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The Cathartic Experience

The Cathartic Experience

By Catharsis

Karoline and Nereah, two licensed therapists talking about life in an unfiltered way. Mental health, relationships, race, business and more. No sugar coating, just raw and honest conversation.
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Tough Love: Relying on Others for Validation Ain't Cute

The Cathartic ExperienceApr 12, 2024

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Tough Love: Relying on Others for Validation Ain't Cute

Tough Love: Relying on Others for Validation Ain't Cute

.In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss how relying on others to approve of you and everything you do is a complete waste of a life.

Apr 12, 202418:54
Tough Love: Stop Neglecting Yourself!

Tough Love: Stop Neglecting Yourself!

During this episode in the tough love series, Karoline and Nereah get real about self-neglect. That shit ain't cute...

Mar 12, 202421:03
It's All about Money, Honey- Part 2: This Generation is Doomed

It's All about Money, Honey- Part 2: This Generation is Doomed

In this episode, Karoline and Nereah continue to explore the struggles that accompany money. Is this generation doomed?

Oct 14, 202319:35
 It’s All about Money, Honey - Part 1

It’s All about Money, Honey - Part 1

Welcome and welcome BACK, it's Nereah and Karoline back after a breather – we totally ghosted you, but life got wild. Today, we're pulling back the curtain on something we all deal with: Money.

From the crazy demands of our non-stop lives to the guilt-ridden silence around money talk, it's time for a change. We're sharing our money journeys – from clueless credit card swipes to breaking free from spending traps.

As therapists, we've seen how money stress eats at mental well-being. Those food delivery binges? Often, they're emotional escapes. It's time to stop the cycle.

So, take a minute. Reflect on your money story, how it shapes your choices and emotions. And hey, ever wonder what money thinks of you?

Stay tuned for more real talk and insights. Remember, hustle's cool, but breaks are life too!

Aug 12, 202315:17
The Cathartic Experience Update

The Cathartic Experience Update

It's been a minute, but we decided to squeeze-in a special episode to talk about what's been happening, what we've been up to, where we're heading and what life has thrown at us.

May 09, 202320:10
S3 E2: Tough Love Series : You're A Mess!

S3 E2: Tough Love Series : You're A Mess!

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline call out those who are messy and/or lead messy lives. Take a listen, and if you get offended, you might have come to the right place. 

Feb 18, 202321:56
S3 E1: Tough Love Series: He Don't Want You

S3 E1: Tough Love Series: He Don't Want You

First episode of season 3! This episode is the first in the Tough Love series in which Karoline and Nereah engage in real, unfiltered, and blunt conversation. In this episode, they breakthrough the delusion some women have when they date men that don't want them. Listen at your own risk.

Feb 10, 202327:10
S2 E17: Undesirability - Being the Friend That’s Never Approached

S2 E17: Undesirability - Being the Friend That’s Never Approached

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline explore the concern surrounding being a friend that feels like they are rarely approached in a romantic sense. They unpack the implications of this experience and how to navigate it.

Dec 01, 202222:14
S2 E16: Learn How to Ask for What You Want

S2 E16: Learn How to Ask for What You Want

In this episode, Karoline and Nereah teach the art of assertiveness. It's a difficult skill to master, but worth it in the long run. Learn how to ask for what you need/want and it will be yours.

Dec 01, 202221:16
S2 E15: Dating Emotionally Unavailable People - When to Tap Out

S2 E15: Dating Emotionally Unavailable People - When to Tap Out

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline explore the challenge of dating people who are emotionally unavailable. What are the signs to look out for? How do you deal with it? Should you stay or should you go?

Nov 28, 202232:16
S2 E 14: Dating Black Men

S2 E 14: Dating Black Men

In this episode, Karoline and Nereah speak about their experiences in dating Black men. They discuss the good, the bad and the ugly. From their comfort and love of Black men to identifying some of their problematic and toxic traits. 

Nov 07, 202228:10
S2 E 13: Single vs. Married Friends

S2 E 13: Single vs. Married Friends

.In this episode, Karoline and Nereah reflect on their experiences in their relational world and how their lives compare and contrast as married and single, respectively.

