For Tha Love Of

FTLO dives deep into uncertainty that is currently happening in the "land of the free". From continuous black lives matter statements to injustice on college campuses. Does anyone ever really get a break in this day in age?

At what point is a person considered "grown"? Were your parents throwing that word in every single sentence in your childhood? Your favorite two educators and FTLO team give their thoughts on adults and parents feeling entitled because of their age. This episode might give you the reasons why your parents act the way that they do. 

In a short timeframe, the vaccine for COVID-19 has been created and now available to certain groups of people. But is this vaccine for us or against us? Why isn't there any vaccines for other illnesses and diseases that's been around for years? For Tha Love Of gives their opinion and thoughts about this abruptly made vaccine. 

We're back and have reunited like we never left, and now in the year 2021. We have endured one full year of progressing through COVID-19 and we're still standing. FTLO gets down to the nitty gritty with new beginnings, trends, and moves. 

It's voting time in the great land of the free. But what's going to come out of this year election? Here is our input on this controversial time of the year. 

Who would've known that in the year of 2020 we would be living during a pandemic. Let us tell you our experiences of the pandemic life. 

We're back like we never left. 

It's funny how things happen in life and just like that our world changes and we ultimately adapt to the new "normal".  Seven months Later and your favorite two black educators are back and better with new content. 

With all that's going on in the world, the least we need are children becoming more aware of self identifying themselves. Recently, Dwayne Wade's family has been trending all over his 12 year old daughter, Zaya Wade. She would like to be identified as a woman instead of being born a male. Do you completely agree with D Wade's way of addressing the situation as a parent?

These past couple of weeks we've been losing people left and right. From Kobe Bryant to Pop Smoke and everyone in between. Life is short and very meaningful in which we sometimes take for granted. We often speak about wanting to create a legacy. But, do you really know the meaning of the word legacy? In this episode, we discuss the meaning behind legacy and what it means to us. As you listen, please think about if you were to die today, what do you want people to remember you for?

In this episode, we discuss the dynamic behind black excellence and the meaning of Black History Month.

What does Valentine's Day really mean to you?

It's been a minute .. and boy have we missed you. Can you believe we're in SZN 3? Yea, neither can we. We're back and ready to spill our thoughts on all that's been going on in the media. In this episode, we'll be discussing our winter break festivities and the recent loss of our brother, Kobe Bryant. The devastating news has touched the lives of many. For us, it was more than just watching him play for the Lakers all these years. It was about his motivation, mantras and his powerful 'Mamba' mentality. From the court to his kitchen table, he was an overall family man. 

What does the holiday season mean to you? Do you prefer the gift of giving or receiving? In this episode, we will discuss our take on the holidays and the true values of being with your loved ones.

Mental Health has recently become a popularity contest with recognizing that it's evident in the African American community. Oftentimes we succumb the emotional feeling of dealing with our toxic traits when things get too rough. Is it a bad to not want to speak on things that trigger a sensitive time from your past? This week we touch on Mental Health issues amongst our team and how you can overcome what you're going through. We highlight the importance of speaking with others, seeking help and thinking about going to therapy. If you are going through something, we at FTLO, advise you to go out and find the help you need.

We've been talking about it for 3 years now, but where is KAEPERNICK? Couple weeks ago, he received a letter about getting a workout going so scouts can see his performance since being out of the game. There was a lot of controversy surfacing the internet and we're here to talk about it. In this episode, we dissect and discuss the on-going issue of Colin Kaepernick and the NFL.

Part 1 was filled with several different view points on the phrase 'Black Men Don't Cheat'. However, we had to hear from our ladies. In this episode, we sit and discuss with a few 'femhitters' on campus and their take on black men cheating. They speak on the constant battle of double standards, the lack of maturity some men face when dealing women and more. 

We've seen Lil Duval and Charlamagne tha God highlight the trending phrase 'Black Men Don't Cheat'. Over the years' men have gone down as being dogs and whores because of their infidelities of cheating. For some, it started at an early age due to environmental spaces and parental guidances. And for others, they find interest in cheating. In this part 1 of #BMDC, we sit down with a group of young men to tackle the stigmas and myths about cheating. They are given a series of questions to the justify their own personal views at hand.

We see it, we hear about it and we read about it. So, why do we ignore it? This week, we tackle the ongoing conversation about mental health and its effect. People like Charlamagne tha God, Gucci Mane and Kanye West have been shining light on this hidden truth, that we as black and brown people deal with mental health issues. From seeing someone get shot on the block, to seeing a parent or loved one get beaten, these things have a drastic impact to someone and their way of thinking.

What school do you rep during Homecoming season? What are some things that you and your friends do to get pumped up about the weekend filled event? On this episode, we highlight key components for a successful homecoming weekend with family and friends. We share our own experiences dealing with our own college experiences as well as our opinions on Buffalo State's past homecomings. We are giving you the good, the bad and the ugly truth.

Who is your favorite rapper or artist? Jay Z or Kanye? Beyonce or Mariah? We are often debating whether or not a musician is better than someone else. In this episode, we touch on our opinion of the top dogs in the industry. From the way they spit their bars to how they sound on a hook, we're tackling it all.

What does love mean to you? We all have our very own interpretation of what the 4-letter word means. Some may say it's the sacrifice amongst one another. Others may say, it depends on what you've done with a person. In this episode, we breakdown the different meaning of love that fits with us and our current relationships. Love is an up-hill battle. It's a rollercoaster. It's clean. It's dirty. It's ups. And it's downs. Whatever love means to you, there's not one definition. 

