Working Mama
By Jen Messer
Working MamaJun 08, 2022
Ep. 19 - Rightsizing Your Expectations Interview with Tara Borchers
About Tara Borchers:
Tara has been married for a super long time to Todd and they have three kids – Grace and Chloe are in college and Owen is in middle school. Tara lives in Richmond VA and works remotely for a financial services company where she is the head of the Diversity & Inclusion and HR Technology programs. Tara is rediscovering hobbies and exploring ways to enjoy the next stage in her life as her children leave the nest – new(er) hobbies include pickleball and kayaking – which help balance her favorite hobbies – traveling to new places and floating in the water. She also has too many pets (3 dogs and a hamster named Scarlett).
https://www.linkedin.com/in/tara-borchers-9726442/
Ep. 18 - Returning to Work After Baby; Interview with Lori Mihalich-Levin, JD
About Lori:
Lori Mihalich-Levin, JD, believes in empowering working parents. She is the founder and CEO of Mindful Return, author of Back to Work After Baby: How to Plan and Navigate a Mindful Return from Maternity Leave, and co-host of the Parents at Work Podcast. She is mama to two wonderful red-headed boys (ages 9 and 11) and is a health care lawyer in private practice. Her thought leadership has been featured in publications including Forbes, The Washington Post, New York Times Parenting, and Thrive Global.https://www.mindfulreturn.com/99-questions/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/lorimihalichlevin/
https://www.linkedin.com/company/mindful-return/
https://www.facebook.com/mindfulreturn
https://twitter.com/mindfulreturn
https://www.instagram.com/mindfulreturn/
https://www.pinterest.com/mindfulreturn/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/parents-at-work/id1239258343
Ep. 17 - Dominating a Sales Career and Motherhood; Interview with Monica Bean
About Monica:
I am passionate, persistent and focused Sales Account Manger who currently works in IT Sales in Upstate New York. In my role I am committed to supporting schools to support equitable access to technology. My favorite role that I play is Mom and I started that journey January 31st, 2020, to my little guy, Declan Gregory. Over the last few years, I have learned so much about self-advocacy, women empowerment, and the need for equitable opportunities in the technology industry, world of education and career advancement. I am passionate about bettering myself as a Mother, Daughter, Wife and Employee and hope to make a positive impact in people’s life as I navigate through my own journey.
Connect with Monica: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monicabean24/
Ep. 16 Making a Difference with Transformational Leadership Coach Urvi Patel
Urvi Patel is a private and group transformational leadership coach, status quo challenger, spirit-wonk, and way-shower. She collaborates with women of color leaders, change makers, and entrepreneurs to expand into what’s possible and maximize their potential by moving from a life lived by default to a life lived by design. Through her coaching and workshop experiences she supports self-exploration journeys and integration, communications and executive presence, and high-performance mindset development.
Urvi has led award-winning teams, advised foreign diplomats and C-suite executives, driven impactful community-changing projects, and helped raise tens of millions of dollars in public and private support for equity and access driven missions. Through this extensive experience, Urvi brings a passion for and a unique perspective to personal power in creating social impact.
As a coach, advisor, and speaker, Urvi engages national and international audiences through inspiring and empowering talks, workshops, and team experiences with this message: Your inner world is the source of all change in your outer world.
Follow Urvi & Download the Guide:
IG: @urvipatel.co
Website: urvipatel.co
Freebie: Microshifts That Lead to Macrochange: 3 practices to help you stand with social change
Have an idea for an episode or want to be a guest on the show? Drop me a DM on Linkedin or Instagram!
Ep. 15 - Equitable Partnership w/ Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt
In today's episode, I had the honor of interviewing Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt who is an expert in communication in romantic relationships. She is also the host of the Relationship Doctor podcast, which is a short form podcast where she provides relationship advice backed by relationship science research to promote healthier and happier relationships.
In this episode we dive into the ins and outs of equitable partnership and the challenges faced when both parents work. She gives loads of helpful insights and strategies to help couples communicate, support and manage the household tasks more effectively.
Rachel is no stranger to the challenges of being a working parent as she is a mom of two little ones, a 3 year old daughter and a 4 month old son. She left academic research three years ago to pursue industry research, and is currently a user experience researcher for an Ad Tech company.
Links:
TikTok: @RachelVanderbilt or on my website
Twitter: @rrvanderbilt
Instagram: @rachelvanderbiltphd
TikTok: @rachelvanderbilt
Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/rachelvanderbilt
You can also listen to the Relationship Doctor anywhere you stream your podcasts
14. The Unsung Superpowers of Working Moms
Moms bring to the table a plethora of what I like to call Superpower Skills that are often overlooked. If your company wants highly productive teams and a thriving work culture then it's time to start acknowledging skills and how they positively impact multiple areas. If you are looking for a confidence boost to help you shine, give this episode a listen and share with another mama!
Do you have a story to share with the working mom community? I'm looking for guests to feature on future episodes so connect with my on IG or LinkedIn to learn more!
Quote Referenced from article 'Mom Brain' Isn't a Joke - "The cognitive labor of running a household is as intense as running a Fortune 500 company,” Rodsky said."
Podcast Referenced: 13. Setting Boundaries at Work: Part 2
13. Setting Boundaries at Work: Part 2
In this episode we dive into why we struggle to set boundaries, why it's necessary to have them and how to go from feeling overwhelmed and perhaps even violated to empowered with standards around our time and energy at work.
Tune in to Episode 11 for more tips on setting boundaries around taking time off work!
