Crazy Juicy Love with Jimmy Allen

The best and worst thing about taking a stand for love or for what you want is that it can feel damn lonely. 

Taking a stand: To hold, assume, or express a very strong or adamant position on some issue.

Kevin and Jimmy talk about the loneliness of taking a stand for what you want and how it is also librating.

It's an act of bravery.

It's an act of kindness.

It's an act of compassion and love. 

How will you take a stand for love today?

How men can get out of their heads and into their hearts to thrive and succeed in love.

Often as men, we spend way too much in our heads overthinking, analyzing, and overachieving that we miss the moments that matter.

We miss the moments that we never get back without kids, wives, husbands, friends, and family. Sadly, many men miss their calling in life because they spend too much time in their head and not connecting to what's inside, which is guiding you to a higher purpose. 

Chirs Wilson, the Unshakeable man's Owner, he and I dive into why it is important to take daily moments to connect within to thrive in love and our purpose. 

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The 3 C's that shuts men down completely and how to gain your sense of self back.

Fresh out of a weekend with Ton Robbins on Relationships. In this podcast, you will find out what are the 

3 C's that shut men down and closed them off. And you might be experiencing this in your life.  We get into it and how to start reclaiming back your sense of self. 

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Shame is the killer of all creativity and emotional connection.

When men feel criticized, they don't feel good enough, when they don't feel good enough, they shut down and closed themselves off.

In this podcast, we explore the downside of men shaming each other and how it keeps us disconnected from love and life.

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Why men don't ask for help? Part One

There is this false belief that if men ask for help that we are weak and we shame men and then we shut down.

In this podcast, we go into why it is detrimental to men not asking for help and how have the courage to heal and thrive

If you need help, I am hear for you. 

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I am honored to have Mike Sagun on the show. He is a men's coach. He helps men get out of their heads and into their bodies so they can begin to heal. 

We have a deep conversation about how it is important for men to get out of their heads and into their bodies so they can heal from their past. We all have been through boy shaming as kids and it affects us as adults. 

It is time to heal men. You can heal 

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You are stronger than your divorce or break-up.

You might feel hopeless, lost, and depressed.  Many of us are in reaction to our separations, instead of being a learner of our situation.

Your situation is there to teach you and grow you. There is something that you need to learn that you are refusing to see or acknowledge.

There is so much power in self-reflection and owning your part. It is where I grew tremendously, and I am here to share how you can grow, pick yourself up, and thrive again. 

You do not have to do this alone.

How to forgive when you don't want to.

I know. I know. We want to be right about what the other person did or did not do to us. I get it. Here is what a wise coach told me, he said, "Resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die." You are the one who is dying inside. And there are ways to get out of that hateful cycle.

Remember, you do not have to do this alone.

How to break the cycle of unworthiness. 

Many of us feel so helpless as if we can not do anything about our feelings of unworthiness. That is not true. You can change that belief, and you have to be willing to do the work to get there. It takes tremendous courage to get out of your own way. And the only way out of it, it's through it.

You don't have to do this on your own. 

There are so many benefits to practicing forgiveness. The biggest one is that forgiveness help relinquishes the story or the past that you created so you begin your healing.  AND it gives you peace of mind. Wow. I can't tell you how much peace of mind I am enjoying right now.

You do not have to do this alone.

7 reasons why men don't ask for help and the damage it brings to men.

Here are a lot of reasons why men don't ask for help and the number one reason why men

don't ask for help is because of what they were TAUGHT to believe about getting help. WEAKNESS.

This is a false belief. Since 2006, there has been a rise in suicide with men and it keeps going up.

We can change this men. You are worthy of living your BEST LIFE.

Never be afraid to reach out for help.

I am here for you.

5 reasons why your relationship made you feel depressed or invisible.

There is no good way to talk about this topic but it is an important topic so you can take action in order

to maintain your happiness. Your happiness comes first and it is time to claim it. 

You do not have to do this alone. I am here for you.

How to own your worth without feeling small in a relationship!

I have been running into a lot of men who are feeling unworthy in relationships so

I created this series in order to guide men to step into their worth and give clues as to why 

you are feeling the way you feel men.

Break the mold of the "bro" code. That shit it out. You were born to stand out and thrive in love.

If you need help, hop on a no-pressure call with me so I can see how I can add value to your situation.

Let's go from there.

