I wanted to add to, rather than distract from, the debates around intimate partner violence, stalking and sexual abuse. So here's a handful of anecdotes (by no means all) from my own experience and perspective. Anecdotes aren't data, but perhaps this will help other people speak out, or to get their head around their - or their partner's - feelings.
Identity politics and intersectionality breeds division, the 'left' has lost sight of the things that made it such a powerful argument. Equality, fairness and opportunity.
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"See... I can get you what you want, I can. I can get you anything, you just have to talk to me, you have to trust me. You can trust me, 'cause I'm your priest, I'm your shrink... I am your main connection to the switchboard of the soul. I'm the magic man... Santa Claus of the subconscious. You say it, you think it, you can have it."
- Lenny Nero, Strange Days