If It Isn't Love

By Donisha and J.L.

Donisha Rhnae and J.L. Woodson talk relationship, living and loving as a Millennial couple.

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Episode 215: Holy Moly!

If It Isn't Love Apr 28, 2021

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Episode 412: What's Next for the Woodsons?

In this episode we discuss some of our plans for the remainder of the year!!! Check in and see all the fun stuff we have planned!!!

Apr 20, 202301:05:10

Episode 411: My Body Autonomy Party

Weeee'reeeee back! It's another week in the Woodson household and we're happy to bring you all another episode! On this week's episode we discuss the hullabaloo surrounding the Oscars - from our Auntie Angela Bassett being snubbed to Ciara's on theme after party dress.

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Mar 15, 202356:47

Episode 410: Soulmates to Workmates

On this week's episode of the podcast, Donisha and JL discuss what it's like to become business partners during their first year of marriage. How do they balance work and relationship? Who's really the boss?

Mar 08, 202356:18

Episode 409: Marriage Be Hard - The Conclusion

Welcome to another week of our podcast!!! We are finishing up our reading and review of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks. We definitely recommend this book. Check out this latest episode to get our thoughts on the lessons shared.

Mar 01, 202301:09:35

Episode 408: MBH - Self-Worth Be Hard

On this week's episode - Donisha and JL continue on in the conversation around the book Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks.

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Feb 22, 202301:10:19

Episode 407: MBH - Divorce Be Hard

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL continue on with their conversation around the book Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks.

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Feb 15, 202301:06:13

Episode 406: MBH - Quarantine Be Hard

On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L discuss Chapter 9 of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks.

Quarantine in the time of Covid-19 was a struggle in so many ways, and relationships of all kinds took a hit. Donisha and J.L discuss how quarantine effected their relationship after just 3 months of living together.

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Feb 08, 202301:16:49

Episode 405: MBH - Parenting Be Hard

On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L continue on in their dissection of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks with a conversation around parenting. The book's discussion took a different direction than what Donisha and JL expected, but it did lead to some fun storytelling and conversations on what kind of parent's the couple things they will be.

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Feb 01, 202301:14:01

Episode 404: MBH - Fighting Be Hard

Donisha and J.L continue on their deep dive and review of New York Times Best selling book Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks. This episode gets real REAL as the two look into their own fighting style and decide if they really fight fair.

This full video episode is available on their YouTube channel - @thewoodsonway22

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Jan 25, 202301:44:01

Episode 403: MBH - Fidelity Be Hard

Welcome back to another episode! We are continuing our journey with Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks. In this week's episode we're discussing the issue of fidelity in marriage. Join us in this conversation!

Jan 18, 202301:55:53

Episode 402: MBH - Marital Roles Be Hard

On this week's episode, we resume our conversation around the New York Times Best Selling Book - Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fdricks.

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Jan 11, 202302:12:21

Episode 401: And a Happy Woodson New Year!

Happy New Year Everyone!!!!

The Woodsons are baaaaaack!!!! We're so excited for 2023 as we have some fun new endeavors as individuals and as a married couple! Tune in to see what we have planned in this new year!

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Jan 04, 202301:10:28

Episode 314: MBH - Jealousy Be Hard

On this week's episode - we discuss Chapter 4 of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks! Check out our episode to listen to our thoughts!

Nov 02, 202201:12:02

Episode 313: MBH - Sex Be Hard

In this week's episode, Donisha and J.L continue on their journey with the Marriage Be Hard book with Chapter 3 - Sex Be Hard (badumboom).

Oct 26, 202201:15:07

Episode 312: MBH - Communication Be Hard

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL continue their conversation around the book Marriage Be Hard written by New York Times best selling authors Kevin and Melissa Fredricks. We discuss the importance of effective communication in relationships and what some of our communication struggles are.

Oct 19, 202201:26:37

Episode 311: MBH - Expectations Be Hard

On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L. discuss Chapter 1 (Expectations Be Hard) of the New York Times Bestseller, "Marriage Be Hard: 12 Conversations to Keep You Laughing, Loving, and Learning with Your Partner," by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks.

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Oct 12, 202201:16:12

Episode 310: What is the Going Rate for Coochie?

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss the most recent uproar about a man cancelling his female companion's plane ticket after she didn't agree to sex with him.

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Aug 24, 202201:15:49

Episode 309: Wanna Play a Game?

On this week's episode of the podcast, Donisha and J.L. play a fun game of "Would You Rather?"

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Aug 03, 202201:00:15

Episode 308: "V" is for Vabbing

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL dive deep (pun intended) into some hot topics about vaginas! And whew it's a doozy!

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Jul 27, 202259:16

Episode 307: The Blueprint

A change is gon come! On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss some major career changes and how they are working both together and separately on this new journey.

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Jul 20, 202201:01:27

Episode 306: Black Like We Never Left

We're baaaaaaack....AGAIN! Look y'all, life be life-ing! But so much has happened, including OUR WEDDING! The Woodson's are here officially! Come catch up with us to see how the married life is treating us.

