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The Submissive Next Door feat. Dr. K, Sex & Kink Educator

The Submissive Next Door feat. Dr. K, Sex & Kink Educator

By Dr. K. - The Submissive Next Door
Well hello there, kinksters! This podcast, brought to you by Dr. K, Holistic Sexuality Educator, fitness trainer, model, and promoter of erotic intelligence, is an honest and down to Earth deep dive into the world of Sex, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle. Dr. K. is a 24/7 submissive, performer, erotica author, sexuality researcher and scholar.

Topics will range from sex education, non-monogamy, kink, BDSM, fetishes, sex toys, experiences, OnlyFans, SSC, Shibari, and so much more!

Check out all of Dr. K's exclusive links: beacons.page/kipani
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Episode 11 - Get Kinky with Dr. K! - Porn, Masturbation, and Looking at Mutual fun in a whole new way!
Hey there, Kinksters! In this episode, I discuss looking at porn and masturbation with a new perspective as a way to enhance your sex life with your partner rather than harm it. I discuss statistics, how porn and masturbation have been a part of our human existence since ancient times, and why it's a healthy, normal exercise! Plus, I share ways to talk with your partner about ethical porn and mutual masturbation as a tool to increase intimacy. Is it hot in here, or is it just me? ;)
27:26
February 03, 2021
Episode 10 - Get Erotic! Kink Ed with Dr. K - Get that fire burning! Activities and tips for erotic play you can use with yourself or your partner(s)!
In this episode, I talk to you about simple ways to help ignite that sexual spark, even when you are alone or living through this pandemic with your significant others (s). These are great methods for riding the time between daily life and when you can have your next play session. These can help increase erotic pleasure for both yourself and your partner! NOTE: THIS IS AN 18+ ONLY EPISODE Click here for all the ways to connect!
25:06
January 31, 2021
Episode 9: OMG SO MANY ANNOUNCEMENTS! Updates on Kinktok, Sex Ed, and getting to know Dr. K, plus so much more!
In this episode, please forgive the ramble! Its been quite a roller coaster and I have a LOT to share with you all! From tiktok update with Kinktok, sexual education, kink education, and so much more! I also VLog about some of my past, how I got into Holistic Sexual Educaiton, and what all is to come this week! Grab a drink and chat with me, won't you?   NOTE: THIS IS AN 18+ ONLY EPISODE
37:33
January 30, 2021
Episode 8: Social Media Updates and an Original Bedtime Erotica
Welcome friends! This is a very special episode and one in which we will get very intimate. I'll give you an update as to where I've been, what I'm up to, how I am dealing with the new changes in service and guidelines, and you get a taste of my new segment "The Librarian's Corner" where I'll be reading both my own original and published erotica, and the steamiest sections from my favorite books and smutty anthologies. In this episode, I'll be reading Chapter 1 of my work-in-progress novel "Blood Lust."  *This is for 18+ only and contains fictional situations and characters.  For more taboo/kink original erotica, please check out my Patreon! For everything else, you can check all my links here ;)
40:24
December 23, 2020
Episode 7: No Nuance November - Busting Some D/s Myths - Limitless, No Safe Words and Twueism
In this episode, we talk about No Nuance November and bust some dangerous BDSM and Kink myths recently circulating among the many platforms. I also talk about the idea of Twueism (I highly recommend checking out one of my personal favorite sexuality educators, the phenomenal Sunny Megatron for her insights on Twueism) and why we are all entitled to developing our sexuality and kink identity in the way that best suits each of us.  We have a lot to unpack here! Put the kids to bed and kick back with The Submissive Next Door! TSND's Book Review and Musings on The Ethical Slut Be sure to check out all my links
30:29
November 27, 2020
Episode 6: Tips to Start a 24/7 Dynamic + Youtube Announcement
Good evening, lovelies! In this episode, we are talking about the key elements to building a 24/7 dynamic. It isn't a secret that stating out in BDSM can seem a little daunting, and for some, the idea of doing it 24/7 sounds like all pain, all the time. This simply is a massive myth that is about to get seriously squashed. I go into deep detail about what D/s has brought to my Dom and I, and how we continue to keep it progressing year after year. I also announce the highly requested Youtube channel!  Listener support is always welcome!  Check out the YouTube! 
30:52
November 09, 2020
Episode 5: Keeping a D/s relationship while managing parenthood
Let's get real. Just because we are parents doesn't mean we have lost our kinky side. It just means we have to play it safe and with much more consideration to how we display our submission or dominance to our partner and still maintain a strong bond and an amazing parent. In this episode, The Queen gets real about how her and Big Daddy keep the D/s side alive 24/7, even through parenthood ups and downs.  Don't forget to check out all my links!
22:02
October 16, 2020
Episode 4: The purging of Kinktok on TikTok
What is happening on Tiktok to the kink community? Let's take a deep dive and discuss... I share my experience with getting my 60k + following account banned and how I've bounced back, and discuss the recent announcement of the banning of the download and updates of the TikTok App. Also, I share information on the International Kink Symposium and tickets I won to an only erotic edge play class :) Let's get Kinky!
28:11
September 18, 2020
Episode 3: My Submissive Journey and Learning about Variety
Hey there, kinksters! In this podcast, I share my journey as a submissive, the different subsets I identify with and why, and the importance of exploration in your individual journey in BDSM. Grab a drink and kick back! I take a deep dive into pet space, little space, sub space, and more!
31:52
August 15, 2020
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00:53
August 10, 2020
Episode 2: Intro to 24/7 Dom/sub Life
In this episode, the Queen dives into the topic of 24/7 submssion, the evolution of D/s dynamic, our experience with the pitfalls of "Lifestyle Frenzy," the importance of open, honest communication, and what a "Power Exchange" means to us. Let's get kinky!
20:20
August 10, 2020
Episode 1: The Submissive Nextdoor
This is the basic introduction podcast to give you an idea of what's in store, who we are, and what this podcast hopes to be to the kink and BDSM community. 
17:04
August 10, 2020