Getting candid with Mabel & Ivy
By Mabel Apili & Ivy Naggayi
A podcast that creates a safe space for honest and fun conversations that are relatable to young adults so as to enable them share their personal stories and opinions on things that inspire their passion and discuss issues that affect their lives. Majorly, giving the people in my life an opportunity to say what they want to because everyone has a valid opinion. Everyone has at-least one honest conversation.
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Getting candid with Mabel & Ivy Jun 14, 2021
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27:56
Conquering the fear of the unknown Guest: Dr.Nataliey Bitature
Dr. Natalie Bitature shares with us her education journey, getting into entrepreneurship highlighting experiences of her working with her father in an industry dominated by males, to running her own projects and businesses as well as sustainability of these ventures, the hardships and eventually we get a little personal. Enjoy this awesome episode.
Oct 04, 202149:48
Inspiration Series: Monetizing your talent. Guest: David Kassami aka DJ Kasbaby
We host the lovely David Kasaami aka DJ Kasbaby, one of the biggest DJs in Uganda making it big in the industry of music and an individual who shares with us the origin of his talent and how he managed to make some money off of it. Enjoy!
Sep 20, 202140:01
Inspiration Series: Episode 1: Guest: Kenny Katuramu aka KK!!
We host the amazing KK! Now Kenny Abdul Kareem, a big name in the media industry in Uganda 🇺🇬 especially in radio broadcast. We get to know what he is all about. We hope you enjoy and get to be inspired by him the way we are.
Sep 06, 202138:04
The Season 2 Relationship and Sex Series Wrap up episode.
This episode is an attempt 😂 and yes I say attempt because wrapping up the relationship and sex series with only one host is a whole sport. It’s not too serious an episode and there won’t be anything to seriously learn so just have a laugh.
Aug 30, 202116:14
Pregnancy and Abortion: Pro Choice, Pro life etc.
We host Dr. Meddy Rutayisire and have an overview of what abortion entails, the procedure, the laws, the consequences, the medical part and the non medical part of it. It’s a little bit of everything. Enjoy learning a bd informing yourself.
Aug 23, 202151:26
Approaching the conversation on expulsion of pregnant girls from school.
We discuss whether there’s a need for pregnant girls to be expelled out of schools in this day and era especially with the disruptions that COVID has caused. Is that the solution ?
Aug 16, 202133:27
Objectification of people. (with a little more emphasis on women)
This episode focuses on what objectification is, examples and circumstances where we see objectification. We ask a couple of questions that weren’t so easy to answer 😅 so we can’t wait to listen to your opinions. Enjoy this episode.
Aug 09, 202140:13
Love Bombing
We hosted this episode via zoom and had everyone basically share their experiences with love Bombing. Love Bombing is when a person floods you with attention and adoration that it gets overwhelming!
Jul 29, 202130:09
General Beauty Standards: Beauty Bias
We are joined by the beautiful Sandra Kabanyoza and had a chat about what beauty really is and how beauty is perceived. What comes with having a version of beauty that is generalized and is there a need to do away with it ?
Jul 23, 202101:01:59
Dickmatization
Do you believe in the power of the D! Anyway we’re busy discussing a bunch of nothings and somethings on whether dickmatization is a real thing. It’s a whole lot of back and forth. Choose where you lie.
Jun 28, 202132:37
Size v Skill
If someone were perfect in all other ways but not the right size and fit for your sex life. Would you stick around?
Jun 21, 202122:22
Sexual Purity and it’s Impacts.
We discuss what exactly purity culture is and if it’s achievable. The pros and cons and some of the things we experienced in light of purity culture growing up. Enjoy the episode!
Jun 14, 202127:56
Wrapping up the Relationship Series
We enjoy all your feedback and appreciate it. We used this episode to do just that. Go through your feedback. Thank you for your support!
May 10, 202116:30
Colorism v Preference
In this episode, we discuss the origin and history of Colorism and have a debate on whether issues concerning color of human skin can actually be considered as having a ‘preference’ and the implications of having skin color preference as we often term it. Are we just colorist hiding behind having preference ? Or is it possible to having preference of a skin color without being colorist.
May 03, 202140:22
Conceit vs Accountability: The indirect condemnation that comes with self-righteousness
This episode is all about the way we go about correcting people. We discuss the thin line between being conceited & self righteous and the need to hold people accountable. We majorly focus on the way the ways certain organs like the church through religious leaders share their message on correction. Hope you enjoy it !
Apr 19, 202128:52
Defining God for yourself.
