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My So-Called (Mid)Life

My So-Called (Mid)Life

By Jennifer Bechtold

A weekly humor podcast discussing all things related to midlife, relationships, lifestyle, dating, and surviving menopause, and occasionally some news and current events thrown in.
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S4 Ep172 - A Second Chance at Goodbye

My So-Called (Mid)LifeMay 02, 2024

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S4 Ep172 - A Second Chance at Goodbye

S4 Ep172 - A Second Chance at Goodbye

If you could have one more day with someone you love who has died, would you? And how would you spend your time together?
May 02, 202425:57
S4 Ep171 - What Does It Mean to ‘Age Gracefully’?

S4 Ep171 - What Does It Mean to ‘Age Gracefully’?

Everywhere we look we see products to help us retain our youth, while also being told we should embrace our age. So which is it?
Apr 25, 202427:28
S4 Ep170 - IMO

S4 Ep170 - IMO

There is no shortage of stories dividing the internet. Let’s talk about some of them.
Apr 18, 202432:33
S4 Ep169 - Just the Lonely Talking

S4 Ep169 - Just the Lonely Talking

It was an emotional week and the Valerie Bertinelli news didn’t help.
Apr 11, 202429:54
S4 Ep168 - Money Mindset

S4 Ep168 - Money Mindset

According to a recent study the average single income in the US needs to be about $96k/year in order to live comfortably. Can this be true?
Mar 31, 202438:25
S4 Ep167 - In Dreams

S4 Ep167 - In Dreams

Researchers know that we dream, but not why we dream.
Mar 28, 202430:46
S4 Ep166 - Stop Calling It Laziness

S4 Ep166 - Stop Calling It Laziness

The only difference between laziness and d relaxation is the word we use to describe it.
Mar 14, 202429:33
S4 Ep165 - Being Present

S4 Ep165 - Being Present

We all know the importance of being present but is it really in our nature to be able to do?
Mar 07, 202439:26
S4 Ep164 - Emotional Roller Coaster

S4 Ep164 - Emotional Roller Coaster

Y’all it’s been a rough week
Feb 29, 202431:05
S4 Ep163 - Reinventing Nancy

S4 Ep163 - Reinventing Nancy

This week I tell the story of Anna March, aka Delaney Anderson, aka Nancy Kruse, aka Nancy Lott.
Feb 22, 202439:17
S4 Ep162 - I Have Questions

S4 Ep162 - I Have Questions

There’s nothing like going through a major medical incident to make you question well, everything.
Feb 15, 202433:17
S4 Ep161 - Recovery

S4 Ep161 - Recovery

When a medical emergency turns out to be a blessing
Feb 08, 202434:40
S4 Ep160 - Golden Resurgence

S4 Ep160 - Golden Resurgence

Yes, The Golden Girls was a great show, but I think there might be more to its recent resurgence.
Feb 01, 202436:54
S4 Ep159 - Crossing Over

S4 Ep159 - Crossing Over

I saw a video recently on YouTube with John Edward. What he said has stayed with me and I thought maybe someone else needs to hear it, too.
Jan 25, 202436:42
S4 Ep158 - Letting Go

S4 Ep158 - Letting Go

Generational trauma is real, but it doesn’t have to your reality.
Jan 18, 202439:29
S4 Ep157 - Non-Negotiable

S4 Ep157 - Non-Negotiable

What are your non-negotiables?
Jan 11, 202432:38
S4 Ep156 - Failure is An Option

S4 Ep156 - Failure is An Option

Don’t let your fear of failure. It’s time to reframe your mindset when it comes to failure.
Jan 04, 202433:08
S4 Ep155 - 2024: The Year of [     ]

S4 Ep155 - 2024: The Year of [ ]

What do you want your theme to be for 2024?
Dec 21, 202334:24
S4 Ep154 - Conviction

S4 Ep154 - Conviction

Sure, cults are scary, but I have to admit I’m a little envious of their devotion.
Dec 14, 202333:09
S4 Ep153 - Nobody’s Perfect

S4 Ep153 - Nobody’s Perfect

Breaking the cycle of perfectionism
Dec 07, 202342:06
S4 Ep152 - Today’s Lens

S4 Ep152 - Today’s Lens

What is the presentism fallacy?
Nov 30, 202334:39
S4 Ep151 - Imaginary Friends

S4 Ep151 - Imaginary Friends

Having an imaginary friend isn’t that uncommon, even as an adult.
Nov 16, 202328:18
S4 Ep150 - Golden Bachelor

S4 Ep150 - Golden Bachelor

I watched the first five episodes of Golden Bachelor and I have thoughts
Nov 09, 202337:06
S4 Ep149 - Dia de los Muertos

