Dare 2 Date

Tired of the dating game? Feeling frustrated with rejection? You're not alone. In this podcast, we dive deep into the fascinating world of attraction, exploring whether you can truly 'make' someone like you and offering practical strategies for navigating the inevitable bumps in the road. We'll discuss the importance of authenticity, the role of chemistry, and how to build genuine connections. Join me as we navigate the complexities of love and dating with honesty, humour, and a lot of self-compassion.

Let's be honest, dating can be tough. It's easy to feel discouraged, lonely, and even hopeless when things don't go according to plan. In this episode, we'll have an honest conversation about the challenges of finding love in today's world and how you can stay motivated I will give you practical advice, and tools to enjoy the process. Whether you're single and searching or simply looking for a little extra motivation, this episode is for you

Feeling stuck in a Groundhog Day loop? Are you tired of the same old routine and dreaming of a year that truly feels different? In the first episode of Season 2, I share my proven process for creating your BEST YEAR EVER. And I've turned the camera on but made the rooky mistake of looking at the screen and not the camera. We'll dive deep into: Rediscovering what brings you joy: Reconnect with your passions and find activities that truly make you come alive. Looking at wht really works Setting impactful goals: Not New Year's resolutions that you give up within two weeks. Creating lasting change: Discover simple yet powerful strategies to break free from old patterns and create new, empowering habits. This isn't just about resolutions – it's about creating a year of intention, purpose, and profound personal growth. Listen now and get ready to experience a year unlike any other!

Tired of the dating drama? In this episode, I dive into the top 6 dating trends for 2025. Based on research from over 40,000 Bumble users worldwide, I'll uncover what singles are looking for: Less ghosting, more honesty: Say goodbye to the disappearing acts! A return to romance: Forget the endless swiping, let's get back to genuine connection. Shared interests are key: Forget small talk, let's talk about our passions. Get ready for a realistic look at what's happening in the dating world and how to navigate it confidently and get the results you deserve.

Many people ask me how to get back into the dating scene after a divorce. It's a common question, and the answer is often complex. Divorce can be a challenging experience, and the level of difficulty can vary depending on the circumstances. Whether you were the one who initiated the divorce or it was unexpected, you may be feeling a range of emotions. This can include feelings of worthlessness, guilt, or mixed emotions. One of the biggest challenges after separation is loneliness. Having so much free time can be overwhelming, and you might crave companionship. However, the thought of dating again can be daunting. It's completely normal to have mixed feelings about returning to the dating world. You might be excited about a second chance but also nervous about the unknown or the possibility of failure. Today, I want to focus on the practical aspects of dating after divorce, based on my own experience. While it might feel scary at first, I promise you dating can be fun and rewarding. Let's explore some practical steps to help you navigate this new chapter in your life.

Stop the Fizzle! Craft Messages that Get You Dates (Not Crickets) ❌➡️❤️ Tired of matches going nowhere fast? This week's podcast episode is your rescue mission! We're diving deep into the secret weapon of online dating: Killer messages! Here's what you'll learn: Ditch the boring! Discover creative, engaging messages that spark real connections. Stand out from the crowd! Stop sending generic greetings – grab their attention and make them want to chat! Beyond the bio – beyond the "Hi"! Unlock the power of messages that create emotional connections, not just transactions. Bonus: We'll dissect real-life message examples (good & bad!) so you can see the magic in action. ✨ This episode is for you if: You're tired of one-word replies. You want to make a memorable first impression (without the cheese!). ❌ You're ready to turn matches into dates (and maybe even something more!). Ready to stop the fizzle and spark amazing connections? Listen now!

Love knows no distance, or does it? This week's podcast tackles the age-old question: can long-distance relationships work? In the past, I might have given a more definitive answer, but love (and life!) is rarely black and white. So, whether you're currently single, coupled up, or a curious media type, tune in for some insightful tips on navigating a long-distance relationship, especially if your partner travels for work. We'll be exploring: My nuanced take on long-distance love (it's not all bad!) Practical tips for making the miles melt away Strategies for staying connected and keeping the spark alive. So, grab your headphones and join me as we delve into the world of long-distance dating!

