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What an honor to have Chris Jepsen & Kristina Jepsen on our podcast today!!! This Holy-Spirit filled #powercouple bring the FIRE in today's episode!

Links to Check Out:

• Check out their podcast- Overflow w/ Kris & Chris
• Check out their clothing brand - Natalia Hope
• The John Bevere "Speaking in Tongues Explained" video mentioned on today's podcast

Episode Flow:

- Introducing the Jepsen Couple

- How their Love Story Began

- Navigating Early Relationship Challenges

- The Importance of Premarital Counseling

- Overcoming Unforgiveness from Past Relationships

- The Role of the Holy Spirit in Relationships

- Navigating Relationships with Patience and Prayer

- The Role of the Holy Spirit in Personal Growth

- Understanding Speaking in Tongues

- Experiencing the Holy Spirit's Presence

- The Power of Prayer and Intercession

- Dating with Intentionality and Non-Negotiables

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Register here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/2/4y84kbg 

(PLUS... in this masterclass you will create your own personalized affirmations that *actually work*)

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MY LINKS:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janelle_lynnae/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janelle_lynnae 

My book, Flex Your Confidence Muscle, on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Flex-Your-Confidence-Muscle-Overcome/dp/1957048484/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687288394&sr=8-1 

Join my FREE MASTERCLASS! Speak your mind, stop worrying about other people's opinions & finally live in confidence: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/2/4y84kbg 

(PLUS... in this masterclass you will create your own personalized affirmations that *actually work*)

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MY LINKS:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janelle_lynnae/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janelle_lynnae 

My book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Flex-Your-Confidence-Muscle-Overcome/dp/1957048484/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687288394&sr=8-1 

Join my FREE MASTERCLASS! Speak your mind, stop worrying about other people's opinions & finally live in confidence: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/2/4y84kbg 

(PLUS... in this masterclass you will create your own personalized affirmations that *actually work*)

—

MY LINKS:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janelle_lynnae/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janelle_lynnae 

My book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Flex-Your-Confidence-Muscle-Overcome/dp/1957048484/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687288394&sr=8-1 

Join my FREE MASTERCLASS! Speak your mind, stop worrying about other people's opinions & finally live in confidence: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/2/4y84kbg 

(PLUS... in this masterclass you will create your own personalized affirmations that *actually work*)

—

MY LINKS:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janelle_lynnae/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janelle_lynnae 

My book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Flex-Your-Confidence-Muscle-Overcome/dp/1957048484/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687288394&sr=8-1 

https://event.webinarjam.com/register/2/4y84kbg 

(PLUS... in this masterclass you will create your own personalized affirmations that *actually WORK*)

—

MY LINKS:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janelle_lynnae/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janelle_lynnae 

My book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Flex-Your-Confidence-Muscle-Overcome/dp/1957048484/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687288394&sr=8-1 

Link Frankies Elite Selling Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5gKFN82w58eIH8TIxOOj3H?si=7dd538e9a6c14a9f 

Join my FREE MASTERCLASS! Speak your mind, stop worrying about other people's opinions & finally live in confidence: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/2/4y84kbg 

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MY LINKS:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janelle_lynnae/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janelle_lynnae 

My book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Flex-Your-Confidence-Muscle-Overcome/dp/1957048484/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687288394&sr=8-1 

Link Frankies Elite Selling Podcast: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5gKFN82w58eIH8TIxOOj3H?si=7dd538e9a6c14a9f⁠ 

We'll answer questions such as:

• How to succeed as a woman in STEM?
  
• How do I negotiate?
  
• How can I ask for a raise or promotion?
  
• How can scarcity as a woman at work be leveraged in my favor?
  

You can either follow the grain or step out onto your own path. When it comes to being a woman in the workplace, we need to take on leadership roles. It was because Ginnette wasn't afraid to be different and stand out that she was able to be a leader and mentor to many  women so they could do the same.

Being a leader doesn't mean you have to lose your feminine energy (empathy, kindness, etc.). Leadership and feminine energy actually go hand in hand. You can have it all as a leader!

Typically, women don't make up the majority of employees at a workplace. It's easy to feel outnumbered or less than. Sometimes hiding in the shadows of our male coworkers feels safe and is how we cope with being one of few. But no more! You aren't benefitting from staying in the shadows. You may be staying stagnant or you might actually be declining but either way, neither is ideal.

Instead of looking at the gender numbers and feeling like "the only," think about what opportunity that presents to you. You are a scarcity who brings unique and one of a kind  ideas and skills to the table! Use being the only female or one of the only females to your advantage, not your disadvantage.

Generally speaking, women wait to apply for a job or ask for a raise/promotion until they have checked all the boxes or become over qualified for a job. Whereas men don't wait. Men will go for jobs knowing they are underqualified. And guess what? Much of the time they get those positions. We have highly competent women working for average men! It's time to ditch the perfectionist attitude and dive right into getting after what you want. You don't need to wait until you're the "perfect person" for the job.

Action step: we are all responsible for change, regardless of your vantage point. Play your part and take steps towards making a change!

Don't forget to check out the wonderful resources!