Signs that your relationship is making you feel small and what to do about it.

Happy New Year. Yes. We are going in. We are getting to the core of some hard shit this year and how to rise above it all.

You do not have to do it alone. The real courage is raising your hand or standing up to say, "I need help."

Asking for help is a sign of strength and not weakness. 

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Making the unconscious conscious can be JARRING.  Did you know that we are operating from the unconscious mind 90% of the time? That's right. You are making choices that you have on idea that you are making all because of an idea that you agreed to years ago or from a break-up that you made decades ago. When you bring the unconscious conscious, you get out of your own way and the pathway to love and having a great relationship is made clear.

For additional Conscious Dating tips, please join me on my Youtube page. Enjoy.

Letting go of judgment is a SKILL. We often judge people before we even meet them. When you are look at your next potential suitor or gal, as you look at their profile and BEFORE you swipe left, ask yourself, "Do I have any judgements about this person?" And be honest. The key of being a conscious dater is being honest with yourself and you can see where you need to grow and allow love to grow within you.

For additional Conscious Dating tips, please join me on my Youtube page. Enjoy.

Are you addicted to Love and Sex? I know I have been. Are you obsessed over a person or you'd hook-up constantly and hoping that one of these 

hook-ups would turn into some magical love story? Or Are you one of those who automatically fantasied your wedding with this person that you haven't even met yet?  Raise your hand. If this sounds like you, then you might have an addiction to love.  Expert Katie Grimes and I love talk about our own journey from breaking the cycles of obsessing over love and sex. 

Leave a common below and let us know your insights. 

Katie  is  an International Sober Dating Coach to spiritual women of all backgrounds. As digital course creator, thought leader on the subject of emotional sobriety.  She mentors other women to trust their intuition and be guided to make miraculous shifts in their thoughts, feelings and life-experiences so they can become  healthy partners and attract the right partner into their lives. 

Website: https://www.katiegrimes.com/

"Let Love unfold." Wayne Dyer says If you look to nature, nature is happening. Nothing is forcing each other to grow or to move. Life is happening on it's on. Often times, we try to force love to happen instead allowing it to happen. I can admit that this was ver scary for me and there is so much beauty in letting it all unfold. I am so thrilled to be sharing this idea with you.

For additional Conscious Dating tips, please join me on my Youtube page. Enjoy.

When you know your None negotiables , it will save you plenty of headaches. It will even save you time swiping left on that cute face

or dating that married person. Are you ready to dive into this podcast? Let's do it. 

Also... Enjoy brand new conscious dating tips on my YouTube page. 

 When people tell you who they are, believe them. This quote is by the famous Maya Angelo. When she said this to Oprah, it hit me. This person that I was dating was telling me who they were along and I was not paying attention. I stared to serious go through each and every person I dated and asked myself, "What did they tell me that I did not pay attention too?" The answer was shocking.  

Enjoy this podcast and enjoy the series on Youtube but totally different content on conscious dating. 

Conscious dating advice: How knowing your patterns in love can shift your dating life with Jimmy Allen

To often we aimless date and we ignore the patterns that are right in from of that indicate that we are the ones who are choosing

the same person over and over and we blame the other person. When you hold the mirror up to ourselves, then we can see "Oh I got some work to do." 

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Are you trying to control every little aspect of the date? Raise ur hand because I am raising mine.

I use to be that person and I want to show you how being a conscious dater can help you release that control and go with the flow and have fun with dating. 

Enjoy,

Join me on October 30th for my webinar Calling in the one and How to start consciously dating."

6 pm and it's free. There will be chances to win discounts on coaching and prizes.

Listen Boo, your pictures are TELLING on YOU, and you could be missing out on  all the clues that your potential mate is leaving you by simply posting a photo. AND, Boo, you might be telling on yourself with your photos. Yes, boo, yes. 

This podcast is dedicated to help you become a conscious dater and how to start consciously dating for success. 

Enjoy!

Join me on October 30th for my webinar Calling in the one and How to start consciously dating."

6 pm and it's free. There will be chances to win discounts on coaching and prizes.

Tyler is certified Holistic Health and Wellness Coach who specializes in helping chronic dieters ditch the diet and sustain a happy and healthy life. 

Tyler and I discuss how the mentality around dieting can have a impact on your mental and physical well-being,  and it can drive you in to self shaming and cause you to shame others. We talk about how to break that cycle and ditch that diet and that destructive mentality in order to step into radical love. 