You know how we love a good shortcut, right? Relationship theories/tests on social media are like that - bite-sized explanations for complex situations. They're catchy, relatable, and promise a quick fix for our love lives – which EVERYONE wants. Plus, they spark conversation and debates, which keeps people scrolling and sharing. But do they work and are they true? In my opinion, they are fun but oversimplified. I see people taking advice from social media that they thought they understood but got it wrong – often people don’t see what they are doing. There is some great advice on SM and some terrible advice out there. In this week's podcast, I talk about: The Orange Peel Theory The Ketchup Theory The Doritos Theory Are they fact or fiction?

Is reality TV a reflection of real-life dating? This week's episode dives deep into shows like Married at First Sight to expose the surprising truth: the drama you see on screen is often a mirror reflecting the challenges singles face every day. We'll unveil why so many people (looking for love, not fame!) struggle to find lasting connections. Here's what you'll learn: The hidden baggage holding you back: Uncover the low self-esteem, unresolved past relationships, and emotional burdens that sabotage dating success, even if you're unaware of them. From "Married at First Sight" to Married at First Mess: Discover why these seemingly perfect TV matches often fall apart, and how these same patterns play out in real life. Beyond the Reality Show: How to Find Real Love: Move from "Married at First Mess" to a fulfilling relationship! We'll explore practical steps to overcome baggage, build healthy self-esteem, and attract the love you deserve. Tune in and learn how to turn your dating life from reality TV drama into a real-life love story! Further Information In the podcast, I referred to the Learn to Love Yourself Course. You can find more information here - https://debbierivers.com.au/learn-to-love-yourself/

Join me on this week's podcast as we explore the challenges of modern relationships and uncover the truths behind common myths. In this episode, I challenge the idea that finding the "right person" guarantees relationship bliss, using insights from the hit show "Married at First Sight" to look at the complexities of chemistry versus compatibility. Discover why communication is seen as the foundation of healthy relationships and learn practical tips for mastering this essential skill. Whether you're single, in a new relationship, or celebrating years of love, you'll get valuable insights and strategies for creating fulfilling connections in today's fast-paced world. This podcast is for you.

The champagne bottles have popped, the glitter has settled, and you're staring down a fresh year - single and ready to put yourself out there. It’s time for a fresh start and January is the to do that. Join me as I discuss actionable tips and strategies for those ready to dip their toes back into the dating waters. Whether you're a seasoned dater or just starting out, this episode is packed with insights on how to make your dating journey successful in 2024. Drawing inspiration from Tinder's Year in Swipe, I uncover the hottest trends shaping the dating landscape. Forget cheesy pick-up lines and tired profiles and find out what will get you results. We will look at the top 5 trends according to Tinder’s Year in Swipe. Including finding out what NATO dating is and what dating for the plot is. Don't miss out on the insights that will make you smash your dating goals in 2024. Hit play now.

2023...poof! Gone like a magician's rabbit. Remember saying "New Year, New Me"? Yeah, about that... Did your resolutions land with a graceful pirouette or a faceplant into reality? No judgment here! But if you're ready to wave goodbye to "meh" and hello to a "hell yeah!" 2024, then grab your headphones and settle in. This episode is packed with tips, tricks, and inspiration to craft a year so epic, even Nostradamus would be impressed. Send me a message if you would like a print out of the questions.

Ever felt like a date is basically a high-stakes interview with no script? You're not alone. We've all faced the first-date jitters, the awkward silences, and the desperate attempt to impress. But what if I told you there's a way to navigate this emotional rollercoaster and emerge victorious, not just with a job offer, but with a love connection? Join me as I break down the surprising similarities and key differences between job interviews and dates. We'll uncover the secrets behind successful first impressions, learn how to confidently showcase your best self (without sounding like a robot), and discover the art of asking the right questions to uncover genuine connections. Whether you're a serial swiper or a dating newbie, this podcast is your guide to acing the ultimate interview: the one that leads to love. In this episode: Why your job interview skills translate to dating success (and vice versa) Unveiling the hidden psychology of attraction and first impressions Mastering the art of conversation: from awkward silences to captivating stories Decoding body language and reading the signals (beyond the obvious) Transforming your nerves into confident charisma So, ditch the dating app fatigue and get ready to land your dream date. This is your chance to turn that first "Hello" into a love story for the ages.

