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Life Discussions With Dr. Jefferson

Life Discussions With Dr. Jefferson

By Dr. LaQuanda Jefferson

Dr. Jefferson explores a range of topics and world views here as well as provide relational insight and advisement from a professional stance. She is passionate about people and aims to de-stigmatize emotional, mental, and behavioral health and wellness among the disenfranchised populations in the United States. Some of the topics discussed are Social justice, Mental Disorders, Cultural and Relational Misconceptions, Life Transitions, Career and Life Coaching topics, and Marriage and Family Therapy topics. If you would like to call in and be a guest, Email doclqj@familialbonds.org
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Kevin Samuels is a textbook case of midlife crisis

Life Discussions With Dr. JeffersonOct 12, 2021

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Marriage is a form of Oppression and Only Benefits Women

Marriage is a form of Oppression and Only Benefits Women

Take a listen as we delve into this controversial topic of discussion as to how the institution of marriage is no longer considered to be a goal of young people of modern day people in 2024.



May 31, 202430:19
Kevin Samuels is a textbook case of midlife crisis

Kevin Samuels is a textbook case of midlife crisis

His mood incongruence has been beyond exposed in this clip.... just listen.. . . OMG.... btw any content here is protected by internet's fair uses policies as far as content that is not original as I am bringing awareness to these issues and sharing my perspective about the content.

Oct 12, 202103:24:39
If Modern Women Refuse To Submit ......

If Modern Women Refuse To Submit ......

This conversation has extended really far in these days and it is one that grinds the gears of so many modern day females..... submission is controversial. Listen and reflect on these thoughts. 

Oct 12, 202101:16:23
The Impact of the Gay Culture and Pop Culture Adjustments to Gay Culture

The Impact of the Gay Culture and Pop Culture Adjustments to Gay Culture

The gay culture has grown in a tremendous way in recent decades. Many have made ver controversial comments in regard to some of the eccentric behaviors of the gay community but to be honest, many of these comments have been take out of context. When we mistake a message, it is easier for us to respond with hostility. Let’s talk about the impact of the eccentric behaviors that are commented on vs the natural hate speech against the gay community simply because of the sexual preference and identity.

Oct 12, 202101:20:56
Invisibility of Black Women

Invisibility of Black Women

Let's talk about this very disturbing topic.

Sep 15, 202101:46:26
Kevin Samuels is the perfect example of Mid Life Crisis GONE way wrong...

Kevin Samuels is the perfect example of Mid Life Crisis GONE way wrong...

Mid life crisis is challenging in and of itself but Kevin Samuels has gone a bit far in his scare tactics to whip young women into his idea of perfection.  Let's talk about this.


#KevinSamuelsAccountabilityTalks #CancelKevinSamuels #CancelCynthiaG #CancelBlackCultureCancer #DocLQJSpeaks #LifeDiscussionsWithDr.Jefferson

Aug 27, 202103:24:39
Calling a Thing a Thing

Calling a Thing a Thing

What is the most challenging thing we have to do as human beings?  Being accountable is one of the most challenging things that we can do and yet it is the only way to really gain insight into viable means to improve ourselves, conditions etc..... Let's live and let life construct more feasible outcomes for us by simply allowing that vulnerability to properly seat us in maturation.


$DocLQJSpeaks #Growth #LifeGoals #Maturation #LoveAndLife

Aug 27, 202118:15
Happy Hump Day

Happy Hump Day

Today is August 25th 2021 and it is Wednesday, wake up, wake up, wake up!  Check out the recording of my live Youtube show here and find some time to go and subscribe to my youtube if you are into the live shows or if you just want to see me provide the insight and shows.  My regular show times are Monday nights but if you hit that notification bell, you will be notified of my impromptu appearances as well.  Check it out and let's find out what you can do to keep yourself calibrated.  


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ct_by0FWgY8 



Aug 25, 202130:11
Wellness Wednesday Checkin Live Replay

Wellness Wednesday Checkin Live Replay

Today is Wednesday August 18th and this segment was recorded amidst some very challenging times for us.  Dr. Jefferson has an interactive conversation with her youtube audience and provides some helpful tips for your emotional and spiritual maintenance as well as keeping your immune system at a high level of functionality.  