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Jul 15, 202230:29

Episode 305: Urgent Like a Mutha

On this week's episode, we recap our Valentine's Day and JL's 36th birthday celebration! Donisha finally saw the movie Love Jones and we talk about how it holds up in the 2022 of things!

Feb 23, 202255:40

Episode 304: Sorry to That Man

On this week's episode of the podcast, we discuss the newest documentary scandal - The Tinder Swindler.

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Feb 16, 202258:06

Episode 303: Cheating Respectfully?

It's Wednesday so you know what that means - new podcast episode! On this week's episode we discuss cheating. Can you do it respectfully? Is it ever the other person's fault? Lean in, listen and let us know what you think! Be sure to follow us on Instagram and YouTube @IfItIsntLovePodcast

Feb 09, 202255:00

Episode 302: What About Your Friends?

This week's episode is all about friendships and the boundaries within our friendships.

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Feb 02, 202258:37

Episode 301: Do You Want a Resolution?

Happy New Year listeners! It's 2022 and we are taking our time getting into this year so we can do this right! On our first episode of the year, we discuss our new year's resolutions and goals for 2022! What are your goals?

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Jan 26, 202254:54

Episode 227: It's Not Goodbye

On this week's episode, we have a VERY important announcement for all our listeners!

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Sep 22, 202139:04

Episode 226: Breaking the Ice

On this week's episode of the podcast we play a fun round of ice breaker questions. Take a listen to see what we learn about one another.

Sep 08, 202101:03:20

Episode 225: Minding My Black Business

Thanks for being patient with us while we took a few weeks off to handle some business. Speaking of which, on this week's episode we discuss the entrepreneurial journey and the pros and cons versus more traditional employment.

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Sep 01, 202101:03:22

Episode 224: Money Mindset

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss their journey to getting their finances in order as they prepare to enter into marriage. Check out the episode and let us know what you think!

Aug 11, 202101:03:25

Episode 223: Bringing Home the Bacon

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss traditional relationship roles and their place in modern society.

Aug 04, 202157:49

Episode 222: Body-ody-ody-ody Image

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss body issues and how it's showing up in their lives.

Jul 28, 202101:05:18

Episode 221: Karens Gone Wild!

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss the rampant slew of Karen's that have been on the prowl this week!

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Jul 21, 202101:20:09

Episode 220: I Don't Belong Here - Imposter Syndrome

In this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss imposter syndrome and how it has shown up in their lives.

Jul 14, 202101:20:47

Episode 219: Here's the Line - Don't Cross It

This week Donisha and JL discuss setting boundaries and what steps they are taking to have more fulfilled lives.

Jul 07, 202101:16:49

Episode 218: Fiancé

Guess what y'all? WE'RE GETTING MARRIED!!!! In this week's episode we discuss our proposal story and how our engagement is going so far.

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Jun 09, 202101:05:41

Episode 217: Health is Wealth - Part 2

Join Donisha and JL this week as we inadvertently discuss health again. It was supposed to just be an opening topic, but here we are. Check us out! Also don't forget to follow us on social media:

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May 12, 202101:01:36

Episode 216: Health is Wealth

This week, Donisha and JL discuss their new journey in taking better care of themselves.

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May 05, 202158:45

Episode 215: Holy Moly!

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss how religion has influenced their lives and how they plan to incorporate religion in their future.

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Apr 28, 202101:15:54

Episode 214: Well DAMN, That Sucks!

This week Donisha and JL discuss dealing with disappointment. We've all been there, but what do we do when life gives us lemons and we can't seem to find the sugar to make lemonade? Join in on the conversation.

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Apr 21, 202101:06:55

Episode 213: Dating Disaters

On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L talk about dating disasters - clearly before they started dating one another.

Apr 14, 202101:16:38

Episode 212: Great Expectations - Part 2

On this week's episode, Donisha and JL continue their conversation on relationship expectations.

Apr 07, 202101:11:03

Episode 211: Great Expectations - Part 1

This week Donisha and JL discuss what their expectations are in a healthy relationship. The conversation got so good we had to split it into two parts.

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Mar 31, 202101:25:53

Episode 210: If the Monogamy Doesn't Fit; You Must Aquit

This week Donisha and JL completely divert from the intended weekly topic and instead dive into celebrity couple gossip that has been flooding Twitter. Questions discussed:

Is monogamy the way to go?

Do all men cheat?

Would you cheat on your partner if you knew you wouldn't get caught?

Join the discussion! And don't forget to follow us - Facebook and Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast and Twitter @ifitisntlovepo1

Mar 24, 202101:00:20

Episode 209: Diabetes Made Me Do It

This week, Donisha and JL discuss hot topics including cussing out your children, diabetes induced racism and Grammys so Black!

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Mar 17, 202158:56

Episode 208: New Place, Who Dis?

Hey guys! We're finally moved and ready! Check out today's episode where we update you on all of our updates!

Mar 16, 202101:00:22

Episode 207: Better Late Than Never

We missed a week because Texas decided to dress up as the North Pole. Then we moved so we never got around to uploading this episode. But like the title said - better late than never. We'll be back on track next Wednesday. Enjoy!

Mar 04, 202101:09:53