The Fire Up Podcast

The Fire Up Podcast

By A Fire Up Ministries Podcast

The mission of The Fire Up Podcast is to help every person experience the love they always dreamed of by sharing the Catholic Church’s teaching on authentic love and human sexuality. We discuss dating and relationships, overcoming pornography, marriage and family life and the Theology of the Body! To find out more, visit our website: www.fireupministries.com
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What to Expect in the Early Years of Marriage

The Fire Up PodcastJan 09, 2025
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Satan Wants to Break your Spirit!

Satan Wants to Break your Spirit!

In this episode Madeleine talks about how we need to be aware of how satan is stopping us from doing God's will. She gives some practicals of how we can arm ourselves against the work of satan in our life. 

Link to 'Spirit' scene - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Kztqrjp2yw



May 15, 202536:39
Can We Pray to Saints? | Interview with Karlo Broussard
May 08, 202555:22
Marriage, Divorce and Annulment with Tim Staples

Marriage, Divorce and Annulment with Tim Staples

In this episode, Simon interviews Catholic Apologist Tim Staples on Marriage, Divorce and Annulments. 

Tim Staples is a convert to Catholicism and is the Director of Apologetics and Evangelisation at Catholic Answers. For more information on Catholic Answers or Tim Staples, visit the Catholic Answers website.

Apr 10, 202547:36
Lessons from St Joseph for Men
Apr 03, 202535:43
How to Argue with Love?

How to Argue with Love?

In this episode Simon and Madeleine discuss tools and strategies to argue in a way that will build intimacy, not destroy it. Join them for a lively discussion that is sure to increase the unity in your relationships while allowing you to respectfully express your needs and frustrations. 

Mar 27, 202539:39
What Does My Soul Cry Out For?

What Does My Soul Cry Out For?

Do you ever feel like something is missing in your life? Like there’s more to living than the emptiness or routine you’re experiencing? In this episode, Simon takes you on a journey to uncover the deepest longings of the human heart—the yearning for love, intimacy, and connection.

Mar 20, 202520:43
Can My Parents Force Me to Marry Someone?

Can My Parents Force Me to Marry Someone?

Should I be forced into an arranged marriage? Among some cultures, the idea of arranged marriage is still very common. Although we may not see it playing out to the same extent in Australia, the mentality is certainly here. In this video, Simon shares some important points to consider before agreeing to an arranged marriage or from dismissing it as foolish altogether.

Mar 13, 202522:24
The Power of Words

The Power of Words

In this episode, Simon and Madeleine discuss the power words have in transforming a relationship. They share practical insights and personal examples to highlight the positive effect of affirming words and the importance of being intentional about how you communicate. 

Feb 27, 202533:51
Do Catholics Worship Mary? with - Tim Staples

Do Catholics Worship Mary? with - Tim Staples

Do Catholics worship Mary? Does praying to saints take away from Christ’s role as the One Mediator? In this episode, Simon sits down with Catholic apologist Tim Staples to break down these common questions. Together, they explore why praying to Mary and the saints is not only biblical but also deepens our relationship with Christ.If you’ve ever wondered how saints can hear our prayers or if intercession contradicts God’s authority, this episode is for you!

Feb 13, 202556:28
Why Your Husband Isn’t Initiating (And How to Help)

Why Your Husband Isn’t Initiating (And How to Help)

How do I get my husband to initiate more?

In this episode, Simon reveals how Satan is hell-bent on encouraging men to become more passive and women to become more controlling, which is destructive to a healthy marriage. If you are a wife asking this question, find out how you could be a major reason why your husband is failing to initiate and what you can do to encourage him to initiate more!

Feb 06, 202520:27
Fertility and Women's Health
Jan 30, 202558:12
Don't Forget Your Story

Don't Forget Your Story

Doesn't romance and passion die after marriage? Only if you let it I say!  A key to ensuring your love continues to grow after marriage is for the couple to remember their love story. Here is a fun date idea that you can do with your spouse tonight that will inject some romance and passion into your marriage!

Jan 16, 202512:23
What to Expect in the Early Years of Marriage
Jan 09, 202549:21
Can I Sleep Around Now and Settle Down Later?

Can I Sleep Around Now and Settle Down Later?

What’s wrong with sleeping around until I meet the person I want to settle down with? In this video, Simon comes at this question from four different angles, showing the underlying problem with this mentality, the difference between love and lust, the kind of person you want to be and how your future spouse might feel about this promiscuous lifestyle.

Link to How to Date With Passion and Purpose course: https://fireup.kartra.com/page/Wq199

Jan 02, 202516:32
Praying with Art

Praying with Art

In this episode Simon and Madeleine discuss how art can enhance family prayer in the home. This podcast was sponsored by Kate Capato, founder of Visual Grace - www.visualgrace.org. Check out her amazing Sacred Art and fill your home with beauty! 