Take a listen and let me know where you are on the issues mentioned.  

Aug 18, 202127:40
Women Need Better Perceptions Around Parenting and Responsibility to one another

Women Need Better Perceptions Around Parenting and Responsibility to one another

https://allmylinks.com/doclqj 


Have you ever sat back and thought to yourself.... what has changed about parenthood over the course of the last 6 decades.   Ever sat with the responsibility of parents in the various parental roles based on culture and thought ... hmm this must be pretty difficult or do you alternatively think of the opposite role as fairly simple..  This is an incredibly sad story to bring into discussion but more necessary now than ever.  Let's talk about this  Remember,  I am moving my platform to youtube primarily beginning the 15th of this month and I want to continue see you engaging in the comments.  Go and hit the subscribe button and he notification bell so we can continue to have these great conversations there and where ever you catch my podcasts... Life Discussions With Dr. Jefferson may be hosted by me but it was inspired by all of you.  With that being said, come show your support and help me continue to do the work in our community by having the difficult conversations and in the same space offering viable content around healing and continuous self improvement and we evolve with a world that is declining in morality for the most part.   

BE THE SOLUTION   https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBKs... 

Bring your comments and for those of you checking this out on the replay..... huge shout out to you and don't forget to let me know you did so!  Shout out to the live chat!  

Send topic suggestions to doclqj@gmail.com 

Follow me on facebook facebook.com/doclqj  

Listen to my podcasts  Life Discussions With Dr. Jefferson - wherever you prefer or tell Alexa to pull me up...


Jul 09, 202158:22
"Women Don't care about your mental health"

"Women Don't care about your mental health"

So do women value mental health?  I have been featuring the majority of my content on my youtube and want to invite you over to youtube to be on the show and to watch these episodes unveil live.  Sooo take a listen and let me know what you think about this episode

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B94JSW3RtyI

Want to send me a topic suggestion without having to send an email?  Send it by using the following link and I can feature your verbal suggestion on the show..... https://anchor.fm/doclqj/message

Jul 07, 202131:37
Professionalism and Personal Appearance

Professionalism and Personal Appearance

Hey,  I am moving my platform to youtube primarily beginning next month and I want to see you there.  Go and hit the subscribe button and he notification bell so we can continue to have these great conversations there and where ever you catch my podcasts... Life Discussions With Dr. Jefferson may be hosted by me but it was inspired by all of you.  With that being said, come show your support and help me continue to do the work in our community by having the difficult conversations and in the same space offering viable content around healing and continuous self improvement and we evolve with a world that is declining in morality for the most part.   


BE THE SOLUTION   

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBKsZXiGlJl6xQcGeW1m3sg  

Today we are going to discuss the shifts in society with regard to professionalism and valuation of personal appearance.  This suggestion was video was requested by the editors at Linkedin and so they are credited with bringing forth this matter for discussion on my platform.  We will also cover the topic of growth and maturation as it applies to another of their suggestions. "What advice would you give to your younger self"  Bring your comments and for those of you checking this out on the replay..... huge shout out to you and don't forget to let me know you did so!  Shout out to the live chat!  

Send topic suggestions to doclqj@gmail.com 

Follow me on facebook facebook.com/doclqj  

Listen to my podcasts  Life Discussions With Dr. Jefferson - wherever you prefer or tell Alexa to pull me up...  

#linkedin #professionalbrand #leadership #success #motivation #leadershipdevelopment #entrepreneur #entrepreneurship #podcast #networking #lookingback #lookingthepart

Jun 18, 202131:56
Relationship Success and Mental Wellness

Relationship Success and Mental Wellness

Sometimes we find ourselves in very compromising positions and those compromising positions entail navigating a life with a person who's behaviors are irrational and sometimes aggressive.  This generation of people in relationships often struggle with finding balance and purpose in the context of being with another person.  This conversation offers some viable solutions to relating in more healthy ways.

