enough.
By Kendra Sheetz and Rich Gill
enough.Sep 21, 2022
56. Subtext: Perversion and Prestige: The New York Philharmonic Cover-up
In 2010 Cara Kizer reported that she was drugged and raped by two members of the NY Philharmonic Orchestra. In this episode of subtext we look at the aftermath of those accusations and what the ensuing ten years looked like for Kizer including how the orchestra itself handled her coming forward.
Read the Vulture article: https://www.vulture.com/article/new-york-philharmonic-players-not-performing-sexual-misconduct.html
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55. Nur-D: "It’s the moves you make, when it’s not easy, that will shift the future."
Hip hop artist Nur-D joins us from the Twin Cities to discuss his zero-tolerance policy regarding playing bills with rapists/abusers and his refusal to play at venues which allow them on their stages. He shares his negative experiences with one of the major venues in Minneapolis and how his career continues to advance without their support.
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54. Subtext: Justin Sane: Lies He Told The Children
In July of 2023, Justin Sane, a.k.a Justin Geever, frontman of the political punk band Anti-Flag, was accused of rape and assault by multiple women. As a result, the band broke up and dissolved their record label, A-F Records. Kendra and Rich share updates on the case including litigation and Geever’s recent plans to flee the country.
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Read the Make the Music Industry Safe Report: https://www.thisisenoughpodcast.com/make-music-safer.pdf
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53. Subtext: Danny Elfman: Orchestrated Grooming
Over the course of Danny Elfman’s decades plus career he has worked with the biggest names in the entertainment industry and also had sexual assault and harassment accusations levied against him. In this episode, Kendra and Rich break down these allegations and how they tie into the bigger conversation of grooming and how high profile entertainers use their status to pressure victims into staying silent.
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52. Emily Wolfe: "I decided to step into my power."
Emily Wolfe was in the midst of a tour when she found out that a member of her team sexually assaulted someone. Emily discusses how her decision to let this person go impacted her life and informed her art, and how important it is that live shows are a place where people can feel safe.
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Emily's new album, The Blowback, is available on streaming platforms and for purchase on her website.
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Emily Wolfe’s website: https://www.emilywolfemusic.com/
Emily Wolfe on Bandcamp: https://emilywolfemusic.bandcamp.com
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51. Subtext: Diddy: Press Stop
Kendra and Rich discuss the recent allegations and subsequent lawsuit against Sean "Diddy” Combs, his extensive musical career, and the history of assault accusations that have been levied against him, as far back as the early 90’s.
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50. Karen Barth Menzies & Shawn Vincent: "Survivors are not defined by their trauma."
Karen Barth Mensies is a litigation attorney who represents survivors of sexual abuse and harassment. Shawn Vincent works alongside Karen as a litigation consultant. The two have been working tirelessly on a myriad of high profile sexual assault allegation cases and fighting to extend statutes of limitations nationwide.
Karen and Shawn discuss the statute of limitations, the importance of survivors coming together to form a network, how the music industry enables predators all the way up the food chain, and Karen’s involvement with The Punk Rock Therapist.
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Visit KBM Law to learn more about the legal work Karen and Shawn are doing for survivors: https://kbmlaw.com
Visit The Punk Rock Therapist to learn more about the support they are providing for survivors: https://www.thepunkrocktherapist.org
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49. Subtext: we are enough. and we’re great at doing stuff. An end-of-year wrap up.
On the final subtext of 2023, Kendra and Rich look back at some of the highlights from the last year and look ahead to what's in store for 2024.
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48. Joe: #SpeakingOut: Wrestling's moment of reckoning
In June 2020, the hashtag #SpeakingOut started trending on Twitter as numerous women came forward with stories of the abuse, assaults, and harassment they had experienced as wrestlers.
On this episode, Kendra and Rich talk to independent wrestling fan Joe about what this meant for the world of professional wrestling and how these stories had previously been swept under the rug for as long as sports entertainment has been around. They also discuss the parallels between the indie wrestling and punk / hardcore scenes and how the fans can change the direction of both these industries for the better.
