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Pinoy Love Language

Pinoy Love Language

By Roanne de Guia-Samuels, LMFT

Roanne is a licensed Psychotherapist mom and an immigrant twice in America. She has frequented 500 Filipino homes and is the author of the book: 5 Pinoy Love Languages. Episodes include a deep dive into cultural nuances rarely talked about in Filipino American Psychology, trauma-informed conversations AND her fav Pinoy Love Languages, the unique ways Filipinos seek and express affection.
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#6 PAKIRAMDAM: THE MOST MISUNDERSTOOD FILIPINO CORE VALUE

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EPISODE#31: GUILT VS SHAME
EPISODE#31: GUILT VS SHAME
What's the difference between shame and guilt and is there any evolutionary function for each? Does culture influence our feelings of shame? In this episode, let's explore- the evolutionary function of guilt guilt in a collectivistic culture vs in America how the focus on function and productivity can influence self-inflicted guilt antidote for guilt at iba pa...(and many more). Mentioned links in this podcast The KJ Blog: www.kalamansijuice.com The KJ Academy The Inner Child Playground: 30 Days to Playful Restoration Maraming salamat for listening, please feel free to leave me your comments or topic suggestions @info@kalamansijuice.com
31:59
January 05, 2023
EP #30: SHADOW SIDE OF UTANG NA LOOB & GRATITUDE
EP #30: SHADOW SIDE OF UTANG NA LOOB & GRATITUDE
Honoring our elders and those who came before us is a beautiful gesture. When does the concept of utang na loob and the expectation to be grateful create harm in ourselves and in our relationships? In this episode, let's explore: the difference and adaptive use of being grateful versus gratefulness from fear-based intention how do you know if you have repressed your emotions in the name of utang na loob or being grateful why people prefer to be just be grateful than to heal from their own woundings what to do if you have repressed emotions in the name of utang na loob and being grateful ...and many more. Helpful Links- 30 Days to Inner Child Playground Course https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/inner-child-playground-30-days-to-restoration Read the Kalamansi Juice Blog https://kalamansijuice.com/blog/ Other self-paced courses on Inner Child Healing & Filipino Culture Nuances https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/ Kalamansi Juice TV youtube Channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCy-yhqsVB81QHHI18o011gA Thank you po for listening. If you have any questions for this Filipina Therapist, feedback, suggestions for a topic, leave me a message at info@kalamansijuice.com.
24:33
October 25, 2022
EP #29: FILIPINO RELIGIOSITY IN AMERICA VS IN THE PHILIPPINES
EP #29: FILIPINO RELIGIOSITY IN AMERICA VS IN THE PHILIPPINES
Are Catholics/ Christians the same elsewhere? In this episode, let's explore: Filipino religiosity in the motherland vs in America how immigration can transform the Filipino spirituality/religiosity how folk Catholicism is a buffer to colonized form of religiosity how do you see your God? ....and many more Check these out: Kalamansi Juice Blog  https://kalamansijuice.com/blog/  Self-paced Courses/ E- Book in the Kalamansi Juice Academy https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/ Love Mapping Course for Couples https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/love-mapping-for-couples Thank you po for listening and if you enjoy this podcast, please leave a review! Ingat, Roanne
24:53
October 13, 2022
EP #28: ON GRIEF & FRIENDSHIP: THE STORY OF ANT AND SNAIL
EP #28: ON GRIEF & FRIENDSHIP: THE STORY OF ANT AND SNAIL
Grief is not something you get over with,  for it is from the seed of love that grief sprouts from. In this episode- explore the concept of GRIEF through the eyes of two friends: Snail and Ant How grief can be a challenge to those supporting the Griever How the Griever can facilitate his own support and how it looks like to him/her. How support people can sit with the GRIEVER in times of intense pain. I'd so appreciate if you can leave a stellar review to this podcast, if called to do! Check out the blog  www.kalamansijuice.com Offerings of Self-Paced Courses https://kalamansijuiceacademy.com Salamat po for listening, Roanne
12:25
September 21, 2022
EP #27: COMMON REASONS FILIPINOS SEEK THERAPY
EP #27: COMMON REASONS FILIPINOS SEEK THERAPY
There is a misconception that you have to be diagnosable Mental Health condition to seek therapy. In this episode, let's explore- myths about therapy vs coaching common reasons Filipinos seek therapy what to do next if you find yourself needing support,  and more Learn more about Story Therapy Here. To schedule a 30 minute complimentary consult, access Roanne's calendar here. To read the blog https://kalamansijuice.com/blog/ Follow me on: IG instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Youtube  Thank you po for listening! If you have any topic or question for this Filipina Therapist, please write with the subject line #askthisFilipinatherapist @ info @kalamansijuice.com.