You don't want to miss this week's podcast as it will let you know what singles are looking for. This week I am talking about the insights of 26,849 singles! I will also let you know what dating trends you can expect going into 2024. How do I know what so many singles think? The information comes from an annual internal poll of Bumble users worldwide! This year Bumble polled 26,849 users from over 20 countries. In this week's podcast, I share the insights from the poll and let you know what dating trends you can expect in 2024. Overall, Bumble users are saying no to the need to be perfect, they are getting rid of outdated timelines/milestones and putting more value on being emotionally vulnerable and following shared priorities Bumble's dating trends report for 2024 is a positive sign for singles worldwide. It shows that people are becoming more accepting of themselves and others and that they're looking for deeper, more meaningful connections. If you're single and looking to date in 2024 you can use these insights to improve your dating and get the results you want. 

Why do you keep dating the wrong people? Let's change that! Are you tired of dating the wrong people? Do you feel like you're always getting your heart broken? If so, this podcast is for you! In this episode, we'll explore 6 reasons why you might be choosing the wrong people, and we'll give you powerful steps to break your pattern and find the right person for you. We'll also discuss: How to identify the red flags that you're dating the wrong person How to set boundaries and protect yourself from getting hurt How to find your worth and attract the right person for you If you're ready to change your dating life, listen to this podcast today! You might also want to check out: Stepping into Love https://debbierivers.com.au/get-the-relationship-you-want/ or How to Find the Best Match for YOU/https://debbierivers.com.au/how-to-choose-the-best-match-for-you/

Are you tired of being in situationships? Do you want to know how to find a real relationship? In this episode, we'll discuss what a situationship is, why they're so common, and how to avoid them. We'll also give you some tips on how to find a real relationship that meets your needs. So if you're ready to stop wasting your time on situationships and start dating for real, listen to this episode! Here are some of the topics we'll cover in the episode: What is a situationship? Why are situationships so common? How to avoid situationships How to find a real relationship Tips for dating for real So, grab your favourite beverage, and get comfy to listen to the latest Dare2Date episode now. So you can start paving your way towards the love and connection you've been longing for. 🎉💖 Remember, you deserve nothing less than genuine love and a fulfilling relationship. Let's kick those situationships to the curb and welcome lasting love into our lives. Stay tuned, stay fabulous, and keep embracing the beautiful journey of love! Sending you all the positivity and good vibes,

Finding Love the 2nd Time Around: Is It Harder? Finding love the second time around can be a daunting task. After all, you've been there, done that, and you know what it takes to make a relationship work. But the stakes are higher this time around. You have more to lose and you're not willing to settle for just anyone. Finding love the first time around can be tough. But finding love the second time around can be even harder. The stakes are higher, you're more jaded, and you're not sure what you're looking for. In this episode, I'll talk about the challenges of finding love the second time around. I'll discuss how to overcome your fears, how to be open to new possibilities and how to find someone who is truly compatible with you. I'll also talk about Kim Kardashian's list for "Mr Perfect" and why it doesn't work. In fact, it may be the reason that you are single. Let's talk about why it is a recipe for disappointment. If you're looking for love the second time around, this episode is for you. Listen to this episode to learn: The challenges of finding love the second time around How to overcome your fears and be open to new possibilities Why Kim Kardashian's list for "Mr Perfect" doesn't work This episode is perfect for: Anyone who is looking for love the second time Anyone who is jaded about dating Anyone who is looking for a realistic and practical guide to finding love Listen to this episode now!

Hey there, it's Debbie Rivers, your go-to Dating & Relationship Coach, and I've got something important to share with you in this eye-opening episode. Brace yourself as we dive headfirst into the dating advice world and question the age-old wisdom that's been floating around for ages. I'll be your guide on this journey as we peel back the layers and uncover why traditional dating advice often falls flat and frustrates us. It's time to challenge the status quo and discover a new path to finding meaningful connections. If you're tired of sifting through countless advice columns and feeling like you're getting nowhere, this episode is an absolute must-listen. Together, we'll unravel the truth behind the limitations of generic dating advice and explore an approach that works. Get ready to blow your mind as we shatter common misconceptions and offer practical tips for creating genuine, fulfilling relationships. This isn't your run-of-the-mill advice; it's a game-changer that will transform your dating life. I'd like you to join me as we flip the script on what you thought you knew about dating and relationships. It's time to break free from ineffective advice and embrace a fresh perspective. So, grab your favourite headphones, open your mind to new possibilities, and immerse yourself in this episode. Together, we'll rewrite the narrative and empower you to take control of your romantic journey. Get ready, because things are about to change for the better. Let's embark on this transformative adventure together!