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47. Subtext: The Lizzo Conundrum
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46. Shannon: "I wasn't recognizable to myself anymore."
Shannon details the horrific trauma she suffered during a toxic and abusive relationship with a well-connected East Coast tattoo artist. She also discusses how that relationship directly contributed to a years long struggle with alcoholism. After hitting rock bottom during the pandemic, Shannon walks us through her journey of going to rehab, getting sober, and what her life looks like today.
Our guest has requested to be referred to by the name Shannon. Shannon is a critical care nurse and advocate.
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45. Subtext: What did Diplo do?
On this episode, Kendra and Rich give a quick overview of the popular EDM DJ Diplo and the many allegations that have been levied against him over the past several years.
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44. Veronica De Hart: "It's okay to have complicated feelings."
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43. Subtext: How we do self-care.
Kendra and Rich share the ways in which they support each other and the importance of having a strong support system when the emotional weight of engaging in persistent discourse on trauma is at its heaviest.
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42. Lily Davis: "Healing happens in community and clarity with others."
This guest has asked that they remain anonymous. We refer to her as "Lily" throughout the episode.
While in college in the Midwest, Lily began a long distance relationship with a musician from her home state on the East Coast. Upon returning home early due to the pandemic, relationship red flags became more noticeable and resulted in sexual assault. Lily describes the details leading up to and after the incident, including medical complications that were likely exacerbated by forceful penetrative sex.
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41. Subtext: What happens next.
Rich and Kendra discuss what happens when a survivor of sexual assault or abuse by a musician comes forward. They explain the repercussions of speaking out, the impact when other artists remain silent or align themselves with abusers, and the massive influence that music fans can have as a driving force for change in today's culture.
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40. Kristina Sarhadi: "People don't hang their whole lives on a music scene, but we do."
Kristina found salvation in the punk community as an escape from her home life. But when she finally met her idol, the singer of a political punk band that helped shape her values, instead of treating her like part of the community, he raped her. Kristina describes the details of that night, how it changed the trajectory of her life and how she interacts with music.
Kristina Sarhadi is a therapist, reiki master, writer and recovering social worker from New York. She uses her experiences growing up in the NY punk scene to inform her trauma-informed therapy practice and seek creative ways to help her community build empowering relationships, stand up to injustices, and create sustainable change with joy and confidence.
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39. Subtext: Danny Masterson: Guilty of Rape
On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss the results of actor Danny Masterson's recent court retrial in which he was found guilty of 2 of 3 counts of rape. They consider the role that the Church of Scientology played in Masterson's defense, how Hollywood reacted to the initial accusations, and how this ruling could set a precedent for similar celebrity rape cases.
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38. Bek Graham & Bridget Nicole Rose: Get A.M.P.T.
Grand Rapids, Michigan musicians Bek Graham and Bridget Nicole Rose join us to discuss A.M.P.T. - or A.rtists & M.usicians P.rogressing T.ogether - a collaborative group and zine. We learn the process of how it all came together and the ways a zine about abuse in the music scene can be an asset to communities far beyond their own.
In their words:
a.rtists & m.usicians p.rogressing t.ogether is an informal, collaborative group of folks who decided that the grand rapids, michigan music and arts scene has had unaddressed issues with abuse for too long. we are small and humble, but we are mighty! even though this topic is a lot to unpack, our goal is to provide some resources and hope to those who are facing a difficult situation. we want this zine to be informative for those looking for support where our music and art community is unfortunately lacking. our work is far from perfect, but we hope it can make an impact.
Visit A.M.P.T.: https://amptgrandrapids.simdif.com
Bek Graham plays guitar in bands The Quirk, Charlie Darling, and subs for Bong Mountain.
Bridget Nicole Rose plays bass in FLUSHED, is on the founding committee of Girls Rock! Grand Rapids, and is the social media manager at the DAAC.