12:01
August 22, 2022
EP #26: THE ART OF SLOWING DOWN
EP #26: THE ART OF SLOWING DOWN
Honoring the wisdom of your body through the art of slowing down. Slow is fast. In this episode, let's explore how productivity mindset can wreck a havoc on your mind and body using your calendar to remind you to slow down the art of noticing, what you forget to do when you're moving too fast the real exercise for the mind/body to accelerate your happiness health Mentioned links and helpful resources: Slow Down to Accelerate Your Happiness Health 5 PInoy Love Languages Ebook Download Story Therapy/Coaching with Roanne If you'd like to receive weekly love notes from Roanne in your inbox, join here. Salamat po for listening! if it speaks to you, please leave a review so that others can find this podcast. sa uulitin, Roanne
19:18
July 14, 2022
EP #25: HOW CULTURE INFLUENCES YOUR DECISIONS
EP #25: HOW CULTURE INFLUENCES YOUR DECISIONS
Do you decide on your own accord? Social Psychologist and anthropologist tells us that culture is like water to fish. You can't deny its existence absent of noticing it. In this episode, let's explore- How culture influences your decision-making how shared identity is an invisible thread that connects us all the independence paradox of American mindset how to belong and initiate alignment with your core values Mentioned links and helpful resources: How Culture Influences Your Decision-Making Blog The 5 Pinoy Love Languages Ebook Download Masterclass: Pakiramdam-Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words Interested with working with Roanne 1:1? Learn more about Story Therapy/Coaching Salamat po for listening. If you  like this podcast, please share with others! Sa uulitin, Roanne
23:19
June 30, 2022
#24: THE CURSE OF THE GOOD CHILD
#24: THE CURSE OF THE GOOD CHILD
What’s the cost of being the “good one,” the one expected to follow the path promised with lavish confetti and head nods of approval in the family? In this episode, let's explore- Who is the good child? the conditions that raise the good child the curse of the good child, manifestations and cost good to neither good or bad but just is Mentioned and /or other helpful resources: Blog Post: The Curse of the Good Child Masterclass on Pakiramdam: Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words Kalamansi Juice Blog Want to consult with Roanne, follow this link for a complimentary consult. Learn more about Story Therapy/Coaching here. Remember that you can ask a question to the PInay therapist by sending me a direct email of your questions and feedback @info@kalamansijuice.com  Maraming salamat for listening, Roanne
18:50
June 16, 2022
#23: WELL FED BUT EMOTIONALLY HUNGRY
#23: WELL FED BUT EMOTIONALLY HUNGRY
Were you well-provided for- a roof over your head, meals that don't go out of style, went to a good school but feel emotionally malnourished? In this episode, let's explore: how immigration for a Filipino immigrant may aggravate this malnourished cycle manifestations that you are emotionally hungry tips on how to feed your hungry parts and many more... Mentioned in this episode- Kalamansi Juice Blog 5 Pinoy Love Languages EBook If you're interested in transforming your Story, learn more about Story Therapy/Coaching here. The Masterclass on Pakiramdam: Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com salamat po for listening, Roanne
16:02
May 26, 2022
#22: PASALUBONG: THE MOST ENDEARING PINOY LOVE LANGUAGE
#22: PASALUBONG: THE MOST ENDEARING PINOY LOVE LANGUAGE