During these exceptional times, I bring to Olivia K. She is an amazing singer and we discuss these exceptional times and she brings her gift of song to the platform with Valerie by Amy Winehouse.

The K in Olivia K, Khe-ra, means "Daughter of the Sun," which perfectly describes her joyous outlook on life and fiery disposition. Olivia K has lived in Brooklyn her whole life, except four years uptown at Columbia University. Her iconic voice and original writing can be heard on Netflix's Tales of the City, as well as in commercials, and most unusually, the subways of NYC. As the DIY Funk Queen of East New York, she has led her band Olivia K and the Parkers in opening for Kermit Ruffins, and has her anthem "Native New Yorker" archived in the permanent archives of Brooklyn Academy of Music (BAM).

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A lot of gay men fear to conform to mainstream norms which in reality you create your own relationship but we have these deep-rooted beliefs that keep love at bay. And end up alone over and over again. It shows in our attitude, in our conversations, and we blame and shame others in order to mask that guilty and empty feeling. I've been there too.  In this podcast, we discuss why that happens after hooking up. 

Do any of these sound familiar?  You chronically look for love in all the wrong ways (that ensure you will not get it.) You can't maintain a relationship for 2 weeks to two months and love always leave you. A lot of gay men can not sustain or maintain love because there is an unconscious belief that is running the show. In this podcast, you will learn where that belief comes from and how to evolve and get yourself on the right track. 

We get so busy and so self-sufficient and start to proclaim that we don't need anyone and I hear these gay men all the time say same thing over and over. But HOWEVER…. It's where that belief is coming from that is costing you to unconsciously make you single. If you have been hurt in the past, you are coming from a hurt place. If you've been rejected, you are coming from a hurt place. If your parents told you to never rely on someone, that's passed down hurt. In this podcast, we explore where that belief comes from and how to push back on that belief to start you on the right path to finding love. 

Rish Mitra is an Engineer by profession and a true renaissance man. He is a father of a handsome 2.5-year-old who is his world and doggy dad of a German Shepherd and a Pug. Rish is also creating his MAN UP program to help MEN and DADS find their true selves through lifestyle change.

When I tell you, this was a divine order for us to me, it was meant for Rish and I to meet and connect and create this podcast.  We start off with a quote from Brene Brown.  She says "We got out of our away to avoid being vulnerable because it makes us seem fragile. We "Man up" every morning which is emotional amour so nothing won't "hurt" us when in fact, we are hurting ourselves and we teach each other bad behavior."

This a powerful episode and I am happy that it was created. 

Dating it's definitely changing the way we do the courtship, and it brings back that old school way of getting to know someone. Your relationship Coach, Jimmy Allen, gives you 7 tips in order for you to elevate your love life in this new way of finding love. 

There is a bonus for Pride, you can download my on-line dating workshop for free on my website AND you can get a free workbook on how to define your needs if you schedule a 20 minute - Free discovery call with me. Happy Pride.

Queer Conscious Coach Nathan and I talk about gay men and healing. We dive deep into our own personal struggles with coming into our own awareness that coming out is a traumatic experience. The mental mindset that men have to go through has a lasting effect on gay men. The consistent fitting into gay norms has an effect. The consistent push against what is to be a man in society has longer-term effects on gay men. However, once you become aware of how some of our chooses keep us single, on the prowl, lonely at 40, then we can shift the way we show up in the world and heal old childhood wounds and begin our journey to healing and becoming conscious and show up as powerful and beautiful men that you are in the world. 

Shane is a licensed clinical social worker and a Connecticut native. Shane received his Master’s Degree from the University of Connecticut School of Social Work in 2012. Today we chat about What are some common things gay men struggle within his clinical practice. Gay men start to create these "mask" or stereotypes that we being to live into them not knowing they are born out of childhood trauma.

Lindsay is the creator of Raw Strategies for entrepreneurs and she lays down some amazing ways to get your career moving in the right direction.

Tip/Step 1: The Big List: Do a no-holds-barred brain dump of all of your dreams, aspirations, goals, and desires for the personal, financial and career aspects of your life. I'll include rules to do this.

Tip/Step 2: The Cut List: Create 2 lists (kiss list, kill list) where you slash and burn the goals that are not moving you toward surviving now to thrive later. I'll include 6 mini tips in here.