Challenge for the week:

Simon - Look for God's beauty in the small things

Madeleine - Set up a prayer space and have a look at the Visual Grace website


Show Notes: 

1. Sacred Artwork: Home, by Kate Capato - https://www.visualgrace.org/portfolio-item/home/

2. St Augustine, Confessions:

Late have I love You, O Beauty so ancient and so new; late have I loved You! For behold You were within me, and I outside. You called, you shouted, and you broke through my deafness. You flashed, you shone, and you dispelled my blindness. You breathed your fragrance on me; I drew in breath and now I pant for you. I have tasted you, now I hunger and thirst for more.

Dec 26, 202442:32
Is Being Too Good the Reason You're Still Single?

Is Being Too Good the Reason You're Still Single?

Is it possible to become such a catch, that you will be left on the shelf because you were too good for everyone? In this episode, Simon will share the importance of having high standards, how as a Christian you are never alone and the importance of living singleness with humility!

Dec 19, 202420:21
Strategies to Overcoming Pornography (with Jason Evert)
Dec 12, 202449:39
The Addictive Power of Explicit Content Explained

The Addictive Power of Explicit Content Explained

In this episode, Simon reveals how pornography affects the brain on a neurological level, exposing its addictive nature and the long-term changes it can cause.

Learn how consuming porn rewires the brain, similar to the effects of powerful drugs.

Dec 05, 202409:34
What Theology of the Body is NOT!

What Theology of the Body is NOT!

In this episode, Simon and Madeleine discuss Theology of the Body by addressing common misconceptions about it, why it was written as well as key themes explained throughout the writings. 

Challenge for the week
Simon - Receive ongoing formation in the Theology of the Body by becoming a
Fire Up Family member (committing to a minimum of $10 p/m) - 

Maddie - Listen to a talk by Christopher West on Theology of the Body. Here is a great starting video.

Show notes

Quotes to pray with:

  • 'The Theology of the Body is a “theological time bomb set to go off with dramatic consequences sometime in the third millennium of the Church…” - George Weigel

Scripture of the Week:

"I came so that they may have life and have it to the full." - Jn 10:10

Nov 28, 202433:56
Love Is Not Give And Take
Nov 27, 202415:13
Start Teaching Selfless Love to Your Child Today

Start Teaching Selfless Love to Your Child Today

When can I begin sharing the beauty of chastity and the Theology of the Body with my child?

In this episode, Simon will share some easy and practical ways to begin sharing the key principles of the Theology of the Body with your child, whether they are a toddler or in their late teens. It is never too early or too late to begin teaching them the importance of self-giving love.

Nov 21, 202428:39
Do You Hate Being Single?

Do You Hate Being Single?

In this episode Simon and Madeleine discuss the challenges of being single and what to do about it. You will discover, through this conversation that a time of singleness is a profound gift that can lead to the fulfilment of your desires. 


Scripture: 

‘For I know the plans I have for you’, declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.’ - Jeremiah 29:11


St Teresa of Avila Prayer - 

“May today there be peace within. May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith. May you use those gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you. May you be content knowing you are a child of God. Let this presence settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love. It is there for each and every one of us.”


Challenge: 

Simon: Get involved in an apostolate or ministry where you can serve others.

Madeleine: Go on a date with Jesus... spend some time in Eucharistic Adoration handing over your desires to God. 

Nov 15, 202435:52
Growing in Holiness

Growing in Holiness

In this episode, Simon and Madeleine discuss practical ideas to growing in holiness. 

Thank you to our sponsor for this episode - Ramcon Group. 

Challenge: 

Simon - Commit to 15 mins of prayer at a set time each day!

Maddie - Read the writings of a Saint!


Show Notes:

Litany of trust 

Peter Kreeft Book 

Saint writings

There are many great writings from the saints. You can find many of the pope’s writings on the Vatican website.

Some of our favourite Saint writings include:

  • Story of a Soul - St Therese of Lisieux
  • Divine Mercy in My Soul - St Faustina
  • Interior Castle - St Teresa of Avila
  • Letters by Padre Pio
  • Confessions - St Augustine
  • Theology of the Body - St John Paul II
  • Dark Night of the Soul - St John of the Cross
  • Come be my light - Mother Teresa
  • True Devotion to Mary - St Louis de Montfort
  • Letters by St Gianna Beretta Molla
  • Essays on Women - St Teresa Benedicta of the Cross
  • Letters by Saints Louis and Zelie Martin

Journal Question:

  1. Do I desire holiness?
  2. What can I do or change in my daily life that will allow me to be more focussed on being holy?
  3. What nets am I clinging on to in my life that keep me from God?

Quotes to pray with:

‘Follow the saints because those who follow them will become saints’ - Pope St Clement I

‘A wise man first makes himself a reservoir before a channel.’ - St Bernard of Clarivaux


Scripture of the Week:

‘Be perfect as your heavenly father is perfect.’ -  Mt 5:48

Nov 07, 202440:13
Called to Holiness

Called to Holiness

In this episode Simon and Madeleine discuss the essential teaching in the Catholic Church that every single person is called to Holiness! The fall of man in the garden of Eden made way for sin which causes division and death. Living a life of virtue brings about true integration of body and spirit, allowing us to become whole in Christ. 