EP 22 What is Pasalubong and why is it so endearing to many Filipinos? In this episode, explore- the definition of pasalubong and why it's valuable in the Filipino culture the light and shadow side of this Pinoy Love Language a case example of using pasalubong to ease up tension in a relationship ...and much more. Roanne mentioned the following- THE 7 PINOY LOVE LANGUAGE COURSE READ THE BLOG FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
11:42
April 28, 2022
#21: LIGOY: GOING AROUND THE BUSH
#21: LIGOY: GOING AROUND THE BUSH
EP 21  Why is it that when you asks a Filipino sometimes that they go around the bush rather than telling you straight up what’s on their mind? What is the Pinoy Love Language of Ligoy? In this episode, let's explore- what is ligoy? What is the cultural and social implications of this Pinoy Love Language? How to respond to someone who is using this PLL? Using the RULER Method, a culturally responsive way to deepen your Pinoy Relationships. If you want to deepen your cultural knowledge about yourself, learn more about the 7 PINOY LOVE LANGUAGES COURSE Want to consult with Roanne? follow this link for a complimentary consult Remember that you can ask a question to the PInay therapist by sending me a direct email of your questions and feedback @info@kalamansijuice.com  Maraming salamat for listening, Roanne
13:33
April 14, 2022
#20: COLLECTIVE COREGULATION VS CO-DEPENDENCY
#20: COLLECTIVE COREGULATION VS CO-DEPENDENCY
EP20 What is collective co-regulation? In this episode, we will explore- What's the difference between self-regulation (self-soothing) and co-regulation Is coregulation the same as co-dependency? If not, how are they different? How the Filipino culture hone coregulation over self-regulation the case of example of Junjun to learn how co-regulation is activated in a cultural and practical setting. If you're interested in transforming your Story, learn more about Story Therapy/Coaching here. The Masterclass on Pakiramdam: Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
21:26
March 31, 2022
# 19 ISUSUMBONG KITA SA TATAY KO!
# 19 ISUSUMBONG KITA SA TATAY KO!
Why is sumbong a language of love for Filipinos and how do you love someone back who's using this love expression? In this episode, we will explore- the PInoy Love Language of Sumbong. What is it? How does it manifest? The shadow and light side of this PLL how to set healthy boundaries Don't forget that you can ask a question to this Pinay Therapist @ info@kalamansijuice.com Visit the blog at www.kalamansijuice.com Access the FREE Pinoy Love Language webinar Masterclass on Pakiramdam: Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words Consult with Roanne here Salamat po for listening! Please don't forget to leave a stellar review below.
10:57
March 03, 2022
#18 COREGULATION: SEEKING OTHERS FOR COMFORT
#18 COREGULATION: SEEKING OTHERS FOR COMFORT
Are Filipinos coregulators (someone who finds soothing in reaching out proximity with others)? In this episode, we will explore: what coregulation means codependency vs coregulation what happens to Filipinos in immigration & theis soothing strategies how to coregulate in a healthy manner with Filipino loved ones. Don't forget to visit the blog at www.kalamansijuice.com Access the FREE Pinoy Love Language webinar Masterclass on Pakiramdam: Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words Consult with Roanne here Salamat po for listening! Please don't forget to leave a stellar review below.