Tip/Step 3: Maps Your Actions: This is where there are a few key steps to mapping the actual steps you'll take to put these goals into action

Lindsay Rogers is a storyteller. She began her career as a magazine editor, then freelance journalist for Outside, National Geographic Adventure, Skiing, MSNBC, Yahoo! and many more. After years of telling other people’s stories, she began training companies, brands and trade associations on how to use storytelling to engage and resonate with their audiences.

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Collette and I discuss the red flags you all need to look for with on-line and zoom dating. These are juicy and I personally had an experience with one of these red flags. Y'all I almost  got scammed for a $1000 dollars. You heard right. I will tell you more about in the podcast. 

Peak Performance coach Sabrina and I discuss how to stay mentally strong when times are hard. We all know that this current get to a lot of us so it can feel like you are going insane for some of us. Sabrina and I chat about three ways you can stay mentally strong during this pandemic.

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Relationship problems and how to solve them is a conversation with Conflict Coach Rich Heller.

He provides a step by steps actions on how to help couples, friends and room mates solves problems with the home.

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How to be single and build the right foundation while you are single is sooooo important. Coach Caitlin and I discuss three tips that can help singles build a solid foundation now while they are in quarantine. Are you ready? 1) Before you get out there, you need to build a foundation. 2) Take action 3) Be creative in your dating search and adventures.

Part 2 of The Art of Receiving with KC and Jimmy.

Old belief cripple a lot of men. We've been held on old beliefs that didn't  serves us.  WE actually reject what god and the universe has intended for us by not allowing others to contribute to us.  In part 2, we talk about The mask that most men live in and how to involve into a better version of ourselves.

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Youtuber's TeamKLwhat bring the funny to the show. We test to see how much love do this team really love each other. This is a game show style show so enjoy and laugh.

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KC (therapist ) and Jimmy (Relationship Coach) created a part two of their recent podcast.....

We hit the topic of The art of receiving. Most of us are good givers and are terrible receivers. It’s that yin and yang. We need both.

In the book Calling in "The One" by Katherine Woodward Thomas, she says  “When we are looking for a spiritual partner, we are looking for someone who gets our greatness. And not just someone who’s greatness we see.”

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Creating anchors are like creating bookmarks in your mind.  It allows you to fast-track back to a certain state, thought or feeling almost instantly if done correctly. Brain Gorman gives three tips on how to use anchors in order to center ourselves and peace of mind in an intense environment. 

How entrepreneurs think  with Eugene Litvak and Jimmy Allen.

Eugene Litvak is the Founder of The Litvak Team with Compass. I love this man and he is so full of insight and tools

that you can use now to take action with your business and daily life.  Today we talk budget, powerful beliefs/narratives, and how to use leverage as a tool to take massive action now during this coronavirus pandemic. 

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Jocelyn Cruz graces us with a voice out of this world with the sound Rise up. We talk about hope, growth and rising up during this current moment.

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How to be a successful entrepreneur during the Coronavirus pandemic with Gustavo David Ortiz and Jimmy Allen,

Gustavo David Ortiz is an Entrepreneur and Real Estate professional. Gustavo outlines three tips that he feel is the best things you can do right now in order to grow and expand yourself and your business. 

3 tips on what entrepreneurs should do right now  to stay ahead in their business with Ralph Dibugnara.

Ralph is getting up every day at 430am to grow and expand his business which also allows so to spend the rest of the day with his family.

Ralph and I talk about how routine, branding and personal development is so critical right now in this current moment.

Working from home how to be productivity for entrepreneurs and how  taking massive action now could be beneficial for you and your business. 

A few years ago during the financial crisis, Walmart doubled down on their business where as K-Mart pulled back on their business. K-mart is now closing more stores where as Walmart doubled their business in growth.

Coach Fede shares his top three things on how to keep it moving during the Coronavirus pandemic. 

Fede Fernandez Olivero is a High Performance Mentor, Keynote Speaker, Trainer , Consultant and Executive coach, with background in Human Resources, Political Sciences, NLP and Ontological Coaching. He has more than 13 years of multicultural experience in corporations, developing and leading high performance teams both locally and globally. Fede is Profesor and Director of the UCA business school alumni of the Disney Institute. Currently he specializes in Talent Management, Change Management, Communication and Leadership for companies throughout the continent.

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