Drugs have been around for years - even before our time. People have consumed different types of drugs based on personal or lifestyle choices. As technology and media have progressed, millennials are more accessible to seeing drugs; whether it's in music videos, school assignments or the environment you're around. In today's episode, we will discuss drug use on college campuses. Studies have shown that most millennials consume drugs while attending or post college. These drugs vary from cocaine to weed. Doesn't matter what the drug is, we're speaking on it.

Do you read for fun or just for class? Are you more of a comic book or magazine reader? Whatever you decide to read, just make sure you can take something away from it. As the culture progresses, celebrities that we idealize are creating strong content that is relatable to our self growth, experience and life.  We've often been told that reading is fundamental. However, at a young age we are forced to read material that we don't like or can relate to. This leads to having a negative outlook on reading and negating core takeaways from reading. In this episode, we discuss the powerful effects reading has in our community today. Whether it's from people that look just like us or look up to - it's very imperative to connect to literature that allows us to think outside the box. 

What is the definition of culture to you? With time, Buffalo State has been considered to be the "SUNY HBCU". However, the state of the campus has transitioned for the worse. In this episode, we tackle the on-going topic of obtaining the student life experience at Buffalo State. From the jammed packed Bengal pauses to the diminishing of black and brown presence on campus with students and faculty. We get a student perspective by having Gaelle Jean-Baptiste, USG President, as she answers some challenging questions while serving as the face for current students. 

As millennials, you have distorted the term "dating" to "talking". As well as, changing the narrative of what it means to be in a relationship and the true values of being in love. Back in the day, we loved the idea of dating and what it meant to build a foundation in hopes of honing a relationship. In this episode, we break down the urban term of "talking" and get to the bottom of claiming you speak to someone to just smashing. 

In this episode, we tackle the cliff hanger from SZN 1 about Greek life - the process, the institutions and its dying culture. We also tap into interracial dating amongst our brown kings and queens. To some, this is taken as a set back within our culture and background. And to others, it's not an issue. Have you ever dated outside of your race? Do you think other races find you attractive? Do you think they're intimidated by the color of your skin? 

We are back and in full effect. What better way to start off "SZN 2" than to discuss the trending topics of the summer? Did you have a hot girl summer? Is being a city boy more geared towards men in careers? Why were women attached to cucumbers? Are you pro Popeyes or Chick-fil-A? Find out our thoughts in this episode.

On the season finale, we are giving you what you want. Family, you've been inquiring all season about that touchy, gritty, raw topic of Greek life; it's finally here. We are tackling the ins and the outs about Greek life on and off campus. Along with touching on some issues that have happened in the media in regards to our organizations and clubs. Nothing more to say - here it is folks!

In America, we are often put into a box by the type of "African American" that we classify to be. But didn't we all come from Africa? Why is it that we, as people of color, discriminate and bring down other folks that look like us? In this episode, we break down the diaspora of our people and the parts of the world we come from. It doesn't matter if you're Caribbean, Pan-African or simply "American", we all bleed the same color. 

Education is the key of knowledge. However, has the government brainwashed us to think more of the financial aspect for furthering our education? Are you, as students, being exposed to post graduate opportunities? Do you think you have done all that you could for the road to graduation? Is your refund check "lit"? In this episode, we will break down the beginning, middle and end of your undergraduate experience. We will share our different steps making it to college and how to deal with all of the aftermath. And we can' t forget about loans, loans, loans.

Oh, how has society changed. The evolution of man and woman have evolved in ways that sparks the idealistic roles within the community. Some men believe that they have been programmed to naturally be the bread winner, not in 2019. In this episode, we will talk about the castration of the "black" men, rising of our Queen's and the depiction of interracial couples. We discuss an audio clip on Dr. Umar Johnson as he breaks it down for us when it comes to identification of roles with our people. 

As you're listening, we want you to ask yourself a few questions:

1. What does the "black love" look like?

2. Are you willing to uplift and stick with your Queen if she's the bread winner?

3. Do you believe that your marriage tells a lot about your morals and values?

Are you in a student organization? Do you feel like your org is the best? We are here to nip your thoughts in a bud about being a student leader on campus. It's not about who's more "lit" on campus, but about the impact you create within your collegiate community. In this episode, we highlight important aspects when being involved in campus. We are here to tell the truth and how we truly feel about all that's going on within our student leaders. We are NOT here to shine negative light on what is done within an org, but to share how you can improve your content and your audience.

As African Americans, we are constantly fighting. We're constantly fighting the battle for being the "angry black woman" or "angry black students". In this episode, we discuss the daily fight of living in this community. From slavery, to share cropping, we have been going to work to fight the fight. Why are we still fighting years later?

You young kats know nothing about love. Today, millennials have twisted and defamed the true meaning of what it means to be in an union. Love is supposed to be something developed from learning and growing with someone that you can potentially build with to form a family. In this episode, we discuss our views on relationships and situationships. We explain why they fail, last and everything in between. You want options, and we get it. 

Mentorship goes a long way when you have someone that you can turn to for entrepreneurial and academic advice. However, it is not something that can be forced or asked upon. Obtaining a mentor that can devote time in you to develop your craft can potentially improve your way of thinking and self development. As millennials, you guys observe news on social media platforms. But, is the news that you're consuming have a purpose to your way of living and thought processes. 

As young folks, you all believe that you know what's truly best for you. Or, think you know it all. Especially when it comes to this thing we all call love. The perception of love has evolved overtime due to generational changes. Millennials use love as a game. You think you know love is, but do you? Do you believe in the myths behind Valentine's Day? Is it the women's holiday? Was this the year for the fellas? In this episode, we discuss our personal views on Cupid's holiday, being boo'd up and society's take on capitalizing off of us.

What happens when two educators meet up? We talk about real sh*t that's affecting our community. This is just the beginning. So sit back, put your ear pods in, and obtain all this knowledge that we're bringing your way. We're on the record.