17:55
February 03, 2022
#17 SELF-REGULATION: FILIPINOS ON SELF-SOOTHING
#17 SELF-REGULATION: FILIPINOS ON SELF-SOOTHING
How does self-soothing strategies vary between individualistic and collective cultures? In this episode, explore- what self-regulation is and how our caregivers tend to you influence our ability to self-soothe how you learn to cope as children when caregivers do not fulfill your emotional need the connection between the Pinoy Love Languages and how Filipinos seek and express affection ...and many more. Roanne mentioned the following- Masterclass on Pakiramdam: Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words Kalamansi Juice Blog Want to consult with Roanne, follow this link for a complimentary consult Remember that you can ask a question to the PInay therapist by sending me a direct email of your questions and feedback @info@kalamansijuice.com  Maraming salamat for listening, Roanne
21:51
January 21, 2022
#16 DISEASE CAUSALITY: NAMALIGNO (BEWITCHED)
#16 DISEASE CAUSALITY: NAMALIGNO (BEWITCHED)
Met anyone who was taught to be namaligno? This is one disease causality that is used in the motherland to explain an unexplained phenomenon. In this episode, let’s explore- What is namaligno? What use does this concept play in the Filipino culture? Does namaligno help heal or delay health care access? ...and many more. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
26:19
October 01, 2021
#15 DISEASE CAUSALITY: SUMPA (CURSE)
#15 DISEASE CAUSALITY: SUMPA (CURSE)
Why is it important to culturally understand how Filipinos explain the cause(s) of diseases? Does this still influence in diaspora? In this episode, let’s explore- Meaning of Sumpa The difference between Sumpa and Gaba How this disease causality renders delay in care (physical and mental health) How shame plays a role in accessing care ….and many more. INTERESTED IN STORY THERAPY? Learn more HERE LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
18:28
September 24, 2021
#14 DISEASE CAUSALITY: LIHI
#14 DISEASE CAUSALITY: LIHI
Lihi is one way Filipinos in the Islands may use to explain a cause of a disease/ deformity based on maternal deprivation during pregnancy. In this episode, we will explore- What is Lihi? How Lihi affects our help-seeking behaviors How Lihi still influence our modern Filipino mind-set ...and many more. HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words INTERESTED IN STORY THERAPY? Learn more HERE FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
13:47
September 17, 2021
#13 DISEASE CAUSALITY: MANA
#13 DISEASE CAUSALITY: MANA
Naku, manang-mana ka sa tatay mo! (you're just like your father) In this episode, let's explore- the disease causality of Mana. what is it? How does it affect the way Filipinos perceive care and treatment how does Mana continue to manifest in our modern world and recommendations on how to bridge the cultural gap on seeking treatment/care. HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love Related Blog Post: 9 Filipino Misconceptions about Counseling/Therapy The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
12:38
September 02, 2021
#12 WHY FILIPINOS DON'T ACCESS MENTAL HEALTH CARE
#12 WHY FILIPINOS DON'T ACCESS MENTAL HEALTH CARE
Your mental health is your health. There is a deep stigma in seeking mental health services that lies in the veins of many Filipinos. In this episode, let’s explore- Why Filipinos don’t (easily) access mental health care Filipino mental health and why the language we use especially with our children is important How we reinforce “toughness” in the Filipino culture How you can pivot your narrative to embrace your wholistic story. HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW From the Blog: 9 Filipino Misconceptions About Therapy & Counseling Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love Related Blog Post: 3 More Pinoy Love Languages The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
19:34
August 26, 2021
#11 PLL: SUYO
#11 PLL: SUYO
In this episode- Discover the antidote for the PLL of TAMPO which is SUYO. What is suyo? How can you attune with your loved one while negotiating a new way of speaking a language you both understand And many more.... HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love Related Blog Post: 3 More Pinoy Love Languages The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
20:20
August 19, 2021
#10 PLL: TAMPO
#10 PLL: TAMPO
Have you experienced mom upset but not quite angry and when you try to speak to her she claims she’s fine. You give her more distance because you think that’s what she needs and her upset feeling becomes lethal…. In this episode, let’s explore- The PLL of Tampo. What is it? Why someone uses this PLL and their secret longing Tips on how to read TAMPO and recommendations on how to respond to it a culturally-responsive manner. Self-regulation vs co-regulation. How Filipinos in the Philippines and in America differ in their affection-seeking strategies ...and more HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love Related Blog Post: 3 More Pinoy Love Languages The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
13:38
August 12, 2021
#9 PINOY LOVE LANGUAGES: WHY WE SPEAK IN CODES
#9 PINOY LOVE LANGUAGES: WHY WE SPEAK IN CODES
Why can’t you just say what you mean? Many times, socio-political, geography and many other variables that influence culture including history of colonization influence cultural norms and behavior. In this episode, let’s explore- How/Why history shapes our language Why the cultural context of how we use language in the Philippines and in America/diaspora differ and matters How culture and the environment can shape our parenting strategies Adaptive versus Toxic shaming in parenting How Filipinos express and seek love uniquely HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love Related Blog Post: 3 More Pinoy Love Languages The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
21:58
August 05, 2021
#8 WALA KANG UTANG NA LOOB!
