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I Am Sexy.

I Am Sexy.

By Riana

Ri is a self-worth and identity mentor who is passionate about helping women discover their true worth and be empowered to embrace their sexy! Ri and her guests connect the dots between self-worth and sexy in their conversations about sex, trauma, relationships, body positivity and everything in between. They go through unchartered waters as they redefine sexy and look at the most common and taboo areas of womanhood, with nothing too much, too deep or too hard to talk about. Each episode aims to educate, encourage and empower women on all journeys to grow, glow and own their sexy!
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Ep. 11 Our Pregnancy Journey

I Am Sexy.Aug 19, 2020

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Ep. 11 Our Pregnancy Journey

Ep. 11 Our Pregnancy Journey

This week I sat down and recorded our journey to falling pregnant. The journey that we are still walking. 

The audio on this ep has been taken straight from the video that I did for IGTV so bear with it if it’s not of amazing quality! 

This would have to be the most vulnerable journey I’ve ever walked and to sit down and share it with you all is a huge milestone. 

My heart in sharing our story, is that if you’re not walking this path now or in the future that you will gain insight into what it is like for someone who may be. And if any part of our story resonates with you, then I share this to tell you that you are not alone. 

The one challenge I give to you today, is this. Not every story is what you think it is. Struggling to fall pregnant doesn’t always mean infertility issues or marriage problems. It doesn’t always mean that you think “I’ll never be a mum”. So please. Take time to hold space for the women in your life and seek to understand what it is that they are going on because every journey is different.


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Have a beautiful week!

Aug 19, 202033:11
Ep. 10 Reality Tv, Divorce & Finding Your True Self with Emma Wynne
Aug 11, 202001:05:41
Ep. 9 Embracing Life After Challenge with Charlotte Squires
Jul 29, 202054:28
Ep.8 Ageing Like a Boss with Tanya Guccione

Ep.8 Ageing Like a Boss with Tanya Guccione

This episode I am joined by Tanya Guccione (@tanyaguccione on Instagram).

Tanya is bright, bubbly and super creative. She’s a makeup artist with a long list of career highlights up her sleeve, a mum to two kids and a wife.

Tan and I connected out of the desire to mix things up a bit and share a perspective on sexy from someone in the generation only a little before mine, being in her late 30’s.

There’s not a lot that we don’t cover in this episode with everything from how she ended up in her career and where it’s taken her to her journey with IVF and becoming a mum. She sheds light on just some of the differences of being a teen without social media and what stigma’s she’s had to find her own way through.

Join the iamsexy community:

- If you enjoyed this episode please click here to leave me a Rating and Review

- Share your takeaways with a screenshot and tag me on Instagram @iamsexytp

- Have you checked out the She Read's, That's Sexy virtual book club? Head to my insta and follow the link in my bio for the lates book updates and how to join!

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Jul 21, 202001:09:41
Ep. 7 - Boundaries

Ep. 7 - Boundaries

Hey sexy! Today I’m diving into my first solo episode where I’m exploring Boundaries. Boundaries are a foreign area for so many people, they definitely were for me prior to 22 years old but they've been a powerful aid in allowing me to feel safe in my relationships and create safe spaces for others.

In this episode I define boundaries and look at what boundaries are and what they are not. I breakdown the 4 types of boundaries and I chat through the 4 stages of implementing boundaries. 

Here is an excerpt from my show prep to help you understand how to be responsible for you, the choices that you make and the emotions that you feel.

When I say be responsible for the emotions that you feel, I don’t mean taking the blame for someone else’s bad behaviour. To explain this a bit more I’m going to talk through two sentences:

Sentence 1 “You always make me feel so angry”

vs.

Sentence 2. “When you say that to me, I feel angry”

Sentence 1 has a couple of key words the relinquish responsibility for our emotions.

“You always make” says I have no control over myself and you are responsible for how I am feeling. When someone says this to us, they are shifting the responsibility of changing their emotions to us. When we say this to someone, we are not taking responsibility for our emotions.

The process of setting boundaries that I refer to in this episode is adapted from coach Jody Moore and her podcast episode on Boundaries. I would encourage you to  listen to her episode here as she answers some great questions that clarify some of the questions that may have.


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Jun 16, 202027:51
Ep. 6 Thriving not Surviving with Grace Packer

Ep. 6 Thriving not Surviving with Grace Packer

This episode I am joined by Grace Packer or better known as @goodnessgracie__ on Instagram.

I came across Grace a couple of months ago and instantly magnetized to her vibrant, bubbly energy and positivity. When you hear her story you will come to see that she is the definition of strength and resilience.

Gracie is a type 1 diabetic, mental health advocate, abuse survivor, biz owner and body positivity influencer. She’s an incredible example of taking the cards we’re dealt and making the absolute most of them. In this episode we chat about what it's like to grow up with emotional abuse, being diagnosed with a chronic illness and learning to love your body when everything is telling you that it's just not worthy.

You can follow Grace on Instagram at @goodnessgracie__  and check out her T1D business @prickinit

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Jun 09, 202051:51
Ep.5 Sex - The 1st Night & Every Night After with Sarah Hunter

Ep.5 Sex - The 1st Night & Every Night After with Sarah Hunter

This episode is with @Herturnontop Ambassador Sarah Hunter. Sarah is a wife, global strengths coach, business owner and absolute ray of sunshine.

Her Turn on Top is an Instagram account focused on educating people when it comes to sex. It’s an incredible platform that helps women understand and navigate the truth about the first night and every night after. So today, we’re chatting about the good, hard and downright hilarious when it comes to sex!

This chat was so rewarding to record because whilst being insightful and educating, it brought out a lot of realness. Both Sarah and myself have had unique journey’s and struggles when it comes to sex but as we chat about in this episode, the things we’ve dealt with are VERY common! We had so much fun making this episode and keeping things 100% real so I hope you learn from us, laugh with us and enjoy it!

Follow Sarah on Instagram at @sarahhunter.co and @herturnontop


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Jun 02, 202001:05:41
Ep4. Living Real with Shani Chantel

Ep4. Living Real with Shani Chantel

Today I’m chatting with the incredible Shani Chantel (@thegirlcode_byshani), the beautiful babe behind the girlcode_byshani on insta.

Shan is an absolute boss babe when it comes to living real! She’s a Mumma, wife and most recently a full-time Instagrammer. Her life mission is to help women transform the way they think about themselves and others by educating and inspiring them to fully step into their deepest, most real, rawest and fully unedited, unapologetic versions of themselves.

She doesn’t just do this by dishing out the tips and tricks – nope, that would be easy. She does this by showing up and being 100% vulnerable. This is one of the things that I just adore about Shan. What you see is what you get, 100% real, raw and authentic. She doesn’t shy away from the good, bad or freaking insanity that is life and owns her story with so much acceptance.

Shani and I chat about everything from the importance of comfy underwear to owning your story and loving your body even when it's not what you or others think it "should" be. This is a chat straight from the heart!

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May 26, 202051:52
Ep3. Everybody Has A Story with Jess Farchione
May 19, 202036:36
Ep2. Learning to Love Well with Jessi Abass
May 12, 202053:40
Ep1. Body Confidence with Brooke Lindsay
May 05, 202041:07
Season 1 - Trailer

Season 1 - Trailer

Welcome to The iamsexy Podcast! 

May 05, 202000:44