Do You Ever Feel Like?

This week Phoebe asks: Do you ever feel like...being in your capitalist girl boss era? The girlies discuss their ever evolving relationship to work, running a business, work life balance, and the girl boss era's negative impact on women. They discuss the martyrdom grind, the intersections of capitalism and feminism, and what really is "the work"? They question if anyone even has the discipline anymore to truly "girl boss", and the dangers of individualism over collective action. Phoebe questions what success in entrepreneurship really looks like (privilege? access?) and Jacque shares about the integrity of business and untangling all THE STUFF. Also! A new fun, beautiful, let's dive together offering for the world from the girlies!

OTHER FUN TIDBITS: Phoebe loves a Renn Faire! WATER! Cosplay! FAIRIES! SOUND POETRY!

Thank you for listening to DYEFL!

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!

Our artwork is by Simon Peng.

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

CW: We chat about bodily fluidy stuff on this episode, if you're a queasy babe - proceed lightly. 

Do you ever feel like...you're/we are too obsessed with your/our romantic relationships? Phoebe and Jacque discuss the mindfuck that is being a human walking around everyday with other humans, the falsities and let downs of romantic relationships, and if all of these "couples resources" are actually helping or harming us? They discuss the systems and binaries at play in romantic relationships, their own romantic relationship dynamics, queering long term partnership, and the associations of relationships to "hard work" and what we apparently gain from this badge of honor. 

OTHER FUN TIDBITS: BLOOD! FLOWERS! PISS! SELF LOVE!

Thank you for listening to DYEFL! 

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!

Our artwork is by Simon Peng.

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

Phoebe + Jacque are joined by Emily Cassel (Founder + CEO of WMNûp). They discuss being a woman in all the ways...in friendship, in business, in relationships, on the internet. Emily shares what guides her in business and life, running an ethical business as a woman, the coaching industry, and her most recent pivot to launch WMNûp. OTHER FUN TIDBITS: CULT DOCUMENTARIES! Big thank you to Emily for joining us on the pod!

Emily Cassel is the Founder of WMNûp: a vibrant ecosystem of mission-driven change-makers, trail-blazers, multidimensional risk-takers and business-starters seeking intimacy and intentional support to cultivate long term, compounding success. As a business strategist and leadership consultant, Emily’s work draws from her background in Positive Psychology, Sustainability, Women’s Leadership, Business + Entrepreneurship, and her uniquely impactful experience attending an all-women’s college. Emily is the host of the podcast Like Nobody’s Business, author of two journals: the 52-week Motivational Journal and the 90-Day Goals Journal with Rockridge Press, and has been featured on Off the Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe, With Whit with Whitney Port, and The Priestess Podcast with Julie Parker. Her work has also been featured in The Huffington Post, The Atlantic, and Skirt Charleston. She lives in Charleston, South Carolina with her fiance (Jeff), Mini Australian Shepherd (Kai), + goofy Golden Doodle (Wilson). You can find her stress-baking delicious DF + GF treats, performing a full Broadway revue in her convertible with the top down, or swimming in the ocean after soaking up sun on the beach.

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!

Our artwork is by Simon Peng.

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

We're BACK!

The girlies are back with SEASON TWO of DYEFL!

Phoebe + Jacque discuss their break, where Season two is headed (werk, bitch), and Phoebe asks "Do you ever feel like... you want to be a stay at home girlfriend?" They discuss the choices within feminism, what a new world of work and labor would even look like, and how the TikTok trend may be onto something...

Other fun tidbits: NEW PATREON! CUTE HAIRCUTS! JACQUES ZIWE HARRY CONSPIRACY! DREAMS ABOUT HIGH SCHOOL BOYZ!

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!

Our artwork is by Simon Peng.

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

The girlies celebrate SEASON ONE of Do You Ever Feel Like with a Holiday extravaganza eleganza, a wrap of their fans and favs, the good stuff this year, a year in review, plus the Do You Ever Feel Like Big Fat Quiz of 2022 where Phoebe ruins Jacqueline's life!  We will be back for season two at the end of January but for now you can find us here! 👇 Thank you so much for supporting Season One of DYEFL!!!

~

Follow us: @doyoueverpod 

This week Phoebe and Jacque are joined by the incredible Flory Huang! The gals chat all about exploring and playing through life, the problematic side of the mindfulness/burnout/rest IG carousel world, and the deep exploration and trust that comes with truly answering the creative call. Flory chats through the shifts and changes of seeking a creative life, how they listen in and trust, and how to stay committed to your "why not". OTHER FUN TIDBITS: DIVAS UNITE!

Flory (she/they) is a first generation settler of Taiwanese and Dutch ancestry. Born on unceded, ancestral and traditional Tongva Territory, she is also a settler continually learning as an uninvited guest on Musqueam, Squamish, and Tsleil-Waututh lands in the Pacific Northwest. As a proud faculty instructor at The Lab of Meditation offering trauma-informed meditation teacher training for people worldwide, she invites others to be in integrous businesses through strategic development and brand design. ⁠When not supporting others with real rest or resting herself, you’ll find her moving and sweating, reading and learning, eating with people she loves, in lengthy discussions (sometimes debates), drawing and documenting, out in the sun and ocean, exploring different cultures, and machine tattooing sentiment and sigils.

