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It's ok to not be ok!

It's ok to not be ok!

By Lutheran Counseling Services

Each year, week, day, and even hour can bring new challenges. Sometimes you might feel like you can’t handle it all or need to cover up your struggles. We are here to have authentic conversations about the daily struggles we experience and to let you know that it’s ok to not be ok. Let’s talk about it!
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03: Work-Life Balance

It's ok to not be ok!Apr 18, 2022

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39: Job (the book in the Bible, not occupation)

39: Job (the book in the Bible, not occupation)

"I know that my redeemer lives." In this episode, we talk through our thoughts on the book of Job. We both really enjoyed this book even though there were things that confused and frustrated us. Job was an authentic believer and there is a lot we can learn from him and his story.

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Feb 20, 202438:34
38: When Christmas doesn't feel like Christmas

38: When Christmas doesn't feel like Christmas

This time of year comes with all the emotions - excitement, stress, joy, anxiety... right now we aren't feeling too Christmasy, and that's ok. This year looks different for everyone, but one thing is always consistent - the reason we celebrate... Jesus' birth.

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Dec 18, 202324:46
37: Chronicles - Nehemiah

37: Chronicles - Nehemiah

While we will not be making it through the Bible in a year, we did make it through some challenging books. As always, we found these books hard to get through but, of course, learned more about our God and in the end, found these books more relatable as we took it all in.


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Dec 11, 202331:36
36: Mud

36: Mud

And we're back! It's been a little while since we've been able to chat. Maybe that's becuase we've been "stuck in the mud". This episode's conversation is about a little TED Talk from Simon Sinek, an author and inspirational speaker. We talk burn out, the importance of having the right people in our lives, and how to do a little self reflection on who you might need to have in the mud with you.

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Nov 13, 202330:60
35: First and Second Kings

35: First and Second Kings

Join us as we chat all things First and Second Kings. Honestly, between summer schedules and the content of these books, we both struggled to get through them. But as always, God spoke to us in different ways and we share our insights from these books in this episode.

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Sep 25, 202340:50
34: Back to School (2023)

34: Back to School (2023)

It's that time again! Last year we were cheersing with Mimosas after our kids went back to school, but this year we are trying to stay afloat. Busy schedules, new routines, new laws, and so much more going into this year. If you're feeling a little chaotic at the start of this new school year, this episode is for you!

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Aug 31, 202332:32
33: 1st & 2nd Samuel

33: 1st & 2nd Samuel

Continuing our chat about our time reading the Bible, this episode focuses on 1st and 2nd Samuel. These books are filled with great men who have significant flaws but God still uses them to accomplish some great things. Many of these men struggle with what voice to listen to... something we find ourselves struggling with, too.

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Aug 04, 202340:12
32: Being a Boy Mama

32: Being a Boy Mama

Both of our firstborns just happen to be boys with June birthdays (when this was supposed to be released - whoops) so we thought it would be fun to chat all things being a boy mama. We talk about the similarities and differences between our two boys, the different phases of life we are experiencing with them and how they affect us as their mom, and what we love about raising boys.

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Jul 10, 202330:60
31: Judges and Ruth

31: Judges and Ruth

Judges and Ruth - two VERY opposite books but both with many lessons to learn. In this episode, we spend some time dissecting our time in these two books focusing a lot on how God uses women in powerful ways in these books. Judges is a hard pill to swallow but there are a lot of lessons to learn from it and Ruth tells a beautiful story of love and dedication.

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Jun 12, 202338:50
30: It's Gonna be May

30: It's Gonna be May

Why does it seem like the month of May is stressful? Everything just seems to pile up, and then we add in some unnecessary "mom guilt, " and the month just seems to become a mess. In this episode, we chat about the stresses we have experienced this May, Mother's Day, mom guilt, and more. Not sure there is really a resolution to it all but we are here to relate with you and let you know you aren't alone if May is overwhelming to you too


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May 30, 202332:28
29: Deuteronomy and Joshua

29: Deuteronomy and Joshua

Dissecting Deuteronomy and Joshua in this episode. Sharing what we learned, what confuses us, and what we find relatable. While the stories from the Old Testament seem so old, the more consistently we are in the Word, we are finding it relatable and are seeing God at work in the lives of the Isrealites.


