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BWT: But We're Together with Wes and Darlene

BWT: But We're Together with Wes and Darlene

By WES KRIESEL

Welcome to the BWT But We're Together Podcast. Eavesdrop on the conversations we have as an interracial couple. We are educators, writers and YouTube creators living in Southern California.
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BWT: But We're Together with Wes and DarleneOct 21, 2018

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Lessons from a Decade

Lessons from a Decade

In this episode, we reflect on our biggest lessons learned over the decade ending with 2019, and we use the concept of the "wellness wheel" to create a handy protocol to examine different areas of our lives: social, spiritual, intellectual, physical and emotional. Let us know your biggest lessons of the last ten years by messaging us on social media to continue the conversation. 

Jan 11, 202055:29
 How to Manage Stress in 2019
Apr 29, 201950:35
30 Years of Prison: Bille Palmer Interview

30 Years of Prison: Bille Palmer Interview

There's no way to entirely capture - or even touch on - what Bille Palmer has experienced over 30 years in prison, but we do capture a better understanding of our prison and penal system in our time together. Bille is Darlene's cousin who was arrested for kidnapping and robbery and tried as an adult at age 17. He is now free after lobbying for his freedom and his case, currently under review, may change the law from here on out. 

Apr 02, 201944:48
Recommitting to Real Talk - Episode 1, Season 2

Recommitting to Real Talk - Episode 1, Season 2

In this episode, we talk about why I was bothered that Darlene didn't embrace the podcast Still Processing that I introduced her to on a recent roadtrip, and what that revealed about the white privilege and the pervasiveness of white supremacy, even in a committed interracial relationship.  It gets real, y'all! 

Mar 02, 201945:14
I Read My Wife the News - December 15

I Read My Wife the News - December 15

PG & E: violating the law?; Brexit or Not; Trump Family Tax Scheme; Shepherd Finds Dinosaur Bones; Catholic Priests condemns Teen's Suicide, during the funeral; Katie Taylor Claims Women's Boxing Title; US Looted Philippines Church 100 Year Ago - Stolen Bells Returned at Last; Biggest Wedding in India. California commission finds PG&E falsified records for years - CNN Confused about what happened with Brexit? Here’s your cheat sheet. - BBC News US Tenants today are reportedly still paying for a Trump family tax scheme from the 1990s - Vox How a South African shepherd found a dinosaur graveyard - BBC News US PG&E workers found damaged tower and bullet holes near Camp Fire origin site - CNN Catholic priest at teenager's funeral condemns suicide - BBC News US Katie Taylor beats Eva Wahlstrom to defend world titles in New York - BBC News US US returns looted Balangiga church bells to Philippines - BBC News US India’s richest man throws the wedding to end all weddings, with Beyonce and Hillary in attendance - Los Angeles Times
Dec 16, 201832:22
The Christmas Episode

The Christmas Episode

Darlene and Wes reminisce about Christmas holidays past and ruminate on the deepest meanings of this cultural landmark: should kids be told Santa is real or not? Pet peeves on this holiday? How to deal with loss around the holiday, and more.
Dec 02, 201849:10
Choosing Las Vegas

Choosing Las Vegas

Join us as we discuss our recent getaway to Las Vegas, including our experiences with karaoke, Cirque du Soleil, sushi, Clark County Wetlands, slots, shopping and more.
Oct 21, 201833:53
Tribute to Aretha

Tribute to Aretha

In this episode, we discuss how the music and personality of Aretha Franklin has affected us. More so, Darlene, but Wes, too. We listen to clips from the House that Jack Built, Respect, and Rocksteady, in addition to a live performance with Smokey Robinson on Soul Train.
Aug 25, 201833:11
I Read My Wife the News - Aug 5

I Read My Wife the News - Aug 5

In this episode, Darlene reacts to the California fires, Trump's dump on Lebron, loose goats, and more.

Venezuelan President survives apparent drone assassination attempt - CNN
www.cnn.com/2018/08/04/americas/venezuela-maduro/index.html

California's deadly Carr fire started by flat tire - Axios
How the Carr Fire became one of the most destructive fires in California history - Vox

President Trump bashes LeBron James over recent interview - ESPN

time.com/money/5330948/teachers-summer-jobs/

Venezuelan President survives apparent drone assassination attempt - CNN

11 children rescued from filthy compound with little food or water - ABC News

A Brief History Of MoviePass's Spectacular Rise And Fall - BuzzFeed News

118 goats escaped into an Idaho neighborhood. Internet fame ensued. - Idaho Statesman

After fundraiser goes viral, Georgetown awards gay valedictorian full scholarship - NBC News

40 California Hospital Employees Lost Their Homes In A Wildfire. They Showed
Aug 05, 201829:28
Darlene Goes to Japan

Darlene Goes to Japan

Wes interviews Darlene about her recent trip to Tokyo. Listen in as we explore the consciousness of a black woman in Japan - from transportation to dress to music and religion, hear what Darlene experienced and what she recommends if you're thinking of visiting.
Jul 23, 201839:39
Chicago! Hamilton! ISTE 2018!

Chicago! Hamilton! ISTE 2018!

In this episode, we share our feelings on visiting Chicago for the first time, our thoughts on seeing Hamilton in Chicago, our experience on amazing the architectural boat tour (the twilight boat), and my experience at the ISTE 2018 conference.
Jul 03, 201831:17
Chicago Edition - I Read My Wife the News - June 27
Jun 27, 201835:41
What is Romance?

What is Romance?

Darlene and I define romance in our younger years, at the beginning of our relationship as adults, and possibly, just possibly, reveal what romance is to us in the future. It's an honest discussion that may just reveal how fragile Wes' ego is and how we change as we grow older.
Jun 21, 201832:06
I Read the News to My wife - Father's Day edition
Jun 17, 201840:24
How to Overcome Fear
Jun 15, 201856:59
I Read the News to My Wife - June 10, 2018
Jun 10, 201835:58
What makes a good friend?

What makes a good friend?

Darlene and I discuss what makes a good friend, whether social media and modern communication tools help or hinder friendship, what boundaries are needed and whether friendship changes as we age.

Music by Joakim Karud.
Jun 07, 201840:16
I Read the News to My Wife
Jun 03, 201826:46
How to Have Creative Freedom

How to Have Creative Freedom

Darlene is a freelance writer and Wes is a freelance photographer. As creatives at heart working 9 to 5 jobs, we discuss how we journey toward freedom with our creativity.

Music by Joakim Karud.
Jun 03, 201822:33
I Order a DNA Testing Kit

I Order a DNA Testing Kit

Darlene takes charge and orders Wes a DNA testing kit. We discuss our impressions of Ancestry.com and 23 and me, Darlene's experiences and results with her DNA testing and we predict what Wes' results will say. We discuss our experiences with the meanings of black and white heritage.

Music by Joakim Karud.
Jun 03, 201834:02