Show notes

Virtue - Catechism of the Catholic Church 1803

Holiness - Catechism of the Catholic Church 2012 -2013

The Wounded Healer by Audrey Assad - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ejrg3zXOW-k

Journal Question:

  1. What does holiness mean to you in your life?
  2. Can you identify any idols in your life that prevent you from striving for holiness?
  3. Why do you want to be holy?

Quotes to pray with:

“Do not be afraid of holiness, do not be afraid to aim high, to let yourself be loved and purified by God, do not be afraid to let yourself be guided by the Holy Spirit.” – Pope Francis

‘Holiness doesn’t depend on superhuman powers, but rather demands a heart filled with courage, hope, and grace that strives for conversion each and every day.’ - Pope Francis

Scripture of the Week:

'I am the vine, you are the branches.' - Jn 15:5

'Rooted and built up in Jesus Christ, firm in the Faith" - Col 2:7

'Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.' - Mt 26:41


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Oct 31, 202441:04
Is Virginity Something You Can Really Lose?
Oct 30, 202401:23:51
What Do You Want?

What Do You Want?

In this episode we discuss the deepest longings and desires of the human heart. We all long for happiness and fulfillment, we all ache for the infinite. What does this desire for God really mean and how can we attain it.


Challenge for the week

Simon - Identify an idol in your life that keeps you from communion with God, and get rid of it.

Maddie - Get in touch with your ache for God - spend some time in prayer or pondering some spiritual reading. Don't run from your desire, press into it. 


Show notes

  • St Teresa of Avila's Ecstasy 

Look up St Teresa of Avila's Ecstasy. This beautiful marble sculpture by Bernini encapsulates a great saint on fire with desire for God! 

This is what she had to say about her mystical ecstasy which Bernini uses for his inspiration:

“Beside me, on the left, appeared an angel in bodily form. … He was not tall but short, and very beautiful; and his face was so aflame that he appeared to be one of the highest rank of angels, who seem to be all on fire. … In his hands I saw a great golden spear, and at the iron tip there appeared to be a point of fire. This he plunged into my heart several times so that it penetrated to my entrails. When he pulled it out I felt that he took them with it, and left me utterly consumed by the great love of God. The pain was so severe that it made me utter several moans. The sweetness caused by this intense pain is so extreme that one cannot possibly wish it to cease, nor is one’s soul content with anything but God. This is not a physical but a spiritual pain, though the body has some share in it—even a considerable share.”

For more on St Teresa of Avila and her mystical experience, watch this video by Christopher West.

Journal Question:

  1. Jesus asks the same question to you, that he asked His disciples - ‘What do you seek?’ What would your response be?

Quotes to pray with:

“Jesus always gives me what I want because I only want what he wants.” - St Therese of Lisieux

"If I find in myself desires which nothing in this world can satisfy, the only logical explanation is that I was made for another world." - C.S Lewis

"The Fathers of the Church say that prayer, properly understood is nothing other than becoming a longing for God." - Pope Benedict XVI

"You have made us for yourself O Lord and our heart is restless until it rests in you." - St Augustine


Scripture of the Week:

John 1:35-42


Catechism Reference: 

CCC #27

The desire for God is written in the human heart, because man is created by God and for God; and God never ceases to draw man to himself. Only in God will he find the truth and happiness he never stops searching for. 

Oct 24, 202450:20
How to Date with Passion and Purpose Without Losing Your Soul
Oct 18, 202435:03
You are Loved!

You are Loved!

Sometimes in life we can battle with the idea or temptation that we are not good enough, and that we are defined by our sin. We often fail to believe that God could still forgive and love us when we have sinned. In this episode we explore God's radical love for you and how we are called to see ourselves and everyone we encounter as a GIFT! You are loved beyond measure. God loves you infinitely, perfectly and unconditionally!


Challenge for the Week: 

Simon - Stand in front of the mirror and thank God for how beautifully he made you!

Maddie - Let love, love you! - Do a Eucharistic Holy Hour. Ponder the Crucifixion.


Extra Resources: 

'The Sea and Spirituality' by Peter Kreeft 

'The Hound of Heaven' by Francis Thompson


Journal Questions: 

1. After listening to this podcast, has your understanding of God's love changed in anyway? 

2. What prevents you from seeing yourself as a gift? 

3. Have you ever thought about yourself as 'a thought of God'? How has this changed your understanding of yourself? 


Scripture to Pray with: 

“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you!” - Jeremiah 1:5

"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." - Psalm 139:13-14

"In the image of God he created them, male and female, he created them." - Genesis 1:27

"God is love" - 1 John 4:8

"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit.." - 1 Corinthians 6:19

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. - Jeremiah 29:11


Quotes to Reflect on: 

“We are not the sum of our weaknesses and failures; we are the sum of the Father's love for us and our real capacity to become the image of his Son.” - St John Paul II, Toronto WYD 2002

“Every single person, is a thought of God.” - Pope Benedict XVI


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