• Dare to Lead - Brené Brown
  
• Confidence Creator by Heather Monahan
  
• Clubhouse - Confidence and Cocktails
  

Ginnette Harvey has spent 15 years in the Recruitment industry, co-founded the North American business of one of the largest specialist staffing players globally, and was named by SIA as one of the Top 100 Influential leaders in the field. In 2021, she founded Harper and Gray which has a mission to drive equality through Talent Management.

Connect with Ginnette on LinkedIn @ginnetteharvey or on her website: Harper and Gray

We're joined with Life and Leadership Coach, Emma Marlatt and we're going to be talking all about self-sabotage.

We'll answer questions such as:

• What is self-sabotage?
  
• How can I work through my self-sabotage?
  
• What role does fear play in reaching my goals?
  
• What are different methods of self-sabotage?
  
• How does confidence play a part?
  

One limiting belief so many people struggle with is believing they don't have time. We all have the same amount of time in a day: 24 hours. Not having time ins't the issue, it's how you choose to utilize your time.

We self-sabotage by convincing ourselves we don't have time to work towards our goals, when really we're filling our time with activities and chores of less importance. You might have a full-time job or a family to take care of or maybe even both. All those things are very important to put your time towards. It's the endless scrolling on instagram, excessive cleaning, etc. that's used to prolong starting or completing your goals.

Self-sabotage often stems from a place of fear. Maybe you're afraid of failure or embarrassment or the financial commitment of your goal. We can get so deep into our fears that what we want to achieve completely takes the back seat.

You can take the power away from fear. It's so important to surround yourself with a good support system. Talk to them about what's scaring you! By laying it all out, we are already starting to take the power back. You can't do life alone. Community is so necessary. Fear is a part of life and that's okay. But the key is to learn how to live with the fear and be okay with the nerves; don't just let it take you over.

Don't forget to check out these awesome mentionables and sign up for one of Emma's retreats!

• Out Witting the Devil - By Napoleon Hill
  
• The Chris Harder Show
  
• Fire & Grace Retreats
  
  • San Diego - September 24 to 26, 2021
    
  • Costa Rica - December 31 to January 3, 2022
    

Emma Marlatt coaches badass females who are on the go and constantly chasing the next goal. She supports them in creating a life of ease and building a foundation in self love, rather than their worth coming from what the world says of them.

She helps them stop the burn out train and step into a mindset that allows them to be present, have meaningful relationships, and create balance.

Connect with Emma on IG @em_marlatt or check out her website www.emmamarlatt.com

Today we hear from Founder and CEO of Peptalkher, Meggie Palmer!

We'll answer questions such as:

• How are different races harmed by the gender gap?
  
• Why is asking for a raise “scary”?
  
• What is the confidence gap?
  
• How can rejection propel me forward?
  

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The pay gap is not just about gender! The typical gender pay gap is roughly 20% for white women. 20% is crazy!

And it's frustrating to see so many hard working and deserving women receiving less than their male coworkers.

Unfortunately, that 20% is the smallest gap. Women of color are paid even less in comparison. The gender pay gap may start with gender but it doesn't just end there. All the more reason it's time we close the gap.

Rejection happens. A lot. Being told "no" has been a part of our lives since we were all very young. It was probably even one of the first few words you learned to say!

So why is receiving a "no" such big fear when it comes to our jobs? The world doesn't implode when we are told "no." We continue life as it was.

The key when facing rejection is to not let the no be an end all. Instead, let the "no" be a redirection. If you didn't get the promotion or pay raise you wanted, what can you still get? What else is on the negotiation table?

Preparation is crucial in asking for a raise. Before you enter into that conversation, you need to have your wish figure, want figure, and walk figure outlined.

Wish figure: what is a number that just sounds too insane to be paid?

Want figure: what number is going to get you excited about work?

Walk figure: what number is too low for your worth?

Having these numbers in your head and ready to go will help you decide whether or not an offer is worth it.

Don't forget to check out the Free Five Day Challenge!

• Covid has disproportionately impacted women!
  
  • Women are more likely to lose jobs and on more responsibilities at home
    
• Going the Know Your Worth Challenge - 5 minutes for 5 days to understand your worth and ask for your worth
  
• Head to Peptalkher.com/challenge
  
• Great for professional women
  

Action step: know that you are SO awesome. Know your worth!

Meggie palmer is the Founder and CEO of Peptalkher, an App you can download for free!

Meggie and her team are on a mission to close the pay gap and help supercharge your career!

Connect with Meggie on IG @meggiepalmer or through her website peptalkher.com and @peptalkher on all major social media platforms

• Greyboy by Cole Brown
  

Our song and artist recommendations:

• Fresh Wind Hillsong
• You’re Never Alone Brittany Howard
• Brittany Spencer
• Oh Wonder
• Surfaces

Travis L. Robinson is a people and brand evangelist, specializing in curating connections and experiences for diversity, equity and belonging.

Travis is Co-Founder and Chief Evangelist Officer of Zeal Culture, The 12th Avenue Agency, and Belonging. At Monday - a collective of brand development, thought leadership and talent engagement organizations focused on underrepresented communities.  In addition, he currently serves as Global Head of Diversity, Inclusion and Belonging for Spotify.

Connect with Travis!

Twitter: @travislrobinson | instagram: @travis.l.robinson | website: www.travislinardrobinson.com

Today we hear from Community Engagement and CSR Program Manager at Amazon, Anna Derinova-Hartmann!