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37. Subtext: The enough. Book Club
On this episode of Subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss a recent YouTube video entitled Trauma is Trauma: A Mental Health Talk with Kevin Smith and follow up on a promise from a prior episode, #30, by discussing helpful books which address trauma, consent, improving yourself and the spaces around you, and more.
Trauma is Trauma: A Mental Health Talk with Kevin Smith | PEOPLE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBvc7Ny4iUk
Kendra’s Reads
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.
It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn
The Gift of Fear: And Other Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin de Becker
Rich’s Reads
We Will Not Cancel Us (And Other Dreams of Transformative Justice) by Adrienne Maree Brown
Making Spaces Safer: A Guide to Giving Harassment the Boot Wherever You Work, Play, and Gather by Shawna Potter
Refusing to be a Man: Essays on Sex and Justice by Stoltenberg, John
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36. Kaija Rae: "I won't live in the shadows anymore."
Kaija, a Seattle-based photographer and musician, shares her history of abuse stemming from a photography teacher who was 20 years her senior. He used his local notoriety and position of power to groom, gaslight, and manipulate her over the course of several years. Kaija also speaks to the work she’s done to address her trauma and rebuild her confidence.
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35. Subtext: The Rise in Online Harassment
On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich define and outline different forms of online harassment, their emotional and mental repercussions, and explain how they can affect victims/survivors of abuse.
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34. Jason Garcia: "I've Been Dealing with Bullies Since I Can Remember."
Jason Garcia joins us to speak about the Minneapolis music community's uprising against abuse, along with the pushback that they have received from using their privilege to speak out on behalf of victims/survivors.
Jason Garcia (they/them) lives and works in Minneapolis, Minnesota. They work for a nonprofit that aims to increase food sovereignty for Indigenous people and help make traditional Indigenous foods more accessible. Jason also spends time volunteering with Planned Parenthood and with their neighborhood association. When not doing any of those things, they enjoy spending time in the community and planning leftist get-togethers for the summer.
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33. Subtext: Marilyn Manson: Shockrock Superstar or Born Villain?
On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich dive into Marilyn Manson's long history of shocking and repulsive behavior and discuss the dangers when carefully crafted personas are used as scapegoats.
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32. Shawna Potter: The Small Moments Make a Big Impact
Shawna Potter, front-person of the hardcore-punk band War on Women, and author of Making Spaces Safer: A Guide to Giving Harassment the Boot Wherever You Work, Play, and Gather joins us.
We discuss changes in the dynamics of the music scene, the basics of making spaces safer for the masses, and the importance of creating educational guides for the community.
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Visit Shawna’s website: https://shawnapotter.com/
Buy Shawna’s book from AK Press: https://www.akpress.org/making-spaces-safer-book.html
Listen to Shawna’s podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ipYhkVPK98V1c8JQAOnJ3
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31. Subtext: Livin' on the Edge: Steven Tyler and Statutory Rape
On this episode of subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss the recent lawsuit alleging sexual assault of a minor against Steven Tyler. Plus, the history of rock stars getting a pass for committing statutory rape.
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30. Subtext: Talkin' 'bout Trauma Therapy
On this episode of Subtext, Kendra and Rich discuss different types of therapy, with an emphasis on EMDR and the benefits that Kendra has gotten from it.
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29. Subtext: #metoo in Music: Is it our turn yet?
The clock is ticking on the music industry’s need for its #metoo day of reckoning. Kendra and Rich discuss what must happen for us to get there.
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28. Psalm One: "Speaking up for myself wasn’t a crime."
Hip Hop Artist and author Psalm One joins us to discuss her experiences with Rhymesayers, a popular Minneapolis record label. Her courage in coming forward helped others share similar stories of abuse and mistreatment. This resulted in members of the community speaking out against the label with the Boycott Rhymesayers movement. We also discuss how these challenges led to the writing of her book, Her Word is Bond: Navigating Hip Hop and Relationships in a Culture of Misogyny.