In this week’s podcast, I delve into the world of Dogfishing, Wokefishing, Kittenfishing, and Hatfishing, and explore whether they might be the real reasons you aren't getting that coveted second date. 🐶🎣😺🎩💔 I'll answer your burning questions like: 🐕❌ What Dogfishing is and how does it impact your dating experience? 🌍❌How can Wokefishing hide who someone really is, leaving you feeling misled? 😺❌ What Kittenfishing is, and how can it sabotage genuine connections? 🎩❌And how does Hatfishing play with our perceptions of attraction and authenticity? The podcast will give you the knowledge to recognize these behaviours, avoid common pitfalls, and empower you to navigate the dating world with confidence and clarity. I'll share practical tips and strategies for identifying and addressing these dating dilemmas, ensuring you can build meaningful connections based on honesty and authenticity. 💪💖 So, if you're ready to unmask the truths behind Dogfishing, Wokefishing, Kittenfishing, and Hatfishing, and discover how they may be impacting your dating life, tune in. Subscribe now and be part of the conversation that will revolutionize the way you approach dating! 🎉🎙️✨ #UnmaskingDatingDeceptions #DatingTruths #AuthenticConnections #DecodeTheGame

A question I am asked all the time is how did I decide to run singles events and become a Dating/Relationship Coach. In this week's podcast, I share my personal story about why I started Dare2Date.

In this week's podcast, I interview Lauren Smith from  New Jersey in America about Mindful Dating. Lauren shares with us: What Mindful Dating is and how it will help you get the relationship you want. How to deal with dating anxiety. How to give yourself self-compassion. Specific tools you can use to deal with your anxiety. Lauren is an author, speaker, and host of the Date in Peace Podcast. Lauren combines her own personal success story with her professional mindfulness training, to empower singles to ditch the dating struggle and claim the loving relationship they so deeply deserve. You can find Lauren on: Instagram - @mettadate Website - https://www.mettadatestudio.com   Combining her own personal success story with her professional mindfulness training, Lauren empowers singles to ditch the dating struggle and claim the loving relationship they so deeply deserve.  

Last week I had a radio interview where I was asked a question that came from a reddit feed where a woman said how she tested men on dates to make sure they were suitable. She would meet them at a place where you BBQ'd your dinner and also shucked oysters. She felt that this was a great test to see how they dealt with doing something outside of the square. Also that shucking oysters is challenging and felt that it is a good test of the person's character to see how they respond. In the radio interview, I was asked if this was a good test or not (find out my answer in this podcast). This got me thinking about how do you make sure the person you date is right for you?  Should you look for red, green, or beige flags on your date? Or is there a specific test that will guarantee you don't end up with another person who wastes your valuable time? Let's face it you don't want another narcissistic, user or unavailable single. In this week's podcast, I let you know what my answer was to the radio interview as well as answer these questions for you.

In this week's podcast, I am talking about having a broken picker! What does this mean? It means you keep dating the wrong type of people for you. You might think that they look different on the outside, and have different personalities but underneath all of that, they have the same behaviour as your ex. Or you just have a habit of picking and being attracted to people who aren't good for you or want the same thing that you do. Maybe you keep dating people who: Cheat on you Are unavailable Who just take and don't give anything back. Who are selfish Are controlling etc.......... Maybe you think if only someone could choose for you, you could get the relationship you have always wanted. I take a closer look at what will work to get you that relationship!

Time for another success story to give you hope that yours is on the way! There really isn't anything better than hearing someone's story who has been where you have been. In this podcast, I talk to Donna Maree, who has a wonderful love story and is married to her soulmate.  Before meeting him, Donna told me that she dated every disaster in Perth, Melbourne and overseas (slight exaggeration, but you get the picture, right)! I ask Donna: 1. How did they meet? 2. How she got over all her dating disasters. 3. What type of ‘work’ did she need to do on herself to get the relationship she had always wanted? 4. And so much more.  Instragam - @donnamareerichardson Website - https://www.donnamareepsychic.com/ Podcast - Beyond with Donna Maree Psychic Medium

In this week's podcast, I am talking about what you can do to move from emotional fatigue in your dating life. Dating can be full of people who: Want to boost their self-esteem but do not want to date. Have bad behaviour. People who are chatting to ease their loneliness Singles who only want a hook-up and to move on to the next person. People who want a long-term relationship. You will experience: Ghosting, Narcissists, players and love bombers! You can be objectified Or continually rejected. Often there are no social ramifications for bad behaviour as there would be in a real-life situation. I talk about what you can do to go from being a victim of your circumstances to changing the outcome. So you can translate your matches into real-life dates. 

