Inspiration By Native Where We Face Our Fears

What is considered right and what is considered wrong in to days society.  Is it a pick and choice society and we will make the rules as we go. What kind of role models are we becoming.

Do you fear your not normal or average by society standards and that your a little weird crazy or out there cause you like to wear or do things that gets you stared at. Well maybe you are in the group of a little weird, crazy, or out there. WHO CARES. You shouldn't worry about it you should be more concerned about being your self cause the normal or the average person you think are that might not be behind closed doors. WHO KNOWS. Don't forget to check out my website IBNmechstoe.com for some cool stuff.  FREE shipping in the US. Sorry I'm still working on shipping for the rest of the world

We all battle with the bad wolf so the good wolf in us can help us to have a life we want and deserve. Don't forget to check out my new website https://ibnmerchstore.com some cool stuff. like Native American and Sugar Skull and off the wall stuff created by me IBN

Offending people now days is easy WHY

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The definition of offend is. To cause a person or a group to feel hurt, angry, or upset. So to stop offending we need to change what ever it is that offends somebody. Like if our house offends somebody we need to change it to what they like right WRONG WRONG or if you are good looking and that offends somebody we need to alter our appearance right WRONG WRONG.

We all need faith in our self. So we can achieve our dreams in life. If you don't have faith in yourself life can be hard. You may fear doing little things in life cause you never tried it before and you don't have faith in yourself to try and every time you don't try it gets easier to not try. You need to remember every time you try to do something new you start to have faith in yourself and your abilities.

Do you fear you will never finding happiness. Well let me ask you do you love being alive. If you do that's happiness right there. Do you love being with family or friends that's happiness right there. There is so many things in our lives we don't realize that brings us true happiness. We may not realize it because it's not what we desire the most. So it may go unnoticed.

This fear can hold you back in life. Instead of putting yourself out there. It's easier to have a Shoulda Coulda Woulda mentality. Than to put yourself out there and maybe have a feeling of being judged or a feeling of disliked or a feeling of awkwardness. Where does a Shoulda Coulda Woulda kind of life get you in life. You need to go for it and see where it gets you In life. You may be surprised.  

We all want to find love and we hope It will be true love. We need to stop and relax and be patient and work on our self's first.

Do you know regret can cause more regret. It can be a vicious cycle in your life. More than anything you wish you could rewind time and have a do over. well sad to say you can't. What you can do is forgive yourself.

We need to start by respecting our self's so we can show respect.  Lack of respect leads to conflict at an individual,family,and societal level.  Really how hard is it to show respect.

How old do you feel and do you look your age. Do you know a lot of people has the fear of old age. Do you know it's a privilege to grow old and it's been denied by many.

We all made a New Years resolution at some point in life.  Now did we finish it or did we say screw it.  (WHY)  I will talk about why we don't.

Be for we start let me ask you a question. Is it going to be a bad year or is it going to be a good year?

Family some times has a tradition that stops  (WHY) like a family get together or a reunion.

We all think about are weight and how we should lose it. Set a small goal like 1 pound a month. 

The fear of social situations is also called social anxiety disorder. You might have it and don't know you have it. It's a common anxiety.

You can make great memories for free. Start today.

We need to do what ever we can to make it a decent holiday despite covid-19.

We all have this fear at some point. We all worry about making the right decision in life. Is it the right one or is it the wrong one. You will never know if you don't make one and who's to say it might be the best one you ever made. You just have to fight the fear to make one.

We all might have this fear but how far will we let it effect us. What will fix it not anger or violence or hate. We need to come together and help each other out.

We all get judged by others and we all so judge but will you let it stop you from doing what you want. I won't. I will tell a story on how I learnt from it.

In this day and age we need more compassion and understanding and kindness. We don't need is judgement unkindness or hatred but that seems like the norm now days.

The fear of being poor is big one we most think about. Some will let this fear rule there life and they won't have time to enjoy it. What we need to realize is life is short with no guarantee on how long we have. I will tell you two story's about people that thought money and possessions was the most important thing in life.

I can't do this right now my dog witch I've had for 15 years and her name is Sophie is passing a way and I need to spend time with her to the end. I hope I can have It on Wednesday at 2am until next time so long.

So many people have this fear. That they will stay in a bad relationship just so they don't lose love. Some have the fear they will not find love again and that is not true. I will tell a story of about finding love again.

Why we shouldn't fear asking for help.  It's a smart thing to do and it makes us human. I will tell you a story of my experience with it.

Change is scary for some people and they don't know how to deal with it. Some can accept and adapt to it better than others. They are willing to change their mindset. So they can make their life easier and happier. I will give an example how a death in the family made it hard for me to accept it first. So I adapt to it first. So in return this helped me to accept better later on in life.

We all fear we don't look good enough in life at some point . I believe Society and even you has programed your mind to believe this lie . Let me tell you there's good news we can reprogram our mindset with just little changes in life .  I will tell you a story about one occasion when i didn't think I looked good enough and how little changes helped me to over come negative thinking.

I talk about how Society try's to change us to their standards of how we should look and many other things in life .Some times we don't think we look good enough . I give little ways you can change your appearance in life .I also tell you a store of my experience with it and how i change the little things that helps me through life . I will have more on this subject next week and a new store.

Have you ever felt like your not good enough in life . well don't feel a lone we all have at some point .You don't have to prove you're worthy to any body .        You should know your worth in life and always believe in yourself and always think i am good enough . If you say your not good enough your just saying I'm scared to death to try . I say GO FOR IT we only live once.            

Today i will talk about the fear of being your self and how we can start being true to our self's . I believe you need 3 things in your life to help you to stay true to your self. 1 we need Honesty 2 loyalty 3 responsibility . I will also tell you a story  of my experience with it at a dance and how a girl changed me. That night I fought for my happiness and started being my self . I Stopped worrying about what people thought of me that night. Next episode I will talk about the fear of not being GOOD ENOUGH. Stay tuned

We talk about love .How can a simple word have so much impact in life .Why is it one of the hardest thing to say to someone .So we will face our fears together. Whether it be the fear of telling someone you love them or the absence of love.