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Girl Found

Girl Found

By Evie Sophia Bates

Evie first knew she was born in the wrong body when she was nine years old. Yet it would be sixteen more years before she was able to transition, largely due to the high control, high manipulation environment of her home and social life. Her story would include overcoming social stigma, family rejection, transphobia, and leaving a cult 21.5 million strong. An exploration of queerness, cults, and growth, this is Girl Found.
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Girl FoundJan 14, 2022

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Buskers and cioppino

Buskers and cioppino

The Bay, Walt Whitman, and the impossible. This week I look back on the city that met me first, and the things that happen when you stop saying “I can’t.” I interview Tyler Prescott, executive director of the Upstate LGBTQ+ Chamber of Commerce located in Greenville, SC, and improv comic. We talk about the funny, the sad, and the wistful of growing up queer in the religious south.
Aug 02, 202245:46
In my estimation vitriolic

In my estimation vitriolic

Letters, drama, and saved face. This week on Girl Found, my siblings and I hold the leaders of the Adventist church accountable for Eric and Ann Marie’s abuse, and the conference replies. I interview Elaina Matthews on her experience in and out of the church, and how the systems of leadership and power protect abusers. || This episode of the podcast is brought to you by Unclockable. Unclockable exists to make life easier for all those who tuck. Their Tuck Kit is the best way to get a euphorically flat, swim-proof tuck that stays in place. 5-star rated, and available now at the link their bio: @unclockableyou || Get access to exclusive content, early episode reads, unique patron only merch, and more by visiting Patreon.com/girlfound!
Mar 26, 202255:10
Final arguments
Mar 11, 202249:31
Can we skip to the good part?
Mar 07, 202245:19
Shut the f*ck up

Shut the f*ck up

Threats, growth, and romance. This week on Girl Found, I save my youngest sibling on their 18th birthday, I run from the police, and I tell Ann Marie to shut the fuck up. I also talk to Haley about her grade school experience in the Catholic faith, and why she left. || This episode of the podcast is brought to you by Unclockable. Unclockable exists to make life easier for all those who tuck. Their Tuck Kit is the best way to get a euphorically flat, swim-proof tuck that stays in place. 5-star rated, and available now at the link their bio: @unclockableyou || Get access to early content, exclusive episodes, merch, and more at Patreon.com/girlfound!
Feb 26, 202253:07
Censored love stories
Jan 21, 202235:50
Best case scenario
Jan 14, 202201:13:33
Taking out the trash

Taking out the trash

False euphoria. Girlfriends. Allies. This week I celebrate my conversion, and I take out the trash from my life I was convinced I wouldn’t need anymore. Welcome to Season 3! || This weeks rec is The Wayward Children series by Seanan McGuire: www.goodreads.com/series/165484-wayward-children || This episode of the podcast is brought to you by Unclockable. Unclockable exists to make life easier for all those who tuck. Their Tuck Kit is the best way to get a euphorically flat, swim-proof tuck that stays in place. 5-star rated, and available now at the link in their bio: @unclockableyou || Support the podcast, get cool merch, and get exclusive access to bonus content, early releases, and more: Patreon.com/girlfound ||
Jan 08, 202245:31
Not happy, but good.
Dec 22, 202104:10
Small rebellions
Oct 15, 202143:40
Freedom means mistakes

Freedom means mistakes

New chapters, new apartments, new freedom. This week I find myself on my own for the first time, and find that freedom means freedom to make mistakes. I also talk with Katie Reckart on her journey of theological mercy. Support Girl Found by visiting patreon.com/girlfound and get access to exclusive content, early episodes, and cool merch. This week’s recs from Katie include: Jesus Feminist by Sarah Bessey, Searching for Sunday by Rachel Held Evans, and Inspired by Rachel Held Evans.
Oct 15, 202101:01:07
Exhibit E
Aug 29, 202134:24
Pig pen
Aug 18, 202142:31
Closets and suitcases
Aug 09, 202101:01:18
Redemption arc (sort of)
Jul 16, 202127:43
Holding space
Jul 01, 202134:32
Me too
May 17, 202126:14
If Everybody Did

If Everybody Did

Depression, double lives, and being God’s right hand. This week on Girl Found we talk about my own experience with mental illness, what I was taught about fixing people with depression, and introducing you to my deconstruction. I also interview Charlie, a long time friend, about their experience in the church. Listen to the end to hear us talk about our friend breakup. This podcast was recorded and produced by Evan Bates, with music from Adobe Stock. Visit our Patreon (patreon.com/girlfound) to support the podcast, get early access to content, and cool merch too!
May 08, 202138:39
Tertiary Prophets
Apr 22, 202101:01:11
Hannah Montampons
Apr 09, 202148:39
Season Two is coming!
Mar 08, 202139:51
Exposure
Jan 15, 202142:16
Jupiter’s Residents
Jan 09, 202138:46
Cracked Closets

Cracked Closets

A review of Christmas from 2015-2020. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from Caroline, and everyone else who makes Girl Found a success. This week I asked you to share what the holidays mean to you. Thanks for responding. May this holiday season be warm and bright.
Dec 25, 202008:28
Hard knocks
Dec 20, 202030:50
Throwing stones
Dec 11, 202043:41
Bandaids
Dec 04, 202035:31
I’m a girl

I’m a girl

William Miller, white robes, and bold announcements. This weeks episode creates the foundation from which we will explore the cult I grew up in. And I come out to my parents the first of many times. *Views expressed in the interview format of this episode are those of the speaker, and are not endorsed or approved by the creators of this podcast* Patreon coming soon! Keep listening for some ~cool merch~
Nov 27, 202035:32
Cat and Mouse

Cat and Mouse

Cat and mouse. Awakenings. Baptism. This week on Girl Found I begin to realize I’m different, we talk about baptism, and the game of cat and mouse begins. I also interview Zoe Parsons on her balance of religion, awareness of social issues, and identity.
Nov 20, 202026:35
In the beginning

In the beginning

Coming out. Childhood. Religion. I tell the in medias res beginning of my story, and interview my wife Caroline on what life looks like right now, her religious experience, and her favorite read at the moment. I’m so excited to share this new podcast with you on my exploration of queerness, cults, and growth.
Nov 13, 202026:36
Trailer

Trailer

Girl Found, a new podcast documenting and exploring my journey of transition as a transgender woman, and the dynamics of growing up in a religious cult. Join me weekly for an exploration of queerness, cults, and growth. This is Girl Found.
Nov 06, 202001:25