Skip to main content
Happy 2 Be Here

Happy 2 Be Here

By Kate

"Why are you happy to be here?"

My name's Kate, and I'm happy to be here. I'm a Libra, a lesbian, currently in therapy, and I'm also the host of the podcast, Happy 2 Be Here: the podcast about being in your mid-20s during the 2020s. During each episode, my guests and I discuss issues and topics about life in your early/mid-20s: therapy, sexuality, dating, astrology, moving, social justice, gender identity, social media, changing careers, and more. Navigating life as an emerging adult is difficult, but at the end of the day, I'm just happy to be here.
Available on
Google Podcasts Logo
Pocket Casts Logo
RadioPublic Logo
Spotify Logo
Currently playing episode

S1E20 Tarot for Beginners with Skye

Happy 2 Be Here Jul 22, 2021

00:00
34:21
S5E24 "Go Women!" feat. Brie

S5E24 "Go Women!" feat. Brie

On this season finale, I am joined by a wonderful new guest. She's a college student, an athlete, a Taurus, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Brie! Brie shares her experience as a woman in STEM, and we discuss how women are treated differently in sports, STEM, and in life. We also discuss tattoos, moving back in with your parents, and more. Tune in!

Apr 06, 202453:18
S5E23 Be You, Do You with Sam Castle
Mar 30, 202438:52
S5E22 Happy 2 Be Librarians with Claire

S5E22 Happy 2 Be Librarians with Claire

On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest joining me on the show! We went to graduate school together, and she is a lovely children's librarian. She's also a cancer sun sign, a baddie, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Claire!

We discuss transitioning from grad school to full time work, the lack of 3rd spaces, what we love about being children's librarians, shortcomings of capitalism, and more. Tune in!

Mar 16, 202439:05
S5E21 Queer Happy Ever Afters feat. Dana Hawkins
Mar 09, 202440:09
S5E20 Healing Through Seduction with Perle Noire
Mar 02, 202437:49
S5E19 Painting Bold Strokes with Anjl Rodee
Feb 24, 202439:21
S5E18 Having Conversation Hearts with Davita

S5E18 Having Conversation Hearts with Davita

On this week's episode, I am joined by the one and only, Davita Jo. She's an icon, host of the podcast The Quarter Life Happy Hour, a red-haired beauty, the Virgo to my Libra, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Dav! This week we're talking about Valentine's Day: social media posting, straight & queer couples celebrating the holiday, the importance of female friendships, and more. We also discuss Taylor's upcoming album, getting proposed to on holidays (yay or nay), Instagram accounts for babies, and more. Tune in!


Follow the QLHH on Instagram and Buzzsprout.

Feb 17, 202444:04
S5E17 Booktalking feat. Hanna

S5E17 Booktalking feat. Hanna

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me. She's an archivist, an avid book reader, a Gemini, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Hanna!

This week we're talking about our top 3 books of 2023, 4 books we're excited for in 2024, romance tropes in novels, and more. Tune in!

Feb 03, 202457:14
S5E16 Regina George is Gay with Piper

S5E16 Regina George is Gay with Piper

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful returning guest on the show with me. They're a Gemini sun, host of the podcast, Queers These Days, a fellow lesbian, and they're happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Piper!

This week we're wearing pink and talking all about Mean Girls (2024): Regina George being a lesbian, intense homoerotic-competitive friendships in cinema, changes in the new movie, and more. We also guess Regina's astrological chart and other main character's charts in the film. Tune in!

Jan 27, 202451:18
S5E15 Hotties and Astrologies with Jules

S5E15 Hotties and Astrologies with Jules

On this week, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me! She's a Virgo sun, a model, an icon, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Jules! This week we're talking all about astrology: how the different element signs interact, which signs have the best & worst pr, underrated signs, getting your palms read, and more. Tune in!

Jan 20, 202450:30
S5E14 Talking Taboo with Gem Campbell
Jan 13, 202443:27
S5E13 Navigating Labels & Your 20s with Mackenzie B.

S5E13 Navigating Labels & Your 20s with Mackenzie B.

On this week's episode, I have a lovely returning guest on the show. She's a Virgo, an Insta baddie, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Mackenzie! Mackenzie shares her experience navigating labels and her experience with the label asexuality.

We also discuss changing/growing identities in your 20s, growth, people asking probing questions about your sexuality, fumbling through your 20s, navigating adult life, and more. Tune in!

Jan 06, 202441:43
S5E12 Your 2023 Wrapped feat. Allie

S5E12 Your 2023 Wrapped feat. Allie

On this episode, I have a lovely returning guest on the show with me. She’s a a Taurus, a soon-to-be college grad, a hottie, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome back to the show Allie! This week we’re talking NYE: being in a couple vs. being single, where does it rank among other holidays, is NYE a romantic holiday, and more!