Jun 18, 202101:32:16
The Controversy Of Dr. Umar Johnson

The Controversy Of Dr. Umar Johnson

Hey,  I am moving my platform to youtube primarily beginning next month and I want to see you there.  Go and hit the subscribe button and he notification bell so we can continue to have these great conversations there and where ever you catch my podcasts... Life Discussions With Dr. Jefferson may be hosted by me but it was inspired by all of you.  With that being said, come show your support and help me continue to do the work in our community by having the difficult conversations and in the same space offering viable content around healing and continuous self improvement and we evolve with a world that is declining in morality for the most part.   

BE THE SOLUTION   

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBKsZXiGlJl6xQcGeW1m3sg  

In this video you guys will finally get the review that you have been looking for as Dr. Jefferson will step into this conversation and explore the clinical implications around this issue.  Bring your comments and clinical positions if you are a clinician... More importantly come on the panel and share your insights!   Again, I want to thank you guys for bringing this to my attention and for ensuring the fullest extent of exploration takes place in response to the content shared.    All content shared is shared with considerations of the internet's fair usage policy..

Jun 16, 202103:16:11
Let's Talk

Let's Talk

I am posting on youtube and developing the majority of my content on there now so be sure to follow me there and to continue following me here as well.  https://youtu.be/nNRBkeGpw9c

Jun 16, 202103:16:16
Relating in Relationships: Online Dating

Relating in Relationships: Online Dating

Let's talk about the online dating process.  What are some healthy ways to utilize this process.  

Jun 06, 202150:09
Discussion Around Kevin Samuels and Cynthia G Etc

Discussion Around Kevin Samuels and Cynthia G Etc

This brief episode covers the topic of the content creators listed above along with The Jacksons and Kirk Franklin.  A more in depth panel is coming to you soon.

Apr 06, 202100:54
Pedestals Removed DerrickJackson Drama

Pedestals Removed DerrickJackson Drama

In this episode Dr. Jefferson discusses the inconsistencies presented by Deric Jackson who has been labeled by himself as a relationship guru in America while all the while being a married man hiding his wife and family from the scenery which he proclaims to be his brand.... love and relationship behavior. Whether you are a person who is into celebrity culture or not this is definitely one that will go down in history as an eye-opener. Please understand that we do not own the rights to the clips that you may hear in the audio as those clips were obtained from Tasha K’s live and you guys definitely need to follow her for more content because she is out here exposing those people who are living a false lives in benefiting off others in doing so.
Mar 22, 202138:30
While In The Smoke Of Betrayal

While In The Smoke Of Betrayal

In this episode, Dr. Jefferson discusses some very sensitive areas of the journey of companionship and the grow process that is essential in all companionships. .... Betrayal.. Pull up a seat for this short review on her thoughts around therapist recommendations for people seeking help in the aftermath of relationship betrayals.

Feb 17, 202100:00
Coronavirus Blues and Perceptual Issues That Are Indicative Of The Reality That We Need Love And Healing

Coronavirus Blues and Perceptual Issues That Are Indicative Of The Reality That We Need Love And Healing

Hey guy, this episode is pretty intense and it was a pretty intense one to record considering all things.  I want to first say that my heart is with the family of all of those suffering losses as a result of the content mentioned and I am sending the most positive vibes your way with the intent on healing your pain.  So we are discussing the latest headlines around gun violence incidents in America.  Share your questions and insights via email @ doclqj@gmail.com.

Feb 06, 202105:04
The 2020 Reprocessing and Empowerment Workshop

The 2020 Reprocessing and Empowerment Workshop

Presented by The Therapist Network, this workshop is a global initiative to help alleviate the impact of anxiety, depression, and so much more.  Everyone is going through something right now.  We are here to help and there were several questions answered during this segment as well.  If you still need to sign up for a group session, look us up on event brite.  "2020 reprocessing and empowerment workshop"

Nov 22, 202001:37:16
Conceding to The Projected Winner

Conceding to The Projected Winner

The refusal to concede on the part of a sitting president is definitely a first,  Let's talk about this 2020 election.   

Nov 16, 202014:02
When Sex Becomes A Chore You Should Not Bind Your Significant Other To Monogamy

When Sex Becomes A Chore You Should Not Bind Your Significant Other To Monogamy

Oftentimes, in relationships, there are grey areas and areas that are left untouched for fear of emotional retaliation and I delve into this once you get to the meat and potatoes of this episode.  Let's explore this topic and delve into this area with an open mind for understanding the complexities of relational entanglements.  Follow me on social media by searching the hashtag DocLQJSpeaks etc.  

