Heart to Heart: The Lived Experiences of Two Young Black Women
By Brea Watkins
On this podcast, Brea and Kim discuss the adventures of two black girls navigating the world around them. Join them every Sunday for meaningful musings about college life and current events!
Follow the girls on instagram for more content @heart2heartpodcast
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Heart to Heart: The Lived Experiences of Two Young Black Women May 01, 2022
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38:15
End of the Semester Lessons (Part 1)
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim share some of their most important lessons from their undergraduate experience. With just a few weeks left until graduation, they discuss some of the major challenges they faced and how they overcame them. Additionally, they open up about the truth of finding friends and community. This episode is one for the books. Listen for a great and raw conversation. For more follow Brea and Kim on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
May 01, 202238:15
The Price of Pressure: How Grief, Talent & Expectations Push You Forward
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim use some of our favorite and most well known Black celebrities as lessons of “the price of pressure.” The girls talks about how unhealthy some of our biggest motivations can be, and what determines whether you crumble under pressure or become great. How have grief, poverty, and sheer talent been motivating factors for celebrities and in each of our own lives? Listen for a great and raw conversation. For more follow Brea and Kim on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
Apr 03, 202239:45
The Male Gaze: How Women Have Become Each Other’s Worst Critics
In todays episode, Brea and Kim get into the male gaze and the effect is has on women who are just trying to live authentically. In addition, the girls talk about how the prison of the male gaze has made women some of the most strict police in the system, keeping others down by judging and hating. In a world where everything is judged, how can we overcome systemic sexism and reclaim our individuality and power as women? To engage the conversation, follow the girls @hearttoheartpodcast on Instagram. Links to sources from episode: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-male-gaze-5118422 & https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_gaze
Mar 29, 202233:25
Where We’ve Been, Growing Pains + Post-Grad Plans
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim make a return to the podcast with updates about their life, lessons they’ve learned over the past few months, and their post grad plans. They discuss the importance of dealing with growing pains and how they’re managing the final few months of their Ivy League experience. They also provide uplifting advice and support for anyone feeling particularly burnt out or uncertain right now.
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Follow the girls on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
Mar 20, 202233:56
Chicken Noodle Soup for the Graduating Black Woman ft. Annie Blay
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim sit down and chat with Annie Blay, Associate Beauty Editor of The Zoe Report. They discuss Annie’s journey into the beauty journalism and her past experiences working with Bustle, Elle, and other publications. Annie also shares how she navigates post grad life and all the difficulties that come with that increased independency. You won’t want to miss this raw and real interview.
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Follow the girls on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
Dec 05, 202138:17
What We’ve Learned: Our Takeaways from (literal) Trials + Tribulations
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim discuss some trials and tribulations; trials, meaning the most recent depressing verdict our society has witnessed, and tribulations, meaning the painful experiences the girls have had in their interpersonal relationships. This is one of the girls’ most open and honest conversations on white supremacy and setting boundaries. Take what you need from this episode and send it to someone who needs to hear it.
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For more, follow the girls on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
Nov 21, 202135:28
Navigating YouTube Fame, Identity, and Self-Love: A Conversation with Kaiti Yoo
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim have Kaiti Yoo, a successful YouTube content creator and Ivy League student, on to discuss how Kaiti navigates having a large internet presence. Kaiti shares her rise to fame and how she manages to hold space for herself even when sharing her life so publicly. Brea and Kim also ask Kaiti about how her identity as a Korean American woman impacts the work she does. This honest and fun conversation is not one you’ll want to miss.
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Follow the girls on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
Subscribe to Kaiti on YouTube (Kaiti Yoo) and follow her on Instagram (@kayteeyou)
Follow the girls on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
Nov 14, 202132:50
Fleeting Body Standards: Analyzing the BBL Epidemic
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim discuss the dangers and consequences of the BBL epidemic. Specifically, they share how this trend has impacted Black and Brown women.
Further, Brea and Kim talk about the economic forces driving the spike in BBL procedures and who is profiting off of this dangerous operation.
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Further, Brea and Kim talk about the economic forces driving the spike in BBL procedures and who is profiting off of this dangerous operation.
