The Sex Mechanic Podcast
By Jeanson Benoit
I am Jeanson Benoit aka The Sex Mechanic. This podcast is aimed at discussions around sex, dating, and situationships and my experiences with them.
Along the way, I'll share stories of my past/present mistakes/lessons that you, the audience, can learn from.
The Sex Mechanic PodcastSep 14, 2021
Accommodations for Special "Friends"
How do you accommodate your special "friends" when they come to your home?
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Biggest Age Gaps When Dating
What are the biggest age gaps you've had when dating? Today, I discuss some of my own stories around that topic.
We also dive into whether you would pleasure yourself orally as a person with a penis if it were somehow possible?
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My Sexual Goals
Today, I discuss my new sexual goals or rather the new sexual perspective that I want to adopt moving forward!
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It's A Celebration Baby!
We are celebrating one full year of The Sex Mechanic Podcast today!!
It's been a fun ride thus far and I look forward to discussing some of our favorite episodes and moments from the past year.
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Getting Familiar With The Vulva
Apparently, there's still some confusion about the vulva and its different parts so today we discuss that in detail!
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Is Your Life Partner Your Best Sex Partner?
Tonight, we discuss whether your life partner and best sexual partner can both be the same person.. What do you think?
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Could You Have Feelings for Someone That Doesn't Feel the Same?
We've all been there: we've had feelings for someone who didn't share the same sentiments or someone has felt that way about us and we didn't feel the same.
How would you manage that?
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Tattoos in Sexy Places
What are some of the sexiest spots for a tattoo on a woman and what's the rule on posting pics of a lover on social media?
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Taking Trips Together Already?
Lovers take trips together at some point in their relationship, but how early is too early to do so? Is there a specific time frame or does it depend strictly on the vibe the lovers have together? Let's discuss it.
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How To Feel Better About Your Partner
Relationships (especially the romantic ones) can be filled with moments of bliss and happiness. However, they can also contain moments of hurt, miscommunication, and frustration.
When these moments occur, there is a way to make you feel better about your partner even if you're really upset with them.
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How Important Is Sex?
Is sex the most important factor for you in a relationship? Or not important at all? Where does it rank when you're involved with someone? Let's talk about that and how sex changes with fatherhood.
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How To Get Out of Your Head During Sex
Being in your own head is one of the more common issues I run into with people so I want share some ways that can help you avoid that.
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Looking For Closure From An Ex
Why is getting closure so important for us after a relationship ends and can we get it even with no communication from the individual we want it from?
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What Are My Favorite Parts About Sex
There is more than just one thing that makes sex incredible. We discuss some of those things in today's episode.
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How to Attract Love The Right Way in 2022
Welcome back to the first episode of 2022!! We discuss how I plan to attract love the right way in 2022 on this episode.
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Romance Goals For 2022
Today, I'm talking about the type of dating/relationship goals I have for the upcoming New Year!
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When Should You Be More Flexible?
We set these hard and rigid lines about what we want and more specifically, how we want things to go in our romantic lives. Is it possible that the path to what we desire doesn't look exactly how we pictured it?
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How We Deal With Break-ups
As I deal with the very fresh loss of a lover, I want to check-in with you to find out some of your coping methods for break-ups with lovers/partners.
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Loyalty To Self or Another: Which is More Honorable?
I'm bringing this conversation back up because it's an important one to continue: is it more important to pledge loyalty to yourself or to someone else?
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Am I Being Insecure or Inquisitive?
Why do we ask questions that we're either not ready to hear the answer to or end up exposing our insecurities with?
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Can You Have A Successful Relationship w/o Friendship?
There's a belief that friendship and romance should be totally separate however I'm going to give my take on why the two actually go hand in hand.
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Rather Be Well Fed or Well F*&ked?
Would you stick around if you had a partner that lacked heavily in one area like cooking and excelled in another like sex?
How does that answer change depending on your gender?
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Do Gender Roles Make Dating Harder?
Some feel that gender roles are a necessary part of the relationship structure...But what happens when we decide to reverse those roles or even create new ones entirely?
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Ways That Men Are Bad In Bed
Last week, we discussed how ladies can be subpar in the bedroom so it's only fair that we talk about some of our shortcomings as men in the bedroom this week. #thesexmechanicpodcast
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Can Women Be Bad Lovers?
