Healing Is Sexy

Would you ask these all 3 of these questions on the first date?   SOCIAL CONTACT INFO  IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexy/  TIKTOK: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhVTmcY/  FB: https://www.facebook.com/healingislife/  Private FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/?ref=share  Website: www.healingissexylife.com  Blog: https://dearblackpeople.blog  Email: melwilliams@healingissexylife.com

Living your best life doesn't mean everything is perfect. It will never all be perfect. But you do need to wake up nearly every day EXCITED about living life because you are doing what you love to do!

A Word On Colorism & Fatherhood

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Logic vs. Emotion: Is One Better Than the Other?

Continuation from the Blog: "Have Women Normalized Feeling Unsafe in General & Relationships and what we need to do about it.

Black Fatherhood Reality - We Need More to Embody GOOD Leadership

Sometimes you’re required to become independent in a variety of life situations. But that doesn't mean you have to continue to operate or suffer from the traumatizing experiences that made you self-reliant. 

Here I share some of my experiences.

Make sure you visit this link if you need help healing and experiencing healthier relationships:

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In this episode BLR with H.I.S. "The Big Lie" let's break down what it really means to be an independent woman and experience interdependence. Especially for Black relationships. 

Make sure you visit this link if you need help healing and experiencing healthier relationships:

https://www.healingissexylife.com/#/

The Ask Black Love Panel answers questions about a spouse changing their mind about having kids after an agreement, how a couple should address baby mama drama, and when one should share any intense trauma in a relationship with their partner.  

Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple:  https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/ LEARN THE COUPLES!  

On this episode we have   The Fowlers: The Fowler family resides in Southern California where they enjoy hiking, traveling, trying new restaurants, and creating new memories with family and friends.  Glenn and Cherie have recently started a podcast called “Through the Fire” where they share their love story and discuss some of the unspoken challenges in marriage, that are often left unspoken and unresolved. You can follow them on IG at: @fowlerfamilyvoyage and @throughthefire2010.  

The Mulendas: We are Danny and Briana Mulenda. We reside in Dallas, TX, and enjoy traveling, trying new restaurants, and making memories with each other. We both work in the IT industry and Danny owns a web-developed business called Mulenda Tech.  You can follow us on IG Couples page: @dbmulenda Danny: @danny.thebest01  Briana: @briana.leah_

The Ask Black Love Panel answers questions concerning a wife's concerns of love and attractiveness with her husband after pregnancy, a couple's discussion on finances, and a husband's frustration with his wife's drive for personal growth.  

Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple:  https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/  

LEARN THE COUPLES!  

On this episode we have:   

The Gothies: Chris and Tori Gothie from Charlotte, NC! We enjoy traveling, trying new foods, and spending time together doing any and everything spontaneous. We are currently working on starting a YouTube channel called The Gothie Way. We will be reviewing new and up and coming restaurants in the charlotte area. Our IG is @goodteats.  

The Howards: Greetings,  We are Nicole and Kam Howard. We are an example of love after divorce-this is the second marriage for both of us...Together we have 4 adult children. We live in Maryland, where we love spending time with each other and our family, watching movies, traveling and we like to volunteer giving back to the community by helping those who are less fortunate.  Kam is a school Administrator and Nicole is a Legal Project Specialist.  We also work our Respect My Royalty LLC business together by traveling for speaking engagements, creating the Queen Up! Podcast which is currently on YouTube and iHeart Radio. We also have an interactive relationship page on Facebook called Caramel & Chocolate.  Follow us on: IG:  @ladynicole.1 and @Brooklyn_Kam06

Our society conditions us to always have expectations in our dating interactions, but I want to present (and show) that having expectations are really the death of you experiencing happy and fulfilling relationships.  

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @purplemansionxofficial for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!    

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Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/    

For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/  

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The Ask Black Love Panel answers questions about resentment, defining boundaries when it comes to flirting, and dating outside your normal type.  

Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple:  https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/ 

LEARN THE COUPLES!  On this episode we have   

The Fowlers: The Fowler family resides in Southern California where they enjoy hiking, traveling, trying new restaurants, and creating new memories with family and friends.  Glenn and Cherie have recently started a podcast called “Through the Fire” where they share their love story and discuss some of the unspoken challenges in marriage, that are often left unspoken and unresolved. You can follow them on IG at: @fowlerfamilyvoyage and @throughthefire2010.  

The Mulendas: We are Danny and Briana Mulenda. We reside in Dallas, TX, and enjoy traveling, trying new restaurants, and making memories with each other. We both work in the IT industry and Danny owns a web-developed business called Mulenda Tech.  You can follow us on IG Couples page: @dbmulenda Danny: @danny.thebest01  Briana: @briana.leah_  

The Muganzo Murphys: The Muganzo Murphy family resides in Sacramento, California where they enjoy their fitness activities and traveling adventures. They love spending family time with their teenage daughter and are in full swing with their community organizing efforts and social justice platforms. You can follow them on Instagram at @muganzoentertainment and on Twitter at @jazzie_murphy.

In this video we dive into skill sets needed to experience more success and happiness in relationships, regardless of age.  Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

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Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

The Ask Black Love Panel answers:  

1. If while dating things go south in the relationship, should women wait for the man to get back at her? Or is it okay for her to reach out or would that be seen as chasing?  

2. What's something about Black marriages we don't see or hear often enough that more married couples and even singles should be aware of?  

3. During a heated moment my husband told me his mother would always come before me. Am I wrong to feel some type of way and consider leaving?  

Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple:  https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/  

LEARN THE COUPLES!  On this episode we have   

The Gothies: Chris and Tori Gothie from Charlotte, NC! We enjoy traveling, trying new foods, and spending time together doing any and everything spontaneous. We are currently working on starting a YouTube channel called The Gothie Way. We will be reviewing new and up and coming restaurants in the charlotte area.   

The Howards: Greetings,  We are Nicole and Kam Howard. We are an example of love after divorce-this is the second marriage for both of us...Together we have 4 adult children. We live in Maryland, where we love spending time with each other and our family, watching movies, traveling and we like to volunteer giving back to the community by helping those who are less fortunate.  Kam is a school Administrator and Nicole is a Legal Project Specialist.  We also work our Respect My Royalty LLC business together by traveling for speaking engagements, creating the Queen Up! Podcast which is currently on YouTube and iHeart Radio. We also have an interactive relationship page on Facebook called Caramel & Chocolate.  Follow us on: IG:  @ladynicole.1 and @Brooklyn_Kam06

Leading with your wallet is not the way to go in today's dating society with modern women. That's the old way of doing things. Modern women are looking for more meaningful connections and are capable of showing themselves a good time and maybe even treating men worthy of her time too.  

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/  

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The STANDARD: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/yearbook.html#/ 

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Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

It's easy and even the narrative to point out the angry or strong Black woman with underlying trauma, but the Black traumas our communities have experienced isn't limited to just Black women. We don't hear or talk enough of the constant struggles of Black men and how this impacts their daily lives and relationships with Black women.  At the end of the day more of us, both Black men and women need to tap into more resources, do the work on self, and learn to have better interactions with one another.  

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

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The STANDARD: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/yearbook.html#/ 

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Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com  

Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

In this video we dive into distinguishing between the traditional and modern man and woman in the current dating world.  Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

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Hey guys, this video is to break down how to get to the root of cause when dealing with a woman's emotions. Take leveling up your EQ seriously if you want to be in a serious long-term relationship someday.  

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

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The STANDARD Magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/yearbook.html#/ 

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There are TWO (2) essential skills every woman must learn in order to better understand men and ultimately win his heart. Let's discuss.  Found something insightful? 

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The STANDARD Magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/yearbook.html#/ 

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In this video we dive into the historical root cause of division in our communities.  