Follow the girls on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
Oct 31, 202128:10
why does trauma make us feel so dirty??
At the suggestion of one of Brea’s best friends, Chandani, Brea and Kim try and get to the root of the guilt and negative feelings associated with trauma. Why do we feel weird when we are the victims of loss, racism or stereotypes? Join the girls as they have a real heart to heart about how they are working through some difficult things in their lives. For more content, make sure to follow on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast Business inquiries, please email hearttoheartpod@gmail.com
Oct 24, 202127:15
To Be Black Female Athletes in the Ivy League ft Arielle Desir and Sydney Scott
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim have Arielle Desir and Sydney Scott on the podcast to discuss their experiences as Black female athletes in the Ivy League. They share stories about how they manage their mental health and how their athletic experience has changed from high school until now. Additionally, they share their honest opinions about being athletes at Brown and how they have managed that experience. You do not want to miss this episode.
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Follow the girls on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
Oct 17, 202137:27
Capitalism Does Not Want You to Choose Yourself: Learning from Simone Biles
In today’s episode, Kim and Brea discuss the perils of pushing yourself too far and how celebrity athletes such as Simone Biles and Naomi Osaka are paving the way for Black women to reclaim their time. The girls discuss how rest is radical under capitalism and how they are implementing that idea in their own lives. Follow the girls on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast
Oct 03, 202126:03
Standing On Your Own Two Feet: Learning How to Be Alone
In today’s episode, join Brea and Kim as they discuss their experiences with learning how to be independent in college. They discuss the importance of learning to love your alone time and the dangers of feeling that you always have to be with others to be happy. In this open and honest conversation, they share deep and heartfelt stories about their journey to self love and self-reliance. For more content and updates, follow the girls @heart2heartpodcast on instagram. --- Support this podcast: anchor.fm/hearttoheartpod/support
Sep 12, 202122:40
Digital Blackface and Hoodfishing; How Blackness has Become Internet Currency
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim dive deep into how Blackness has become inextricably linked with popular culture, and how this accessibility is modern day minstrelsy. Tune in to hear the girls’ thoughts on widespread use of AAVE and the eagerness of many Black Internet users to invite non-Black people to the “cook out.” For more content, follow the girls on Instagram at @heart2heartpodcast
Sep 05, 202129:15
Celebrities Are Integral to Maintaining White Supremacy
In today’s episode, join Brea and Kim as they talk about the role celebrities play in maintaining white supremacy and capitalism. They discuss some of the most famous celebrities like Rihanna, Beyoncé and Kim Kardashian and how they all contribute to this issue. Also, they discuss whether celebrities that are viewed as humanitarians are truly doing transformative work. For more content and updates, follow the girls @heart2heartpodcast on instagram. --- Support this podcast: anchor.fm/hearttoheartpod/support
Aug 29, 202135:02
life updates + our COVID confessions
Welcome back listeners! Brea and Kim are so happy to be back for the fourth season of Heart to Heart Podcast. In today’s episode, join the girls as they talk about the future in a world with so much uncertainty. As both girls are entering their senior years at Ivy League colleges, they discuss the existential crises, fears and hypocrisy that come with being a young person during a pandemic.
For more content and updates, follow the girls @heart2heartpodcast on instagram.
For more content and updates, follow the girls @heart2heartpodcast on instagram.
Aug 22, 202136:50
Grief, Healing and Community: Commemorating the Life of Samuel C. Watkins (Brea’s Father)
In today's episode, Brea and Kim reflect and commemorate the life of Brea’s father, Samuel C. Watkins. They speak about his humble upbringings, profound impact on the Black community , and the ways he has personally changed their lives. They discuss the non-linear journey of healing and the importance of a strong community during this time. Through tears and laughter, Brea and Kim celebrate and memorialize an incomparable leader and father.
Thank you to all who have extended patience and support these past few months. Your love and care will never be forgotten.
Thank you to all who have extended patience and support these past few months. Your love and care will never be forgotten.