S4 Ep149 - Dia de los Muertos

Dia de los Muertos - a celebration of life.
Nov 02, 202326:04
S4 Ep148 - Crisis of Confidence

S4 Ep148 - Crisis of Confidence

Ever have one of those days were so much goes wrong you start questioning every decision you’ve ever made? What to do when your having a crisis of confidence
Oct 26, 202338:37
S4 Ep147 - Rewiring

S4 Ep147 - Rewiring

Neuroplasticity: How Rewiring our brain can help when dealing with past trauma.
Oct 19, 202338:28
S4 Ep146 - DV/IPV Awareness

S4 Ep146 - DV/IPV Awareness

Episode Note: Today’s topic talks about domestic violence and intimate partner violence. Listener discretion is advised.
Oct 12, 202336:19
S4 Ep145 - Shadow Work

S4 Ep145 - Shadow Work

Working on your shadow self
Sep 28, 202336:32
S4 Ep144 - #GirlMath

S4 Ep144 - #GirlMath

Another week, another Tik Tok controversy
Sep 21, 202327:27
S4 Ep143 - Kintsugi

S4 Ep143 - Kintsugi

The Japanese art form of Kintsugi and how we can apply the philosophy to our lives
Sep 14, 202324:16
S4 Ep142 - Should vs. Must

S4 Ep142 - Should vs. Must

The difference between should and must and the effect it has in our thought process and motivation
Sep 07, 202327:04
S4 Ep141 - The Emotion of Music

S4 Ep141 - The Emotion of Music

If you have ever had an emotional response to to music, you’re not imagining it. It’s actually based on science.
Aug 31, 202332:15
S4 Ep140 - Potential

S4 Ep140 - Potential

Falling in love with potential
Aug 24, 202334:13
S4 Ep139 - Mudita

S4 Ep139 - Mudita

What is Mudita and how can we incorporate it into our lives?
Aug 17, 202330:06
S3 Ep138 - Selfie Culture

S3 Ep138 - Selfie Culture

After the recent incident between an Instagram influencer and Miranda Lambert, has Selfie culture gotten out of control?
Jul 27, 202331:58
S3 Ep137 - Girl Dinner

S3 Ep137 - Girl Dinner

Let’s talk about #girlsdinner and the controversy around it. Sometimes a snack plate is just a snack plate.
Jul 20, 202326:58
S3 Ep136 - Connections

S3 Ep136 - Connections

Over 50 and finding it hard to make genuine connections with people? You’re not alone
Jul 13, 202328:16
S3 Ep135 - The Endless Cycle of Longing

S3 Ep135 - The Endless Cycle of Longing

How do we stop longing for what we wish we had
Jul 06, 202327:36
S3 Ep134 - What’s Happened to Our Empathy?

S3 Ep134 - What’s Happened to Our Empathy?

Empathy in Americans is on the decline, but why?
Jun 29, 202325:40
S3 Ep133 - Artificial Intelligence

S3 Ep133 - Artificial Intelligence

AI definitely has its advantages, but is it really the answer?
Jun 22, 202331:21
S3 Ep132 - Family Matters

S3 Ep132 - Family Matters

The importance of intergenerational relationships within families
Jun 15, 202332:45
S3 Ep131 - Guilt

S3 Ep131 - Guilt

Guilt, useful or useless?
Jun 01, 202323:27
S3 Ep130 - Small Things

S3 Ep130 - Small Things

Small kindnesses
May 25, 202326:20
S3 Ep129 - Unhealthy Boundaries

S3 Ep129 - Unhealthy Boundaries

You probably know how to set healthy boundaries in your relationships, but what about unhealthy boundaries.
May 18, 202327:60
S3 Ep128 - Promise Me

S3 Ep128 - Promise Me

Think breaking a promise to yourself doesn’t matter? Think again.
May 11, 202330:02
S3 Ep127 - Clouds Illusions

S3 Ep127 - Clouds Illusions

We’ve all experienced unrequited love. How to break the habit of one-sided relationships.
May 04, 202332:39
S3 Ep126 - Money Matters

S3 Ep126 - Money Matters

Let’s talk about money
Apr 27, 202336:17
S3 Ep125 - Living Together Separately
Apr 20, 202332:14
S3 Ep124 - Who Do I Think I Am

S3 Ep124 - Who Do I Think I Am

What’s in a name?
Apr 13, 202326:33
S3 Ep123 - Is Happiness a Choice?

S3 Ep123 - Is Happiness a Choice?

Is happiness a choice? Yes, and no.
Apr 06, 202331:22