Father Bill W.

Father Bill W.

By Father Bill W.

I’m an Episcopal (Anglican) priest in recovery from alcoholism since 1972. I've spent my career in addiction treatment focused on 12-Step spirituality and exploring the pioneer history of AA. In discovering the lost 11th Step practice of Two Way Prayer, my program underwent a life-changing transformation. As Bill Wilson said, “ something was lost from AA when we stopped emphasizing the morning meditation." My mission now is helping people in 12-Step Fellowships explore a deeper understanding of spiritual practice and how it connects us to the "Great Reality" within. -Fr. Bill W.
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Life is Not a Dead End

Father Bill W.Apr 02, 2025
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Climbing the Ladder
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Inner Child 101

Inner Child 101

After doing Two Way Prayer for many years, a friend encouraged me to try integrating it with Inner Child Work. This certainly wasn’t anything the Pioneers in AA had even done. And yet, Carl Jung who played such an important role in the beginnings of AA would no doubt have encouraged it. In this single episode, Fr. Bill shares some basics on what the process entails and how it integrates with Two Way Prayer. It includes portions of a chapter from Bill’s new book with sample inner child writings. Hope you’ll lighten up for a while and come join us in the sandbox!Your inner child awaits.

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Life is Not a Dead End

Life is Not a Dead End

I was invited to share with the “As Bill Sees It – AA Group” in Sheffield, England on March 30th , 2025. The speaker shares on one of Bill Wilson’s writings.

I chose a selection from the 12 & 12: “When a man or a woman has a spiritual awakening, the most important meaning of it is that he has now become able to do, feel, and believe that which he could not do before on his unaided strength and resources alone. He has been granted a gift which amounts to a new state of consciousness and being.

“He has been set on a path which tells him he is really going somewhere, that life is not a dead end, not something to be endured or mastered. In a very real sense he has been transformed, because he has laid hold of a source of strength which he had hitherto denied himself.” Hope you enjoy!

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Exploring the Serenity Prayer

Exploring the Serenity Prayer

The Serenity Prayer has long been associated with Alcoholics Anonymous. It’s a prayer uniquely fitted to meeting the needs of alcoholics and addicts as we begin our recovery journey or face trials along the way. On first reading it, Wilson said, “Never had we seen so much A.A. in so few words.” (AA Comes of Age, p. 196.) In this episode Fr. Bill shares some thoughts on the prayer in both its short and longer forms.

Show Notes:

Who Wrote the Serenity Prayer, by Fred R. Shapiro, Yale Alumni Magazine, 2008

http://archives.yalealumnimagazine.com/issues/2008_07/serenity.html

“We Version” of the Original Serenity Prayer:

God, grant us the serenityto accept the things we cannot change, 

courage to change thethings we can, 

    andthe wisdom to know the difference.

           Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment at a time;

           accepting hardship as the pathway to peace;

           taking, as Jesus did, this sinful world as it is,

not as we would have it;

           trusting that You will make all things right if we surrender to Your will;             so we may be reasonably happy in this life                   and supremely happy with You forever in the next.        Amen

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AA's Spiritual Roots: House Parties & Frank Buchman
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AA's Spiritual Roots: Digging into the Oxford Group
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Science Fiction - Spirit Fact: The Key of Willingness
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Science Fiction - Spirit Fact: A Modern Recovery Myth
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Men & Emotions: Men Share their Emotions
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Men & Emotions: Emotional Health Strategies pt.2

Men & Emotions: Emotional Health Strategies pt.2

In modern society it appears that many men – and not a few women – are seriously and dangerously out of touch with their emotions. Opportunities abound to isolate and to self-medicate.  When we addicts and alcoholics begin recovery many of us find ourselves emotionally vulnerable and often immature. This series focuses on why this is and offers methods and exercises for connecting with and caring for our emotional selves.

Father Bill continues interviewing therapist Laura Jones Swann, author of Men and Emotions … It’s a Thing. Laura’s worked extensively in the recovery field teaching at several Texas universities. She serves as the guide to a topic that’s relevant both to men and women alike.

In this second-to-last episode, Laura reviews the second half of her strategy list to help support a healthy emotional life.

