Figuring It Out MW

Nobody enjoys failure. Yet it is an integral part of our human experience. Though Ucindami Mafeni knew this with his mind, his eyes were yet to see what failure ultimately looks like- and what it unearths in the process. All this and more.

A few days before your final undergraduate exams, you get a phone call that your only parent has passed away. One can never prepare for the avalanche of emotions and grief that tragedy brings upon us when unexpected curve-balls come our away. On a day when everything seemed mundane and regular, Tuto Kalitera received a phone-call that changed the entire trajectory of his life. Join us as he details his journey of pain, healing and restoration. 

'Even in your whisper, you still have a voice.' Acceptance is something we all struggle with in varying degrees. Beyond acceptance, do we accept ourselves? Are we aware of what we are accepting about ourselves? Lynnely details her ongoing journey of self awareness and the evolutionary process she has had to go through (and still goes through). Tune in!

Validation is something we all seek for in various degrees and spheres. Why do we want it? Is it healthy or borderline problematic to live a life that binges on the approval of others? In this episode, we hear the story of one who has walked besides these two seemingly opposite companions: validation and shame

Join the twenty somethings as they discuss the months that have been and their long overdue return to Season 2. This season takes a different spin as they dive into the vulnerable bits of life, seeking more clarity, hope and freedom.

Catch the two twenty somethings on their season one finale as they answer some of your questions. From "when was the last time you cried?" to the age old question: "Mukwatira Liti?"

Enjoy the Amapiano, House and Urban mix

Meet the man behind the guitar: Faith Mussa! We talk dreadlocks, music career and his most embarrassing moment. All this and more!

On this weeks episode of the "Dear Gentlemen, Lets Talk" Part 2, we are joined again with Wiza Jalakasi and our new guest Mayeso Mazengera as they share some thoughts and experiences on African Cultural Misogyny, patriarchy and toxic masculinity. The question that has been beckoned this week is why rape culture and sexual harassment seems to perpetuate and how can we be better men and women? Stay tuned.  

Join the part 2 of the "Drowning" series where the two twenty somethings explore the concept of escapism. None of us enjoy negative emotions and unwanted feelings. We naturally seek to run and escape, looking for solitude. On this weeks episode, Gareth and Emmanuel share their own personal stories in escaping- both the healthy and the unhealthy.

On this weeks episode our guest shares her journey with her two unwanted companions- Depression and Anxiety. Often times our mental health is neglected creating a breeding ground for unhealthy thinking. Join this candid conversation as she peels the layers of what most times is uncomfortable to talk about. Be kind to yourself. Be kind to your mind. And remember, its okay to feel.

Title "Drowning" inspired by Suffix and GD (single available online)

A recent tweet by Jeremiah Chienda (also known as LiWu) begged the statement that "are you sure you are Malawian?" is NOT a compliment. The twenty somethings explored ideologies surrounding what the narrative of Malawian means and why it is important to know where you come from.

Featured Tracks

From Malawi- KBG ft Dali Beats

Kwanu Nkwanu- Faith Mussa ft City Cultural Troops

Don't Run Away- Faith Mussa

No Hugs- Maya & eQ (Lockdown Hack)

Our good friend Wiza Jalakasi shares some thought and experiences on African cultural misogyny, patriarchy and toxic masculinity. How does this affect our relationships? Does it play on our mental health? Often times this is a conversation met with contention and polarizing views. Yet it is a conversation to be had still. 

The twenty somethings are also joined by Mwai Kalitera (member of Dare to Dream Malawi) who has a special message for the Lockdown Hack segment. Mayeso Mazengera shares a poem titled "Colours" which she wrote during the Gender Based Violence awareness week in December 2019. Plug in.

Meet Lindiwe Sibande. Lawyer by profession. Lover of humor and the face of third culture kids. We follow up with her as she narrates tales of leaving Malawi during her formative years, the decisions she had to make in-between and her number one pet-peeve. 

"I came back with the idea of wanting to make a huge difference...but sometimes we can be unrealistic. We come out of university wanting an entry level CEO position"- Lindi

Lockdown has been the conversation on most peoples minds and mouth this week. The country (and the world at large) are in a state of figuring things out. Are we ready for lockdown? What does lockdown look like in Malawi? What are peoples concerns? Lets talk Lockdown

As each generation steps in, the space between us seems to be getting larger (unknowingly and knowingly so). Our parents were us and we (perhaps) will be our parents. Yet, for the most part, we are strangers. What role do our parents/guardians play in our process of becoming- of becoming an adult? Is there a role? 

On todays episode, the two twenty somethings talk about the "Don't Rush" social media Challenge. Hair brushes, make up brushes and in more recent times, beard brushes! Image is something we all (to various degrees) care about. Questions were recently raised by listeners that dwelt on body shaming, appearance, and how to maneuver through seemingly negative attacks. Lets talk IMAGE #DontRush

The news on COVID-19 has taken over all platforms and mediums. Is the adjustment process easy during this pandemic? What does self-isolation look like for you? Join these twenty somethings as they figure out life during this pandemic (with a special guest too!)

NOTICE: all independent views expressed are that of the host podcasters and therefore do not represent other member bodies or  institutions.

Stay safe and wash your hands!

As kids, forming connections with other kids was second nature. No struggles. No barriers. No real effort (for the most part). The older we get however, this begins to change. Are adult friendships hard?

Many young adults feel the need to cross borders and find greener pastures. Should we blame them? Or is there another perspective? Join the two twenty somethings as they unravel contentious thoughts: to leave or not to leave?

Welcome to our first “podisode.” We tell the story of why this podcast exists and some of our 'ah-hah' moments that reminded us of our current social labeling: adults!