We'll answer questions such as:

• What is social impact?
  
• How can I make an impact in my community?
  
• What is my purpose?
  
• How can I get off the hamster wheel?
  

Thinking about your social impact can be daunting. It's best to break it down especially when you're first beginning. One of the easiest ways to start contributing to your social impact is to share what you have an abundance of. Making sure you and your family have what you need first and foremost is important, but letting go of all the extras you have is a great way to make a positive impact. You could also start volunteering somewhere where there's a need.

Doing good and helping out the people in your community is amazing. However, sometimes we get so caught up in it that we end up feeling guilty if we aren't constantly putting effort towards others. Taking time to check in with yourself and focus on what you need is just as important as helping out others. Think of it like the classic "help yourself to help others."

Remember that you aren't saving the world alone. Everyone should be contributing to their social impact so when you need a break, it's perfectly fine. When there's a team of people working together, not everyone has to to 'the most' all the time.

Finding out your purpose will give you a life where you get to choose. When we aren't pursuing our purpose, we end up on a hamster wheel going in circles with no aim. Once you are aware of your purpose and what direction you want to go, you are capable of directing yourself in a way that will get you fulfilling your purpose.

Action item: Get your mental and physical ass off of your mental and physical couch and do something! Whether it be reading a book, cleaning out, asking 'why' questions, or talking to your partner, just do something. And make sure you're repetitive in what you do!

Don't forget to check out Zach Mercurio for some amazing reads on purpose!

Anna Derinova-Hartmann is a Community Engagement and CSR Program Manager at Amazon and lives in Munich, Germany. Anna is a Social Impact professional, challenging social inequality and institutional barriers by empowering vulnerable social groups.

She strongly believes in the power of connections, cooperation and partnership, working hard on building bridges between various business and socio-economic sectors.

Connect with Anna on LinkedIn.

Today's podcast is a little bit different than usual because I am joined by my wonderful husband, Frankie Vignone, as well as our guest, Dylan Ali! Dylan is a professional speaker and loves helping others make positive changes in their lives.

We'll answer questions such as:

• How can I manage my stress?
  
• Where do I find true happiness?
  
• What does real self development look like?
  
• How can I be successful?
  

It can be hard to see the good things in life or the positive side of a tough situation. It's much easier to feel down on life than to make good out of a not so great situation. But one thing Dylan points out is that the happier he is, the more he finds in life to be happy about. When we have a negative outlook or attitude, it makes life murky. But when we are able to find things to be happy about, no matter how big or small, we are often lead to find more and more happiness.

What if I told you we are all already successful? Yes, even you! We ALL have success within us. It's just a matter of taking what you have inside and exposing it. The success is already there, you just need to learn how to put that success on display. So often we create avatars based on our insecurities and walk around as a shadowed version of ourself. In order to bring out the success within us, we first need to shed the insecurities we are carrying around that mask the success.

Commitment is great. But it's not what brings you to your goals. That's what discipline's job is. Discipline is what gets you through the hard parts and the times you feel like giving up. Discipline is what carries you through all of that and gives your commitment the ability to produce results.

Take the 14 day challenge!

• 14 days of 3 minute cold showers or cold plunging (dunking yourself into a cold body of water)
  
• You will reduce your stress and learn to breathe! (Breathing properly is SO important for our health)

Dylan Ali is a keynote speaker, transformational coach and sales executive.

With 20+ years in corp IT sales Dylan has been able to create a framework that is repeatable and scalable to all areas of life resulting in more love and less fear.  We operate from two sources at all times, love or fear. Dylan has been able to guide people in transmuting that fear into love, in turn acting from that space. We all have baggage, we all have emotional trauma. Many of us are taught to suppress those feelings in order to find success. That success comes at a heavy price. Dylan teaches you how to negotiate that price for a life worth living.

Connect with Dylan on LinkedIn- Dylan Ali.

In today's episode, we hear from founder of The Helpful Academy, Kat Soper.

We'll answer questions such as:

• How might perfectionism be impacting my life?
  
• What steps can I take to overcome perfectionism?
  
• How can I successfully set goals?
  
• What are some good ways to be productive and get work done?
  

"Progress over perfection."

Sometimes we believe that in order to progress in a skill/area of life/etc., we need to first perfect the stage we are in right now.  Well, that's not true! That mind set will actually hold you back from your progress. Perfection is impossible to achieve. So instead of making that your goal, try to create your goals based around the progress you want to make.

Much of the time, negative self talk goes hand in hand with perfectionism. When fighting the negativity, start first by recognizing which thoughts are negative. Then, from there you can start replacing the negative self talk with positive affirmations.

"Your 'why' needs to be deeper than your discomfort."

What is your 'why'?

Change is uncomfortable. It's human nature to like what is familiar and whether consciously or not, try to avoid change. However, when we are trying to get to the next level in our lives, change must occur. The key to actually reaching your goals and making noticeable progress, is to make your 'Why' bigger than your discomfort.

Sometimes we'll outgrow our 'why's' and have to reevaluate. That's okay too! Your why may be bigger than your discomfort for awhile but if it ever isn't, then just check in with yourself and figure out a deeper why.