#8 WALA KANG UTANG NA LOOB!
You might ask when does utang na loob OR debt of gratitude ever gets repaid. Many children of immigrants feel the burden to not just pay but to overpay I debt they are grateful for but never asked for. In this episode, let’s explore- The concept of utang versus utang na loob What is utang na loob and why its a more salient concept in diaspora The expectation to Re-Pay and how it’s loss in translation What happens to immigrants when they immigrate leaving their emotional resources behind What our elders really need and mean regarding the concept of utang na loob HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love Related Blog Post: 3 More Pinoy Love Languages The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
27:13
July 27, 2021
#7 SCARCE COMMODITY: CULTURAL WHISPERERS
#7 SCARCE COMMODITY: CULTURAL WHISPERERS
What is a tagapamagitan and why are their roles scarce in the diaspora? In this episode, explore- The role of cultural mediators in the everyday life of a Filipino How the breakage in communication between immigrant Filipinos and their offspring can be harmed or bridge by a tagapamagitan The different roles of a tagapamagitan Learn ways to demystify Filipino cultural nuances HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love Related Blog Post: 3 More Pinoy Love Languages The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
13:35
June 05, 2021
#6 PAKIRAMDAM: THE MOST MISUNDERSTOOD FILIPINO CORE VALUE
#6 PAKIRAMDAM: THE MOST MISUNDERSTOOD FILIPINO CORE VALUE
Filipinos are known to have “mataas na pakikisalamuha,” which means the depth of relationality with others goes skin deep. Children in the motherland are taught to heighten their cultural sensing of the other beyond words. Pakiramdam, the sensing of the other beyond words through reading non-verbal cues, sensing and feeling create polarized understanding of each other in America/diaspora. In general, American culture emphasizes direct, linear communication while Filipino culture weighs heavy on the skill of pagtitimbang (weighing things out, gauging all variables before the interaction, during and after it). In this episode, explore- Why Pakiramdam is the most complex & misunderstood Filipino Core Value Why it causes conflict in Filipino homes Why do we use pakiramdam (an, verb) as a strategy to affection-seek? How we communicate differently in the motherland vs. in American soil. What is the Pinoy Love Language called Tampo? In the masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words, I talk about Pakiramdam more in depth and the unique ways Filipinos survive and thrive. Check out the masterclass by clicking the link here. HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love Related Blog Post: 3 More Pinoy Love Languages The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
19:51
May 29, 2021
#5 FILIPINO VERSUS AMERICAN WAY OF COMMUNICATION
#5 FILIPINO VERSUS AMERICAN WAY OF COMMUNICATION
Despite the fact that most Filipinos are bilingual, our ways of expression from the American language of expression differ in many ways. In this regard, Filipino immigrants and their children may experience cultural gaps and miscommunication in their relationships. Some of these miscommunication can even result to negative imprints leading to feelings of not being good enough or unloved. To slowly change this trajectory is to inform yourself and find clarification on what is actually being said than simply interpreting what’s said. In this episode, let’s explore: Linear versus circular communication How we teach children in a socio-cultural setting to use language Low context vs high context and why Filipinos value “sensing the other” How affection, standards and modes of expression can vary culturally In the masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words, I talk about Collective Co-regulation, the unique way Filipinos survive and thrive. Check out the masterclass by clicking the link here. HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. DO YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS FOR FUTURE PODCAST TOPICS? LEAVE ME A MESSAGE AT info@kalamansijuuice.com with the subject line PODCAST IDEA. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love The blog post on 3 Differences: American vs Filipino Ways of COmmunication The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Masterclass: Pakiramdam( Attunement): Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
15:27
May 29, 2021
#4 FILIPINO MONEY MIND-SET BLOCKS
#4 FILIPINO MONEY MIND-SET BLOCKS