Growing up, there were plenty of ways that God was presented to us. Our very first idea of God is usually through church, Sunday school, Bible stories etc. You now get to ask ourselves what God means to you. Outside of church, the teachings of your pastor, what your parents tell you, what school has taught you... Can you say that you know God for yourself, through your own lenses ? ( insert Allah, Budha etc )
Apr 12, 202132:57
Through thick and thin.
It is often said. To love is to stay. To stick and to support no matter what. On this episode we discuss, the impacts of choosing to define your love that way. What exactly is your breaking point? If you were to look deep within yourself, are you the kind to stay for forever, is that what love means to you? Or do you think otherwise? Enjoy this episode!
Apr 05, 202136:36
Let us talk ‘ cancel culture.’
In this episode we discuss about cancel culture. We have conversations that vary from establishing exactly what cancel culture is, the impacts of cancel culture, have we lost the ability to grant people grace ? We also looked at the meaning of redemption and what that means. One could find this a very controversial topic so we look forward to your feedback.
Mar 29, 202141:23
Compatibility in relationships
The hosts have a dialogue about compatibility between people in relationships. Is chemistry always a sign of compatibility? Would you give up a person you are compatible with simply because of friction with their relatives?
Mar 22, 202128:20
28 v 18 and 38 v 28. Age, a big deal or just a number ?
While dating, does it really matter how old either of the parties are? Or you can do what you want the way you want to? Is there a difference between a way older person dating a way younger person ? ( 18-22) and a way older person dating a relatively younger person ( person above 23? )
Mar 15, 202131:14
A conversation on multi-dating.
What style of dating are you into? Are you the ‘stick to one person at a time’ kind or the date as many as you’d like. The hosts talk everything multi dating.
Mar 08, 202123:36
Let’s talk the dating process.
The hosts take you through what the dating was like for them previously and what it is like now. What do you think dating means to you now ?
Mar 01, 202140:44
Do best friends of the opposite sex really exist? Are they simply “ your bestie?”
Today’s topic is shaking tables...
Or the mango trees 😂
Do you actually believe in an all existent platonic relationship between best friends of the opposite sex?! Whatever side of the coin you lie, there are several opinions on the podcast...
Catch all this and more on our podcast at 6PM EAT today.
Or the mango trees 😂
Do you actually believe in an all existent platonic relationship between best friends of the opposite sex?! Whatever side of the coin you lie, there are several opinions on the podcast...
Catch all this and more on our podcast at 6PM EAT today.
Feb 22, 202132:12
Cultivating wholesome friendships.
Many times we invest a lot more time in understanding and cultivating romantic relationships neglecting friendships. In this episode we discuss how we can invest and create wholesome friendships.
Feb 15, 202135:44
Measuring Self Worth based on Productivity.
Still part of the relationship series. In this episode the host delves into whether productivity does in-fact say a lot about your worth.
Feb 08, 202117:21
Relationship Series Self Love or Self indulgence?
Episode 2 is another one on relationship with self. The hosts discuss What the phrase “self love” entails.
Are we really loving our selves or are we indulging?
What forms can self love take and how do we harness that.
Are we really loving our selves or are we indulging?
What forms can self love take and how do we harness that.
Feb 01, 202138:02
Journey of self-discovery from last year (2020).
With all that happened last year, we sure thought a conversation on what we each discovered of ourselves would be important. This shall in turn perhaps shape who we are on 2021. The key question is: what exactly did you notice about yourself during the unprecedented times?
Jan 25, 202128:13
What podcasting has been like.
We go back in time and discuss our journey of how the podcast has been. We shall be back for season 2!
Nov 09, 202031:29
Mental Health Series: A professional’s perspective.
We host psychologist and mental health advocate, Patricia Kabayo, who gives insight and educates us about mental health and its challenges. She also speaks about ways of coping with mental health issues from a professional point of view.
Nov 02, 202038:17
Mental Health Series: Coping with stress during school.
With all the uncertainties that came with the lock down and now the opening of schools for some students. The pressure and stress of meeting goals after a huge time lag is one that needs to be discussed. Our guest Edgar Mugarura lets us know how he deals with demands of school.
Oct 26, 202050:01
Mental Health Series: Ep 19; The impact of social media on mental health.
Ivy and Mabel discuss the positive and negative impacts of social media on mental health. We use all these platforms to stay connected but just how much do they affect the way we live?
Oct 19, 202041:58
Mental Health Series: Men and Mental Health: Emotional Implications of the phrase “ Be a man, man up
We host Benjamin Rukwengye ( CEO of Boundless Minds Uganda ). He discusses how things like expectations, conditioning , gender roles affect the mental health of men and enables us understand life from two different perspectives in the various stages of growth of a man.