Visit Psalm's Website: https://www.psalmonelovesyou.com
Check out her book: https://www.haymarketbooks.org/books/1660-her-word-is-bond
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27. Subtext: The Trouble With Kanye
In this episode of subtext, we discuss a man who has been dominating the 24 hr news cycle for the last month, Kanye West. While his anti-semetic comments have halted his career, we dive into his problematic and abusive behaviors towards women, specifically his stalking of ex wife Kim Kardashian.
A quick note about the timing of this episode: After several months of planning a subtext episode with Kanye West as the subject, Kendra and I recorded the episode on November 22nd. The next day, Rolling Stone magazine printed a longform expose detailing a years-long pattern of emotional and psychological abuse and inappropriate business practices perpetrated by Kanye. While we were not able to discuss these allegations during the episode, we feel that it reinforces everything we say and should be taken in tandem with what we discuss. Read the Rolling Stone article: https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-features/kanye-west-yeezy-porn-bullying-kim-kardashian-1234635221/
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26. Danny Wolf: "The Perks Of Being A Small Flower"
Danny Wolf, a musician who currently plays in Danny Russel Wolf, The Haunted Hallows, The Getaways, and The New Bodies. Previously, he was in Small Towns Burn A Little Slower and Wrestling With Wolves.
Danny is also a dad and a house husband with multiple side hustles. He does live sound at a local music venue (Lefty’s Live Music) and works for his brother picking up old cars that he parts out and sells.
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25. Subtext: The Statute Of Limitations And Why It's Important
In this episode of subtext, our information driven subset, we define and discuss the statute of limitations as it relates to rape and assault. We break down the statues in different states and discuss the need for lengthening term limits.
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24. Laura Danger: "You're leaving the party. I'm not leaving the party."
Educator, activist, and creator Laura Danger joins us to discuss meeting people through the social media platforms of the early aughts, how age differences and power dynamics are intrinsically tied, and how being able to trust those around us is essential to strengthening our communities.
Get to know Laura and learn more about Fair Play and the workshops and coaching she’s doing at her website:
https://www.thatdarnchat.com/
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Laura recommends For The Love of Men, by Liz Plank:
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43263540-for-the-love-of-men
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23. Subtext: So an artist is accused. Now what?
Hosts Kendra and Rich discuss all angles of what could happen when an artist is accused of misconduct from the fan's point of view. They also discuss their personal viewpoints on separating the art from the artist.
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22. Subtext: Let's talk about consent.
On this edition of Subtext, our information-driven subset, Kendra and Rich define and discuss consent, how it was taught to them growing up, and how the term has changed over the years. They also discuss FRIES, the acronym created by Planned Parenthood that’s commonly used as a reference in sexual education.
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21. Subtext: Progress Over Perfection
We believe in change and accountability over canceling someone. With that in mind, we both share a past personal story in which we responded inappropriately when confronted with the abuse of someone we know.
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20. Jess Kanzenbach: "Ope and out of there"
Jess joins us to discuss a past relationship in which she faced abuse that manifested in gaslighting, love bombing, bullying, and other forms of psychological abuse.
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19. Subtext: Realities of Rape
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18. Kendra Sheetz: "Between the screaming and the silence"
For our one year anniversary, founder and co-host Kendra Sheetz recounts her own story of abuse and gaslighting at the hands of a former partner. We also talk about the similarities between her experience and those of some of our past guests, and the bond that exists between victim/survivors.
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17. Subtext: Depp v. Heard Trial
On this episode of Subtext, our information-driven subset, we review the Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard defamation suit. We discuss what the outcome of the trial means for survivors and the Me Too movement, how this establishes dangerous case law, and how the overturning of Roe v. Wade and this ruling are the beginning of a detrimental turn of events in our country.
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16. Becky Fontaine: "Onstage, I am everything I wish I had seen as a little girl"
Becky Fontaine (Nathan Gray and the Iron Roses) joins us to discuss her personal struggles with abuse, finding herself again with the aid of therapy, and the double-edged sword of being completely raw and open when performing onstage.
If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: thisisenoughpodcast@gmail.com
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15. Subtext: Reproductive Rights
On this episode of Subtext, our information-driven subset, we do a deep dive into Roe v. Wade, the landmark Supreme Court case. We discuss its origins, what the current case law means, and what could happen if overturned by the Supreme Court.