Nov 02, 202228:12
S2 E12: Being Alone vs. Loneliness

S2 E12: Being Alone vs. Loneliness

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline explore the blurry line between being alone and being lonely. Is there one that's healthier? What are the limitations of both?

Aug 13, 202224:45
S2 E11: Vulnerability to Harm Schema

S2 E11: Vulnerability to Harm Schema

In this episode, within the schema series, Karoline and Nereah discuss what it's like to to have a crippling fear of your life falling apart financially, mentally, health-wise, and more. This is for those of us who worry a lot and always think of the worst case scenario. 

May 11, 202216:18
S2 E10: Emotional Deprivation

S2 E10: Emotional Deprivation

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline delve deep into the inner world of those who have been emotionally deprived throughout their lives? Do you have difficulty experiencing vulnerability? Do you struggle to feel connected to others? Do you feel like no one is ever there for you emotionally? Then, we may be calling you out ;) 

Mar 09, 202223:57
S2 E9: Schema Series - Why do you have such poor self-control?

S2 E9: Schema Series - Why do you have such poor self-control?

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss the difficulties of being someone who has difficulty controlling their behaviours. Do you feel like you're always running out of money? Do you feel like you're constantly regretting your decisions? Do you feel like your life is ran by your impulses? Then, we may be calling you out ;) From general advice to personal stories, these hosts share a piece of themselves when exploring this topic.
Mar 09, 202224:31
S2 E8: Unrelenting Standards

S2 E8: Unrelenting Standards

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss the benefits and difficulties that are associated with having standards that are too high. Do you put too much pressure on yourself to be perfect? Do you put too much pressure on other people to be perfect? Do you have difficulty tolerating when things don't go your way? Well, we may be calling you out ;)

Mar 09, 202226:01
S2 E7: WTF does Work/Life Balance even mean?

S2 E7: WTF does Work/Life Balance even mean?

Happy New Year! In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss the struggles of being an adult human being and balancing all of the demands of life. We hear those words all of the time, but what the hell does it even look like? Is it even possible? Join us as we discuss this topic!

Jan 16, 202228:47
S2 E6: Schema Series - Stop Self-Sacrificing

S2 E6: Schema Series - Stop Self-Sacrificing

.The first episode of our schema series is about self-sacrificing. If you're always putting other people ahead of your own self then you know who you are. Too much of a good thing is not always a good thing. Not only do we unpack the potential origins for this way of being but we also talk about ways in which you can challenge yourself in prioritizing your feelings, needs, and wants. You are important too.

Oct 31, 202133:41
S2 E5: Struggles of Body Image (Perception of Others)

S2 E5: Struggles of Body Image (Perception of Others)

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss the difficulties of being in one's body and the struggles that come with being consumed with weight and size.

Sep 01, 202120:43
S2 E4: When The Spark Dies in Your Relationship

S2 E4: When The Spark Dies in Your Relationship

During this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss what happens when the spark dies in your relationship. How does the spark die? How do you revive it?

Aug 16, 202131:49
S2 E3: What We Hate About Being Women - Part 2: Misogyny

S2 E3: What We Hate About Being Women - Part 2: Misogyny

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss the hardships of being women. Specifically, the challenges that come with misogyny and how it shows up in the day to day.
Aug 03, 202128:56
S2 E2: What We Hate About Being Women - Biology and Appearance

S2 E2: What We Hate About Being Women - Biology and Appearance

In this episode, we share what we believe are the worst parts about being born women in this society.
Jul 20, 202133:03
S2 E1 : Are Your Friends Really Your Friends?

S2 E1 : Are Your Friends Really Your Friends?

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss friendship. Are your friends actually your friends? Or are you surrounded by people who call themselves that but act in opposition to that? Do they have trouble celebrating your successes? Do you constantly feel judged by them? What if you're the ass of every one of their jokes? Maybe it's time to take a closer look at your friendships.