Jun 20, 202133:51
a conversation about Misogynoir in Rap with Taylor Miree
In today's episode, Brea and Kim are joined by YouTuber Taylor Miree, aka Most of Miree. The girls have a great conversation about the current state of rap and all of its double standards for female and male rappers. They talk about how rap influences sexuality and whether or not the images we see are sexual liberation or catering to an oppressive male gaze. Here is a link to more literature on Misogynoir in Rap, www.amazon.com/Black-Noise-Culture-Contemporary-America/dp/0819562750
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follow Brea and Kim on ig @heart2heartpodcast and on twitter @heart2heartpod1 and follow Taylor on YouTube @Most Of Miree and on ig @TaylorMiree
Mar 28, 202140:51
overcoming imposter syndrome + other obstacles at Wharton ft. Chandani Battle
In today's episode, Brea and Kim are joined by Chandani Battle, a junior at Penn's Wharton School. Chandani dives deep into her journey as she describes her experiences as a first generation student dealing with imposter syndrome and adapting a new culture and environment. She talks about grappling with her identity as a Black and Indian American and what it means to succeed.
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follow us on @heart2heartpodcast on ig and @heart2heartpod1 on twitter
Mar 21, 202121:35
Black Boy Out of Time: A Conversation with Hari Ziyad
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim sit down with author Hari Ziyad to discuss their memoir, Black Boy Out of Time. In this book, Ziyad explores the primary question: “who can really protect Black children in an anti-Black world?” Brea and Kim ask Ziyad about their motivations for writing the book and explore how policing and other carceral logics have been harmful to Black children, particularly Black queer youth. You don’t want to miss this episode!
Be sure to pick up a copy of Black Boy Out of Time today.
Be sure to pick up a copy of Black Boy Out of Time today.
Mar 14, 202140:41
P*dophilia & Race: a conversation about what’s happening to Black girls
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim discuss the normalization of pedophilia and how it specifically affects Black girls. They discuss shocking data and stories that show how severely Black girls are harmed by pedophilia and what this means for the future. Additionally, the girls engage in conversation about the “double bind” Black women and girls face.
Be sure to follow the girls on ig @heart2heartpod and on twitter @heart2heartpod1
Be sure to follow the girls on ig @heart2heartpod and on twitter @heart2heartpod1
Mar 07, 202129:19
how pedophilia has infiltrated our beauty standards
TRIGGER WARNING: this episode talks about themes of pedophilia and sexual assault.
in today's episode, Brea and Kim are back with their second episode of their miniseries on sexual liberation. the girls discuss how beauty standards are shaped by a pressure to be youthful, and there has been a normalization of relationships between older men and younger women. can sexual liberation truly exist if women are stifled by these predatory standards?
follow on ig: @heart2heartpodcast
and twitter: @heart2heartpod1 to join the conversation!
in today's episode, Brea and Kim are back with their second episode of their miniseries on sexual liberation. the girls discuss how beauty standards are shaped by a pressure to be youthful, and there has been a normalization of relationships between older men and younger women. can sexual liberation truly exist if women are stifled by these predatory standards?
follow on ig: @heart2heartpodcast
and twitter: @heart2heartpod1 to join the conversation!
Feb 28, 202123:04
does sexual liberation exist for Black women?
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim begin the first episode in their short series about Black womanhood. They explore the question, “does sexual liberation exist for Black women?” They share recent events of famous Black celebrities, such as Chloe Bailey, experiencing backlash and ridicule. Additionally, they discuss the limitations Black women face in their attempts to achieve sexual liberation.
Be sure to follow the girls on ig @heart2heartpod and on twitter @heart2heartpod1
Be sure to follow the girls on ig @heart2heartpod and on twitter @heart2heartpod1
Feb 21, 202128:35
unpacking the “good guy” narrative
welcome back to another season of heart to heart podcast! brea and kim dive right into a topic that's been on their minds for a while. in this valentine's day season premiere, brea and kim talk about what it actually takes to be a good guy who protects black women, and how many men who claim to support black women fall abysmally short. tune in weekly for more episodes just like this.