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14. Jordan Maxx: "They can't use my sexuality as a weapon anymore."
Adult film actress Jordan Maxx shares what it was like to book shows and tour with bands as a woman in a patriarchal scene, how becoming a sex worker helped her reclaim her sexuality and body, and why sex workers favor decriminalization over legalization.
Jordan Maxx on OnlyFans:
https://onlyfans.com/jordanmaxx
Jordan Maxx on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/thejordanmaxxedout/
Jordan Maxx on Twitter:
https://twitter.com/thejordanmaxx
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13. Subtext: DARVO
On this episode of Subtext, our information-driven subset, we focus on DARVO by breaking down the acronym, tracing the origin of gaslighting, and talking through the reasons victims/survivors are not always believed.
Resources:
How Narcissists Use DARVO to Escape Accountability
:
https://www.narcissisticabuserehab.com/darvo
DARVO on Wikipedia:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO
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12. Nathan Gray: "I do this so the world won't change me."
Nathan Gray (Nathan Gray and the Iron Roses, BoySetsFire) joins us to discuss the injustice he's seen in the music scene, his personal journey of change, the importance of cis white men making space for others to speak, and his unwavering drive to do what is right.
Nathan Gray Music Website:
https://www.nathangraymusic.com/
Nathan Gray Music on Bandcamp:
https://nathangraymusic.bandcamp.com/
Nathan Gray on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/artist/6xA7mRcYzlhungf2mEebib
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11. Subtext: Cancel Culture
Welcome to Subtext. This is our first information-driven episode. We define cancel culture, discuss its creation, how it has been used and changed throughout the years, and how it has changed society.
Recommended Book: We Will Not Cancel Us and Other Dreams of Transformative Justice by Adrienne Maree Brown.
https://www.akpress.org/we-will-not-cancel-us.html
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10. Will Kenneth: "Against the grain, that's where I'll stay."
Will discusses growing up with a toxic parent who engaged in domestic, verbal, and emotional abuse. He shares the story of how, in his adult years, he learned about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and how that realization helped him to re-frame events of his younger years.
Will also discusses how he discovered the Punk scene and how, years later, his column in DIY print zine Razorcake has helped him in his process of healing by helping others.
Read more from Will at Razorcake: https://razorcake.org/tag/will-kenneth/
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9. This is (still) enough.
After a few months hiatus, we're happy to announce that we're back! Hosts Rich and Kendra discuss their reasons behind the break, updates to the episode format, along with the introduction of a new kind of episode. They also talk about what listeners can expect in the upcoming season. Join us for Season 2 of enough.
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8. Tim Anderl: "Let’s not destroy each other."
Episode 8 features Tim Anderl of Sweet Cheetah Publicity. Tim speaks about his long standing career in journalism and passion for all things music. He also discusses how continual allegations of abuse, assault, rape, and violence in the industry lead him away from promoting bands through his writing of them for a variety of publications. In turn, he refocused his love of music into Public Relations, where he is the sole deciding factor on who he represents, taking no monetary income but asking that the bands and artists donate to charity or contribute their time to social service.
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7. Kate (Surviving Justice Podcast): "Be a problem."
Kate is a victim/survivor of rape who learned that the legal path to reporting is wrought with disorder, injustice, and indifference.
In this episode, she walks us through this grueling reality and the ways she’s worked toward healing from this experience. Kate is the host of Surviving Justice: Realities of Reporting Rape, a podcast that explores the complexities of the legal system. The podcast outlines why so many instances of rape are unreported and why the few that are, rarely result in a conviction.
Surviving Justice Website http://survivingjustice.org/#/home
Surviving Justice on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3YVgw40hIbCqzOJyzqIQvN
Surviving Justice on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/surviving-justice-realities-of-reporting-rape/id1479296913
Books mentioned in this episode:
Know My Name by Chanel Miller https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/553663/know-my-name-by-chanel-miller/
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