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

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Today we see countless video advocating for women to be more feminine and more submissive (whatever that means as it's subjective to each person's interpretation). As always, I'd like to offer a different perspective. There are too many untold stories of happy, successful relationships (even celebrities) of women who aren't so feminine, and are in fact pretty masculine. Can you name a few power couples?  Ladies, don't fall for the hype. Be true to who you are as long as it's healthy. Tune in.  Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ 

Submit photos or be a model for THE STANDARD magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/ 

Connect with me IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ 

Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com  

Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

There is ONE unique gift men can use to attract beautiful women, but it will take a certain level of practice and confidence to become fluent. Here are a few tips to help you improve your interactions with women.  Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/  

Submit photos or be a model for THE STANDARD magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/  

Connect with me IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/ 

FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/  

Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com  

Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

In 2021 we have to evolve and adapt. The dating world and our society has changed SO much in so little time and it's not slowing down or ever going back to the old ways... so men and women have to adapt and get out of our comfort zones in order to be a part of shaping a new norm in which we find happiness together.  Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ 

Submit photos or be a model for THE STANDARD magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/ 

Connect with me IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ 

Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com 

 Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

Are you a natural beauty? Enter my contest and tell me what you LOVE most about your natural hair for a chance to be published as a feature in my magazine!  

Visit this link to enter: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/

Join my 30 day Date Smarter Challenge this July!  

Sign up by visiting this link: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/

Most men make this common mistake often. Here's what not to do and better alternatives to experiencing better connections with women.  Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles (Men & Women) by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

For Black Men, be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ 

Submit photos or be a model for THE STANDARD magazine: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/magazine.html#/ 

IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ 

Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com 

 Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

This video is about why I created BLR. The process of healing is never easy. It involves facing undesirable truths about ourselves and holding ourselves accountable to making progress. This channel isn't all rose petals and glitter. There are some hard conversations we need to have...  Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! 

I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

Be Interviewed on Black Mind: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/black-mind.html#/ 

IG: https://www.instagram.com/2loveablackwoman/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/ 

Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com  

Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman  

 Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com 

 Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman   

Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com  

Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman   

Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com 

 Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

The Ask Black Love Panel answers:  

1. what's the best way to handle when your significant other says something hurtful to you in anger? 

2. how do you deal with finding out something troubling about your spouse once you get married? For example, an insecurity or trauma they have that they may have downplayed in the beginning? 

3. what's the difference between girlfriend and wife responsibilities? what's the difference between boyfriend and husband responsibilities?   

Submit your questions to the panel for a chance to have them answered by visiting this link to learn more about each couple:  https://www.blackloverecovery.com/ask-black-love.html#/ LEARN THE COUPLES!  

On this episode we have   

The Gothies: Chris and Tori Gothie from Charlotte, NC! We enjoy traveling, trying new foods, and spending time together doing any and everything spontaneous. We are currently working on starting a YouTube channel called The Gothie Way. We will be reviewing new and up and coming restaurants in the charlotte area.   

The Howards: Greetings,  We are Nicole and Kam Howard. We are an example of love after divorce-this is the second marriage for both of us...Together we have 4 adult children. We live in Maryland, where we love spending time with each other and our family, watching movies, traveling and we like to volunteer giving back to the community by helping those who are less fortunate.  Kam is a school Administrator and Nicole is a Legal Project Specialist.  We also work our Respect My Royalty LLC business together by traveling for speaking engagements, creating the Queen Up! Podcast which is currently on YouTube and iHeart Radio. We also have an interactive relationship page on Facebook called Caramel & Chocolate.  Follow us on: IG:  @ladynicole.1 and @Brooklyn_Kam06

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman   

Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com 

 Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman   

Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com  

Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman   

Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com  

Website: www.blackloverecovery.com

Found something insightful? Take a screenshot and tag me in your stories on IG @2LoveABlackWoman for a shoutout! I love hearing how something I've said helped you!   

Join my DATE SMARTER 30 day challenge for Black singles by visiting: https://www.blackloverecovery.com/the-date-smarter-challenge.html#/   

Follow Me: @2LoveABlackWoman   

Read my Blog: www.stopdatingblog.com  

Website: www.blackloverecovery.com