 

Show Notes:

Men and Emotions: It’s a Thing by Laura Swann, MEd. LCDC

https://www.amazon.com/Emotions-Thing-Laura-Jones-Swann/dp/B0CW3T4JMT

 

Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman:

 https://www.amazon.com/s?k=daniel+goleman+emotional&hvadid=692815657814&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9028223&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=15016485746960485602&hvtargid=kwd-314849247096&hydadcr=15524_13558553&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_28uy2uf8ah_e

 

Other Book Recommendations:

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D.

https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._GDfd8RInPzGpyGqcpefe-0u81RUNAoCRYN-Rfmme_wMCM9TpPxxTivWEPib2tbwvGHGgfhkYatH7Pjgxq8a070KsMS44ycnM_eB3I8n_iOSShcPCFM0cvRFXFhSdPWI_8gky1SpuBDeU5RcCjmnwBmrY4R0e8Q9F_lxoL0UaHrRYHTjLkOLN8tPVEghzR3aMtVLJlOdnghsbmClHzC6nA55eW7hZTFcOW_2_n-k3v0.blzBeyMeWOkwILqgJP-ay-baeYa49V9eaaoEUdY2M3M&dib_tag=se&hvadid=580689605212&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9028223&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=6257331460669020339&hvtargid=kwd-1410515536440&hydadcr=16287_13419214&keywords=the+body+keeps+the+score.&qid=1733164914&sr=8-1

 

A New Pair of Glasses by Chuck C.

https://www.amazon.com/s?k=a+new+pair+of+glasses&hvadid=598729310159&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9028223&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=1228835370073832348&hvtargid=kwd-577700975&hydadcr=22561_13531225&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_1eimpz2ddj_e

 

You can contact Laura at:

 menandemotionsbook@gmail.com

  Website:

www.twowayprayer.org

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Meeting the Great Reality Within: The Inner Light

Meeting the Great Reality Within: The Inner Light

A book I’ve often returned to in my morning Quiet Times is Thomas R. Kelly’s  A Testament of Devotion. Kelly was a Quaker and a mystic. His book centers on what the Big Book calls “the Great Reality within.” Since it’s a Greater Reality we can never understand it – but we can experience it – and mystics like Kelly come as close as humans can come to describing what such an experience - and still more – what such a relationship is like. In this episode Fr. Bill focuses on Kelly’s first chapter: The Inner Light. It’s a Light sure to illuminate the path of any spiritual seeker.

A Testament of Devotion by Thomas R. Kelly

Passage from The Light Within by Thomas R. Kelly:

… Deep within us all there is an amazing inner sanctuary of the soul, a holy place, a Divine Center, a speaking Voice, to which we may continuously return. Eternity is at our hearts, pressing upon our time-torn lives, warming us with intimations of an astounding destiny, calling us home unto Itself. Yielding to these persuasions, gladly committing ourselves in body and soul, utterly and completely, to the Light Within, is the beginning of true life. It is a dynamic center, a creative Life that presses to birth within us.

It is a Light Within which illumines the face of God and casts new shadows and new glories upon the face of men. It is a seed stirring to life if we do not choke it. It is the Shekinah of the soul, the Presence in the midst. Here is the Slumbering Christ, stirring to be awakened, to become the soul we clothe in earthly form and action. And He is within us all.

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The Eleventh Step: Quiet Time pt.2
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Logotherapy and Recovery: Viktor Frankl and the 12 Steps
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Logotherapy and Recovery: The Meaning of Life and Death

Logotherapy and Recovery: The Meaning of Life and Death

We live in an age when the meaning and purpose of life are often less clear than ever before. An age when we’re asking questions of doctors we should be asking priests - but few priests seem able to provide meaningful answers to today’s spiritual seekers. Enter Viktor Frankl.

Frankl was a Jewish psychiatrist whose pioneering work known as Logotherapy has helped millions of suffering men and women begin asking the right questions of life and finding answers that satisfy their souls. 

In this series, we explore Frankl’s book The Doctor and the Soul. Fr. Bill’s guest and tour guide is Tom Lavin, a therapist, teacher, and friend who has studied Frankl’s work for years and helped many addicts and alcoholics find new or renewed meaning and purpose in their recovery. This episode explores the existential issues surrounding Life and Death. 

Show Notes:

Tom Lavin is a Psychotherapist, Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT) and a Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor. He’s served for many years as Adjunct Faculty, University of Nevada School of Medicine, Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences. Tom’s website and newsletter can be accessed at: www.easeap.com/ 

 

Tom’s LIVE BETTER television series provides tools to help people face and overcome their anxiety and other mental health and addiction issues. Be sure to download the worksheets that go along with the helpful videos. Access here.  

https://contextualscience.org/tom_lavin_mft_lcadc_acata_live_better_psychoeducat

 

Video of Viktor Frankl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlC2OdnhIiQ

 