More Flory: 

Jacque asks Phoebe: Do you ever feel like... everyone is having more sex than you? Phoebe and Jacque discuss the obnoxious and very irrelevant (but also somehow still influential) question of how much sex is enough sex. They discuss how millennials are redefining what is important in their sex lives, our societal obsession with the sex lives of partnered people, and how these questions pop up in their own lives and relationships. OTHER FUN TIDBITS: Grieving Leslie Jordan! Adele!

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?

Follow, rate, and review this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!

Our artwork is by Simon Peng.

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

ATTN: This conversation lit up a lot in Phoebe + Jacque and is definitely turning into a series. Folks out there parenting/mothering or folks out there that made the decision not to mother - please write us, leave an anchor message, dm us a voice note - whatever! We want to hear from you and your stories around becoming (or not becoming) a parent. 

-- 

Phoebe asks: is motherhood a scam? In a maybe not that shocking SHOCKING conversation, Phoebe and Jacque discuss the perils around folks deciding to become parents. They ask the big questions around how people just "know" they want kids, how women decide to be mothers (do they even?), the privileges around such topics, and their own fears and tribulations around doing this big thing that seems literally soul crushing: being a mother. OTHER FUN TIDBITS: Phoebe isn't a morning person, dealing with tech issues when you have a pod is REAL, and more mercury retrograde conundrums. 

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 

Follow, rate, and review this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! 

Our artwork is by Simon Peng. 

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

Jacqueline asks, do you ever feel like... women are the project managers of the world? Phoebe and Jacque yell about the burdens women carry such as over responsibility for family, friendships, partnerships, jobs, and like...the world. They discuss all women are considering, thinking, planning, at any given time - and where this emotional labor started and stems from. They also ask YOU listener - when do you feel like a bad lady? OTHER FUN TIDBITS: Jacque's wedding is over finally + Phoebe took a solo trip! 

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! 

Our artwork is by Simon Peng. 

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

Phoebe surprises Jacque with the question of the season: Do you ever feel like Gilmore Girls won't go away? Phoebe and Jacque discuss why Gilmore Girls still has such a grip on us all, the good, bad, and annoying of the show, as well as their personal critique and relationship to the show. Other fun tidbts: the lalalalas + A GAME! 

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! 

Our artwork is by Simon Peng. 

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

Phoebe and Jacque ask their FIRST GUEST (Podcast Expert and Host of "In My Non Expert Opinion"), Chelsea Riffe: Do you ever feel like you're not an expert? Chelsea shares about showing up consistently, being messy, why podcasts are needed, why you should make the thing that exists anyways, and attachment styles. Thank you, thank you to Chelsea for coming on the pod!

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!  

Our artwork is by Simon Peng.  

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor. 

Jacque asks: Do you ever feel like you cancel everything all the time? Phoebe and Jacque discuss the elements of cancelling, the expectations of cancelling, and how what you cancel on may be able to tell you a lot about yourself and your relationships. Other fun tidbits: ALL THE THINGS WE NEED TO SLEEP!

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!

Our artwork is by Simon Peng.

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

Phoebe and Jacque discuss using all the tools to be OKAY, and everything they need to stay okay. They discuss intersectionality, consumerism, conflict vs. abuse, celebrity, their own internalized misogyny, and how we ALL hate women. Other fun tidbits: MERCURY RETROGRADE. 

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! 

Our artwork is by Simon Peng. 

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor. 

Phoebe and Jacque discuss the complication of friends, friendship, codependency, vulnerability, and if they are alone in the everyone-seems-to-think-they-are-closer-to-me-then-I-feel-to-them-feeling? Other fun tidbits: Jacque YELLS about wedding planning stress, Phoebe and Jacque are craving less, a check in about how they think the pod is going, and dogs barking!

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!

Our artwork is by Simon Peng.

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.

Thank you all so much for the overwhelming response to the pod! We are so grateful. We love that you love the chaos and really appreciate all the love, messages, tags, listens, and follows! :)

We have a little ask + gifty gift for you.

We would love, love if you did yourself + us a HUGE favor! Follow the link below to support the pod and be entered to win a free 60 min creative coaching session with us!

Phoebe and Jacque marvel at the wonder that is artists being artists making art. They discuss their own lives as artists, the bravery of artists, how creativity is the only way, and how there is no such thing as bad art.

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! 

Our artwork is by Simon Peng. 

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor 

Phoebe and Jacque discuss bingeing tv, the moralization of rest, their favorite programs, where their burnout started, and how we can all just enjoy things more. 

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?!

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts.

Love what you heard? Share this episode with a friend!

Our artwork is by Simon Peng.

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor

Phoebe and Jacque question if it’s possible to celebrate big life moments without celebrating the patriarchy. 

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?! 

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts.

Love what you heard? Share this episode with a friend! 

Our artwork is by Simon Peng. 

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor 

Phoebe and Jacque question their choice to start a podcast + discuss all their personal faves. 

Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE?!

Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! 

Love what you heard? Share this episode with a friend! 

Our artwork is by Simon Peng. 

DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor 

Introducing DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? with Phoebe Taylor and Jacqueline Wills! Tune in ever Wednesday, as we ask the questions that everyone’s thinking and no one’s answering. Especially not us. Phoebe Taylor and Jacqueline Wills are internet besties, artists, and humans who love and hate everything and ask a lot of questions. Episodes landing September 7th!