Oct 12, 202001:04:24
Mental Health Series:Let’s discuss depression
Listen to our guest, Racheal Babirye, as she takes us through her journey of fighting and learning to cope with depression.
Oct 05, 202059:05
Mental Health Series : Dealing with anxiety.
What exactly is anxiety? We discuss everything from signs of anxiety, to they types, ways of coping with anxiety to triggers and how we can be there for friends that suffer with anxiety as a disorder.
Sep 28, 202001:07:30
Mental health series: Coping with grief after loss.
Raw is what this episode is. Grief is a personal experience for each of us and everyone goes through it differently. This week’s episode is very intimate and captures the experiences of each of our guests the best way they know how to share it. We discuss the stages of grief, what grief is etc... Carry your tissues.
Sep 21, 202001:42:04
Sex Education: Understanding Consent.
We discuss all about consent. Is consent always verbal? Why is it important? What purpose does consent serve? Who can and cannot give consent. Catch this and more on this episode.
Sep 14, 202048:01
Sex Education Series: Body Image; the insecurities of the man in the mirror.
Today’s discussion encompasses how we think, feel and view ourselves especially amidst the pressures of society. Is it possible to cope with such insecurities? Ivy and I break it down!
Sep 07, 202041:48
Dissenting Nudes & Nudity.
In this age of smart phone tech, social media and open minds. Nudes have become an easy and convenient way to spice up relationships and sex. Join us as we dig into this topic, addressing the power behind nudity and nudes .
Aug 31, 202001:22:23
Let’s talk about SEX!
Are you afraid to talk about sex? Are you curious about sex? Are you looking for a safe space with a relatable conversation on sex? This is the episode for you! This is the longest segment you shall find but it is worth it! We talk about all the nitty gritties! and answering the questions in your survey all the while. PART 2 is the real bomb! Our guests Guttabingi Doreen, Freddie & Jonathan Sempa give us a broad understanding on first time experiences, trauma, sexual experiences, satisfaction from the male and female cishet and queer perspective.
Aug 24, 202001:47:29
Sex Education Series: Sexual Purity & Virginity
This is for all those pursuing sexual purity and virginity. We talk about what it’s like to be a virgin in society. We talk about what you can do to stick with this goal and why it is okay to be what you want to be.
Aug 17, 202043:59
Sex Education Series: Understanding Healthy Reproductive & Sexual Practices.
We are hosting Linda Atulinda and Innocent Natikyo. They are medical school students at Makerere University. We get to talk about how to take care of self, menstruation, toilet etiquette, breaking myths about sex, how to take care of oneself when one is sexually active and we discuss the male anatomy too. May you get to learn from this episode.
Aug 10, 202057:59
The Relationship Series: The wrap up Episode.
Ivy and Mabel get to answer the questions that have been raised by the listeners during the course of the series. The Episode focuses on issues concerning struggle love, flirting in & outside of relationships, leading people on and pillow talk. Should lovers share their friends secrets between each other?
Aug 03, 202045:53
Relationship Series: Situationships et al
Some jumbled lighthearted & fun conversations about entanglements, Situationships, being a side chic or side guy, can you really have a best friend of the opposite sex as only a friend? and much more. Enjoy this episode!
Jul 20, 202029:36
The Relationship Series: Toxic Relationships.
My guest and I discuss toxic relationships. What exactly are toxic relationships and how to break away from them. How do you start your journey of becoming.
Jul 13, 202045:16
The Relationship Series: The love episode Part 2
We get back to the couples I hosted on last weeks episode but this time to share about challenges in their relationships and the solutions they have. We also get to know how well they know their partners. A special guest wraps up the episode with general information on relationships. How to know if a partner is right for you & what the right time is.
Jul 06, 202046:06
The Relationship Series: The Dating Experience
Two couples share with us some details about their relationship. I hope young adults who are dating or hoping to date get to learn from their experiences. Enjoy the episode!
Jun 29, 202055:49
The Relationship Series: Get to Know your friends.
Join my friends, (Ivy & Celia) and I as we talk through our friendship journey! We hope this conversation is relatable and it encourages you to evaluate your friendships.
Jun 22, 202045:47
The Relationship Series: Embracing self; beautifully imperfect.
Introduction to the podcast. Episode 1 is all about getting to share what relationship with self means, how to start a relationship with self . My friend and I also share a few personal stories on self realization and the journey of learning who we are.
Jun 15, 202029:42