It's time for a 2023 pop culture wrap up! We're talking about celebrity couples this year, Beyoncé, Taylor Swift, Gwyneth Paltrow getting sued, and more. Tune in!

Happy New Year

Dec 30, 202338:31
S5E11 Trailblazers and Trendsetters: Queer Icons feat. Cairo Ali
Dec 17, 202301:00:39
S5E10 Spreading the Word with Lexy Silverstein
Dec 09, 202348:54
S5E9 Who's Laughing Now? feat. Davita Jo

S5E9 Who's Laughing Now? feat. Davita Jo

On this week's episode, I am joined by the one and only Davita Jo! She's a Virgo, host of the podcast The Quarter Life Happy Hour/podcast baddie, one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about Matt Rife, punching down comedy, the impact of jokes about yourself vs. jokes about someone else, identity & comedy, and more. Tune in!

Dec 02, 202347:10
S5E8 Queer Creativity feat. Syd
Nov 18, 202345:18
S5E7 Lesbian Love Story feat. Amelia Possanza
Nov 11, 202353:37
S5E6 From Breakups to Situationships to Healing feat. Cely
Nov 04, 202301:12:34
S5E5 In My 100th Episode Era feat. Davita Jo

S5E5 In My 100th Episode Era feat. Davita Jo

It's the 100th episode!!!!!!! Who else would I have on for the 100th episode other than Davita Jo. She's the host of the podcast, The Quarter Life Happy Hour, she's one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. As we reflect on 100 episodes, Davita and I discuss our growth as podcasters and as people. We also discuss our different TS eras and what TS era we're in right now.

Big *HUGE* thank you to everyone who's listened or supported me & my show through the years. I appreciate it more than you know

Oct 28, 202352:42
S5E4 Love Bombing & Libra Season feat. Mackenzie

S5E4 Love Bombing & Libra Season feat. Mackenzie

On this week's episode, I have a returning guest on the show. She's a libra, a baddie, one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Mackenzie! This week we're talking relationships, dating, & love bombing: the different signs, financial vs. emotional love bombing, and our experiences with it. Tune in!

Oct 14, 202359:09
S5E3 Exploring Love & Gender with Gustavo David

S5E3 Exploring Love & Gender with Gustavo David

On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest on the show with me. He's an artist, an actor, the host of the podcast The Gustavo David Show, and she's happy to be here! Welcome to the show, David. This week we're talking about gender, liberation, labels: who are they for?, homophobia in the U.S. & Panama, and more. Tune in!

Oct 07, 202348:58
S5E2 The Meaning of Being a Lesbian feat. Piper

S5E2 The Meaning of Being a Lesbian feat. Piper

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful guest returning from S4: They're a lesbian, a Gemini, the host of the podcast Queers These Days, and they're happy to be here! Welcome back to the show, Piper. We're talking all things lesbian: what it means to be a lesbian, early encounters with lesbianism, lesbian visibility, and our picks on our ultimate lesbian playlist. Tune in!

Sep 30, 202356:39
S5E1 Controversial Yet Brave feat. Kayla

S5E1 Controversial Yet Brave feat. Kayla

It's season 5!!!! My name's Kate and I'm truly happy to be back recording for you. For this season premiere, I have a lovely returning guest on the show with me. She's queer, a Virgo, always speaking her mind, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show Kayla! We're here to talk about incels, patriarchy, de-centering men and marriage, women who hate other women, and more. Tune in!

Sep 23, 202355:20
S4E25 The Finale: "With endings come new beginnings"
Jun 22, 202352:37
S4E24 Kate's Korner: Happy to Be Here & Queer

S4E24 Kate's Korner: Happy to Be Here & Queer

This week's episode is another segment of Kate's Korner. On these solo episodes, I talk about topics I don't always get to cover with my guests and I talk about what's on my mind right now. It's pride month, and I wanted to talk about everything happening right now in the LGBTQIA+ community. While I love glitter, rainbows, and gay bars, pride month is also about recognizing queer pain and the struggles we're going through as a community and individually. I discuss the rise of anti-trans and homophobic legislation in the United States and countries like Uganda. I also discuss the importance of queer friendships and being in queer spaces that accept and support you. During pride month, I also find myself reflecting on my past, so I share parts of my coming out journey. Tune in!