In this episode, I'm dispelling the myth that "All p*ssy is good p*ssy" and I provide reasons why this is not necessarily the case.
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Is Sex Our Biggest Distraction?
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Does sex dominate our thoughts and actions more than we realize on a daily basis? And how does this differ for men and women?
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Who Should Pay On The First Date?
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So, I'm bringing this question back up from a conversation that was brought up some months ago....Who should be paying for the first meeting when you're getting to know each other?
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Exceptional Intercourse vs. Exceptional Oral Skills?
If you had to choose between one or the other, which would it be.....Exceptional intercourse or exceptional oral skills?
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What Signs Say "I'm In The Mood"?
Have you ever wondered whether your partner is sending you signals to have some adult playtime? Are you sometimes confused about how to read those signals?
In this episode , we'll explore what some of those signs of readiness look like.
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Swiping and Sipping On Dating Apps
The wine is poured and you're feeling a little curious about who's available in your area one evening. The only problem is what you normally go for isn't necessarily the same as what you go for when you've had a drink or few.
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How Much Is Too Much Sex?
Is there a such thing as wanting or having too much sex with your partner? And who really determines what's too much or too little?
We get all the way into it in this episode!
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Adult Toys
Who said adults don't like to play with toys? Joane and I talk about some of our favorite toys and accessories to play in the bedroom with with our respective partners.
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What Makes A Good Wing Man/Woman?
What is it that makes someone the best wing man/woman? So many people claim to be great at it, but how often do you hear people admit how bad they are at it?
Well, in this episode, you get to hear both sides of the argument.
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Talking Your Way Out of P**sy
Have you had a woman ready to get nasty and freaky with you....until you opened your mouth and said something to totally ruin the mood?
Well, in this episode, we're discussing some of those stories with you!
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Sneaking With The Homie's Homie
Have you ever engaged in a secretive relationship with someone you met through a friend of yours? How successful were you at keeping it concealed?
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Mastering the Female Orgasm
My friend Joane joins the podcast to discuss her journey from only experiencing clitoral orgasms through oral stimulation to now orgasming in multiple ways all on command!
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Having Sex In Foreign Places
What's the most exotic place you've ever had sex that wasn't your own space? What is it about sex abroad that's so appealing?
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My Sex-less Life Update, How Far Would You Travel for Sex?
Most of us don't mind driving within our city for the possibility of some sex, but would you fly/drive across the country or even the world for the same possibility?
How far is too far to travel for that good good(assuming it's that).
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When Do You Know The Relationship is Over?
The signs are usually there, but for one reason or a bunch of reasons, we choose to engage in relationships that don't serve us.
Why is that and how can we tell when these signs appear?
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Is It Ok for A Woman To Propose?
There have been videos going around of the traditional roles during marriage proposals between switched between heterosexual couples.
Will this recent trend become the norm? And is it sustainable?
I talk with my special guest, Earl Pollack, to ask his thoughts on this and other topics around marriage.
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In My Feelings
I'm on my Drake mode in this episode. I'm sharing incidences that had me in my emotions recently.
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Can I Date The Homie's Ex?
It sounds like the type of question that should be met with an emphatic "Hell No!!".
Maybe after listening to this particular discussion, you'll see things a bit differently.
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Can You Date While Broke?
"If you ain't got no money, take ya broke ass home" was a lyric that most of us remember for various reasons.
But how accurate is it when referring to dating women? Do most women agree with this sentiment and will women even give someone a chance if his/her money isn't right?
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What Women Really Want in A Partner?
Is it money? Is it sex? Is it a trophy or someone that can fix things?
Maybe it's a combination of them all.
Today, we'll discuss exactly what women are looking for in a partner.
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Being The Rebound Guy
How many times have you met someone and believe they're into you when in fact......You've just been chosen to assist them in getting over the last partner?
You're officially the "Rebound"!
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No Intercourse in Over A Year?
Hello Sexy Lovers!
I am Jeanson Benoit aka The Sex Mechanic. This podcast is aimed at discussions around sex, dating, and situationships and my experiences with them.
Along the way, I'll share stories of my past/present mistakes/lessons that you, the audience, can learn from.
In this first episode, I'm telling you how and why I've managed to go WITHOUT sexual intercourse for over a year.
Video version of this podcast can be found on YouTube @thesexmechanic and follow me on IG @thesexmechanic