What are some things you'd like my perspective on?  Are you currently subscribed?  Hate or disagree with my sentiments?  email me Doclqj@gmail.com or doclqj@familialbonds.org. You may also text me, 1.678.468.0442

Thanks for listening, supporting, collaborating etc.  LOVE YOU GUYS.

Dr. Jefferson

Nov 10, 202026:60
American Women Do Not Value American Men

American Women Do Not Value American Men

This Discussion was an interesting one as it evaluates the idea that American women value their men less than women of other cultures.  Though this is a common complaint, let's examine it on a larger scale.  

Sep 27, 202002:56
Do Men Still Value Women?

Do Men Still Value Women?

Featuring comment from Facebook and Ray Scott guest appearing

Aug 14, 202022:32
Cheating Spouse Redemption or No

Cheating Spouse Redemption or No

Dr. Jefferson delves into the complexities that may present when a spouse cheats on a different level.... with your family member.  This content was aired on a facebook live where the viewers were able to add.  their comments as well.  Special shout out for the content contributors.  Ray Bell and Brie Sparks as well as our guest Ray Scott

Aug 14, 202030:10
Surviving Betrayal in Love

Surviving Betrayal in Love

I just want to thank my listeners and let you guys know that this is the place to come for your therapeutic relief as well as entertainment while in quarantine and hereafter.    Please continue to share the content and send me suggestions to doclqj@gmail.com.  Later Days

Aug 14, 202022:45
Talking Marriage Relationships and Kanye Topics

Talking Marriage Relationships and Kanye Topics

Dr. Jefferson goes into the topics around the recent issues that have been on display with Kanye and his marriage as well as the viewer topic of whether a relationship can survive infidelity.  Please understand that this particular segment does include background music by Ms. India Arie and we do not own rights to that music.  We just love it!!!!  This episode features the appearance of Ray Scott.  Happy August my loves and don't forget to subscribe.  Dr. Jefferson

for topic suggestions or collab requests feel free to email doclqj@gmail.com

Aug 03, 202024:52
Dating the Woman who earns more

Dating the Woman who earns more

This discussions opens with the female perspective on accountability in dating and choosing.....  ends with a great collaboration of the collective perception as we invite some male energy in here.  

Jul 14, 202002:03:45
Discussing Dating Difficulties

Discussing Dating Difficulties

Guest staring Earnestine and Chioce

Jul 14, 202002:02:51
Difficult Conversation Time: Government Overreach and the state of Emergency in Black America

Difficult Conversation Time: Government Overreach and the state of Emergency in Black America

This is a much needed conversation around what is currently happening in America in regard to the violation of civil rights and more.

Jul 14, 202020:02
Black and White Community Reform in America

Black and White Community Reform in America

During the year of 2020 there were several instances of Police Brutality, which is when a police officer exerts unnecessary or unwarranted force against a potential of actual detainee after a crime has been reported and the officer is inn the process of making an arrest or still in the process of investigating the appropriateness for an arrest to. be made.  These instances have often times led to the death of unarmed individuals who have been impacted by such.  This has been as issue that has affected citizens and non citizens in America for as long as the black community can remember.  

Blacks have identified as disproportionately effected by this atrocity against humanity as the arrests and deaths of black men and women at the hand of and in the custody the police have climbed tremendously in the past couple of years.  Not only this, but the recording and postings of the incidents have also increased as social media platforms have moved to a different means  posting by way of live videos.  This is why the nation is on edge currently and this recording took place in June of 2020.  


#JusticeForGeorgeFloyd #JusticeForAhmad #JusticeForBreonnaTaylor #AmplifyMelanatedVoices 

Jun 19, 202001:38
State of Emergency

State of Emergency

In the wake of public outrage around the deaths of black American people at the hands of police officers, there have been some things on the hearts and minds of citizens in the black American community that have cause a deeper divide in the black community.   For those. interested in being featured and sharing your insights around this topic, feel free to reach out to me via phone or email.  6784680442 and doclqj@familialbonds.org.