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follow the girls on ig @heart2heartpod and on twitter @heart2heartpod1
Feb 14, 202127:30
Season 2 Finale: Our Reflections
On today’s episode, Brea and Kim wrap up season 2 of the podcast. The girls discuss their thoughts on last week’s interview with Katy Bellote, dive into their reflections on this season’s theme of voting and politics, and share what is coming next season. Thank you for listening and supporting the girls. Follow the girls on ig @ heart2heartpodcast. For any inquiries, email hearttoheartpod@gmail.com
Dec 13, 202026:46
How Do We Hold Influencers Accountable? (A Conversation with Katy Bellote)
In this episode, Brea and Kim have an informative conversation with YouTuber, social media influencer and graphic designer, Katy Bellote. Brea and Kim ask important questions pertaining to social responsibility and using large social media followings for the greater good. Katy also speaks on her own experiences with being held accountable as an influencer, particularly during the COVID-19 pandemic.
Dec 06, 202034:06
why Brea won’t visit Kim at Brown again (story time) + exciting announcement
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim tell the tale of Brea’s crazy visit to Brown last year, in which they had a bizarre encounter with a group of rowdy (and racist) guys. Stick around for the announcement about a very special guest for next weeks episode! Follow the girls on ig @heart2heartpodcast. For any inquiries shoot an email to hearttoheartpod@gmail.com
Nov 22, 202019:08
what does this election mean for our future?
In this episode, Kim and Brea dissect the results of the 2020 presidential election. They ask each other about what a Biden win actually means for our country, especially when this election was so close. They also talk about VP elect Kamala Harris and the topic of representation. Follow the girls on ig @heart2heartpodcast. For any inquiries, email hearttoheartpod@gmail.com. Thanks for listening!
Nov 15, 202025:52
what role do colleges and universities play in politics and the election?
In today’s episode, Kim and Brea discuss how their universities have responded to pressing social and political issues. The girls spotlight the recent killing of Walter Wallace in Philadelphia and the role their universities play in other local politics. The girls discuss the stakes colleges and universities have in the upcoming election and what this may mean for the future. Follow the girls on ig@heart2heartpodcast and email them with any questions or business inquiries at hearttoheartpod@gmail.com
Nov 01, 202035:53
are radical politics mainstream or are we just in a Gen Z Twitter bubble?
In today’s episode, Kim and Brea talk all about social media and it’s impact on electoral politics and our opinions. The girls discuss the pros and cons of the widespread nature of social media and it’s ability to disperse information. Is it good? Is it useful? Are the things we talk about on Twitter real or are we all just in a bubble? Thank you for listening! Follow the girls on ig @heart2heartpodcast and shoot them an email with any questions of concerns or business inquiries at hearttoheartpod@gmail.com
Oct 25, 202034:42
is the decentralization of the Black Lives Matter Movement working?
In today’s episode Kim and Brea dive into the decentralized power structure of BLM. They discuss its pros and cons and whether or not we need an MLK of our generation. Enjoy the episode and follow the girls on instagram @ heart2heartpodcast. Shoot them an email with any inquiries at hearttoheartpod@gmail.com
Oct 18, 202039:15
why is there so much conflict surrounding voting?
welcome back everyone! thank you for tuning in! in this episode Brea and Kim kick off season two with a very spicy episode. the girls ask big questions; is biden the lesser of two evils? why are black voters charged with the burden of showing up to the polls? do our votes actually matter? these are just some of questions the girls tackle in the episode. thank you for listening and join in the conversation on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast. shoot an email at hearttoheartpod@gmail.com with any questions or business inquiries.
Oct 11, 202028:07
season finale: reflections on season one
In the season finale, Brea and Kim have a heartfelt “see you later.” They wrap up season one with their reflections and talk all about what’s to come in season two. The girls want to thank you from the bottom of their hearts for the continued support and cannot wait to produce more content. During the hiatus, please follow heart2heartpodcast on Instagram for updates and content. With love, Brea and Kim 🤍
Sep 13, 202029:24
how we prioritize black joy + self care & podcast updates!
In this episode, Brea and Kim talk about how important it is to see images of black joy, and create them in their own lives. They each give their top 3 things that help keep them sane in this crazy world. They also talk about the future of the podcast and discuss some exciting upcoming changes! Follow on instagram@ heart2heartpodcast for more updates and content.