Jun 15, 202325:19
S4E23 "The Ultimatum: Queer Love" Ep. 5-8 Recap

S4E23 "The Ultimatum: Queer Love" Ep. 5-8 Recap

Something new is happening this week on HTBH!!! My podcast confidant and the host of the Quarter Life Happy Hour, Davita Jo, collaborated for a special two-part episode recapping Netflix's newest messiest reality dating series, "The Ultimatum: Queer Love." Check out the first episode on Davita's show for a recap of episodes 1-4. On this episode, we'll be discussing the new couples, all the drama that's ensued, who we think will end up with who, guessing each contestant's zodiac sign, and more! We'll also be discussing topics like sapphic dating, gender identity, avoidant personalities, and more.

Stream the Quarter Life Happy Hour on Spotify and Buzzsprout

Find the Quarter Life Happy Hour on Instagram

Jun 08, 202301:15:37
S4E22 *Just Nonbinary Lesbian Things* with Piper

S4E22 *Just Nonbinary Lesbian Things* with Piper

On this week's episode, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me. They're a nonbinary lesbian, a Gemini, the host of the podcast, Queers These Days, and they're happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Piper! Piper shares their journey coming out *twice*, discovering their identities, and more. We also discuss our experiences as nonbinary lesbians, gender presentation, families and coming out, and more. Tune in for an authentic conversation about identity and being your authentic self.

Jun 01, 202348:34
S4E21 Seeing Ourselves and Being Seen with Christina Carlson
May 25, 202347:41
S4E20 Moving to a Higher Vibration with Chrysocolla Sifi
May 18, 202354:03
S4E19 Mindful Dating with Lauren Smith
May 04, 202345:18
S4E18 To the Beat of Her Own Drum with Roylene
Apr 27, 202348:48
S4E17 The L Word with Amber

S4E17 The L Word with Amber

On this week's episode, I have a lovely returning guest on here with me today. She has a cancer sun sign, she’s a lesbian, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Amber! Amber is also in graduate school and discusses switching careers from teaching to nursing. We also discuss burnout in grad school and juggling work/school. Amber and I also identify as lesbians and we talk about microaggressions, our favorite things about dating women, the fetishization of lesbians online and in-person, and more. Tune in!

Apr 20, 202350:03
S4E16 Facing the Music with Mila La Morena
Apr 13, 202343:33
S4E15 The Next in Fashion feat. Tori
Mar 30, 202354:06
S4E14 Change & Progress with Tia

S4E14 Change & Progress with Tia

On this week's episode, I am joined by a wonderful returning guest. She's your favorite Scorpio and she's happy to be here. Everyone welcome back Tia to the show!!! For this episode, Tia and I are discussing transitions and changes in your 20s: friendships, relationships, family dynamics ,and more. We also discuss coping with change, acknowledging progress, mental health, being single, and more. Tune in!

Mar 23, 202342:29
S4E13 Owning Your Joy with Anna Brooke

S4E13 Owning Your Joy with Anna Brooke

On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest. She is a burlesque performer, show producer, educator, and advocate of all things striptease. Welcome to the show Anna Brooke! Anna shares her beginnings as a burlesque performer, Rev. Legs Malone. She also shares how burlesque allowed her to explore another side of herself and be creative. We discuss releasing yourself from judgment, owning your joy, finding peace, and more. Tune in! 

Mar 09, 202349:16
S4E12 Kate's Korner: Vulnerability & Uncertainty

S4E12 Kate's Korner: Vulnerability & Uncertainty

On this week's episode, I am introducing a new segment of my show: Kate's Korner. These episodes will feature me, myself, and I. I'll cover a variety of topics that I don't cover in every episode of HTBH, like gender identity. For this episode, I'm discussing vulnerability, the ebbs and flows of mental health, uncertainty while I'm approaching graduation, and more. On these episodes, I'll also share what I'm currently reading! I've missed my one-on-one time with my listeners and I'm excited to explore & create this new part of my show. Tune in! 


Mar 02, 202327:49
S4E11 Bringing History into Today with Julia Martins
Feb 23, 202301:00:44
S4E10 Book Bites with Tori

S4E10 Book Bites with Tori

On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest. They're a public librarian, a lesbian, Jewish, a Gemini, and they're happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Tori! Tori shares their journey into librarianship, what working in a public library with teens is like, and more! We talk about queer YA books, queer representation in books (then vs. now), our favorite books, and more. Tune in!

Find Tori on Instagram: @torithelibrarian 

Feb 16, 202352:14
S4E9 Beating Burnout with Laura Hartley

S4E9 Beating Burnout with Laura Hartley

On this episode, I am joined by a new guest. Everyone welcome Laura Hartley to the show!! She is an activist, coach, and founder of Public LovED, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about burnout culture, capitalism & internalized capitalism, the patriarchy, and more. Laura shares how we can combat burnout culture, be critical of the patriarchy, and practice optimism. Tune in!