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May 16, 202335:54
28: Mental Health Awareness Month
May 01, 202334:44
27: Devo Talk: Numbers

27: Devo Talk: Numbers

“The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.” Numbers 6:24-26

The book of Numbers is chalked full of well, numbers, and a lot of laws. But it is also full of grace filled messages like this blessings. It can be easy to get caught up in all the law and death and almost harshness of God in this book but there is also a lot of love, grace and preparation for what the future holds for the Isrealites. Join in on the conversation as we continue to chat about our thoughts on our journey through Scipture focusing on the book of Numbers in this episode.


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Apr 19, 202336:06
26: Contentment

26: Contentment

How do you feel about contentment? Are you content with life or is that something that you struggle with? Today, we are chatting all things contentment - where we are struggling, why it might be difficult to find in our lives, and finding true contentment in God.


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Apr 03, 202325:02
25: Devo Talk: Genesis- Numbers
Mar 20, 202332:12
24: Social Work and Mental Health

24: Social Work and Mental Health

It is March which mean is it Social Worker Month (woo!).  Fellow Licensed Clinical Social Worker and LCS' Community Service Coordinator, Brandi Wadley, sits down with Megan and Laura for a panel discussion all about social work and mental health.  You'll learn more about what social work is, what social workers do and how they are breaking barriers in today's culture.  We end the discussion with some "Mental Health 101" talking about what mental health is, the stigma around it/ how to improve it and how to help yourself or those in your life who might be battling a mental health issue. 

This podcast is brought to you by Lutheran Counseling Services in Winter Park, FL. 

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Mar 06, 202333:02
23: Starting a Devotion Routine

23: Starting a Devotion Routine

Five years ago we sat at a Chilis and shared that we wanted something to change in our devotional life.  Over some margaritas and chips & salsa, we came up with a plan to hold each other accountable.  In this episode we talk about our process, how we hold each other accountable, books we've read, challenges we've seen but the abundance of blessings that have come from it.  

Resources/ books to give you a start in your devotional life:

- Bible App - can find many devotions in this app along with the Bible, of course. It can also read to you so you can listen in your car or while on the go. 

- "Whispers of Hope" by Beth Moore

- "Find Rest" by Shaunti Feldhahn

- "100 Days of Joy and Strength" - Candace Cameron Bure

- "100 Days to Brave" - Annie F Downs

- "The Message// Remix: Solo" - Eugene H Peterson

- "Daily Grace: The Mockingbird Devotional Vol 2"

- "Fighting Words" - Ellie Holcomb

- "Awaken" - Priscilla Shirer


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Feb 20, 202332:02
22: Change

22: Change

We are back.  It's been awhile since we've put out an episode due to a lot of changes in both of our lives, so we thought that we would spend some time talking about just that.... change.  Sometimes change is good, sometimes it is hard, sometimes it takes awhile for it to make a positive impact in our lives.  In this episode we talk about how change has impacted the past couple months and reassure our dedicated listeners that it's ok to not be ok when it comes to change. 

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Feb 06, 202330:05
21: Mary's Birth Story

21: Mary's Birth Story

The whole birth of Jesus takes up about five whole sentences in each Gospel.  Leave it to two chatty and inquisitive women and moms to analyze everything that led up to Jesus' birth and the events after.  We are so thankful for the gift that Mary brought into the world on Christmas Day with quiet humility. 

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Dec 26, 202238:06
20: Christmas Traditions

20: Christmas Traditions

It's all things Christmas on this episode. Real or artificial tree... Santa or no Santa... presents on Christmas Eve or Christmas Morning... whatever your traditions are, they most likely have some meaning to you.  Megan and Laura spend some time chatting about the traditions they grew up with and new ones they are incorporating with their own families.  Merry Christmas! 

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Dec 12, 202239:44
19: Caregiving

19: Caregiving

November is Caregiver month so LCS has been focusing on this topic throughout the month.  In this episode, Megan and Laura spend some time talking about the significance of caregivers along with the difficulties that come with the role.  If you are a caregiver, know that you are appreciated for the work you are doing and it is ok to take some time for yourself! 