"If you’re not green and growing, you’re ripe and rotting."

Most people consider being stagnant or maintaining to be a neutral state. That may be true for a short period of time, but if we are staying in the same place for too long, it starts becoming harmful. It's okay to reach a goal and take a breather. We all deserve breaks and relaxation. But don't let reaching your goal be an end all. There are always things to improve and work on no matter how big or small!

Don't forget to check out these awesome resources!

• Grab your Business growth calendar
  
• Die Your Hair Purple Sooner by Lorraine Hamilton
  
• Buy the Talent Dynamics Test here!

Kat Soper is an Entrepreneur and Free Spirit. She is the founder of The Helpful Academy, New Zealand's largest training centre for Small Businesses. Kat is also a wife and mother of two! (with many fur babies as well!)

Connect with Kat on IG @thehelpfulacademy or Facebook @thehelpfulacademy

Or head over to her website!

www.thehelpfulacademy.com

In today's episode, we hear from amazing author, podcast host, and L&D manager at Xactly, Jessica Smith!

We’ll answer questions such as:

• Why is it important to incorporate child like activities into my life?
  
• What is my inner voice of wisdom?
  
• How do I find my “ness”?
  
• What areas of life is change most common?
  

So often we believe that in order to grow up and truly mature, we must leave behind "childish thing." Well, it's time to scrap that idea! Whether it's playing with chalk like Jessica, or coloring or anything else, we encourage you to go do the things you used to love doing as a kid!

So many changes occur in your twenties and will continue to shift and change. We are confronted with big life events and reality checks. Your life path will look different from everyone else's. But don't worry, there is no wrong way to grow up! Regardless of where you're at and what stage of life you're in, it is so important to ask yourself the question: how can I greater connect with my inner voice of wisdom?

You will constantly have outside influences from strangers, family, friends, social media, etc. But you need to focus on what's going on internally and check in with yourself to make sure it is in line with the choices you're making.

Sometimes it’s the fear of being alone or the fear of the unknown. It’s important to look for freedom in a relationship to know it’s a positive one. Freedom from these fears and the freedom that comes with loving one another for who you both are and not for any deeds done in the past is what keeps our relationships healthy.

Action item: cultivate tools to discover your inner voice of wisdom

Don't forget to check about Jessica's amazing work!

• Your Twenties: No One Ever Teaches You How to Grow Up
  
• Self Discovery Journal
  
• Career Coaching with Jessness Podcast
  

Jessica is the author of the YOUR TWENTIES book and self-discovery journal. She is also the host of the podcast: Career Coaching with Jessness and works in Tech as an L&D Manager for Xactly.

Connect with Jessica on IG @hellojessness (or @your.twenties for her amazing book!) or on LinkedIn @jessicasmith

Today, we we hear from Executive National Vice President with Arbonne, Hillary Duggin.

We'll answer questions such as:

• How can I be successful in my career?
  
• What are the benefits of creating 30/90 days plans?
  
• How do I build a business?
  
• What role does clarity play in being successful?
  
• How can I manage being a mom and still move up in my career?
  

You have two options when working your way towards your goals. It's normal to experience plateaus and steps back. When these things happen, you can either increase your activity or shrink your goal. The decision you make is what can either get you to your goal or keep you from it. Don't let a seemingly daunting goal convince you to shrink what you want. Get after it!

Sometimes starting can be the most difficult part of reaching your goal. When should I start? How should I start? So many questions could be swirling around your head as you try to find the "perfect" time to begin. But here's the secret: you won't ever find a perfect time to start. If you keep waiting for the right moment, it may never happen. We encourage you to start before you're ready. Obviously, it's great to be prepared, so don't neglect preparation. However, if you find yourself routinely putting off the start of obtaining your goal, then it's time to just jump right in.

I didn't have enough time. I'm too young/old. I don't have the right finances. I'm not educated enough. I'll never be successful. -- These are some of the most common excuses stopping you from reaching your goals. Don't get me wrong, life can get CRAZY and that means sometimes we need to prioritize. Moving towards your goal may not be on the top of that list. However, understanding that everything we do in life is a choice - what to spend our time, energy, money, etc on.

Making choices in favor of our goals is what gets us to reach it. If it's not a goal you're passionate about then you might find yourself making more excuses. At that point it's important to reevaluate why you're trying to reach your goal.

Action Item: write out your 10 year vision! What would your highest and best version of yourself look like and be doing? Then write out your 10 dreams that get you towards your highest and best self. Finally, write down 1 goal that will get you towards your 10 year vision (make it small and obtainable!).

Hillary Duggin is an Independent consultant and Executive National Vice President with Arbonne.

Married to her high school sweetheart, and a Mom of two boys.

Connect with Hillary on IG @hillaryduggin

Today we hear from Tinika Wyatt, healthcare professional and pastor, about how true justice and a celebration of diversity is necessary for each person to be able to freely be themselves.

We'll answer questions such as:

• What does true justice look like?
  
• How can we improve diversity in the workplace?
  
• Where can I find fulfillment?
  
• How can I honor people's limitations and still receive the support I need?
  
• What is the difference between equity and equality?
  