12. Your Cycle & Productivity With Renae Fieck
In todays episode, I'm chatting with Renae Fieck creator of Your Cycle Advantage, Mom, and an expert when it comes to helping women leverage their cycles to achieve success. She shares some great advice to help women who may be feeling stuck, unmotivated and guilt around not performing their best. We get into the how to's of creating awareness around what's actually happening in our bodies, helping us detach from those negative emotions and flip the script so we can use momentum at different times of the month to bring our big goals to fruition.
https://renaefieck.com/
https://www.instagram.com/renaefieck/
11. Boundaries and PTO
Taking time off work can often time be stressful. As high performing working moms we bare the weight of the world on our shoulders at both work and home. This is one of the many reasons why it is so important to take our PTO - to disconnect, recharge and reconnect. Today we dive into how to set boundaries around your PTO and how to effectively use your PTO so you can go from feeling overwhelmed and anxiety ridden to refreshed, energized and happy about the time you take and the memories you make!
10. So They Think You're a Bleep... Chances are, you're not!
There are huge double standards that exist in the workplace. Being called a b*tch and condescending are just some of the things that have been said to me throughout my career. If you have too, you are in good company! Oftentimes women are told they are too assertive or aggressive when doing the same things a man would do in the workplace. So how do we change this? First step, we need to stop brushing it under the rug and bring awareness to the fact that this problem exists. In this episode we dive into examples of how this may show up in the workplace and why it is crucial that we change it.
Leadership Psychology Institute - Columbia School of Business Article
Let's connect! Shoot me a DM and let me know your thoughts on this episode:
9. How to Quit Your Job
In this episode we cover the do's and don'ts of quitting your job. Your last impression will be what your peers, co-workers, managers and leadership will remember you by. Make sure you leave a lasting, positive impression with these must do and don't do tips!
Did you find this podcast helpful? Be sure to connect and let me know on either Instagram or LinkedIn!
8. Fast Track Your Job Search With LinkedIn
LinkedIn is powerful tool and when used properly it can help you not only fast track your job search but also make meaningful career connections. With 30-50% of new hires coming from referrals, how you leverage LinkedIn can put you in a position to land your next job and get you closer to providing the life you want for you and your family.
If you are looking for help optimizing your profile, feel free to connect and DM me on LinkedIn!
7. Questions To Ask On An Interview
In today's episode we are covering what questions you should ask on an interview. Preparation is key to winning on an interview and that hiring manager will inevitably ask... "What questions do you have for me?" Avoid being stumped or looking like a deer-in-headlights with these go-to questions. It will show you are not only engaged and interested but it will open up the dialogue to leave that hiring manager saying "I want HER on my team!"
I'd love to hear your favorite go-to interview questions to ask. Shoot me a DM on IG or LinkedIn, I can't wait to connect!
Instagram: @workingmamapodcast or @jenLGmesser
Or Linkedin
6. Mitigate the Mom Guilt
In this episode we are talking about different ways to help you mitigate the mom guilt so you can feel empowered in your career while not losing the joy of raising your little humans.
Follow me on Instagram @workingmamapodcast or @jenLGmesser and be sure to connect on Linkedin
5. Why You Don't Need To Be A 100% Match to a Job Description to Apply
In today's episode, we are talking all about Job Descriptions and why you don't need to be a 100% match to feel empowered to apply.
4. Evolving Is Not Failing
If something no longer serves you, your family or your priorities – adjust, adapt and evolve!
Instagram: @workingmamapodast or @jenLGmesser
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenlgmesser/
3. Consistency & Action: The Keys to Achieving Your Goals
In this episode we cover what it takes to achieve your goals, why having goals is important as a mom and steps to help you take action! As moms we often push our desires and dreams aside because we are busy, overwhelmed and drained of energy. With the right mindset shift, consistency and action I want you to feel empowered to do the thing and go after what's been whispering to you on the inside. Doing something for you isn't selfish, it's necessary for your happiness, your health and your future well-being.
I'd love to hear about your goals so be sure to DM me on social media and share this podcast with another mama friend!
Instagram: @workingmamapodcast or @jenLGmesser
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenlgmesser/
2. Should You Talk About Your Kids on an Interview?
Today's episode talks about the big elephant in the room on an interview -- your other job as a mom! Should you bring it up? What should you say? Are they allowed to ask me about it? These are just some of the questions that may come across your mind when job searching.
So today we dive into how you can own your title as a mom and get the job you deserve. We will cover how to approach the subject to set the stage for setting boundaries, understanding if the work culture is right for you and also how your skills as a mom translate into you being a bad*ss employee!
Be sure to tune in for more episodes to help you on your career journey and if you want to hear about a specific topic, be sure to connect and message me on one of my social channels below.
Instagram: @workingmamapodcast or @jenLGmesser
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenlgmesser/
TikTok: @themesserfamily
1. How this Podcast Came to Be
In this episode, Jen Messer gives a peak into her past and how this podcast idea came to life. She talks about her journey in both her career and as a mom. She shares her goals for this podcast and topics she plans to cover which include:
- Job Search Strategies
- Career Advice and Motivation
- Balancing Home Life and Parenting
- Self-Care
She hopes this Podcast will help other busy, goal driven mama's recognize their worth and help turn their dreams and desires into real-life!
You can follow her here:
Instagram: @jenLGmesser or @workingmamapodcast
LinkedIn: Jen Messer
TikTok: @themesserfamily