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Nov 29, 202231:25
Bonus Episode: Happy Thanksgiving

Bonus Episode: Happy Thanksgiving

Life is busy and sometimes we have to be intentional about slowing down and thanking God for what we have. That is exactly what Megan and Laura do in this quick bonus episode.  Hopefully it will spark some things you are grateful for! Happy Thanksgiving! 

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Nov 24, 202217:50
18: Holiday Stress

18: Holiday Stress

It’s the most wonderful time of the year.  This time of the year can bring about so much joy but also a lot of stress, anxiety and busy schedules.  Megan and Laura chat about the difficulties they have during this time of the year and some ways to slow down and make the holiday season more enjoyable.


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Nov 14, 202234:29
17: Halloween

17: Halloween

Happy Halloween! It's one of Megan's favorite days so only fitting that we do a podcast talking all things Halloween - costumes, parties, decorations, history and more. A lot of classic "Megan and Laura Chit Chat" with a little but of serious. Check out our instagram for more pictures of Halloween past. 

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Oct 31, 202230:38
16: Grief (Part 2 - Kids)

16: Grief (Part 2 - Kids)

Taking another episode to normalize and chat about grief.  This episode focuses more on how children deal with the feelings grief and how trusted adults in their lives can help them throughout the process. 

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Oct 20, 202236:52
Bonus Episode: Hurricane Ian Update

Bonus Episode: Hurricane Ian Update

Florida just got rocked by Hurricane Ian.  Going through a hurricane is a crazy emotional experience.  Join Megan and Laura as they talk about their experiences with the hurricane and what life looks like around Central Florida post hurricane. 

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Oct 05, 202227:18
15: Grief (Part 1)

15: Grief (Part 1)

Megan and Laura talking about the October Focus of the Month at Lutheran Counseling Services - Grief.  It is something we all experience in different ways - on a big and small scale.  Grief is not something that comes and goes in a certain amount of time; each person experiences grief in their own way.  Join in on the conversation on normalizing grief and mental health. 

Thank you to Tanner Olson from Written to Speak for sharing his words at the beginning of this episode.  Tanner is an author, speaker and poet who travels sharing messages of hope.  Learn more - writtentospeak.com. 

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Oct 03, 202239:36
14: Being Single in the Church

14: Being Single in the Church

Our first episode with a guest! On this episode, Megan and Laura have authentic conversation with their friend, Katie, about life as a single person in the church.  Katie opens up about the various seasons she experiences being single but also the opportunities that it presents. 


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Sep 19, 202242:06
13: Trauma

13: Trauma

For the month of September, LCS will be focusing on #changingstories in trauma.  Whether big or small, we have all experienced trauma in some sort of fashion.  Megan and Laura chat about what trauma is, how it is scene in adults and children, and how to parent/ be a friend to someone experiencing trauma. 

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Sep 05, 202236:52
12: Saying No

12: Saying No

Megan and Laura spend some time discussing something that should be simple but is always so hard - saying no.  They discuss the What, When, Why, Where and How of saying no and how saying no might just lead you to saying yes to more. 

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Devotion Book we often refer to: "Fighting Words" by Ellie Holcomb

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Aug 22, 202235:26
Bonus Episode: Back to School Update

Bonus Episode: Back to School Update

Megan and Laura cheers with mimosas over kids heading back to school and give quick updates on how the first few days back to school went.  Motherhood is a a wide array of emissions - it's nice to have time away from your kids as they go back to school but a long with that excitement can come guilt.  Back to school is a weird time so buckle up for all the emotions! 

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Aug 12, 202224:59
11: Back to School & Anxiety

11: Back to School & Anxiety

It's the most wonderful time of the... Oh wait, maybe that's just for parents.  In this episode, Megan and Laura talk about heading back to school and all the feelings that come along with it by students, parents and teachers.  Anxiety comes in all shapes and forms and the goal of today's episode is to talk about and normalize it. 

Link to Pastor Tige's Sermon from St. Luke's referred to in this episode - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fk-ADAhPiTQ

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Aug 08, 202241:04
10: Suicide

10: Suicide

The 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline was released across America in the middle of July.  This Lifeline is a United States-based suicide prevention network of over 160 crisis centers that provides 24/7 service via a toll-free hotline with the number 9-8-8. It is available to anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress. 