Jun 17, 202131:09
S1 E15: Let's Talk About Sex: Monogamy or Nah

S1 E15: Let's Talk About Sex: Monogamy or Nah

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline have an open and honest conversation about their perceptions and experiences of monogamy and polyamory. Why be with one person only? Why have relationships with multiple people?
May 23, 202138:37
S1 E14: Let's Talk About Sex: Perceptions of Sex

S1 E14: Let's Talk About Sex: Perceptions of Sex

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss their perceptions of sex and sexuality and how this has evolved overtime. Open and honest, they don't hold back.
May 12, 202135:08
S1 E13: Self-Confidence

S1 E13: Self-Confidence

In this episode Nereah and Karoline explore the rough reality of what it's like to not like yourself. What is confidence? Is it even important?
May 07, 202125:41
S1 E12: WTF is Social Media?

S1 E12: WTF is Social Media?

In this episode, Karoline and Nereah explore the many ways social media challenges a person's perception of themselves and the world around them. From highlighting insecurities to doubling self-doubt, social media can be a bitch.
Apr 29, 202125:54
S1 E11: Infidelity

S1 E11: Infidelity

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss the scars of infidelity. They take a nonjudgemental and open approach to exploring such a controversial topic. Once a cheater always a cheater?
Apr 21, 202125:26
S1 E10: Love Languages

S1 E10: Love Languages

In this episode Karoline and Nereah explore the 5 love languages and how important they may be for relationships. They also share their experiences and stories of how they’ve communicated those languages in their relationships.
Apr 17, 202124:14
S1 E9: Microaggressions

S1 E9: Microaggressions

In this episode, Karoline and Nereah discuss micro aggressions on the level of race, gender, culture, and age. They delve into the layers of the human psyche and how we may aggress towards others without noticing. They promote openness and curiosity as a means of expanding ones worldview and tolerance.
Apr 09, 202153:37
S1 E8: Interracial Relationships

S1 E8: Interracial Relationships

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline explore the various challenges of being in an interracial relationship. From simple misunderstandings to respect and advocacy, the two delve into the uncomfortable aspects of these types of relationships. No filter.
Mar 25, 202141:21
S1 E7: Dating Struggles Part 4: F*ckboys

S1 E7: Dating Struggles Part 4: F*ckboys

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss their take and understanding of the term F*ckboy. From stereotypical traits, to what it may be like to be in a relationship with one to how to handle yourself when interacting with one, they discuss it all!
Mar 16, 202139:48
S1 E6: Dating Struggles Part 3: Red Flags

S1 E6: Dating Struggles Part 3: Red Flags

In this episode, Karoline and Nereah address red flags that tend to come up in relationships. They share their own stories and the lessons they’ve learned through hardship. It’s easy to turn a blind eye to some of these red flags, but they give you some guidance on how to navigate these situations.
Mar 02, 202140:41
S1 E5: Dating Struggles Part 2: Miscommunication in Relationships

S1 E5: Dating Struggles Part 2: Miscommunication in Relationships

In this episode, Karoline and Nereah discuss the struggles that arise in relationships in terms of communication. They discuss their upbringing and how their families communicated and link this to their difficulties communicating in romantic relationships.
Feb 21, 202138:41
S1 E4: Dating Struggles Part 1 : Too Many Options

S1 E4: Dating Struggles Part 1 : Too Many Options

In this episode, Nereah and Karoline discuss the struggles of dating on Tinder and other apps. From too many options through the unnecessary games, they recount their previous experiences with online platforms.





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Feb 14, 202133:11
S1 E3: COVID: Mental Health & Relationships

S1 E3: COVID: Mental Health & Relationships

In this episode, Karoline and Nereah discuss how the pandemic has impacted their mental health and their relationships with others.
Feb 07, 202135:29
S1 E2: Code Switching

S1 E2: Code Switching

In this episode, Karoline and Nereah discuss the concept of code switching AKA adopting the mannerisms of the majority in order to not stand out as Black women.
Feb 07, 202136:17
S1 E1: Introduction

S1 E1: Introduction

Welcome to The Cathartic Experience!
In this first episode, Karoline and Nereah introduce themselves. From their humble beginnings to their new found success.
Feb 06, 202115:48
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The Cathartic Experience

Feb 06, 202103:22