I’m excited to be having a special guest on the Dare2Date podcast this week. Amanda Lambros.  Amanda is a Counsellor, Love Coach, Sexologist, Author, Speaker and Academic.  Amanda helps individuals and couples become happier, more connected and begin to finally feel appreciated and heard.    In the interview, we talk about what it takes to create and maintain a wonderful relationship.  I also ask Amanda:   1. What does a Sexologist do and why Amanda decided to train as one?   About the effect that sex has on relationships.   Is it just a matter of meeting the perfect person and everything will work out?   Amanda regularly works with couples and sees the issues and challenges they face. So, I asked Amanda what advice she would give to singles to find the right person for them.   People are also talking about how you have to do the work, what does that even mean?   What are the most significant things that you wished singles knew before finding love?   You can find Amanda on:  Instagram -  @AmandaLambros  https://www.amandalambros.com/

There are so many dating horror stories out there that it is easy to feel that it is impossible to meet someone you like let alone are able to fall in love with. I have decided to do a series of real-life love stories to help you see what is possible for you. Because there is nothing like hearing a love story from someone who is in a similar position as you are to see what is possible. The love stories will be sprinkled in with my regular podcast. You are in for a treat in this week's podcast. I am interviewing Becca Maxwell from Do Divorce Right about how she found love after divorce. Becca had divorced in her 40s, had two young children and lived in Asia at the time. She couldn't see how it would be possible to date let alone find love. Today Becca is in a beautiful relationship with a man she adores and who adores her. They have created a wonderful blended family where her children adore her partner and his children love her. I ask Becca: 1. How did they meet? 2. How she was able to open her heart up after the divorce? 3. What type of ‘work’ did she need to do on herself to get the relationship she had always wanted?  4. When they introduced their children to each other? 4. How they were able to manage the blended family? You can find Becca on: Instragam - @dodivorceright  Website - www.dodivorceright.com Podcast - Do Divorce Right

This. is a podcast interview that you don't want to miss!  I am talking to the founders of  Ziinkle, Elisse Alexander and Melanie Leahy. Ziinkle was launched in March 2022 and is a next-gen dating app that gets people meeting in real life by providing real-time information about which venues are buzzing with singles. Elisse and Melanie describe Ziinkle as a dating GPS for singles so you're in the right place at the right time. it's not every day that you get to talk to the founders of an innovative dating app like Ziinkle. In this podcast, Elisse and Melanie talk about what Ziinkle is and why they created another dating app. I then asked them : What trends they are seeing on Ziinkle? You definitely need to listen to their answers about. the trends Australian daters are experiencing. Ziinkle has also just completed their 2023 Dating Trends and Insights Report on what trends they see in their dating. I asked them what makes people successful on dating apps. and whether algorithms are really to blame when you are unsuccessful. We talked about the ratio of male to female users. Plus so much more.

In this week's podcast, I discuss gender stereotypes when it comes to dating and relationships.  What is a gender stereotype?  Are gender stereotypes alive and well?  Are they accepted and even expected? How do your unconscious views affect your dating life? Talking about gender stereotypes can be a controversial polarising subject. Why? Because everyone has a different view. You only have to Google masculine and feminine energy and you will find a lot of information that can easily be misunderstood.  I touched on this subject in Episode 51 - The Romance Gap. In this podcast, I will dive a little deeper. I would also love to hear your thoughts on this subject!