Sep 06, 202028:43
the untold truth abt college: making the most out of the college experience
In this episode, Brea and Kim conclude their mini series on their college experiences. They talk about choosing their majors and taking advantage of various opportunities available at their schools. The girls discuss their journey of feeling comfortable at these institutions and walking in their paths. Enjoy the episode! Follow us on ig @ heart2heartpodcast.
Aug 30, 202032:59
the untold truth about college ep 2: the highs and lows of our freshman year
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim dive into their freshman year! They reveal the highs and lows of their freshman year interpersonal relationships and the experience of being black women at PWIs. Subscribe and Follow the podcast so you don’t miss the next and final episode of the series. Follow us on ig @heart2heartpodcast
Aug 23, 202027:30
the untold truth abt college ep 1: our application process + backlash we faced
In this episode, Brea and Kim kickoff their college mini series, where they are bringing you the truth about what it was like applying to college and dealing with negative reactions from their peers. They provide personal anecdotes about the hurdles they had to overcome as young black women and how it felt to be doubted. Enjoy the episode and stay tuned for episode 2! Follow us on ig @heart2heartpodcast for updates and more content.
Aug 16, 202033:19
a deep dive into colorism on campus + beyond
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim and are back with a second episode on colorism. This time, they discuss more personal experiences with colorism on campus, including the role black men play in perpetuating colorism. They also have a very special woman of the week. Follow the pod on ig @ heart2heartpodcast. Thank you for listening!
Aug 09, 202034:38
colorism: a real + necessary chat ft. Zoe Jimenez
In this episode Brea and Kim are joined by their close friend Zoe (follow her on ig @zoemjimenez !!). Zoe adds a valuable perspective to the conversation as someone who benefits from colorism. The girls explore various experiences with colorism at school and in general. Links: www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/apr/09/colorism-racism-why-black-people-discriminate-among-ourselves www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5464745/ journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/2332649218793670 insight.kellogg.northwestern.edu/article/how-are-black-white-biracial-people-are-perceived-in-terms-of-race m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_58d08c7fe4b0e0d348b34742
Jul 26, 202031:33
calling all influencers and celebs: get right, or get LEFT
In this episode, Brea and Kim have a passionate discussion about accountability v. cancel culture. They charge their favorite influencers and celebrities with a call to action to be open to learn and take accountability for their actions. This episode is not an attack on anyone, but rather a necessary discussion laying out things Brea and Kim take issue with as viewers and followers of many people. Continue the discussion on the official Instagram @heart2heartpodcast and share your thoughts!
Jul 19, 202035:42
a tale of two summers: how privilege affects your quarantine
In this episode, Brea and Kim have a laidback conversation about the pressure they feel to do something “resume worthy” each summer. They also discuss the vast difference in how many are spending their time in quarantine, hence the idea of the tale of two summers. links: refinery29 quote: www.refinery29.com/en-us/2020/05/9841376/black-trauma-george-floyd-dear-white-people coronavirus racial data: www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2020/05/30/865413079/what-do-coronavirus-racial-disparities-look-like-state-by-state
Jul 12, 202029:05
why aren’t black women included in your feminism?
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim talk about the importance of intersectional feminism and share raw stories of feeling left out from white spaces. Petitions: change.org/p/the-people-free-chrystul-kizer & change.org/p/drop-all-charges-against-incarcerated-trafficking-survivor-chrystul-kizer
Jul 05, 202026:02
dealing with expectation, insecurity, and comparison as black girls
In today’s episode, Brea and Kim explore three stories that portray the unwanted expectations placed on them as black girls. They discuss how people’s comments and projections have made them feel, as well as how they’ve overcome these expectations. Enjoy the episode and don’t forget to rate and subscribe to the podcast for more! Feel free to follow the girls on Instagram @heart2heartpodcast.
Jun 27, 202029:36
welcome to the podcast! + how to talk to your black friends abt BLM
Welcome to our first episode! In this episode Kim and Brea introduce themselves and tell you what to expect from future Heart to Hearts. They also have a candid conversation about how it feels having friends reach out to talk to talk to them about Black Lives Matter. Enjoy the pod! Feel free to review and share!
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please check out the resources below to support the families of the women of the week we discussed and bring justice.
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Breonna Taylor
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Jun 20, 202028:58