To freely be who you are, you cannot rely on others for your fulfillment. Whether it's God or another higher power, having yourself rooted in something outside of yourself is crucial to be able to be who you are.

Ask yourself, when you fail, who can you reach out to that is unfailing? It's not going to be your friends or family. As much as they are there to support you, they all have their limitations too. Once you're able to answer that question, you no longer need to expect people to make you happy or give you your worth because you already are happy and already know your worth.

Supremacy is causing division. We often see large-scale forms of supremacy on the news, but we mustn't forget to bring attention to the supremacy we practice in our own lives. It could look like passing by a homeless person and thinking you're better than them. Or maybe it's between you and a sibling or a coworker. This idea that "I'm better than that person" no matter the reason, has got to go. The matter of the fact is that we are all valuable. We all have something to contribute to the world and acting as though  some people are "lesser" than others is completely inaccurate and harmful.

We seem to forget how much beauty there is in diversity. We are missing out if we aren't including the marginalized. Justice says we look a little further into what people need and we give them what is right, what is just. We need to find out what people need and meet those needs as much as possible. We have to see how we can help them flourish and truly offer all that they have.

Action item: task a risk step outside yourself and introduce yourself to someone you is the furthest from your culturally,.spark up a friendship and be intentional.

Tinika Wyatt is a healthcare professional, marriage and family pastor, equity inclusion & diversity advocate, a singer and songwriter, but most importantly a wife, mother and daughter of the King.

Connect with Tinika on IG @tinidubb

Check out her amazing music at www.tinikawyattmusic.com

In today's episode, we hear from Kendall Sparkman, a first year teacher and past Next Level Confident client!

We'll answer questions such as:

• How do I incorporate self care into a busy schedule?
  
• How can I better serve myself and others?
  
• What are long distance relationships like?
  
• How do I know if I'm ready to move?
  
• Where can I meet new people? Dating apps?
  

We all know at least one person who is seemingly always full of joy. What's the secret? Meet your own needs first! It's hard (if not impossible) to fill others up when our own cup is depleted. For Kendall and I, our faith plays a huge role in how we "fill our cups." Whether you are a religious person or not, it is important to figure out what thing(s) fill you up, and then regularly incorporate them into your daily life.

Self care goes hand in hand with filling yourself up. Just like when you're in an airplane and they tell you to put your oxygen mask on first and then help others if there is an emergency, you need to take care of yourself to take care of others.

Self care might not look the same for everyone but it is necessary for everyone. Whether you have 10 minutes or an entire day, intentionally setting aside time to tune into yourself and relax is so important.

How do you know if your significant other is truly compatible with you if you don't live together before marriage? Do all of the boring tasks together! Go grocery shopping together, do laundry together, cook meals together, etc. Sometimes we get so caught up with the fancy/fun dates and "glamorous" aspects of a relationship that we completely forget about the everyday tasks to living (which are obviously important if you're planning on marriage).

Don't forget to check out these amazing mentionables!

• The Teacher Travel Guide
  
• Get Ready & Attract Your Future Husband
  
• The Confidence Boost Spotify Playlist

Kendall Sparkman is in her first year teaching DURING A PANDEMIC- what a crazy year to start as a teacher!! She teaches high school art and yearbook at Rainier Christian High School. In August 2020, she moved to Auburn, Washington from Greeley, Colorado.

Recently she started a blog called The Teacher Travel Guide to give teachers tips on how to care for themselves, travel around, be more efficient in their classroom, and enjoy the career they love!

Connect with Kendall on IG @kenspark

In Today's episode, we hear from Account Manager at Cisco, Kelsey Kramer!

We'll answer questions such as:

• Why should more women be in STEM?
  
• Why should I put myself ‘out there’?
  
• What should I do to build a close knit group of supportive friends?
  
• How can I achieve what I want in my occupation?

“It’s amazing what you’ll find when you just start looking around and talking to people.”

Before you can put yourself out there, you need to know what "out there" is. Stepping outside your comfort zone is, well... uncomfortable! Knowing what kind of new territory you're stepping into makes taking that first step much more intentional and productive.  So explore a little bit before you get out there full force and learn what paths are available for you to take.

“You can have it all as a woman.”

This one is for all the ladies out there! You can have it all as a woman. So often we are told that we need to make a decision, do you want to get married and start a family or do you want to succeed at work? You can do both and more! Don't let anyone else's insecurities and self-doubt project onto you.

Just speaking within your occupation, you can have everything you see you male coworkers receiving. Don't think you have to settle for a mediocre position or pay because "as a woman you should be lucky to have what you already have." Go after your highest goals and dreams because YOU CAN!

“You have got to get involved.”

You need a support group in your life whether it comes from family, friends, sponsors, mentors, coaches, or a mix of it all.  Surround yourself with people who you know will support you. It's important to make sure you have support in your work life and your home/social life. Don't forget how many layers your life has!

Go to the social events even if they feel unproductive. You can make them productive by finding someone for your personal support group. Sign up for a sports team or a book club or for a hobby you're interested in. One great connection resource to check out are the  Junior Boards in your area!

Don't forget to check out The Secrets We Kept by Laura Prescott and NLC Podcast Episode 46: 10 Remedies to Try if You’re Feeling Depressed with Janelle Lynnae

Take away: Be your authentic self! Don’t be afraid of labels (rbf, bossy, etc). Your true self is best thing you can bring to work.

