enjoy!

Listen and enjoy!

One of the popular midnight monologues, it’s been a while I did this. So I hope you find some value in it, otherwise let it go, it’s more for me 😂

Are broken home and lovelessness amongst people truly linked to fathers? Here’s our take.

Those who worship, would worship in spirit and truth. God in in your essence!

Failure has a very bad reputation in our stories as people, but I feel failures are the true building blocks of success. Join me and my friend Tony as we share some insight from our stories with failures, success and how all of that can be harnessed when you play to your strength.

This is the best way to say Happy new year to you guys!

This year has been nothing short of eventful and I’m truly grateful for it. So I thought I would record a solo session talking about my lessons, and wins for this year. Enjoy!

Has your relationship ever hit a deadlock? Then you might be a one to relate to this conversation with Jerry.

Unequally yoked?

Join me and the amazing Prince, a friend and brother as we recount our experiences with the “grind” through life and business .

What really is masculine or feminine

On this episode I and my buddy Jerry attempt to articulate what it means and what it would take to have a quality relationship, how to progress with it and several other aspects of relationships that we don’t often talk enough about or perhaps that we talk too much about but never hit the nail on the head. You’ll love this one

Let’s have this conversation about traumas already.

I promise it’s not what you think.

I know you may not believe me, but I honestly think that the work you’ve put in has not gone to a total waste simply because you are not seeing the expected results.

I’m sorry but the difficulty you are experiencing is legitimate, I mean you deserve exactly that amount of difficulty and discomfort. I know that’s not what you are hoping to hear but it’s the truth, the difficulty you are experiencing is the proof of the direction you are on, it may get easier for you but it doesn’t mean it’s any less a hard thing. So I’m here to first give you your accolades for Howfar you’ve come and then to push you to do even more, at least that’s what I hope to do.

I like the word ‘nuance’ a lot because it’s a very accurate description of what we experience as people, almost everything we call ‘new’ is not usually that it hasn’t existed before it’s just that it hasn’t existed in this fashion before, so most times we are fighting the same battle but in a new terrane or in a new and improved costume… let’s see how this implies to Imposter syndrome

What do you think it means to really count the cost? I think this is an important life skill we should have in the day and age. Let’s dive in!

It’s interesting how in this conversation I get to RE-evaluate the idea of reevaluation 😂 you’ll understand what I mean when you listen

An episode made with once upon a chart time strangers who quickly turned into close friends.

Join myself and two of my closest friends explore some depth in our relationship.

Talking is therapy she said, I couldn’t have agreed less. This was definitely enriching for me.

It was such an honor to be with the Rotaract club of UNN, to share a perspective on the psychological impact of bullying. I hope this new perspective will make us even more responsible as we have a society with less and less cases of bullying.

I know I make a lot of noise about this podcast being my own safe space, but this episode is truly for you, yes you. I’m sorry I couldn’t place the link here as promised, the title of the song is Vienna by Greta Ray. When you listen to it think of me 😂 I’m kidding. I want you to think of you and how far you have really come despite all the odds standing in your way. Heyy you’re doing fine.

Another disorganized rant through my mind trying to make something that makes sense to me in my head makes sense in speaking… sorry for the incoherence 😂

I’m sorry but this is a special edition with my FA people. A lot of inside jokes and references 😂

It’s about time.

Of late I’ve not been able to really talk about what’s happening in my head for a couple of reasons that I won’t bore you with here, but you’ll get the point in the episode I hope, except of course I’m just talking rubbish which anyways is okay with me 😂 I have heard a few people lately sound shocked or surprised whenever they hear I have a podcast, we’ll listen to the intro and you’ll know why they don’t know… Anyways, this episode features a lot of the parts of who i am, or at least who I think I am and some of my deepest philosophies that have driven me through my own journey in life, I decided to share this episode because while I was reflecting this morning It hit me, although I love this serene moment and how much progress I’m making, I think “this might actually help someone” but also it’s because of all the things I find expression in storytelling is by far one of my best and because I haven’t done it in so long I just decided that I was going to literally tell this story. So ignore my rambles, there was no perfect path in the story, pick what speaks to you if anything does 😊

How many talking stages have you been in this year alone? Let me show you a new perspective you probably haven’t thought about before

Listen and find out

I realized that I spent the whole time in the episode describing “marinate” as simmer, but then again, I can’t change that now, can I? Anyway this is a very free flowing monologue and so I would not try to order or try to determine what you get out of this. So I’ll just let you flow with it and into the right places, whatever those places are for you. Enjoy!

What do you do when you are faced with a situation that requires you grow?

For everything in existence there is a purposes, a reason for its existence that makes utility possible, it is safe to say that one of our greatest joys as humans is to find the purpose of a thing, but even more interestingly give purpose(meaning) to certain thing that we are privileged to create or pioneer. And so for me this is one idea that is so dear to me. But it is worthy of note the that we no longer LIVE with that sense of purpose, there is a less and less emphasis on purposefulness and a heightened emphasis on emotions. We live now a very sensual era, where everything is subject to feelings and less to meaning. I honestly think that is quite limiting, how we feel is indeed important but it has to be subject or at least get its definitions from PURPOSE, so meaningful endeavor should be encouraged irrespective of how discomforting it may feel, and things along those lines. So before you assume this is me coming to teach you about “your purpose in life” take a break from that thought. Pervades the simply fact that we think we know what purpose is when in reality we have absolutely no client should be a major concern. Because we read books about it, attend seminars and listen to so many persons and yet at the core of idea we miss it. So today I’m not here to teach you about your purpose even though you are likely to get some direction if you listen close, I am here to establish what that idea means at the basic form of it. And it is captured in the question WHY? Why is anything made, made? Why am I here now? Why are you here now of all the p places and things you could have been doing? I believe that when we understand purpose better, especially at its basic form we are better equipped to utilize moments, opportunities, relationships, and to LIVE a more intentional and meaningful life. This i tell you is the game changer. To truly live, you must live purposefully daily.

Self leadership is the heart of leadership

Lessons I've learned in the last one year

Let's just take a second look at society.

Your impact is not in the tree but the fruit of the tree. Let’s explore this depth.

Have you been caught in that phase where you think you are so productive but the time you have is not enough? Here's the truth...

Let’s have another look at the idea of scars.

Mirages are an illusion, you think it's cooler from where you stand, so you really want to go over there. No no no it ain't that simple. You may be shocked that it's hotter there than where you are at the moment, so your best bet is to learn ways to be true to you. Listen to get the tips on how to make that work.