Duchess of Dub City

Let's discuss a little more about the behind the scenes of the election. Let's discuss the division in the black community.

There's a slight name change but still the same unfiltered talks. This week I'm just getting myself back in the swing of things.

Let's talk about a little about everything and hone in on this crazy virus that shows no sign of slowing down.

Why are people so fake?

There's nothing worse than feeling like you're alone, or that something is wrong with you because others can't understand what you're going through. Sometimes they aren't meant to and that's ok. However, when they try to convince you otherwise, that is a major problem and trigger for a lot of people. Take a listen to my take on this...

What's said to the face isn't always what's happening. Can you bring value in a place where value is often over looked?

Let's discuss how others manipulate your time. Do you value your time as well as the time of others>

I discuss dealing with some mental health issues and taking back my space.

Let's discuss the upcoming sentence and how we got here. 

Have you lived life as a trash dumpster for someone else's problems? Do you realize you are?

How do you know when a person is toxic? Once you do know, how do you remove yourself from the toxic person or toxic situation?

Finally, why do we allow ourselves to maintain relationships with toxic people?

Let's talk about the housing issues that the black and brown communities face today.  Let's talk about how we can bring about change.

Time to start having that conversation with action plans.

I break down the breaking news about the Trump Org. officially being under criminal investigation.  Let's look under this wide umbrella and see what this all means..

I took me moving to Dubuque to understand what systemic racism really means. Let's talk about what it is and what needs to happen to facilitate any type of change.

Discussing the final verdict in the Chauvin trial along with the dates of the other three officers that were involved. Also talking about Kim Potters upcoming trial.

My thoughts about the closing arguments in the Chauvin trial and thoughts about Maxine Waters comments. Why did the judge attempt to chastise a person not in the courtroom? What will it take to heal this country?

Quick update:

After recording this, I read that Officer Kim Potter, from MN, has resigned from the police department.

Let's talk about the most recent officer shooting and how a 26 year vet claims to not know she had her service revolver instead of a taser.

Also, let's talk about the value of your time. If time is money, why do people not value your time?

Pondering things and issues as they happen..

Many people have the savior attitude, thinking they can save anyone from any situation. Others end up being scapegoat because in some parts of life, it's easier to place blame. Which category, if any, do you fall into? Let's discuss.

My take on people's comments about a Grammy performance and why people got so bothered by it.  In other words, stop watching other peoples' pockets....

Talking about the reality of what's going on and what's coming up next

Listen in to what's going on with the Covid Relief bill to find out what's going to happen next. I've evolved folks, I'm learning forgiveness! I partnered with another person to start a women's group for empowerment. It's all good news today!!!

Educating you about MS Awareness month and taking you through my latest relapse. Also, talking about other things going on in the universe.

What was your reaction to the Impeachment Hearings? Were you glad, angry or nothing? Listen in to see what I say about it and other things going on.

Musings about the beginning of the Impeachment trial.

The events around us stay current, it seems to be some goofiness daily. How do we, with all of our differences, actually unite to make things better for all people, not just some? Tune in and let's discuss.

Those of you that feel the last four years have been great, why? Let's try to understand each other and why we feel the way we do. Could it be based on race and perceived superiority? Or does one's values change so as to excuse another's actions or inactions?

Ohhhh boy, let's talk about the shit going on now. Where do you align? How does it make you feel? Is it worth turning against family and friends?

Social media platforms play a very large part in how we think and gather information. Whether you get your information from one source or many different sources, what comes across your screens has real affects on how you view world actions.

Have you ever read the notes your doctor has written about your visit? Not the summary, the actual notes. It's time to request to see those notes if you don't see them, and learn what the doctors really think about you.

Do you believe in dreams? Do you think they're prophetic? Do you think you can change a person's outlook by telling them not to dream? Take a listen and hear what I think.

Leave comments and I can read them for the next podcast!

Think about your life and where it has brought you. Now think of what you've put out there in the world. Is it something to be proud of, something you're not proud of, or something you know you need to work on? Is this something you'd like to pass on to your children and grandchildren? What legacy do you want to leave behind when you're no longer here? Take a listen and hear what I have to say about leaving a legacy.

Are you on your own spiritual journey? What led you to that journey? Has it made you a better person? Today, I talk about my spiritual journey, how I got there and where I'm at now. Be sure to comment and let me know about your journey.

As we're near Thanksgiving, let's talk about being thankful more than just that one day. Tune in to hear my take on being thankful and the attitude of gratitude.

Join me as I add another dimension to the podcast. I like having conversations with people, so sit back and listen as I speak with one of my followers. Hear her take on things in part one of our talk. 

I'm discussing depression, my depression and some of the causes of depression. Do you have someone you can reach out to? Do you know what triggers your depression? Take a listen and hear what I have to say about it.

Join me for the election hangover edition. Tune in to hear a continued story of the toxic triangle and how I think I've finally dealt with it. Tell me what would you do about the situation.

Sit back and relax. We all have election overload, so let's discuss something else; how we are on social media. Why do people complain all the time instead of trying to be a comfort to others? Tune in to see what I have to say about it all.

What is a political conversation like with a 20 year old male first time voter? I think you'll be impressed by what I learned from this young person. Also, Dunning- Kruger effect, do you know what it is? What plays a part in our voting decisions?

Have you ever found yourself in a middle of someone's mess and you don't know how you got there? Tune in to hear the story of that happening to me and how the conversation went off the rails when we made it a group video chat.

Is there someone sucking up all of your energy with their woe is me life? How do you handle them? Do you handle them? Tune in to hear my take on the situation.

Do you sell yourself short or dim your own shine to people that are just plain crappy? Have you dared to dream but you allowed someone else's negative mindset stop you in your tracks? Tune in to see what I say about not dimming your shine for anyone.

Are you your authentic self or some version of who someone else wants you to be? Hear what I think about that and a couple of other topics.

Lets talk about how you can't love yourself but hate the experiences that got you here. We've all gone through crap, that's what makes us us. So why hate it? Use it instead to love on yourself and spread that love to others.

We've all got stories to tell about our childhoods and how they've shaped who we are. But how many use that to claim they are victims instead of dealing with that inner child or your inner critic? Tune in and hear my thoughts on the subject.

Do you feel you need to be told all the time that you are doing something well? Are you ok if you go unrecognized? Let's talk about it.

What are you manifesting for yourself? Do you even know how manifesting works? Drop in for a listen on some gems about what happens when you clear the clutter from your life and allow positive change to happen.

Do you spend time collecting someone else's negative energy? This week, find out what happens to you when you continue to help those that don't want to help themselves, instead opting to suck out your energy and why it's your own fault.

If you find yourself always trying to explain things to others and basically going in circles, take a listen. You don't owe anyone an explanation for shit!