Kelsey Kramer is a woman in tech and an Account Manager at Cisco. She is also the Connected Women’s lead, which is an employee resource group and diversity initiative that promotes women in the workplace.

Women of Impact and Girls in Tech are the two main events that are used to promote women in the workplace. Kelsey currently resides in Chicago but Michigan will always be home.

Connect with Kelsey on LinkedIn!

Download the 2021 Goal Setting worksheet here.

We'll answer questions like:

• How might my goal act as a road block in actually achieving it?
  
• What should I be focusing on when I set goals?
  
• Why is it important to hone in on how I want to feel when setting goals?
  
• How do I build habits to support my goals?
  

"Who are you becoming?"

When setting goals, we often put most, if not all, of the emphasis on the thing we want to accomplish. When making habits, it's important to think more about who you are becoming than hitting your goal. Ask yourself what habits do you need to build in order to become the person you need to be to achieve your goal.

Remember that to get from point A (setting your goal) to point B (achieving your goal), there's a process. It doesn't just happen in an instance. There's a lot of personal growth involved and it's important to make sure you know who you're becoming in the process.

"What are you holding onto that you should be stepping away from?"

We all have things that we are afraid to let go of, even when we know that our lives would be better off without them. Whether it's a harmful habit, toxic person, or job you hate, it's important to leave it behind!

When setting goals, if you already have something holding you back from personal growth or even achieving your goal entirely, reaching your goals will be so much harder.

"I am loving the process because I'm becoming a better version of myself."

You won't achieve your goals if you don't love the process! Or you will but it'll leave you feeling MISERABLE, and no one wants that! The process of achieving your goals probably won't be easy and you're going to need to put in a lot of work. But find gratitude in the process and all of its challenges because of who you're becoming as a result.

Action Item: Complete the 2021 Goal Setting worksheet here!

Don't forget to check out ToastMasters!

Frankie Vignone is a Strategic Account Executive at People.ai and the Co-Founder of Professionals on Purpose. Frankie is an enthusiast for personal development and has a passion for helping people reach their highest potential.

In his free time, Frankie loves being outdoors spending time with his wife (that's me!). From surfing, to hiking, to snowboarding, he loves it all and everything in between!

Connect with Frankie on LinkedIn and IG @frankievignone

Today, we welcome Michael Robert Eck! He is a SuperHero Coach with a mission to help individuals access and activate their power so they can lead heroic lives. Michael is also a cancer survivor, father, and grandfather!

Whether you're fighting a physical, mental, or emotional battle, having people in your life who are able to support you is so important! It's essential to have at least one person you feel comfortable asking for and receiving help from. Make sure you communicate with the people supporting you because no one knows what you need unless you're willing to ask for it.

Michael is a big proponent of fun and making sure laughter is a part of everyday living. Laughing is SO good for you. Here are some health benefits of laughing!:

• Lowered stress levels and tension
  
• Organ stimulation
  
• Improved immune system
  
• Improved mood

It's not always easy to find the good in a hard situation, but you don't necessarily need to. Whether it is finding something light hearted about your situation, talking with a friend, or watching a funny show, finding ways to laugh will all around improve your wellbeing!

Faith over fear is a wonderful mindset to have when tackling tough circumstances. Stepping into faith, whether it be faith in God or something else, having something to set your focus on is so important.

Join the Gratitude Gang here!

Check out This Book Will Make You Dangerous here.

Action Item:

Make a list of things that will increase your powers spiritually, physically, mentally and emotionally, and then act on what you've written down. Remember, everything you do in life will either increase or decrease one of those four powers.

Michael Robert Eck is a SuperHero Life Coach and founder of the full-day workshop, SuperHero Revolution. He consults with and helps individuals, organizations, and community and corporate groups uncover and reclaim power in order to achieve their own meaningful objectives, and to lead their personally particular, authentic, heroic lives.

Michael is also a cancer survivor with addiction recovery experience who works with people battling physical and other illness who seek lifestyle transformation, as well as guiding clients to achieve life-changing relationship, career, and other goals.

Connect with Michael Robert Eck on IG @MichaelRobertEck or on his website www.SuperHeroRevolution.com

Check out my very first podcast where I share the depression and dark thoughts that I've struggled with: Click Here.

"You are not alone."

Most of us have felt depressed at some point in our lives whether it be an extreme depression or in smaller ways that still affect your life.

It may sound cliché but one of the most important things you can do for yourself during these times is remember that you are not alone.

There will always be someone who cares about you whether it's family, a friend, or a complete stranger; they're out there.

"Human Beings want to help you."

Along the lines of remembering you're not alone, know that there are people in the world who want to help you. It's important to share what you're going through. You'll be amazed at how much better you'll feel when you talk to someone about how you're feeling. Make sure the person you choose is trustworthy and compassionate. Accidentally choosing someone who doesn't have your best interest at heart can give opposite results to what we're looking for.

But what can you do right now to help yourself out?

The first of our ten tips to kick depression is to get into a routine. You don't have to plan out every single day but creating a morning routine that you follow more often than not can really help keep you moving and pull you out of the depression.

