The Rest Is Noise

By Ato Kwamina Hasford

Spontaneous! I will let you know in the episodes but believe me when I say, it is exciting!!! The queer, the creepy, the sex, those facts. Trust a Scorpio to tell it as it is. You are in the right place.

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Fetish - White Supremacy, the Ghanaian or African perspective.

The Rest Is NoiseMar 21, 2022

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I survived Narcissistic Abuse, Again! (A Belgian Photographer, this time.)

I try to connect the dots of specific manipulative actions of Belgian Photographer, Yuri Andries: The love baiting and bombing, the devaluation and lies. Sexual harrassment and dreams of an inevitable end to the fake friendship he cultivated with me to blindside me from his abuse and exploitation of my vulnerability being a black and queer minority. How his plot to use shaming his victims and false reconciliations to escape accountability and continue his abuse failed. How happy I am, setting myself free and using my experience to warn and inform black minorities and empaths in general, creating awareness about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and White Saviourism and being aware of my own conditioning and a need to rise above it to gain the truest sense of self, love and respect I deserve, the three things a narcissist can never have and hence their shaming and destruction of these qualities in their poor victims.

Apr 18, 202201:22:17

I Don't See Colour - A Trick By White People

My Encouter with a white narcissist. When he proposed 'I don't See Color' to exploit my conditioning as a black person to make bigger room for the white skin on the figurative sidewalk even if it's my space. To treat racism as person-to-person rather than systemic.

Apr 11, 202228:08

Narcissistic Abuse - Outstanding from My Three Year Work Relationship with Yuri Andries

I share the depth of my encounter with a Belgian Photographer. The Emotional, The Psychological and The Sexual Manipulation I endured over the last three years only for the ending to be even more brutal exploitation of black queer art through not just his narcissistic personality disorder but also his racist and capitalist stance which he claims "is the norm" by most photographers he'd spoken to, "you can ask Max Pinckers or Bieke Depoorter," he said. Maybe I should investigate these two others as well.

Apr 04, 202201:27:31

Front Seats Only, Mr. Man

'Balance' is the keyword here whether in commitment to self, a business partner or in marriage/relationship. The role of the masculine and feminine can only be defined through the extension of which energy is dominant and which one is lacking in the self. Once that is discovered, your only role is to choose wisely and let nature run its course. You can be logical or emotional and still be in control and the secret is 'vulnerability'. #gender #masculine #Feminine #wellness #selfmastery #oteanankanduro

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Oct 18, 202109:45

UMASS - Racism. Why you can't be Black and Desperate.

Systemic racism and bigotry of all forms condition black people to feel inferior and thus render us beggars trying to find a place at a table of people who are in fact our equals. An anonymous racist letter from the University of Massachusetts makes me question my own circumstances as a queer black man victimised by my own people in a land I call home here in Africa. #racism #black #africa #lgbtqia #blacklivesmatter #allblacklivesmatter Follow me on Instagram @Oteanankanduro

Oct 04, 202120:43

When Was The Last Time You Cried?

Getting personal about tears and why you too can and should embrace your emotions. Do not be gaslighted about being sensitive and emotional. This is a guide on how to let empathy become your strength even if your Narc believes it's a weakness they can manipulate. #wellness #lgbtqia #world #africa #scorpio Connect with me on instagram @Oteanankanduro

Sep 27, 202110:15

Too Sexual because we are Gay?

The question about who is destroying the moral fabric of society. The LGBTQIA+ will always take the blame and this is why. Listen and connect with me on Instagram @Oteanankanduro #ghana #africa #killthebill #lgbtqia

Sep 20, 202115:56

S02E02 - Dry Humping/Stroke Game Festival of Ghana

Folsom Street in Ghana but for straight people; boring as **** and without the kinky stuff. Grazing the surface of Ghana and its media, the hypocrisy and double standards that marginalize the queer, effeminate and all the different people under the rainbow umbrella. Connect with me on Instagram, lets get personal. If you're interested in Tarot readings, you can also dm. @Oteanankanduro.

Sep 13, 202110:39