Bill Wilson article on Emotional Sobriety  

60 Values to Live by – Choose 3 and get going.

1.  Acceptance: to be open to and accepting of myself, others, life etc 

2.  Adventure: to be adventurous; to actively seek, create, or explore novel or stimulating experiences 

3.  Assertiveness: to respectfully stand up for my rights and request what I want

4.  Authenticity: to be authentic, genuine, real; to be true to myself 

5. Beauty: to appreciate, create, nurture or cultivate beauty in myself, others, the environment etc 

6. Caring: to be caring towards myself, others, the environment etc 

7. Challenge: to keep challenging myself to grow, learn, improve 

8. Compassion: to act with kindness towards those who are suffering 

9.  Connection: to engage fully in whatever I am doing, and be fully present with others 

10.  Contribution: to contribute, help, assist, or make a positive difference to myself or others 

11.  Conformity: to be respectful and obedient of rules and obligations 

12.  Cooperation: to be cooperative and collaborative with others 

13.  Courage: to be courageous or brave; to persist in the face of fear, threat, or difficulty 

14.  Creativity: to be creative or innovative 

15.  Curiosity: to be curious, open-minded and interested; to explore and discover

16.  Encouragement: to encourage and reward behaviour that I value in myself or others 

Equality: to treat others as equal to myself, and vice-versa 

17.  Excitement: to seek, create and engage in activities that are exciting, stimulating or thrilling 

18.  Fairness: to be fair to myself or others 

19.  Fitness: to maintain or improve my fitness; to look after my physical and mental health and wellbeing 

20.  Flexibility: to adjust and adapt readily to changing circumstances 

21.  Freedom: to live freely; to choose how I live and behave, or help others do likewise 

22.  Friendliness: to be friendly, companionable, or agreeable towards others 

23.  Forgiveness: to be forgiving towards myself or others 

24.  Fun: to be fun-loving; to seek, create, and engage in fun-filled activities 

25.  Generosity: to be generous, sharing and giving, to myself or others 

26.  Gratitude: to be grateful for and appreciative of the positive aspects of myself, others and life 

27.  Honesty: to be honest, truthful, and sincere with myself and others 

28.  Humour: to see and appreciate the humorous side of life 

29.  Humility: to be humble or modest; to let my achievements speak for themselves 

30.  Industry: to be industrious, hard-working, dedicated 

31.  Independence: to be self-supportive, and choose my own way of doing things

32.  Intimacy: to open up, reveal, and share myself -- emotionally or physically – in my close personal relationships 

33.  Justice: to uphold justice and fairness 

34.  Kindness: to be kind, compassionate, considerate, nurturing or caring towards myself or others 

35.  Love: to act lovingly or affectionately towards myself or others 

36.  Mindfulness: to be conscious of, open to, and curious about my here-and-now experience 

37.  Order: to be orderly and organized 

38.  Open-mindedness: to think things through, see things from other’s points of view, and weigh evidence fairly. 

39.  Patience: to wait calmly for what I want 

40.  Persistence: to continue resolutely, despite problems or difficulties. 

41.  Pleasure: to create and give pleasure to myself or others 

42.  Power: to strongly influence or wield authority over others, e.g. taking charge, leading, organizing 

43.  Reciprocity: to build relationships in which there is a fair balance of giving and taking 

44.  45. Respect: to be respectful towards myself or others; to be polite, considerate and show positive regard 

45.  Responsibility: to be responsible and accountable for my actions 

46.  Romance: to be romantic; to display and express love or strong affection 

47.  Safety: to secure, protect, or ensure safety of myself or others 

48.  Self-awareness: to be aware of my own thoughts, feelings and actions 

49.  Self-care: to look after my health and wellbeing, and get my needs met 

51. Self-development: to keep growing, advancing or improving in knowledge, skills, character, or life experience. 

52. Self-control: to act in accordance with my own ideals 

53. Sensuality: to create, explore and enjoy experiences that stimulate the five senses 

54. Sexuality: to explore or express my sexuality 

55. Spirituality: to connect with things bigger than myself 

56. Skilfulness: to continually practice and improve my skills, and apply myself fully when using them 

57. Supportiveness: to be supportive, helpful, encouraging, and available to myself or others 

58. Trust: to be trustworthy; to be loyal, faithful, sincere, and reliable 

59. Insert your own unlisted value here: 

60. Insert your own unlisted value here: *** Once you’ve marked each value as V, Q, N (Very, Quite, or Not so important), go through all the Vs, and select out the top three that are most important to you in this domain of life, at this point in time. The next step is to start looking at ways to live these values, in this area of life; things you can say and do, guided by these values.

The Doctor and the Soul via Amazon


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