"Our world was created for love, connection, and belonging. It was not created for depression, drug overdose, and suicide."

Our second tip is to set obtainable goals. Setting goals can give your life visible meaning when you feel like you have none (which is totally not true, but we've all been there!). It's important to keep these goals realistic so you are able to achieve them. Making too lofty of goals will only back fire when you aren't able to reach them. It's better to make a bunch of small goals that will all amount to a much larger goal.

Check out WebMD's list of 10 Natural Depression Treatments

Listen to the the full episode to hear all 10 tips plus some extra ones from yours truly!

Janelle Lynnae, the Founder of Next Level Confident, is a Confidence Coach and Corporate Workshop Facilitator. She primarily focuses on women in STEM industries and believes all women deserve to grow their confidence muscle in order to face their fears, set audacious goals, and take leaps of faith.

Janelle has years of experience coaching women how to break through psychological barriers unknowingly placed on self. She empowers each woman with the tools and practical action steps she must take in order to live a life she’s proud of.

Connect with Janelle on IG @janelle_lynnae and facebook, or email us at hello@nextlevelconfident.com

In today's podcast, we hear from Lance Essihos, Host of Top 100 Podcast University of Adversity + Founder and CEO of Mic-Up Podcast Productions.

Lance was able to turn years of adversity into a life he's proud of and is able to live out his passion every day.

We'll answer questions like:

• What should I do if I don't feel happy with my career?
• How do I get through adversity and leave the victim mindset behind?
• Why should I live my life from a place of love?
• What is the best way to effectively reach out to others and get responses?

"I just believed in myself that I could do it."

You need to be your own number one supporter. Believe in yourself because you can not guarantee there will always be someone else who does. Having a solid support system in whatever your venture is, is amazing. Building relationships and trust with others is so so important, but the belief that you are 100% capable needs to start with you.

So many people don't try a second time when they don't get the responses or results that they wanted the first time. Whether it's regarding a relationship, business inquiries, or anything else you might be working on, having persistence is necessary to get what you want. Lead with a firm belief that you CAN do whatever you set your mind to and use that to propel you forward on your journey and give you the confidence to go back a second, third, fourth, fifth time to get what you want.

"Being a victim is not the way to go."

It's easy (and quite frankly, natural) to attached yourself to the hardships and pain you've gone through. Your adversity is a part of your story but it is not your whole story. There's a difference between acknowledging what you've been through and using that/those piece(s) to help yourself (and maybe others) grow, and letting your adversity keep you stuck and stagnant in life. Your experiences and emotions are valid and at the same time labeling yourself as a victim can be extremely harmful to you and your life.

When you let go of the victim mindset, you can start getting to know yourself as a distinct person. Don't let yourself be defined by what you've been through because you are so much more than your past. It isn't until you are able to make peace with your past and take it for what it is that you will be able to move on and start doing everything that you want to accomplish without a heavy heart.

"Get quiet because the quietness is when things start to come in."

What do you actually want to do? It starts with your imagination. Don't worry about the "how" right now, just honestly answer what you want to do if anything was possible. What do you enjoy doing?  Take time to write these answers out. Journal or messily brain dump onto a piece of paper what it is that you enjoy and want to truly spend your time doing.

Let go of any of the thoughts you feel holding you back or making you doubt yourself. Be still and get connected to yourself, God, or whatever else it is that you believe in. You can continue to journal or you can meditate, but get quiet and simply listen.

Action Step: Whatever it is that you feel called to do or be, answer that call. Follow your intuition, follow your passion, and lead with your heart. Don't wait, act on it now.

Connect with Lance on LinkedIn and follow him on IG @lance.essihos

We'll be answering questions like:

• What is the "Less Effect"?
• How can I implement minimalism into my physical, social, and habitual environments?
• How can I practice saying "no"?
• Why is changing my environment important?
• What role does minimalism play in a healthy relationship with social media?
  

"What is your message that you live by?"
Minimalism: stripping away the things that don't serve us to find ourselves and our true identity and then being intentional about what we fill those spaces with.

Don't suffocate who you are with things, people, or routines that take away from your true identity. When most people think of minimalism, they think of it in regards to tangible clutter. However, minimalism can be extended way beyond that. Samantha likes to make three environmental categories: physical, social, and habitual.

Physical refers to the things we have. It could be clothing, books, any physical objects that you own. Social refers to the people we spend time and interact with. People can have a big impact on who we present ourselves as. They can make a positive impact on our lives or they can drag us down. It's important to be discerning in who you choose to spend your time with. Habitual refers to our routines and the things we our consistently doing. Are there people you are always trying to please? Are you living for yourself or for someone else? Does your daily routine make your day easier or harder? We have to note which of our consistent behaviors are adding to or taking away from our lives.

"There are a lot of things you have to work through to be okay with being by yourself."

How do you feel when you're completely alone? No phone. No music. Nothing. Being alone with our thoughts can be very unsettling, uncomfortable, and sometimes scary. Who are you when you're by yourself with only the company of your own mind? You might not be able to answer that question.

We often use distractions to suppress memories and thoughts that we don't want to come up. So when you strip away everything you use to keep those unwanted thoughts away (people, work, music, social media), they come about and we are completely unprepared to deal with them. In order to feel okay being alone with your mind, you need to confront those things that you are trying so hard to suppress.