Wasting time As a dating/relationship coach, there are common problems that people contact me about, one is around wasting time Each week I speak to 1 to 2 women who call me and say: "Deb, I don't want to waste any more time. I am ready to be in a relationship and know what I want. Can you help me?" My answer is YES! For many of these women, the stakes are high. They could be in their 30s and want a family or they are looking for love the 2nd time around and know that who they choose to be with will impact their children. The problem is that having the mindset that they don't want to waste time often makes them waste even more time. Have you ever noticed when you are in a hurry for something to happen or to do something? Often when you are in a rush you can make silly mistakes, or even miss out on or not notice opportunities. In this week's podcast, I let you know why not wasting time is a problem and let you how to change the wasting time mindset so you don't waste your time.  Instead, you can slow down to save time! In the podcast, I talk about a process I take my clients through that works.  If you don't want to try coaching, you can find how to work through this process in the How to Find the Best Match for YOU".

The last couple of years of COVID has been tough for single people. I am sure you have asked yourself if 2023 be any better. I have good news for you the majority of the dating trends and predictions for 2023 are positive! Singles are entering 2023 with possibility and positivity - YAY! A trend is something that is - The general direction that something is developing or changing. or The fashion.  The trends and predictions are based on a significant amount of data. Listen to this week's podcast to find out what to expect. 

You aren't alone! Did you know that: 39%of people on Bumble have ended a marriage or a serious relationship in the past two years. 36% of those people are using dating apps for the first time. This means that more people are learning to navigate what dating looks like now. The question I was asked so many times over the past fear weeks is: I’m newly single and am nervous about trying internet dating as I’ve never done it. What tips can you give me? There are so many tips I can give you that I’m not sure where to start! Maybe you keep hearing from friends and everyone else that dating is horrific or it's a jungle out there.  In this week's podcast, I will give you practical tips so you know what to do and how to have fun in the process. If you have been single for a while, the podcast may give you a fresh perspective. 

How do you deal with Christmas and make the most of it? I know some people LOVE Christmas and others HATE it!  It doesn’t matter which one you are because no matter how you feel, it happens every year! The last few years have been like no others! For me, 2022 was particularly hard as my mum passed away. For many people, including myself, it has made me appreciate the personal relationships in my life more than anything else. With that in mind, let’s use Christmas 2022 to celebrate the relationships we do have and rather than focusing on what annoys us or what we don’t have, It can be tough being single when you don’t want to be and I have some specific tips to help you out in my blog How to Get Through Christmas Being Single. I know you may have to spend more time with those tactless relatives and friends who say something that upsets you, so it helps to have ways to deal with Christmas. This podcast is all about how to make the most of the day and how to deal with Christmas, I hope it helps you.

The question I am often asked is:  I am smart and successful. I have achieved results in my life but I’m not getting the same results when it comes to love and relationships. Why can't I get the same success in my love life? This is a question I am asked all the time. Now if you asked me this in a coaching session I would take a deep dive and look at exactly what is happening in your life and why this is the case because of course everyone's situation isn't the same. In this week's podcast, I’m unable to do that. So, I will answer the question generally with some of the common reasons that it happens. I will also give you a step-by-step guide for what you can do to change this. In the podcast, I ask some reflection questions. In case you didn't manage to write them all down, here they are: As the year comes to an end, it is time to take a step back and reflect on the year you have lived. Let’s look at what happened in your life and what you did to achieve that. What were the main events and milestones in your life in 2022? What did you create, achieve and make happened (the big and the small) What were your happiest moments? When did you have the most fun? When and where did you feel the most peace? What was the most unexpected thing about the year? What did you discover about yourself? What are you proud of? When did you feel the most love? What were your hardest moments? What were your biggest challenges? What are the lessons you have learned? What will 2022 be remembered for in your life? Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for abundance. What do you want to happen when it comes to love in your life?

I have just come back from an overseas trip to India/Singapore. It was delightful to be able to go overseas again and one of the best parts of travelling is the conversations that you have along the way. As a Dating/Relationship Coach, people open up to me with their love stories, their heartaches and everything in between and this trip was no different. While I was in Hyderabad I met a 71 lady who told me told me her sad story and unfortunately it is one I hear all too often.  In this week's podcast, I talk about her story and how you can make sure that her story doesn't become your story. This weeks podcast is for you if you are waiting and hoping to meet someone and it hasn't happened for you.

Are you single and don't want to be? Are you getting frustrated that you just aren't getting the results that you want when it comes to meeting someone you like. In this week's podcast , I give you some insight into what could be getting in the way of your own success and how to change that. The reality is you are not given the desire for love without the capacity to make it happen.