With the release of this lifeline, Megan and Laura spend some time talking about the heavy issue of suicide.  The goal of this episode is to bring light to this lifeline and talk about the realities of suicide across our world or nation.  Megan and Laura hope to bring a realness to this subject and be a safe place for those experiencing suicidal thoughts. 


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Jul 25, 202237:44
09: Marital Discord

09: Marital Discord

Tacking another subject that is relatable but also hard to talk about - Marital Discord.  Health marriages still have disagreements, but it's all about how you handle the disagreements.  In this episode, Megan and Laura talk about what is seen in marriage therapy, things that have helped their marriage and the impact marital discord can have on a family as a whole. 

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Jul 11, 202239:28
08: Transitions

08: Transitions

Life is full of transitions - some are easier to handle than others.  Megan and Laura spend some time talking about the transitions they are currently going through, how to help your children cope with various transitions, and finding peace through the transitions in God. 

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Jun 27, 202235:06
07: Living a Pinterest Life

07: Living a Pinterest Life

Pinterest - a great tool that has contributed to a lot of inspiration and laughs for Megan and Laura.  Join us as we talk about our go to pins, our Pinterest successes and fails, and talk about some of the pressures that might come from "living a Pinterest life". 

Check out some of the behind the Pinterest scenes on our instagram - @itsoknottobeokpodcast

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Jun 13, 202232:33
06: Self Awareness

06: Self Awareness

Seems selfish and contradictory to take time to become self aware, but it not only benefits you but also those in your life. In this episode, Megan and Laura define self awareness, take time to analyze themselves, and spend some time chatting about the various personality quizzes out there. 

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Personality Tests talked about: 

Enneagram - https://assessment.yourenneagramcoach.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQjwhLKUBhDiARIsAMaTLnEt4vKdhaCzwZHFAf2T5Jjv8S2-KoG-Wz2KRCcO_Ioox7vK-xcj8poaAoEgEALw_wcB

Myers Briggs - https://www.truity.com/test/type-finder-personality-test-new

Five Love Languages - https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

Living Your Strengths (Clifton Strengths Finder) - https://www.amazon.com/s?k=living+your+strengths&gclid=Cj0KCQjwhLKUBhDiARIsAMaTLnFzgrEnYI8AD7gpWQhmtBwgho-B8WJchWcQfYwpmCKWaETV6E4QlNsaAh8VEALw_wcB&hvadid=241886026011&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9011743&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=11588142067559718610&hvtargid=kwd-587555555&hydadcr=24633_10399730&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_752ck2vh2i_e

May 30, 202234:30
05: Body Image

05: Body Image

Megan and Laura get vulnerable talking about body image - something a lot of people struggle with but not something a lot of people want to address.  There may not be solutions on how to become more confident but reassurance that you aren't alone in this struggle and that your body is fearfully and wonderfully made. 

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Show Notes: Devotion Book - "Fighting Words" by Ellie Holcomb 

May 16, 202235:39
04: Mental Health Awareness

04: Mental Health Awareness

May is Mental Health Awareness Month.  Megan and Laura talk all things mental health - personal stories, tips for normalizing mental health, FDR, what it's like to sit in a therapists office and much more.  

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May 02, 202234:44
03: Work-Life Balance

03: Work-Life Balance

If you are looking for the key to find balance between work and life, don't look here.  While we may not have the answers, we do have some encouragement that you aren't alone as you try to find this balance and be reassurance that it is ok to take care of yourself. 


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Apr 18, 202240:52
02 - Raising Christlike Children

02 - Raising Christlike Children

It's something we are passionate about but also something that brings many challenges.  Join Megan and Laura converse about raising Christlike - what they've done in their home, the difficulties, and the value found in putting in the work to raising Christlike children. 

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Apr 04, 202236:22
Bonus Episode: Get to Know your Hosts
Mar 31, 202224:25
01 - Busyness

01 - Busyness

It's hard not to be busy in a world that moves so fast.  Megan and Laura converse about what busyness means to them and how taking some time for ourselves may not be such a bad thing. 

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Mar 21, 202237:57