What cultural stories have been keeping your from living an abundant life? From your riches? Money is simply a manifestation of your abundant mind-set but does not end there. What stories have you heard growing up about money? About the rich? Or the poor? In this episode, explore: How soap operas can shape your money mind-set How the concept of Togetherness or walang Iwanan can keep you from manifesting abundance Sibling rivalry and how it can cost competitiveness from a scarcity lens More Money More Problems? The concept of being grateful and how to be truly grateful to those who came before you. HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. DO YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS FOR FUTURE PODCAST TOPICS? LEAVE ME A MESSAGE AT info@kalamansijuuice.com with the subject line PODCAST IDEA. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love The blog post on PInoy Money Mind-set Blocks Keeping You from Your Riches The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
24:51
May 29, 2021
#3 INTERGENERATION TRAUMA OR STRESS
#3 INTERGENERATION TRAUMA OR STRESS
What is intergenerational trauma versus the common stress? This is an introduction to more trauma talks in this podcast. It’s vital that today, you forge a path for yourself and those who will come before you by breaking the cycle of trauma or negative imprints running through your family’s  lineage veins. In this episode, explore: What is trauma? The difference between stress/depression versus intergenerational trauma Some tell-tale signs if your family has trauma unresolved Psychological primal needs and why its important to meet yours How to find a good-fit therapist HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. DO YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS FOR FUTURE PODCAST TOPICS? LEAVE ME A MESSAGE AT info@kalamansijuuice.com with the subject line PODCAST IDEA. CHANGE YOUR STORY through STORY THERAPY. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love The blog post on Story Therapy: The Art & Science of Healing The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Books Recommended The Body Keeps the Score It Didn’t Start With Me FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
18:27
May 29, 2021
#2 CULTURE SWITCHING
#2 CULTURE SWITCHING
The sense that Filipino Americans are neither Filipino or American enough can lead to cultural inferiority and thereby influence your sense of self and worth. Where do learn these messages and how do we allow our children to redefine their cultural heritage on their own? In this episode, explore- The concept of culture switching and the challenge of navigating it from a Filipino American perspective How Immigrant parents can influence the feeling of “not being good enough”  in their children How Filipino American children knows enough about the culture as evidenced by their attempts to “not speak up.” How Filipino immigrants can perceive their children differently, see their attempts to connect through culture switching. HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. DO YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS FOR FUTURE PODCAST TOPICS? LEAVE ME A MESSAGE AT info@kalamansijuuice.com with the subject line PODCAST IDEA. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love The blog post on Baon: The Struggle of Filipino Amerians to Consume Both The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog FOLLOW ME ON Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
12:14
May 29, 2021
#1 ISLAND TALK IN AMERICA: MISUNDERSTOOD WORDS IN DIASPORA
#1 ISLAND TALK IN AMERICA: MISUNDERSTOOD WORDS IN DIASPORA
Why is it more confusing to be bilingual in America? Many immigrant Filipinos tend to believe that other than you have to wear your seat belt not as a fashion statement but for safety, there’s not much adjusting to do because we dig the English lingo…. or do we? In this episode, explore: Words we misuse with each other How different meanings create confusion and hard feelings How tone, inflections in the way we say things matter HELP US REACH MORE PINOYS AND PINAYS with this podcast, leave me a review by scrolling at the bottom of the episode list and find WRITE A REVIEW. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW Free Webinar on Speak the Pinoy Language of Love The blog post on Island Talk in America The Blog www.kalamansijuice.com/blog Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kalamansijuice4u/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kalamansijuice4u Email: info@kalamansijuice.com
19:40
May 25, 2021
TRAILER: READY TO SPEAK THE PINOY LANGUAGE OF LOVE?
TRAILER: READY TO SPEAK THE PINOY LANGUAGE OF LOVE?
Language is words and beyond words. Imagine if you can speak clarity, empathy and even a breath of love in your everyday conversations. How much can the world (or those around you) benefit from your gifts? Welcome to the Speak the Pinoy Love Language podcast!
01:10
May 05, 2021