The latest trend is manifesting and everyone is talking about it. They have even come up with new terminology  - ‘manifest-dating’. On TikTok any videos that have the hashtag, #manifestation have received 20.2 billion views. Yep, you heard right 20.2 billion views!  That is an enormous amount of views! You may hear the word manifesting and feel like it sounds woo-woo. Yet you only have to look at the 20.2 billion views to see that people are into it.  According to the dating app Badoo – who can up with the term manifest-dating – there have been more than a quarter of singles who have already tried manifest-dating and then there are almost two-thirds who want to try it. Why is manifest-dating so popular? It is because dating can feel so tough nowadays and daters are looking for how to change that. They want answers! More research from Badoo found that 96% of daters struggle with negative thoughts, nerves, and self-sabotage when it comes to dating and love. The research found that the most common worry for 38% of singles was doubting that their date is interested in them. The good news is that Badoo found that 74% of people who have tried manifest-dating have become luckier in love as a result.  In this week's podcast, I explore the world of manifest dating and how it can work for you.

Is your biggest fear walking up to someone and being rejected? Does the fear of rejection stop you from taking action to meet someone? If you have answered yes, this week's podcast is for you! I am sure you have heard the cliche advice, 'Don't take it Personally' but how do you do that when it feels personal? Listen to find out the way to deal with rejection and get the results that you deserve!

An article by Psychologist Greg Matos has gone viral. You will see it everywhere! In the article, Greg talks about the rise of the Lonely Single Man and three broad relationship trends. He starts the article by saying that younger and middle-aged men are the loneliest they’ve been in generations. That over the last 30 years, men have become part of the larger group of the growing number of long-term single people. The problem is that research has found that men are generally happier and healthier when they are in a relationship than being single.   He then discusses the 3 reasons why. In today's podcast, I talk about the article. Then I discuss what men and women can do to get success in the dating world rather than increase their loneliness. 

Ghosting is a modern phenomenon! You may be lucky enough not to have never been ghosted and wondering what it is! It is when someone you have been chatting to on an app, dating or in a relationship with disappears from your life. This could be after chatting online, a date, months or years! People have been ending relationships badly since the beginning of time but it has become so much easier on mobile phones and dating apps have made this so much easier. Ghosting people you barely know and who aren’t part of your daily life is easy to do without facing or seeing the effects. I have been collecting the survey results of What Singles Think. In the survey, I asked lots of questions and three specific questions on ghosting. Have you Ever Ghosted Someone? If yes, why did you ghost them? Do you believe ghosting is okay? In this week's podcast, you will find out what 335 singles thought about ghosting. As a coach for men and women, I talk about how ghosting on dating apps is causing people to miss out on amazing singles. As well as how to date without ghosting and how to deal with ghosting.

Do you want to meet someone and feel something you haven’t felt before? Are you looking for that wonderful spark and to meet your soul mate? It’s natural to look for that wonderful feeling. However, basing who you chose to be with solely on chemistry can be a recipe for disaster rather than happiness. Let me explain why. Basing the choice on chemistry and lust can lead you to a Wound Mate rather than a Soul Mate! What can happen is you are attracted to people due to unresolved issues within you then you go on to recreate those very issues in your relationships. This can happen from one failed relationship or even a series of failed relationships. Or it can come from childhood without you even realising it. In this week's podcast, I explain what a Wound Mate is, and why it initially feels so good but doesn't stay that way. I also talk about how you can break this pattern to choose a healthy relationship instead.

Do you think you will just meet someone and just know they are the one because you are pre-destined to meet? That you will click, feel chemistry or that elusive spark? Do you base your decision on who you will date purely on physical attraction? Dating apps have made dating more superficial than ever before but it takes so much more to fall in love.  Did you know that there are four parts/steps to falling into love and physical attraction is only one part of that? With approximately 50% of first marriages ending in divorce, it helps to know what they are. It is also important to follow the same steps to keep your relationship strong and healthy. In this week's podcast, you will take a look at what it takes to fall in love and keep your love alive.

You're single and want to meet someone and have an amazing relationship. But how do you guarantee that it will be a good relationship? What should you look for and what should you do why you are waiting to meet the right person for you? In this week's podcast, I tell you what research of 11,196 couples found were the three things to look for that make you much more likely to have a wonderful, healthy relationship.