You all are awesome and if you are not currently subscribed to my channel do it now.  I have some great things coming to the platform REAL SOON.

Jun 19, 202011:26
Quarantine Chronicles 1

Quarantine Chronicles 1

This episode is the first of many around the most effective means of facing the realities of quarantine and covid 19 pandemic. Featuring Ray Scott
Apr 07, 202031:47
Relationship Transitions Involving Kids

Relationship Transitions Involving Kids

This episode recorded live features facebook and youtube live audiences and guest appearance by Ray Scott.
Feb 25, 202043:30
The Male Perspective on Love and Relationships

The Male Perspective on Love and Relationships

This episode is an in depth interview around love and relationships. This one is definitely one to not miss.
Feb 24, 202054:43
Relationship Talk

Relationship Talk

This episode covers the topics of purposeful dating, dating a woman who earns more, and infidelity resulting in an outside child. This episode was recorded during a live audience video cast via facebook and YouTube live featuring Ray Scott.
Feb 24, 202052:27
Self care in the helping profession

Self care in the helping profession

Clinician self care is a commonly overlooked and undervalued element. This is something that had to change as otra an essential component to adequate delivery of optimal service. Here are some tips to achieve yours
Feb 24, 202021:29
The Intimate Relationship Discussion on a personal level

The Intimate Relationship Discussion on a personal level

This segment contains viewer suggested content in discussion with Ray Scott
Jan 04, 202001:11:24
Negative Social Media Energy

Negative Social Media Energy

The amount of negative posts on social media has increased drastically in the past decade as social media has made a huge increase in the level of commitment provided to it from the users around the world. In this episode we explore 3 vital components to remember as far as dealing with it in this climate.
Dec 21, 201911:44
Round Table Discussion Coming Soon With Taneka Drake from God's Gift Through His Word

Round Table Discussion Coming Soon With Taneka Drake from God's Gift Through His Word

Hi,


Check out this brief moment of excitement as I provide my response to being invited to a round table discussion with the women of Anchor fm.

Dec 21, 201900:59
Higher Power
Jun 21, 201913:40
5 Steps to establishing Effective Boundaries

5 Steps to establishing Effective Boundaries

Boundary setting is an essential component to building and maintaining a happy and healthy life and relationship. This episode takes you on a a simple journey to awareness and helps to fine tune those skills.
Nov 14, 201812:20
Intimate Partner Relationship Building Preference

Intimate Partner Relationship Building Preference

This episode speaks to the question of relationship building preferences. Oftentimes, language can be a barrier to productivity and building........ Building a relationship with someone is about making the decision to follow your heart's desires and embrace growth, not feel overwhelmed with guilt and responsibility.
Sep 19, 201808:15
Episode 46... Friends

Episode 46... Friends

Catch this episode and reflect with me. What do your friends look like?
Jul 16, 201810:10
THE OMG EPISODE: Let's Talk About Suicide, The New Coping Mechanism For Distress

THE OMG EPISODE: Let's Talk About Suicide, The New Coping Mechanism For Distress

Simply said, this is an Episode you should be sharing with everyone you know.... Share it, Share it, Share it! As always, thanks a bunch for following me and of course, if you are not subscribed already, hit the subscription button wherever it may be around here. Also you can find me on other SM platform by using #DOCLQJSpeaks or DocLQJ in general. Start your dialogue today and forward this challenge to everyone you are connected with. Topic suggestions may be emailed to doclqj@familialbonds.org...
Jul 06, 201809:29
Relationship Vetting:  Blended Family Dynamics
Jul 05, 201818:08
"The Lost"
Jul 02, 201810:18
Life Discussions With Dr. J: The Reality of Our 2018

Life Discussions With Dr. J: The Reality of Our 2018

In this episode, you are able to see a viable solution to the well laid out issue of today's shift. Please be advised that this episode does contain some graphic content and may not be appropriate for audiences under 17 or mature audiences. Thanks for listening and please please please... don't forget to hit the SUBSCRIBE BOTTON AROUND HERE and SHARE THE CONTENT. DocLQJ
Jun 19, 201821:42
Attachment Trauma on US/Mexican Border
Jun 19, 201812:11