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FIYA At Will!

FIYA At Will!

By Rye and Arin

Join hosts Rye and Arin as they escape to "The Office" to navigate through a few of the hilarious and heartbreaking moments in life (relationships, parenting and the general and chaotic ups and downs) with the perfect dose of brutal honesty, diplomacy and humor. At the same time, they peel back the layers of their own psyches to help themselves and others gain clarity, direction and understanding so that we can all learn to walk in purpose!
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S1 E3: Mean What You Say and Say What You Mean Damnit!! - The Gravity of Words

FIYA At Will!Aug 04, 2019

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Our Guest Brought A Guest?

Our Guest Brought A Guest?

Rye and Arin are joined by Amber and Allyson in the office...over drinks and snacks to discuss the lies people try to tell successful black women.
Jan 20, 202002:17:04
S1 E19: Social Media has you feeling entitled, huh? Don't let it put a battery in your back!!

S1 E19: Social Media has you feeling entitled, huh? Don't let it put a battery in your back!!

Join Rye, Arin and their special guest Amber (@Bamcabral) as they discuss social media, entitlement and knowing the value of your own perspective.. 

Oct 09, 201959:53
S1 E18: Is she intimidating or are you just insecure?

S1 E18: Is she intimidating or are you just insecure?

Join Rye & Arin and their special guest Amber (@bamcabral) as they discuss powerful women and how they’re perceived
Sep 29, 201958:27
S1 E17: Women don't know everything! - Will gives Rye and Arin a man's perspective

S1 E17: Women don't know everything! - Will gives Rye and Arin a man's perspective

Join Rye and Arin as they interview Will (@bigwill78) who gives them insight on co-parenting, dating and what he feels makes relationships successful (he also uses the time to check their asses on a few of their perspectives that he does NOT agree with!)

Sep 09, 201958:31
S1 E16: If I don't think I'm the Ish, who will?- Being a confident woman

S1 E16: If I don't think I'm the Ish, who will?- Being a confident woman

Join Rye and Arin as they answer an advice question they received on how to be a confident woman.. But honestly, isn't confidence a constant work in progress?

Sep 02, 201959:41
S1 E15: Dating F'n Sucks! - Why is dating so damn difficult?

S1 E15: Dating F'n Sucks! - Why is dating so damn difficult?

Join Rye and Arin as they discuss what they think is wrong with dating now a days, the different ways to meet people, unrealistic expectations (like we should be having sex because this is our 3rd date), and possible solutions to make dating successful! 

Sep 02, 201901:09:03
S1 E14: You know what REALLY grinds my gears?! - Why are we so good at identifying everything that we DON'T like?

S1 E14: You know what REALLY grinds my gears?! - Why are we so good at identifying everything that we DON'T like?

OUTTAKE Episode: Rye and Arin talk about all of their pet peeves and a few of the things that they actually DO like :) Care to chime in? Send them a message on IG @fiyaatwill and feel free to rant away! 

Aug 28, 201959:56
S1 E13: You got Cancer?? You don't even look sick! Moving forward after a life altering situation..

S1 E13: You got Cancer?? You don't even look sick! Moving forward after a life altering situation..

Join Rye and Arin as they talk to their amazing guest Yvonne Pearson (@yvonnegpearson), CEO and owner of @melangemode , wife and mother of 4 as she advises on how to start your own business, juggling her multiple roles and how she's kicking cancer's ass! This has to be our best episode yet! Please listen from start to finish :)

Aug 26, 201901:13:19
S1 E12: Come take care of your damn kids!

S1 E12: Come take care of your damn kids!

Come take care of your damn kids! - is Co-Parenting really a shared responsibility, or does one parent end up bearing the brunt?

Join Rye and Arin as they talk about the crazy week they’ve had and how they deal with their personal co-parenting situations
Aug 24, 201959:57
S1: E11: PART 2: I see you cheating with yo cheatin’ ass! - Dealing with Betrayal

S1: E11: PART 2: I see you cheating with yo cheatin’ ass! - Dealing with Betrayal


Is it possible to move forward in a relationship after a significant other cheats? Or is the relationship irreparable?
Aug 16, 201954:35
S1 E10: PART 1: I see you cheating with yo cheatin' ass! - Dealing with betrayal

S1 E10: PART 1: I see you cheating with yo cheatin' ass! - Dealing with betrayal

Is it possible to move forward in a relationship after a significant other cheats? Or is the relationship irreparable?
Aug 16, 201959:56
S1 E9: Just because you carry it all so well, doesn't mean it's not heavy - The weight of being a woman, mother, wife

S1 E9: Just because you carry it all so well, doesn't mean it's not heavy - The weight of being a woman, mother, wife

Women oftentimes feel spread this and like they are carrying the majority of the load. Are we just martyrs or are the demands greater for us than our male counterparts?
Aug 14, 201957:21
S1 E8. You Really not Having Sex? - Seasons of Celibacy in today's society

S1 E8. You Really not Having Sex? - Seasons of Celibacy in today's society

Have you ever gone through a long period of time intentionally without having sex? What were your reasons and what did you learn from it? 

Aug 11, 201902:06:44
S1 E7. You think you’re always right!!!- Accountability

S1 E7. You think you’re always right!!!- Accountability

Are women unable to admit when they’re wrong? Or are men just trying to flip the script because they’re wrong?
Aug 10, 201959:12
S1 E6. Can you get me into the club, FOR FREE? - Opportunity should NOT control your loyalty

S1 E6. Can you get me into the club, FOR FREE? - Opportunity should NOT control your loyalty

Oh, so you want to be "friends" because you think I can do something for you? I think not! 

Aug 07, 201947:08
S1 E5: Am I Really That Damn Crazy?!

S1 E5: Am I Really That Damn Crazy?!

Rye and Arin take the opportunity to really take a true look at themselves through some of their relationships, no matter how uncomfortable it may be! 

Aug 06, 201901:09:08
S1 E4: Just because you provide the essentials, that does NOT make you a good parent! - Intentional Parenting

S1 E4: Just because you provide the essentials, that does NOT make you a good parent! - Intentional Parenting

Challenging the "I put a roof over your head and clothes on your back, you better respect me!" mentality and what it truly means to raise your children with intention and purpose.

Aug 06, 201959:59
S1 E3: Mean What You Say and Say What You Mean Damnit!! - The Gravity of Words

S1 E3: Mean What You Say and Say What You Mean Damnit!! - The Gravity of Words

We all know that person that calls everyone their best friend, but can you really take anything that they say seriously when they use words so loosely? 

Aug 04, 201959:50
S1 E2. Maybe, just maybe YOU are really the f'd up one! - Toxic Relationships and Bad Situations

S1 E2. Maybe, just maybe YOU are really the f'd up one! - Toxic Relationships and Bad Situations

We've all had at least a few Toxic Relationships or Bad Situations, how do we know the difference and how the hell do we get out of them?!

Aug 03, 201959:58
S1 E1: Are you really missing a tooth?!! - Single & Jaded

S1 E1: Are you really missing a tooth?!! - Single & Jaded

It's a jungle out there in the dating world, which makes you ask, is it really that bad to be single? 

Aug 02, 201959:02