Feb 09, 202345:43
S4E8 Detox from Toxic Dating with Marie Mosley

S4E8 Detox from Toxic Dating with Marie Mosley

On this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest! Everyone welcome Marie Mosley to the show! She is an inspiring author, speaker, and coach. Marie is also a wife, mother, and grandmother. On this episode, Marie shares her journey about being in a toxic relationship for years, going through a divorce, and finding herself. We discuss how to find yourself after a toxic relationship, falling in love with yourself, finding new love with someone else, how to set boundaries in relationships, and more. Tune in!



Feb 02, 202353:26
S4E7 Being Fashionable & Sustainable with Lexy Silverstein

S4E7 Being Fashionable & Sustainable with Lexy Silverstein

On this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest. She has a Cancer sun sign, she's a fashion influencer, she's a social media exec for Red Carpet Green Dress, and she's happy to be here! This week we're talking about fashion sustainability: how sustainable fashion can break trend cycles, the harms of fast fashion, thrifting tips, and more! Lexy also shares some simple steps—with big impact—that you can take towards fashion sustainability. Of course, I guess Lexy's astrological chart, as per tradition. Tune in!

-

Instagram: @lexysilverstein 

Jan 26, 202350:03
S4E6 Dating Do's and Don'ts with Davita

S4E6 Dating Do's and Don'ts with Davita

For this week's episode for favorite podcasting duo is back! Davita Jo has returned for another episode of HTBH. She's an icon, a Virgo, she's the host of the podcast, The Quarter Life Happy Hour, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about dating: getting back out there in the dating scene, go-to first date questions, meeting people irl vs. online, identifying red flags on first dates, the green flags we hope to see on first dates, and more. Tune in! 

Jan 19, 202356:39
S4E5 Breaking Up & Starting Anew with Kayla

S4E5 Breaking Up & Starting Anew with Kayla

On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest, Kayla!! She's a Virgo, a barista, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about breakups: first heartbreaks, breakup songs, friendship breakups, finding an ex's Tinder profile, and more. We also talk about the healing process after a breakup: forgiving ourselves, starting therapy, and more. Tune in! 

Jan 12, 202301:15:07
S4E4 Finding Your Voice with Ariel Tsai
Jan 05, 202330:37
S4E3 Finding Lesbian Love feat. Nikki La Croce
Dec 29, 202201:02:01
S4E2 Coffee Chit-Chat with Allie

S4E2 Coffee Chit-Chat with Allie

On this week's episode, I am joined by my fellow barista/best friend, Allie!! She's a Taurus, a junior in college, and she's happy to be here! It's Allie's second time coming on the show, and she's back for some coffee chit-chat. So grab a coffee and sit down with us! We share our go-to coffee order and our least favorite drinks. We also rank Starbucks' Holiday Drinks, and we guess celebrity coffee drink orders, and more. Tune in!

Dec 22, 202201:05:56
S4E1 Being Mindful & Creating Space with Steven Wakabayashi

S4E1 Being Mindful & Creating Space with Steven Wakabayashi

Welcome to the SEASON 4 PREMIERE (can you believe)!!! New intro, new cover art, and of course a wonderful new guest. Everyone welcome Steven Wakabayashi to the show! Steven is the Founder of QTBIPOC Design and Mindful Sights and, the host of the Yellow Glitter Podcast, an Aries, and he's happy to be here. We discuss how to create space for underrepresented communities, recruiting more diverse creative hires, equity in the workplace, and more! We also talk about mindfulness in the workplace and how mindfulness can be utilized in social justice work. Tune in!

-

Instagram: @stevenwakabayashi, @qtbipocdesign, @mindfulsights, @yellowglitterpd

Dec 15, 202244:50
S3E23 Closing out Libra Season & Season 3 with Iwona

S3E23 Closing out Libra Season & Season 3 with Iwona

On this *finale* episode, I am joined by the lovely and amazing Iwona!!! She's a libra, a director of recruitment, a past contestant on UpDating, and she's happy to be here. Iwona catches us up with what's new and we talk about our recent 25th birthdays. This past August, Iwona was on the live blind dating show UpDating. She shares her experience: how she got on the show, how she prepared, post-show tea, and more. We also discuss how dating changes in your mid-20s: how you approach dating, questions asked on first dates, and more. Tune in for a wonderful, Libra-filled season finale! 

Check out UpDating: @updatingshow on Instagram

Keep Up with Iwona: @iwonaaa97 on Instagram 


Oct 27, 202257:29