Only once you're at peace with your mind will you be at peace with your life.

"Things can change because we can change."

Humans are not complacent beings. We grow and we change. One of the best ways to do so is learning how to say "no." Start showing up for yourself and your needs. If we don't treat our time as sacred then who will? By not constantly saying yes when you want to say no, you'll start recognizing your own worth. When you start recognizing your worth, others with start recognizing that same worth within you. Once we are able to change, we start seeing our perspectives change.

Connect on IG @samantha_joy__

And check out her website! www.thelesseffect.com

On today's podcast we hear from Christina Stathopoulos, a certified women's leadership coach who helps women in the workplace amplify their voices.

We'll be answering questions such as:

What does it mean to be a leader?

• What does a healthy relationship with feedback look like?
  
• How can leaders benefit from receiving feedback?
  
• How can we solve selfish ignorance?
  
• Why is trusting my team important?
  
• What does a feedback loop look like?
  
• What role does active listening play in leadership?
  

"If you're secure in who you are then feedback helps you grow. If you're insecure then feedback is very personal."

Let's talk about feedback. It can sometimes be hard to hear right? But it is SO important. Whether you work for someone or have people working for you, feedback is necessary to have open communication and goes both ways! Regardless of your position in work, you will find yourself faced with feedback.

"We were born and bread on achievement culture."

Don't let achievement culture take away your enjoyment. Everyone likes to "win" in whatever they do, but there is a point at which this winning mindset is more of a detriment to your life than it is a good thing. This can especially become an issue when we talk about leading in the workplace.

"There is such an opportunity to sit back and listen."

Active listening is necessary in the work place. We all need to show up inquisitive of how others do things and truly listening to what others have to say. Active listening and receiving feedback go hand in hand. A person may think that they're great at listening to feedback because they don't react negatively to it. However, if you're just waiting for the person giving you feedback to be done so you can brush it off, that still has no benefit to you. Engaging in the conversation and responding to what is said to you is what's going to help you grow.

Don't just assume it's on you to have all the answers all the time. Practice listening and learning from others as much as you practice trying to assert or be heard yourself.

Today's Action Step: Practice noticing how many conversations you have where you are really listening to the other person.

Check out the Emergent Strategy by Adrienne Maree Brown

Christina Stathopoulos, is the Founder and Head Coach of Hear Her Roar. She is a Professional Certified Coach and International Speaker dedicated to coaching women's leadership and amplifying their voices.

Christina has degrees with high honors in Chemistry and English from Mount Holyoke College. In addition to her private practice, Christina also serves as a Leader in Training of Accomplishment Coaching’s Coach & Leadership Training Program.

You can connect with Christina on IG @hearxtinaroar or on her website hearherroar.net

In today’s episode, we’ll be hearing from financial advisor, Denaye Austad, all about handling your finances! 

We’ll be answering questions such as: 

• What are some of the challenges women typically face regarding finances? 
• Is a work-life balance achievable? 
• How are mindset and finances related? 
• What is a scarcity mindset? 
• What is an abundance mindset? 
• How can I build my finances from rock bottom? 
• What should I do about my debt? 
• How do I build financial wealth? 

“Don’t be afraid to ask questions, even if you feel like you should know the answer already.” 

Ask questions. Ask questions. Ask questions. 

For most people, handling finances is not some easy task. There are many different components to consider, making the whole process very complex. And like I said previously, so many of us were never taught how to effectively do our finances which can make it even more of a challenge. 

Never be afraid to ask questions. If you’re ever wondering whether or not you should ask, that typically means you should. You’ll never get better at what you’re doing if you’re not actively trying to learn. 

Much of the time, that will look like being vulnerable enough to ask questions when you aren't unsure of something. 

You might be wondering who to ask your questions to. Financial advisors like Denaye are great resources to use! 

In today's podcast, Denaye will also be talking about steps that you can take in your personal lives to help get yourself into a sound financial position. “The context of your specific point in life makes a really really huge difference.” 

Let’s talk about debt. It seems as though shame has often been connected to debt. Should you feel shame for having debt? No! Here’s the thing, beating yourself up about having debt will not fix the problem. You won’t gain anything from keeping a negative mindset about the situation. Whether the debt was in your control or not, mindset has everything to do with getting out of it. 

The number one cause of debt in America is from medical expenses. Emergencies and unexpected events happen all the time, sometimes leading to debt. Shame has no place here. Sometimes our debt is a result of our own excessive spending and shopping. Shame has no no place here either. 

However, it is incredibly important that you learn from your mistakes and start building new habits that will lead you in the right direction. A key element to tackling both kinds of debt, is to make everything conscious. Sit down and actually do the math to understand how much debt you’re dealing with. 

You don’t have to tell the world but get it out in the open with yourself and whoever else may be involved in your finances. Pretending the debt isn’t there will not make it go away. 

“Exactly how it is right now is not how it’s going to be forever.” 

Budgeting tools:  

1. The Mint App and Every Dollar App (These are great if you have a stable income with consistent money)

2. The Truebill App (This app is great for entrepreneurs or those with an inconsistent paycheck) 

Connect with Denaye through her email Denaye.austad@tfaconnect.com or through her facebook!