I came across a meme on Instagram that said: Stop telling people that no one will love them until they love themselves. Stop planting the idea in people's brains that they are unworthy of love because of their own struggles. In this week's podcast, I talk about whether you need to love yourself to find love.

I recently saw a meme with a green stagnant swimming pool with the heading, 'The Dating Pool' and the comment missing the sharks! I regularly see memes like these talking about how bad the dating pool is. However, is it? In this week's podcast, I give you the answer as well as the top 6 ways of thinking that could be keeping you single.

It doesn't matter where you meet someone you will always need to have a conversation with them. Did you know that that conversation can either get you a date or guarantee you don't see the person again? In this week's podcast, I am talking about what works and what doesn't. This is based on over a decade of experience seeing singles meet in action.

It is easy to get obsessed with all the negatives in the dating world. The horror stories, the bad behaviour and you might even find yourself getting caught up in all toxic dating trends like ghosting, haunting, benching, situationships, etc. It leaves you looking for red flags so you don't end up in a bad relationship. If you are wondering what red flags are - they are a warning sign that something is wrong! You could end up spending so much time focusing on red flags that, that is all you see. Does it work to look for red flags or should you be looking for green flags instead? Green flags are the opposite of red flags. They are the positive behaviours and actions that you want in a partner. Do you look for red or green or both? I answer this question as well as what you can do to make sure you create the healthy, wonderful supportive relationship you have always dreamt of. I also promised I would give you the link to - How to Choose the Best Match for You.

I am sure you have heard of the gender pay gap and gender equality but have you heard of the Romance Gap? It’s like the pay gap but for your love life! The dating app bumble commissioned a survey with interesting results. They found that 86% believed that equality was important in dating and relationships. However, 74% of respondents said there were different expectations and expected behaviour depending on your gender when it comes to relationships. They found that traditional gender roles and expectations are still very present, and even, accepted in dating. In fact, they found that some of the actions we feel are romantic for men are seen as negative/bad when women do them. For example, it is seen as passionate when a man says he loves you after a month but needy if a woman does the same. When a guy doesn’t text, he is seen as playing it cool but when a woman doesn’t text back she is playing hard to get. In this week’s podcast, I discuss what they found and what the solution is.

Everyone I talk to wants to meet someone they like and someone they feel something they have never felt before.  They want to meet someone with who they have that wonderful, mysterious spark of attraction. Hoping when they follow that intense attraction for the other person that they will be lucky enough to find someone who is also compatible, who has a good character and who they can trust. However, I see too many single people looking for a solid type of love from someone who is simply unable to give it to them. There is a Buddhist saying - 'If you meet someone and your heart pounds, your hands shake and your knees go weak - that's not the one! When you meet your soulmate you will feel calm, no anxiety, no agitation! In this week's podcast, I talk about why that initial attraction is no guarantee that your relationship will work out. I also talk about why the initial attraction can die out for one person and how to avoid this. 

Do you hate being single and want to get results. Singles tell me every day just how frustrated they are.  Being a Dating/Relationship Coach I always ask them what they are doing about meeting someone!   They often answer ‘Not much’ and add ‘it doesn’t work so why bother!’ Or for others, they are exhausted from spending a lot of time on apps swiping obsessively. Yet when I look at what they are doing they don’t send messages or arrange any dates. The reality is that this is the reason why way too many singles are not getting results on dating apps.  They are doing dating apps by not doing them! Spoiler alert, if you don’t do anything you are going to stay single. Dating, just like anything else in life it takes some type of effort on your part.  Laziness doesn’t get results nor does avoiding it! Can you relate to this: Do you Hate Being Single But...... Say no to everyone You don't bother to reply on apps for days or weeks Send minimal responses Unmatch for the dumbest things Cancel dates cos you don't feel like the effort If you answered yes, this could be the reason you are not getting results on dating apps! Okay maybe you are a hopeless romantic and you are hanging out for that rare love story where you meet serendipitously (found by some miraculous chance) as it is your destiny. But, I see way too many singles who have waited for a decade and nothing has happened. The reality is that you can’t count on that chance meeting. What you can count on is putting some real effort into getting results on dating apps It is all about being smarter in how you use dating apps rather than working harder! In this week's podcast, I am going to tell you how!